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2023.06.06 01:29 mishin_control Road trip recommendations requested!

Road trip nervous-ness has me long winded
-Hi all, Im planning for a solo longer road trip down from NYC to the mountains of NC. taking the long way, about 2k miles is my estimate. I have TWO recommendation requests of all of you lovely folks:-
What essentials would you pack which are moto specific? I have a first aid kit I can mount to a bar, Im laminating my emergency contact people's info into a card to stash in my jacket, usb connected to moto battery, a battery tender, a very light and compact cover for storing when I go sleep overnight, a disc lock + Xena, rain coat to get me to the closest overpass and waterproof socks, a tire repair kit - metric allen keys ( I should bring more repair tools???) and like a couple spare sets of clothes mebbbe an extra set of gloves?
My second recommendation request is - I think i need to assess my luggage options.In any case, I am trying to pack MEGA lean, and only take the essentials. I have the Kriega US-30 Drypack - Im looking for some additional storage but dont want anything toooooo onerous - I dont want a backpack, I do have some waist bags to choose from, but for say a tank bag or a saddle bag or???? I can go super light in my personal needs... I dont want the bike laden with luggage. Are there luggage options anyone here really is in love with for their MT? Why?
Im okay going without something I might need, but def dont wanna get stranded in the middle of the mountains with no way to get to a proper city to get help... and/or something i might need to pack to wear to ride through weather or other circumstances for malaffecting my ability to ride properly???I know this is a longer query and will likely have diverse responses I appreciate all of them. I am nervous about not having what I need but also about carrying stuff I dont...
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2023.06.05 20:29 Lorenofing Johannesburg - Sydney-direct flight!

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2023.06.05 20:23 Lorenofing Johannesburg - Sydney: DIRECT FLIGHT. The airplane is not going above China!

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2023.06.05 18:19 throwaway_tomahto Flying Monkey appeared out of nowhere. Blocked him. Still can't calm down.

My nFriend (dubbing them N), who has harassed me on-and-off for over 2 years now, had finally left me alone about 3 months ago. Today, out of nowhere, one of his closest friends sent a message, just saying hi. The last time I spoke to this guy he tried to guilt me into breaking NC because N was "so sad". He's done that multiple times, and I know that N has used him to keep tabs on me before, multiple times.
So this times, I blocked the guy, not even a hello, not an explanation, nothing. Just a block. I already tried talking to him about my side of the story before, but he shot me a "well I want everyone to be friends" and proceeded to relay the painstaking saga of N supposedly going AWOL to off himself (which turns out to be a story with so many facts that change with every time N brings up the story to smear me that I'm half-convinced it never actually happened). And at every issue I brought up, this guy ALWAYS had excuses for N, and just a "well that sucks, but N is sad" for me, and then relayed everything I'd say to N.
I didn't say anything. I'm sick of trying to explain myself to people who obviously don't have my best interests at heart, so I blocked.
I think I made the right decision, but my face is burning hot and I want to cry and I feel sick; I'm scared N is going to try to Hoover again. That particular "friend" ALWAYS showed up right before N tried something to get under my skin.
I'm so sick of this. I just want them all to leave me alone.
Anyone's gone through something similar? Do you know what to expect, or what got you to weather out such a situation?
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2023.06.05 13:58 ThePamcakes I’m now in zero doubt as to my brothers feelings on NC

Last time I posted I mentioned constant contact from SIL that was upsetting. She was told I’d reach out when ready and ignored that. She then asked my husband if I’d blocked her and he confirmed I hadn’t blocked her anywhere. Anywhere was mentioned as I knew I’d been restricted from seeing her instagram stories. Anyhoo, she decided to message me on Friday morning to tell me how out of order I was for not messaging her or brother who isn’t talking to me to wish my nephew a happy 1st birthday. I usually wait and either don’t reply or send a measured response. However, my son was badly mauled by a dog on Monday so no f*cks were given. I told her I had a gift organised for nephew, I wouldn’t be messaging either of them, nephew doesn’t have spatial awareness never mind be able to read a text so WTF, it wasn’t about him and I was fed up of her using her kids as tools. I then told her I’d be blocking her now as she couldn’t respect the boundary I’d set of contact when I was ready.
I got the following essay back from my brother. I’ve added any additional info from my side in parentheses at the end of each sentence paragraph:
Out of all the people you lash out at, you lash out at SIL. The one person that has stuck up for you on numerous occasions, tried to see it from yours and mums point of view and done her best to fix things between the family. (I believe she lashed out at me, she’s shown virtually zero attempt at seeing things from my side except some lip service on one occasion last year. Voice notes have been repeatedly about how upset my mum is. She was also horrible to me around the time of my wedding, there’ll be more on that another day)
Instead you accuse SIL of “breaking boundaries” and all that pish. It’s so incredibly boring all of that shite. You speak to people like they are two years old and wonder why they are annoyed at your tone? It’s pathetic. (IDGAF if she’s annoyed at my tone. Also, bro shows here how little he cares for boundaries. He’s yet to tell me 8 months on what word he’d prefer I use)
People do stuff that not everyone agrees with, it happens. Get over it. As soon as anyone even whimpers a subject you don’t like, you run away from it, block your family from speaking to you and act like a spoiled brat. You’ve caused so much hurt to everyone in the family and you don’t give a shit. I believe that you think you don’t think you’ve done anything wrong at all and that really scares me. (I wouldn’t describe hurt, toxic behaviour, behaviours that threaten my livelihood and emotional / mental abuse as just being ‘subjects I don’t like’, especially when it’s my kids being hurt too)
If I fell out with everyone for something that I didn’t agree with, I’d live a very sheltered and lonely life. You are heading that way with the way you are going about your business. (My apparently sheltered and lonely life is the happiest I’ve ever been!)
God knows what this is doing to DD and DS. DD already feels “uncomfortable” if I was around and you have created that. You have sculpted her into the same outlook you have in life in that, god forbid anyone ever says anything wrong or that you don’t agree with. It’s absolutely pathetic. God knows what she’s going to do when she has her first job or goes to uni. (She knows he’s called her a disappointment and has made up her own mind on him and his behaviour. She’s almost a legal adult and is old enough to know if someone talks shit about her behind her back. Her crime was not lighting herself on fire to prioritise grandmother’s feelings. She’s been thriving since going NC and it shows in her demeanour, mood, grades and she’s even started dating.)
As for DS, I’ll still try my best to have a relationship with him before you ruin everything for him too. I’ll go through DH for those plans. His cousins miss him but you’ll not be too concerned about that as you’d rather just punish everyone in the entire family. (This from the person who won’t meet up for the kids to visit if he can’t discuss family conflict in front of them. And yes, my whole aim was to ‘punish’ everyone. He must have forgot I said last year and have repeatedly said I didn’t want anyone else involved / affected. Not one mention of ‘how is DS who was mauled days ago?’)
In the meantime - I’m not even near interested in anything you’ve got to say at the minute. Until you grow up, take responsibility and are willing to sit down like an adult and talk things through with your family then it’s a lost cause. You’ve fucked off absolutely every single person in the family and there hasn’t even been a flutter of an apology. Not turning up to even see your cousin going into the chapel? Absolutely stinking. (That was the wedding me and cousin agreed I wouldn’t be at. His now wife is also NC with some of her family and he told me she’d already be worried about them showing up. I’m not going to add to that. Silly me for not apologising for asking someone to stop hurting me and my family then putting measures in place to stop it when they wouldn’t after 2 years of chances)
I’ve got far too many other things in my life to be worrying about.
You let me know when you are ready to try and fix things, in the meantime - don’t talk to me or SIL because I couldn’t be less interested in hearing all the old, regurgitated pish you have to say. Move on and try acting like family actually means something to you. (I think he thinks this is succession. No spoilers please)
And I’ll tell you what, since you usually get your way and block everyone out…. (Yes, having to block after repeated requests for time was all part of my master plan. All the upset and stress I’ve experienced is me getting my way /a)
I’ve said my bit, so don’t even bother with a reply. Go through DH for that. I’ll save you the trouble and I’ll block you because I’m not having this ruin another weekend for me. (Is he now getting his way? Good for him! DH has no interest in talking to him never mind sending a reply)
I had a lovely weekend away with my family looking at potential new homes and enjoying the lovely weather. It’s completely solidified my resolve to move away, there’s clearly nothing here for me now. Thankfully DS is healing well from everything and he remembers little of the actual bite. The police are bringing charges and we’ll be seeking damages should DS need scar revision and / or therapy sessions.
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2023.06.05 03:24 askme2023 Offense: Concealment of whereabouts of a child

I learned of the above statute after reading about another missing child case, siblings, Ivon and Inisha Fowler. They have been missing now for over 16 years and their mother was charged for concealing their whereabouts. I’m not sure if there is a similar statute in North Carolina (NC residents please feel free to chime in here if you are familiar with the law). The reason why this statute is of interest to me is due to the circumstances of Asha’s disappearance.
Asha was not a teenager, nor a pre-teen, and was likely pre-pubescent. She did not have the right to “runaway” or disappear, even briefly. As a 9 year old, she was under the care, protection and guidance of her parents. She was allegedly last seen in her own home, in her bed. Not on her way to school, to the store, or outside playing with friends. Her parents were present the night she went missing, not away at work, or out visiting friends. Even if she was out walking on NC 18, her parents should have been responsible for ensuring that she wasn’t out there in such poor weather conditions, in the pre-dawn hours, unsupervised. Being steadfast asleep is not the strongest alibi or defense. There home showed no signs of a forced entry, and their front door was locked. It was also initially believed that Asha was a runaway. Her case was never classified as an abduction.
Today, if Asha were still alive she would be 32 years old. Now, as an adult, she would have the right to remain a missing person, thus this case can remain unresolved for good, and no crime was ever committed.
Asha Degree allegedly went missing right from under her parents watch, and they have no earthly idea, how or why. There has to be more that the parents know that they are not sharing.
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2023.06.05 03:22 Lucky_Cash_7102 Losing parental rights (long read, but I need help. Please)

I’m hoping someone has some good advice for me. I recently pleaded guilty and started my probation and registry due to a few third degree charges of exploitation of minors. This case was completely a none contact offense. I’m sure you all know that means possession of material. That being said, I do have two wonderful children who I love to death and haven’t seen physically since this nightmare started almost two years back. Now that this case is over and I’m paying the consequences, my ex wife, mother of my children, wants me to give up my parental rights completely. I love my children more than life it self, and I have been ignoring her request of giving up my parental rights and turning her down. I have told her countless times I will not give up my parental rights. So today, she took it to another level. I got served with papers. SUMMONS IN PROCEEDING FOR TERMINATION OF PARENTAL RIGHTS. I live in MD but this case is happening in NC. Now when this possession charges when down almost two years ago I was still paying child support, soon after it happened I lost my job and was unable to keep the child support payments. I took her to court to modify the child support payments and alimony at the time and we settled in court that I would give up my share of the family home to make up for terminating alimony and my lawyer found out that I was never court mandated to pay child support. So ever since this court appearance I haven’t been paying child support. Also in part because she has kept the kids away from me. No contact, not even a phone call. Now back to the question at hand, she is taking me back to court to try to take my parental rights away from me. Can someone please shed some light on weather she has a case? How can a court take the parental rights away from a father that made a big mistake but loves his kids insanely? Is the system that fucked up? where I might loose my rights as a father just because of my current status and situation? Please someone help me with some information on my current status. I apologize for the long read, I tried to give up as much of the pertinent information as I can recall.
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2023.06.04 17:14 piccolojohnson Chance of actually getting sick from a (somewhat) poorly maintained pool?

So I'm a paranoid person so bare with me.. but a month ago we got an above ground saltwater pool and it's our first pool so we're all noobs at it. The last time the pool was shocked was like 2 or 3 weeks ago and since then we've barely used it because of coldish/rainy weather here in NC. My dad hasnt tested the pool at all since the initial shock and the only maintenance has been the pump filter and clearing off debris (bugs/leaves) every day or other day. Yesterday, we swam in it for the 2nd time ever and the water felt clean and was crystal clear blue.
Long story short, i accidentally dunked my head under the water for a few seconds and water went in my nose and ears. Will I get sick since we havent maintained our water as well as we could have + didnt add any chemicals after heavy rainfall? What are the actual chances of getting sick from a pool that isnt maintained well? Am I just crazy paranoid? I read all this stuff about pools needing constant maintenance and testing and it's gotten me a bit scared.
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2023.06.04 13:39 icecreamlifters Figuring out my future

I want to have land for my own garden/farm with chickens and fruit trees and vegetables so I’m thinking I need to be somewhere more southern because of the warmer weather. I want to grow citrus and berries and all kinds of stuff. But I also want to live in a more left-winged area and be near farmers markets and gyms and shopping areas. I am thinking about Durham suburbs of NC, Austin TX, florida (maybe), but I don’t want somewhere super expensive.
Any recommendations for where I should live? I do not plan on having kids, love the ocean and love the mountains and hiking!
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2023.06.04 11:35 johnxenir 2023 🇮🇹 Misano WSBK Round 🟥 SBK - Superpole Race Results

# Rider Bike Gap
1 1 🇪🇸 A. BAUTISTA 🇮🇹 Ducati
2 54 🇹🇷 T. RAZGATLIOGLU 🇯🇵 Yamaha 0.101
3 21 🇮🇹 M. RINALDI 🇮🇹 Ducati 0.738
4 47 🇮🇹 A. BASSANI 🇮🇹 Ducati IND 2.239
5 65 🇬🇧 J. REA 🇯🇵 Kawasaki 2.490
6 22 🇬🇧 A. LOWES 🇯🇵 Kawasaki 3.955
7 55 🇮🇹 A. LOCATELLI 🇯🇵 Yamaha 1 Lap
8 97 🇪🇸 X. VIERGE 🇯🇵 Honda 1 Lap
9 31 🇺🇸 G. GERLOFF 🇩🇪 BMW IND 1 Lap
10 5 🇩🇪 P. OETTL 🇮🇹 Ducati IND 1 Lap
11 45 🇬🇧 S. REDDING 🇩🇪 BMW 1 Lap
12 34 🇮🇹 L. BALDASSARRI R 🇯🇵 Yamaha IND 1 Lap
13 76 🇫🇷 L. BAZ 🇩🇪 BMW IND 1 Lap
14 28 🇬🇧 B. RAY R 🇯🇵 Yamaha IND 1 Lap
15 35 🇲🇾 H. SYAHRIN 🇯🇵 Honda IND 1 Lap
16 53 🇪🇸 T. RABAT 🇯🇵 Kawasaki IND 1 Lap
17 32 🇪🇸 I. VINALES 🇯🇵 Kawasaki IND 1 Lap
18 70 🇮🇹 L. VITALI R 🇯🇵 Kawasaki IND 1 Lap
19 88 🇯🇵 R. MIZUNO R 🇯🇵 Honda IND 1 Lap
20 66 🇬🇧 T. SYKES 🇩🇪 BMW 1 Lap
21 77 🇨🇭 D. AEGERTER R 🇯🇵 Yamaha IND 1 Lap
NC 7 🇪🇸 I. LECUONA 🇯🇵 Honda
NC 9 🇮🇹 D. PETRUCCI R 🇮🇹 Ducati IND
RET 16 🇮🇹 G. RUIU 🇩🇪 BMW IND
RET 87 🇦🇺 R. GARDNER R 🇯🇵 Yamaha IND
IND = independent (non-factory) rider R = SBK class rookie
Fastest Lap
Top speed

Championship standings after this race

Rider Pts Gap
1 🇪🇸 A. BAUTISTA 273
2 🇹🇷 T. RAZGATLIOGLU 192 81
3 🇮🇹 A. LOCATELLI 140 133
4 🇬🇧 J. REA 116 157
5 🇮🇹 A. BASSANI 110 163
6 🇮🇹 M. RINALDI 99 174
7 🇨🇭 D. AEGERTER R 83 190
8 🇪🇸 X. VIERGE 76 197
9 🇬🇧 A. LOWES 75 198
10 🇪🇸 I. LECUONA 64 209
11 🇮🇹 D. PETRUCCI R 55 218
12 🇦🇺 R. GARDNER R 53 220
13 🇺🇸 G. GERLOFF 43 230
14 🇩🇪 P. OETTL 39 234
15 🇬🇧 S. REDDING 39 234
16 🇳🇱 M. VAN DER MARK 19 254
17 🇫🇷 L. BAZ 9 264
18 🇮🇹 L. BALDASSARRI R 7 266
19 🇲🇾 H. SYAHRIN 6 267
20 🇬🇧 B. RAY R 5 268
21 🇵🇹 I. LOPES R 1 272
22 🇬🇧 T. SYKES 1 272
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2023.06.04 08:12 B4DMANNN Soft top weather seal

Soft top weather seal
Hey guys. I just bought an NC 2007 and the weather seal between the soft top and the window is falling off. Does anyone know if there is a part number for the screw that goes into the back side or if I need to replace the whole thing? Thanks in advance, it’s been driving me crazy.
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2023.06.03 22:44 Shady_Prospector Dual Purpose Post

So this post is going to be a little bit cathartic and a little bit looking for advice...
Had an AP a few years ago. Started out pre-pandemic with that awesome NRE. Lots of chatting, flirting, and because she lived nearby, a healthy amount of in person meets. Those were augmented with a few day trips and happy hours. All was well and I felt happy and fulfilled.
Then pandemic. We both locked down with our families. Maintained communication, but cut off meets. Seemed to be weathering the storm fairly well. As things slowly opened up, we didn't really return to normal. She was reluctant, communications became a little strained, she switched jobs and the term "insanely busy" entered our lexicon. A term that, even now, drives me nuts... Eventually she broke it off. Claimed that she felt like she couldn't give me what I was looking for anymore and that, in fact, things were very good at home and she no longer really needed an affair. That last part stung, but I accepted it. I'm not one to keep doors open. Went full NC and tried to start the healing process.
Fast forward a few years and I've tried to find a new AP. Haven't really had much success. I catch myself thinking of her too much and feeling like I never really got closure. After a recent pAP fell apart, I - in a moment of weakness - messaged her...not at all expecting to hear from her. I wanted to believe that things really were good for her at home and she wasn't using that account. However, a week later, I got a very surprised response. She had wanted to surprise her son with an anonymous message and opened that account for the first time in a long while - and saw my message. We caught up, reminisced, and cleared a little of the air. She claims, in fact, that things were mostly the same at home as ever, and that she had broken up with me due to just feeling overwhelmed, "insanely busy", and unable to really juggle it all. We actually found time to meet in person and chat more. Not quite old times but nice.
Later that evening we messaged more and decided to proceed with caution. She told me she is more "insanely busy" than ever, but if I could manage expectations a bit, she would like to keep seeing where this is headed. She was concerned though about disappointing me if she could not be as engaged as I would like.
So here we are, not a week later, and I fear her reservations were correct. The first week has been a few sporadic messages (almost all starting with "I'm sorry, been insanely busy") and a few days of NC. I know she warned of this, but it hurts to accept that this probably won't work...again.
What I'm wondering is do I take the opportunity to express some things I never had the chance to do before, get a little closure, and end it? I've always felt the "insanely busy" bit was a little exaggerated and was more reflective of some narcissistic tendencies she's had towards me in the past. Do I go full NC again? Or should I try to be the bigger person, acknowledge this isn't what I want, but try to remain friends?
Help with what I probably already know what I should do....
EDIT: Ended it, graciously, and actually feel pretty good. Thanks to those who helped me see reason.
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2023.06.03 14:36 surprisethatstaken Tomato stalling?

Tomato stalling?
This is a blue cream berry cherry tomato. It shot up with growth, started flowering. The flowers dried and fell off, leaving what I thought were baby tomatoes. They have looked the exact same for a month now, not growing. They also look fluted. Are these really baby tomatoes? Or should I cut off this branch and let the plant focus elsewhere?
Other info that might help: I'm in central NC and our weather has been pretty mild. Some other flowers yellowing at the stem and falling off. Plant is still growing taller and the top is very green and bushy so I don't think it's sick. Plant fertilized with some espoma garden tone a few weeks ago and gets some Neptunes Harvest every once in a while since I transplanted it from aerogarden in April.
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2023.06.02 22:37 Additional-Ad-3148 Problem solved baby!

Problem solved baby!
Party on Wayne.
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2023.06.02 03:17 THZIK2001 Exactly 365 days ago

It’s been exactly ONE year from today that I’ve been in NC.
There was no noise or sound at all. It was an immediate breakup. I was blocked on all socials and had my number blocked instantly. There was no breadcrumbing, no seeing each other in public, no reaching out on a burner account or number, no asking mutuals about one another. Literally 365 days ago was the very and only last day we was both in contact.
It’s crazy, right? How instantaneous the bond had faded away after I remember a month prior we were both so happy and craving every part of each other. We swore we would never leave and would always stick by one another. How foolish were we?!
NC is never easy, even after an entire year. There’s so many ups and downs, wave of emotions, off days, cloudy and rain like the weather. Sure the days get better, there’s less emotional begging and chasing. A lot of clarity in NC whilst the heart heals very slowly in many different ways. The memories never go but making new ones gives for a better purpose and being. Meeting new people, accomplishing new goals, touring new places… the things that make life worthwhile!
I never thought I would say this but I’m glad we didn’t work out. You’ve taught me so many things and I’ve learned from every experience. I’m proud I can say that I’m no longer in NC. I’ve accepted how me and you have become.
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2023.06.02 03:11 SlightFarmer8874 How would you have played this?

I (m/50's) was dating a woman for 3 years (F/50's), semi LDR, she lived an hour away and we saw each other on weekends. The first year was awesome, no problems whatsoever, then last year she started to go distant, I asked what was up and she said that there was nothing wrong, by the end of the summer she wouldn't sleep with me as often and wasn't so concerned about sitting beside me in group settings around a campfire for example. Then she dropped the bomb, or the talk as it were. She asked me what are we doing here? I said nothing, dating one another, why what's up? She mentioned a few things she apparently had gripes with and they weren't that big honestly IMHO, I reasoned them out with her, then she says we don't do anything together aside from cottaging, I explained to her that we're coming out of a Pandemic lockdown what did she expect to do? We couldn't go to restaurants, a trip was out of the question due to her shiftwork (she would have to take a week's pay hit even if I paid for the trip) among other things. We almost broke up during that conversation in September, It really pissed me off because she wasn't letting me know along the way like couples do for relationship course corrections. She just saved it all up and let me have it. We eventually finished the discussion and she apologized and said she just needed some time, I said ok if you need space you call me when you want and have time. We then hugged, kissed and had make up sex. This was not a break, we kept on like usual just not in touch every night as before. Then she mentioned that she had 3 events during the winter that I would not be part of, one was a wedding for her close friends that she would be attending with her ex ( they were friends with the married couple before I came along so it would have been awkward, she gets along with her ex but there's nothing there romatically, he also had a girlfriend that didn't attend), and then 2 other week long events concerning one of her hobbies and the second a conference for her career that she was a keynote speaker. She kept in touch the whole time sending me pictures and texting me pretty well every night. After the conferences and the new job that she declined a month in, her schedule became less hectic and I was looking forward to seeing her on a more regular basis but it was not to be, she found all kinds of reasons in the last 3 months to NOT be around, I saw her a total of 10 times on weekends during the whole winter, including christmas and new years together but there was very little sex and she seemed distant. Fast forward to the May long weekend, I haven't seen her for a month, work etc. and was looking forward to seeing her, at the last minute she says she has no room at the trailer because her kids were coming up. This was never an issue for the past 2 years, I asked why is it different now? She said she was taking a break. I said ok enough! I spent the last month waiting to see you and now at the last minute you're taking a break from me? No advance notice when we discussed this a few times, We're done. So I end up doing my own thing for the long weekend and she texts me Sunday night that she misses me and will miss me... I didn't reply, I mean WTF? You tell me 2 days ago that you don't want to see me after being apart for a month and now you miss me? Weird. I go into full NC, a week later she texts me again and says what great weather it is and hoping I'm up at the cottage etc. and at the end of the message she says she misses her friend. ?? Friend? since when? The following day she sends another text saying she's surprised that I wouldn't talk and started to discuss getting her stuff (snowmobile, bed she donated to the cottage etc.) and left it up to me to reach out when I'm ready. Then on monday she calls, rings twice and hangs up, 2 seconds later she texts me sorry my arm hit the phone. Yes I'm the dumper when it's all said and done but it seems she wanted me to do it, in retrospect all winter wanted me to do it. WTF is going on here? Why was she so quick to text that she misses me when it's basically what she wanted? I know that it's probably too far gone to fix and honestly aside from abruptly ripping the band aid off by breaking up why would someone string me along for 8 months and then suddenly be all offended and missing me when she made it impossible for a normal person to stay involved?
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2023.06.01 23:30 JEFFHEATH_HOF One last Buffett vinyl

One last Buffett vinyl
Well with my finding of High Cumberland Juilee. I’m now only missing Jimmy’s ‘Down to Earth’ vinyl. I’ve collected every single vinyl he has, except that one.
Any suggestions on where I can find it. I’ve been on the hunt for years and it hasn’t showed up.
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2023.06.01 22:26 Canadian_in_Canada [SETLIST THREAD] Dead & Company, Coastal Credit Union Music Park at Walnut Creek, Raleigh, NC 1/01/23

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! Welp, I guess I really wanted to emphasis the first. Apologies, folks. It's meant to be Glad to see ya! It's meant to be: [SETLIST THREAD] Dead & Company, Coastal Credit Union Music Park at Walnut Creek, Raleigh, NC 06/01/23
Weather : Smiling on a Cloudy Day
Temperature : 77 °F (good omen)
Bobby Shorts : Past the knees
John's Pants: Visible even if you were standing on the moon
Days Since Last El Paso : 324
Days Since Mickey Last Licked the Beam : 353
SET 1 [7:12pm - 8:29pm]
New Speedway Boogie They Love Each Other Mama Tried* Easy Wind Ramble on Rose Dear Mr. Fantasy (with Hey Jude tease) > Bird Song
("We'll be back in just a short bit," says Bobby)
SET 2 [9:06pm - 10:45pm]
Sugaree St. Stephen (snack-time for Mickey) > William Tell Bridge > The Eleven > Aiko Aiko > Drums Xylophones > Drums > Space > I Need a Miracle > Warf Rat Casy Jones
ENCORE [10:46 -10:53] Black Muddy River
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Notes
*Merle Haggard cover
Video Stream
Set 1 Preview
Dead AiSet 2 Preview
Pre-Show Tunes to Check Out
I'm gonna throw it to the crowd! Anything you recommend, I'll put here.
Recommended by davidobr: Funky Kingston by Toots and the Maytales
Recommended by HamrickZach: Green River cover by Goose
I got a few rules in this here setlist thread:
  1. Be Kind. You don’t have to agree with everybody, but there’s no reason to be rude.
  2. Please don’t skunk up the thread by asking for or sharing miracles. If you choose to share links, keep them in the DMs/PMs. You just gotta poke around.
  3. Please don’t award this post. While I appreciate the thought, your money is better spent on a good cause. A cause near and dear to my heart is Rainbow Railroad.
  4. ​​No spoilers! If you caught soundcheck or a flash of the setlist, please spoiler tag it or do not mention songs by name!
  5. If someone says the word "tempo" we all have to take a shot (or hit, or drink of your choosing (alcoholic or non))
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2023.06.01 21:00 DiscoverDurham Things to Do in Durham this Weekend (Jun 1-4)

Check out our full Durham events calendar.
If you'd like to add an event to our calendar, submit an event here. Please check with the event organizers to see if events change due to weather. Have a great weekend!

June Featured Events

53rd Annual Bimbé Cultural Arts Festival at Rock Quarry Park
1776 at DPAC
PLAYlist Concert Series: Raíces, Rutas, y Ritmos at Durham Central Park

Venue Weekend Schedules

Events at The Carolina Theatre
Events at The Pinhook
Events at Motorco Music hall
Events at The Fruit
Live Music at Blue Note Grill
Events at Moon Dog Meadery
Live Music at Sharp 9 Gallery
Events at Arcana
Events at Rubies on Five Points
Events at Durty Bull Brewing Company
Live Comedy at Mettlesome
Events at Boxyard RTP
Events at Glass Jug Beer Lab in RTP
Events at Glass Jug Beer Lab in Downtown Durham

Local Sports

Durham Bulls Home Stand at the Durham Bulls Athletic Park
Running of the Bulls 8K at Historic Durham Athletic Park

Thursday, Jun 1

Thirsty Thursdays at Dashi
Vinyl Night with DJ Deckades at Gizmo Brew Works
Boulders & Brews Meetup at Triangle Rock Club - Durham
Trivia Night w/Big Slow Tom at Clouds Brewing Brightleaf Square

Friday, Jun 2

Tasting at Ten at Counter Culture Coffee
Garden Printing: Cyanotypes and Hammered Flower Prints on Fabric at Duke Campus Farm

Saturday, Jun 3

Durham Farmers’ Market at Durham Central Park
South Durham Farmers' Market at Greenwood Commons Shopping Center
parkrun Durham at Southern Boundaries Park
Hayti Walking History Tour at Hayti Heritage Center
Nasher Community Celebration at the Nasher Museum of Art
MAKRS Pop-up at Durham Central Park
Crafternoons at Gizmo Brew Works
Beaver Queen Pageant — Once Upon a Wetland... at Duke Park

Sunday, Jun 4

Al Strong Presents Jazz Brunch at Alley Twenty Six
Art-n-Soul Market at Mystic Farm & Distillery
Public Tour at Duke Chapel
Trivia at Navigator Beverage Co.

Running Art Exhibits

upstART Gallery: A Jim Lee Project at Pop Box Gallery
Exhibit at 21c Museum Hotel
“Extra-Spectral” at the Durham Art Guild Truist Gallery
Donna Stubbs, Featured Artist at 5 Points Gallery
Chieko Murasugi & Renzo Ortega at Craven Allen Gallery
Spirit in the Land at the Nasher
Andy Warhol: You Look Good in Pictures at the Nasher
Art of Peru at the Nasher
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2023.06.01 18:46 PrincessMommy2 Zones

I live fairly close to the NC/SC border (sorry if this isn’t allowed but it’s pertinent to question) about 25 miles straight shot highway 17. I assume due to lack of activity nearby we have to travel 10-15 minutes to closer zones. Only 2 options in NC neither one are the zone closet to me (28451) we have never had that available. Now that we’re over 50 dashes it opened SC wide open— why SC? Not NC?
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2023.05.31 15:48 bloomingbrandi Living out of a car with two dogs and looking for help!

Im recently homeless and I’m still trying to figure some things out. Im homeless with 2 dogs and living out of my car which just makes everything that much harder. I’ve lost everything in the last 3 years. My two dogs mean everything to me and have really been there for me in the last 8 years that I’ve owned my oldest and the last 3 years that I’ve owned my 2nd. They also are very attached to me and get separation anxiety. They are my actual children. No, I don’t have human children of my own. But I don’t want to lose them too. And imagining them wondering why their mom left them and never came back hurts my heart so bad. So giving them away is the last thing I want to do.
I’ve only been homeless for a few weeks now but I hate it for them every minute we’re in this situation. They do get lots of walks now and we spend a lot of time outside. They’re huskies so I know their loving that at least. But there’s no many reasons why this is not a suitable living situation for them and it’d be nice if there was some place for me to leave them until i was no longer homeless. The weather only getting hotter day by day is one of the biggest reasons. I’m located in Charlotte NC. Also I can’t get a job and get us out of the situation because it’s not like I can leave them in the car while I work and boarding or doggy day care is expensive.
So after my long story, I’m asking Reddit if anyone could think of something that might help. I tried doing Uber eats delivery to make money but it scared me leaving them in the car every time I had to go in to pick up or drop off an order. Someone could steal them, I always hear of huskies getting stolen. I could also just be a little paranoid. They’re my babies! Plus I was worried a customer or restaurant employee would see the dogs in the car and complain because food and dogs are gross to have together obviously. Even if I kept it separated well.
I’m now looking for a remote job and I can get a portable wifi thing and make money that way but it really would just be easiest if there was a place or someone that could take my babies for a bit. I’m only surviving off of the money my mom gives me which isn’t much so I can’t afford much. She does everything she can to help but unfortunately she’s in a bad situation herself. if I don’t come up with at least a plan here soon I will have to think of finding them a new home :(
Edit: Also to add: I’ve been thinking about going up north in a cooler climate but then I’m away from my mom who helps me out a lot. Also my car is older and I’m scared if something goes wrong with it I’m stuck somewhere with nobody to help
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2023.05.31 01:08 Neat-Housing9686 April/May Haul

April/May Haul
Finally got all of Toriko and Gintama! Close to completing a couple more.
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