Hindi af soomaali

Yo, Male, 24.
So eto nga, never ko naman naimagine na pag nagkaroon ako ng pera e mabilis din ako tataba kakabili ng mga pagkain na 'di ko nasubukan kainin weekly nu'ng mga panahong hamspalupa pa ako. Du'n muna tayo sa background story ko. I grew up poor up until college and ang lagi ko dating iniisip e before dapat mag 27 ako e either milyonaryo na ako or at least ma-pera na ako para naman ma-try ko 'yung mga pagkaing lagi kong cine-crave na hindi ko naman makain kasi nga isa lang namang akong hampaslupa na nakatira sa dystopian na bansa na Pilipinas ano.
So fast forward tayo mga ante, Naka-graduate ako sa college and I instantly found my niche na sa ngayon e it's already making me some serious money. Since I got lots of cash now, I can dine wherever I want to dine in. This went on for a year already and I didn't notice my bloating belly. Nag sink in lang siya talaga sa akin 1 month ago na isa na talagang akong ganap na fat fuck and I fucking hate it (70 kg ako right now). Para sa mga magsasabi diyan na being fat is beautiful and okay - fuck off. It ain't beautiful, and It's surely ain't healthy either. I bought a thread mill right away and been doing cardio since last month pero ang unti lang ng weight na nababawas.
I'm thinking as I write this right now na maybe going to the gym and hiring a trainer can do the job for my disgusting body but I'm anxious af since it will be my first time going to the gym. What if they get disgusted with my belly fat too? Uso ba do'n mang-asar sa mga fat fucks like me? Pa'no ba mag register sa gym? What can I even do to wash this anxiety away? How do I even know if the gym is good? What should I look out for?
I really want my body to become fit again o kaya naman fit ta's may muscle (para naman may upgrade ano para 'di lang character ko sa game na nilalaro ko gumaganda katawan potang ina). For gym bros and girls out there, maybe you've got some gym advice for me. Feel free to comment down below po :) Thank you for reading this non sense post of mine po!

Tutal magpapa-Tulfo daw sila, ayan ginawan ko na ng headline. 😂🤣😂
I won't bore anyone with the details but the gist is that I have a cousin na naulila when he was 9 years old. He lived with us from then until he became an adult then bumalik sya sa probinsya namin kasi may lupa at maliit na bahay ang mama nya dun. Sa mama pa rin nya nakapangalan yung titulo kasi nag-iipon pa sya ng pampalipat ng title.
Eto namang tyahin namin at mga gahaman nyang anak, pinagpipilitang kanila daw yung lupa na yun. Kahit ingudngod namin sa kanila yung titulo, they keep insisting na kanila yun. And to think na years nilang pinagkakitaan yung bahay at lupa na yun kasi pinarentahan nila at sa kanila napupunta yung pera. Ni piso wala silang inambag sa expenses ng cousin ko as he grew up with us. Tapos ngayon hinaharass nila si pinsan na pumirma ng deed of absolute sale. THE AUDACITY!!!
Maiintindihan ko pa if walang wala sila kaya sila nakikiagaw dun sa lupa eh. Kaso meron din naman sila. They already got the ancestral house at may maaayos namang trabaho itong mga pinsan ko. So bakit gusto nila kunin yung property ng orphaned cousin namin? Only one answer: THEY'RE GREEDY AF.
So to my greedy relatives, isang malaking FUCK YOU sa inyo. Naturingang nagba-bible study kayo at panay ang bisita nyo sa iba't ibang religious sites, pero ZERO kayo sa human compassion. Hiyang-hiya naman si Lord na lagi nyong ginagamit pangalan nya sa kabulastugan nyo. Napaka-gahaman at swapang ninyo. Mga nakapag-aral nga kayo, may magagandang trabaho, at matataas na sweldo pero para kayong mga gutom na hayop kung umasta. Ulila na yung pinsan natin at eto na lang naiwan sa kanya ng nanay nya na 9 years lang nya nakasama sa buong buhay nya tapos gusto nyo pa agawin?! Tao pa ba kayo?! Ang kakapal ng mukha nyo.
Sige magpa-Tulfo kayo. To the very end we will support our cousin kasi tinuring naming kapatid yan. Para din lumabas na sa publiko gaano kasama ugali nyo at wala nang sumuporta sa negosyo nyo. Nafeature pa man din kayo sa mga news outlets at nagboom business nyo. Pero etong kaswapangan nyo magiging downfall nyo. I hope you fuckers get cancelled!!!
Hindi ko na ippromote negosyo nyo at sasabihin ko sa lahat ng kakilala ko na magkaka-diarrhea sila pag bumili sila sa inyo! Kadiri kayo!

Hi!
Planning to go to the gym, considering AF mostly because of my schedule. Any idea if how much ang monthly? With trainer and other fees that i need to know?
How’s the equipment/facilities for a beginner? I’m familiar with the exercises pero I don’t know how to operate some of the machines, if you don’t have a trainer, will they still assist you like in correcting your forms or how to perform the exercise sa machine?
If naka workout ka on the wee hours bet 12-7am, may ara man iban na tao ga gym? Just so hindi ako totally alone kay basi scary lol
Any input is appreciated 🤭

I have these two amazing guy best friends for 10 years. However, recently nagiging iba na yung dynamic ng friendship namin. I always run sa kanila if I have problems or just wanna talk about life. It also become a perks to me to have guy friends easily because of them like literally green flags af sila (jowain ninyo sila hahahahaha please lang).
Idk if it is because different college na kami or "growing apart phase" na🥲. The plan is same university dapat kaming tatlo pero nakapasa ako sa UP (One of the reason I selected UP is sabi nila UP na yan plus ok lang daw sa kanila kahit mag-iba ako ng school). Then lately, na realize ko na hihirapan ako mag-establish ng new set of friends since naging comfortable na ako na I have friends naman na why do I need new friends pa. Now, I wanted to end this friendship with them since feeling ko ako na lang nagpapawork or nagcoconnect sa aming tatlo. Sometimes nakakapagod na, daming times ko na gusto na idistance ko yung self ko kasi nga hindi na rereciprocate yung effort na ginagawa ko pero I always check up on them. They are like my siblings na talaga.

Hi guys! I have some story to share to everyone. This may not be the last, if I remembered something regarding the cult, I will share it.
As the title says, it's about free labor. For context, I'm not a member but my ex is. I am really interested in this cult when we were together, I always ask him regarding the cult and what they do inside etc.
My ex is one of the kalihim (secretaries) of their locale. As far as I can remember, he's always asking me for ideas what activities that will stimulate the young ones in the cult. They were required to send about 5-10 suggestions (I think) For the activities. To those who doesn't know, every Sunday (I think) PNKs will be having activities to be administered by the binhi officers.
Then one day, while we were chatting (we're in a LDR. He's from the North, I'm from Central.) He said he'll be needing some art materials for their upcoming activity. Since I love crafting and doing arts, I have a lot of art materials. So I suggested that I'll give him some. However, I'm curious why don't they just ask their minister to give them money.
Verbatim:
Him: Lagi na lang akong naga-abono, 400 na nga lang pera ko tapos magkano pa i-aabono ko. (I'm always the one who renders money, I only have 400 here then I'll be rendering again.)
Me: Pagdalahin mo na lang 'yung mga bata, para mabawas bawasan gastusin mo. (Ask the kids to bring the materials they'll be needing so that you won't be spending any.)
Him: May nagdadala naman. Kaso karamihan wala, hindi rin naman kami makahingi. (Some kids do bring their materials but most of them don't. We can't even ask for some money [in our locale.])
End of verbatim.
I always noticed that whenever they need something for their activities, they will be the ones who'll be spending their money. I do not know the exact reason why they can't ask their locale for some money. I have friends from the local church (non-INC) and whenever they hold activities, the church will be the one who'll be paying for the materials & foods. I do not know how I'd feel for the officers who spends a lot of money just to conduct these activities.
I also stay late at night on Sundays, waiting for him to come home because he's in the secretariat doing a loooot of things. Overworked AF. He's sleep deprived and really fucking tired because the cult gives their officers a looooot of work to do. Imagine, they're overworked but they cannot ask for some money? The Manalos should pay them well.

Had to interact and collaborate with peeps I consider na “normies” for a school project. We’re in college btw. Kasi i’m more of the anime/games/hindi active sa socmed type. The humor, the taste of music, the topics nila, I almost 100% couldn’t relate/understand. I have not much problem with this kasi its preference naman and we all have different tastes.
I was looking forward to this kasi they’re the “popular” or the let’s say pinakamaingay sa classroom and wanted to get out of my comfort zone and befriend them. Never felt more out of place. Really made me appreciate my current friends so so much more.
What puts me off most is how easy they could talk shit about people behind their backs. Overheard something real nasty. Quiet lang yung iba but they all seem to be in on it. It was not about me but I just can’t comprehend how some people could lack so much empathy. Like what if may pinagdadaanan yung tao or something. Also, I don’t think they understand na some people’s lives don’t revolve around school or drama kasi they asked who I found “most annoying” or sum shit in class and called me and angel/mabaet for saying I don’t have anyone in mind. I’m not mabaet. I really don’t care about things like that about people (they couldn’t believe it). I usually just interact normally and peacefully, but with them i think i can answer kung sino yung kinoconsider ko na annoying.
They seem to be aware that they have “bad” personalities naman, idk how to feel about that. Not that i’m saying i’m good. I just learned a fuck ton about myself today:

1. I still lowkey wanted to impress them despite it all, probably cuz of my ppl pleasing attitude (how do i kill this part of me) or atleast para lang mawala sa radar nila as “threatening” or maging topic of conversations.
   
2. Want to be away as much as possible from people like them. It’s a good thing we barely had anything in common anyways
   
3. Only surround myself with peeps that bring me peace of mind, healthy rivalries, etc. I don’t care if we’re deemed as anti-social, losers, introverts, eccentric, weirdos sa book nila. (doesn’t mean na di mataas ambition namin) Universe, just drive away ppl that are mean af for no reason.
   

hi. im a shy person so pls bear with me.
abt me:
hopeless romantic works at night no car no house interests include music, movies/tv shows, books, art (basic af, i know) madaldal sa chat, introvert in person
abt you:
looking for a long-term relationship shares common interests with me hindi particular sa looks most of all gusto ko yung gusto ako. if youre just bored and wont reply anymore after a day or two, let's not waste each other's time

Posted this sa adultingph a few weeks ago and dapat dito kasi mas appropriate pero kulang ang karma sana okay na ngayon, but anyway mini rant na din ito kasi nakaka high blood ung situation ko ngayon.
S/O and I are renting an apartment with Globe as our ISP. After a year, we were given notice to leave kasi they were "renovating" the whole building AKA gagawing transient. This is a common tactic to increase $$$ sa city namin kasi tourist city, and we got the rent at a good price that time kasi mahigpit pa ung quarantine rules nung nag move-in kami.
They gave us 1 month notice to vacate and unfortunately wala kaming mahanap na pasok sa criteria namin. I have 2 WFH jobs while s/o is on hybrid set-up. Simple lang naman sana: 1BR, near CBD, pet-friendly and madalang outage (city namin laging may outage). Now, we were offered to buy their family friend's condo unit kasi nag migrate na sa US. They are offering it at a steal price and is generous sa payment terms (tamang tao lang kami ni S/O, not high income earners). We said yes to avoid getting kicked out na and pasok sa criteria. Bonus pa top floor kami with good sunlight (mid rise lang naman), kasi ung current namin eh basement and moldy AF, plus may generator sila. The current tenant is moving out by July and naki usap kami sa current landlord to extend, kasi dapat June wala na kami.
Papers are gearing and a few weeks ago we visited the unit. Hindi kami pwede pumunta punta basta kasi may current tenant pa, and okay naman lahat until we asked if okay ang signal ng Globe. Originally, ang plan namin is ipalipat lang. Pero malaman laman namin sa Sky lang daw ang internet doon. We were like wtf?? As first time condo soon to be owner, nagulat kami na may ganun pala. Apparently Sky locked ung condo building. I mean oo siguro fault na namin kasi hindi namin chneck beforehand, pero ineexpect namin na kahit pangit ang Globe eh we can choose different ISP's kasi hello 2023 na??? 30mbps lang ang max speed and coax cable pa ang gamit. Imagine our headache.
Currently, nagbabasa kami ng workarounds dito sa reddit and general internet and yun muna ang gagawin namin (change DNS, get 3rd party router, prepaid wifi backups). The current tenant and a few owners na nakausap namin also vouched na sobrang pangit ng Sky doon. Pinasurvey namin anyway sa PLDT (kasi acquired naman na nila ang Sky) and ang sabi challenge daw ang conduits papunta units. Matagal na daw nirereklamo ng unit owners and mag mmeeting daw pano magiging arrangements ng conduit. In short, mukhang hindi maayos before kami mag move in July.
At this point, wala na talaga kaming choice but to wait and it is nerve wracking. Wala na din kaming choice because hindi na pumayag na mag extend ung current landlord and while we are continously looking for other places, wala kaming mahanap padin. Once we move in and walang progress, i'm considering emailing na din sa DHSUD kasi bawal naman na talaga ung ginagawa nila as per anti competition law. Pero ayun lang, for Sky users, damayan niyo naman kami T.T
tldr: sky suckz

Waa wax lala yaabo runtii. Dad aan xitaa af-Soomaali kuu hadlin ayaa kuu mermeraya 'dhaqan malihin', 'carab baanu uu adegna', etc
Discuss.

I think I’m ready to go back to the gym since my AF membership reached its maturity last Feb. Now, I am more open to having a personal trainer (online and in person) kasi hindi ko talaga kayang i-push sarili ko hahaha also hindi ako confident pa to lift more heavy weights so I think I need an accountability buddy and assistance/spotter. Preferably a guy trainer. Message me your rates and your experience and such (certs, etc.)

So context, when I was younger (in my 20s) super toxic akong gamer. Like Warcraft3 dota, counter, etc, trashtalk on yan. And overall I think medyo skilled naman ako... Better than you average scrubs. Pero sobrang toxic ako pag natatalo. Salty af. Demeans my then bfs (syempre ex na ngayon) for being noob..May iniwan nga akong guy kasi sobrang hindi ako naimpress sa gaming and programming prowess niya and we were overall in diff stages of life. He wants to settle down, I was a fresh grad (6 years age gap). Anyway that's another story.
Pero anyway current BF said preference niya na gamer SO na mas magaling sa kanya. Gamer SO ggez yun naman talaga ako ever since so okay naman tong part na to. And now, don't get me wrong siguro I'm still pretty competitive naman sa board games, dota, mtg, etc. And I do beat him sometimes esp in some games pero overall mas magaling naman siya (kaya ko nga jinowa e) pero ayun I've had time to mature and take out some of my edge. I mellowed out. Maybe I've grown older and realized it's tiring to be always be try-hard. And so many people have told me na they liked me better now when I'm more mature and less toxic pag kalaro.
Note: Kilala niya naman ako for years na and siguro hindi man peak toxicity levels nun naging friends kami, I don't think he's seen the me at my worst. Though maybe naparamdam ko na sa kanya when I uninvited him to my game group dati kasi nainis ako sa kanya (🤣 yes I'm very immature back then and I had the power to kick him out, di ko alam bakit ako jinowa nito years later). Also we're friends for 7/8 years? In a relationship for just 5 months palang 🤣
My biggest fear is my old toxic self will come out if I bring back this passionate drive to win. Sobrang pikon and asar talo talaga eh. Edi syempre inaanticipate ko nang mag-aaway kami kasi nga pala-away ako pag nasa ganitong mindset e. Mostly me building up resentment and maybe he might start to hate me too. He said it's just a preference and he's like okay with how I am now but alam mo yon now that I know... There's a niggling feeling at the back of my mind to bring back my tryhard mindset and see how it goes. Pero nasasayang naman ako if maging cause siya ng breakup.
Kumbaga gusto ko sabihan, be careful of what you wish for?
And isn't this undoing years of tempering my temper?
What do?

29M. Software Engineer. Earns decently. So, here goes my experience wrt Arranged Marriage Bride Search:

• Girl 1: Connected with her parents on JS. Her father told us to talk on video call after 2 days. We said OK. Next day, I messaged her father and he didn't reply anything and ghosted us.
• Girl 2: Connected with her father on Shaadi.com. Her father told us to meet at CP in Delhi on the upcoming weekend and told us that he will give us the time to meet but didn't do it, while we were waiting for his call. Instead, he called us on next week and told us that her daughter had to go out of town on that weekend and insisted to meet on the upcoming weekend. We said OK. Then he again made excuse on the upcoming weekend. I declined that girl on Shaadi.com
• Girl 3: School teacher from Rajasthan. Connected through JS. We talked on call multiple times but everytime, she started taking career advices and didn't talk much about me or her or marriage. I was bored AF and rejected her and told her to connect on LinkedIn if she needs career advice. Also, she was super sensitive to comedy.
• Girl 4: Data Scientist in private company. She believed that data scientist are the most intelligent people in the world. Her family belonged to RSS. Said she hates muslims and won't allow me to do any interaction with Muslims after marriage. I was like WTF. Also was talking in an egoistical tone. Said she wants her husband to give surprises for a long drive every week.
• Girl 5: Talked to her mother and it felt like I was talking to an HR as her questions were:
  • What's your annual CTC ?
  • What's your in-hand ?
  • What's your joining bonus ?
  • Any retention bonus ?
  • How much are the ESOPs ?
• Girl 6: Golddigger. Seemed nice in the beginning but rejected me later just because I didn't have a car. Details mentioned on this reddit post.
• Girl 7: Lived in Gurgaon and didn't speak any work in Hindi/Hinglish. She felt Hindi is an outdated language which she spoke with her family only and with her clients in her company, she used to speak in English only. I don't drink alcohol and consuming alcohol felt like her hobby while conversing with her as she told me that she can't survive with me if I would refuse to let her drink alcohol and she used to drink a lot on every weekends.
• Girl 8: Software Engineer. She was quite mature but said only 1 thing which shocked me. She said if her salary is X, then her husband's salary should be between X - 5 to X + 5 only. I asked if we get married, and my salary gets doubled then what will you do ? She said she would prepare for the interviews and double her salary too and in reverse, I would have to prepare to double my salary also if hers gets 2X. I was afraid on hearing this and I was thinking that all of my weekends would be spent on Leetcode in this case. Also, she was non-veg whereas me and my family are veg so that became another reason to not proceed further.
• Girl 9: Freelancer. She earned 10-12k per month and straightforwardly gave me a condition that she will bring her 2 dogs with her if we get married. Also, she felt like a traumatic person when she gave me another condition that I won't have to talk to any girl after marriage as I can have affairs. At the end of the call, she started begging me to convince my parents to bring dogs to home. I rejected her.
• Girl 10: School Teacher. Extremely poor communication skills. Wasn't saying anything in return. Details mentioned on this post.
• Girl 11: School Teacher. Golddigger + Papa ki Pari + rude + immature. Weirdest girl I have ever talked to till now. Details mentioned on this post.
• Girl 12: School Teacher. Golddigger + Papa ki Pari. Told me that there are 4 weekends every month. 1st weekend, we will hangout, 2nd with my parents, 3rd with her parents, and 4th again both of us. I was thinking as if there's nothing to do in weekends except trips. Then told me if my parents would want to go on weekend, then they must have to contribute financially for the trip. I was about to say F*** off. But stopped and rejected her diplomatically. Also told me that those who are drinking alcohol are not morons so she wants her husband to consume it as not consuming it in front of everyone would make him a moron and she doesn't want a moron. I was like WTF.
• Girl 13: School Teacher from Delhi. She had only 1 condition that she will ONLY wear SHORT CLOTHES aka SKIRTS everytime, whether its home, family function, or anything else. I was like what kind of weird condition is this. Also, told me to shift to her city as she wanted to work in the same school forever whereas I being a Software Engineer would change my job frequently. I asked what's the guarantee that her school wouldn't fire her. She replied, it's because she trust his school. I was like LOL.
• Girl 14: 28 years old. Papa Ki Pari + Immature + living and wanting a highly luxurious life. I told her that I live simply. Then she told that she also lived simply. It was ironical. Then told me that she is over-pampered and super-sensitive and always checks her father's bag to see what her dad brings for her from market. I was about to say - CHHOTI BACCHI HO KYA !! But I stopped and just said OK. Also told me that she was an attention seeker. She was behaving like a kid.

And apart from these experiences, had a lot of other experiences where girls or her parents just connected, told us to talk and ghosted or rejected midway without specifying any reason or sometimes without even talking.
I don't understand what the hell is going on in our country. Even the experiences of many friends of mine in arranged marriage scene are quite similar to above. My patience has reached its threshold and I am feeling quite exhausted. I think it's better to remain single forever than throwing myself in this mess.

I frequently — and only, atm — make online (non-grocery) purchases via Lazada, thus my previous application for the UB Lazada MC which was approved later on.
This is my third card and it's been approved just a few days after I was notified by EW that my second card — Visa Platinum — is already in transit (no notification as to approval). I received both physical cards on the first week of May, so these cards are only a few weeks old.
Now, EW has announced big changes to its Visa Platinum Cash Rewards program which will become effective next month. Upon checking the updated T&Cs, the changes include among others the addition of online store purchases to transactions eligible to cashback of 8.88%.
This got me wondering if the UB Card is still worth to keep. It provides P6 in Lazada Credits for every P200 spent in Lazada — equivalent to 3% return.
The only edge the UB Card has that I can see over the EW Card is the discount eligibility for 5 Lazada Megasales — P500 discount (atm) for minimum purchase of P4000. Assuming this is maximized throughout the year, this will provide a total of P3010 in discounts and Lazada credits (equivalent to 15.05% return) with P17500 net spend, barely breaking even the annual fee of P3000. But, in fairness naman, mababa lang yung spend to breakeven in this case kumpara sa ibang UB Cards
So if I choose to keep the card, most likely, para lang sya sa limang Lazada Megasales, at dapat gagastos ako ng P3500 (net of discount) kada sales event.
I know the card is free of membership fee for the first year, so may time pa ako para mag-decide.
May pa-welcome gift din pala ang UB Card na P5000 Lazada Credits, but it requires maintaining the card for 2 years, so babawiin din nila yung P3000 via AF. Nababasa ko pa naman sa mga post na hindi madali magpa-waive ng AF kay UB.
Ano pa bang ibang bagay ang dapat kong i-consider? TIA

This is a story I handled when I was the area/LOS secretariat officer of our area and I had no one to rely on or to help me at all.
It was a new registered woman for indoctrination she was in her late 30's, she's married but separated to her husband (not legally) and she's living in with a man with the same situation as her.
As the LOS overseer interviews them I left coz I really don't want to eavesdrop on someone elses private lives I felt like I was evading their privacy. So after the interview and the couple left the overseer called me and talked to me about it.
Overseer: ka.*** Bat ka umalis?
Me: (making reasonable excuse) marami pa po kasi akong gagawin yung tarheta pa po kasi ng purok di ko pa po naayos.
Overseer: ganito (name ko) si * at ****(girl&boy) may asawa sila pero hiwalay na sila sa mga asawa nila 10 years na silang hiwalay sa mga asawa nila at mga 6 years na silang live in. Pakigawan ng tala eto yung info nila.
Me: sure po kayo? Hindi po ba bawal yung kaanib na nakikiapid lang? Bawal po yung mga kabit-kabit diba?
Overseer: wag mo silang husgahan. Matagal na naman silang nagsasama kaya tatanggapin na sila ng iglesia.
Me:(confused af) paano po natin maipapaliwanag sa distrito to pag magpafinal screening na sila at kuwestionin nila tayo?
Overseer: ganito pupunta tayo sa barangay hall at PAO (public attorneys office) gagawa ng kasulatan na nagpapatunay na hindi na mahagilap yung mga asawa nila at tuluyan na silang iniwan at sila na ang kinikilala ng publiko bilang mag-asawa saka natin ipapanotaryo at papapirmahan sakanila.
Me: legal po ba yan?
Overseer: hindi, pero kikilalanin ng Iglesia yan. Wag mo silang husgahan.
Me: hindi ko po sila hinuhusgahan. Kaso ayon sa itinuturo ng aral at ng biblia masama at mabigat ang kaparusahan ng pakikiapid, by their actions I personally think na pakikiapid yun.
Overseer: tinawag sila ng Diyos, wag mong harangin ang kaligtasan nila. Papatawarin sila ng Diyos sa kasalanan nila.
Me: po? Sige po tinawag sila ng Diyos ok po pero hindi ko naman po hinaharang yung kaligtasan nila for me kung tinawag sila ng Diyos dapat po itatama nila yung mali nila which is yung pagsasama nila. I'm not against it kung sanlibutan sila pero papasok sila eh and we must be mahigpit to everyone na papapasukin natin kasi po tayo yung first line of defense para sa mga papasok.
Overseer: wag mo kong kwestiyunin. Gawin mo nalang yung pinapagawa ko sayo. Lagi nalang pansariling opinyon mo yung sinasabi mo, ipasintabi mo yan sa mga taong tinatawag ng Diyos.
Me: kung gusto nyo po kayo nalang yung gumawa or humanap kayo ng gagawa pero ako po hindi ko gagawin yan coz I don't want to be held accountable sakanila. Ayaw ko po na mapagalitan at maiulat ako ng distrito kapag nakita nila yan.
Overseer: minsan ayaw ko na sayo bilang kalihim ng ilaw.
Me: edi hanap po kayo ng bago para mabawasan na rin yung trabaho ko dito. Parang gustong gusto kong ubusin yung araw ko dito habang nagugutom at nag-iinit ulo ko sainyo.
The overseer left infront of me. I was sitting on my table when it happened, I never moved in my seat while the argument was going on and most of the secretariat officers saw us argue and they talked to me about respecting the LOS overseer not only that he's old but I also need to respect his position coz he's ahead of me I told them I don't respect people who invalidates others opinion coz I let everyones mouth runs with their rants and I listen & advice with compassion, empathy and with clear conscience. They tried to convince me to do the report but I refused coz I don't want to held accountable for it. I'm not saying I'm right but I don't think my reason is awfully fully wrong. The way I delivered it is kinda strong but being strong is part of my personality. As I remembered the head secretariat officer did the report and the LOS overseer was requesting a new secretariat officer but no one wanted the position so he was stucked with me for a year before I left like a popped bubble.
Tomorrow is another story that proves it was indeed the most evil department of the INCult.

Hello parents.so very recently my younger of my 2 elder sisters is getting married and as Indian weddings go we had call in my oldest sister for help however she comes with a packaged deal with a 2 1/2 year old daughter And we have to take turns to take care of her.
Now here's the deal my turn comes at the very end of the day(8-11pm) when I get back home from work tired AF and some how my niece is the most active during this time, don't get me wrong I love her to bits but I'm too low energy to play with her. Here's what I have tried Playing pretend Reading stories Listening to her stories Teaching her English, Hindi, mathematics, general knowledge And her favourite for some reason pretend wrestling matches Please help most of the low energy stuff I just listed she doesn't want to do even if I somehow managed to get her to do them she flips and starts imitating animals or starts singing loudly etc She is a nice kid and loves me the most in my family at least that's what I feel like when she is around me she is enjoying herself alot and I don't want to ruin it for her but at the end of the day I'm too tired to play with her, what can I do?

Noob question. I have two BPI credit cards. First credit cards ko sila. May 2022 na-approve yung application ko for both cards. Yung isang card, around last week of May ko na na-activate. The other, June na.
I was expecting na this May 2023 lalabas sa SOA yung bill for AF ng dalawang cards kasi one year na ang nakalipas, pero walang charge for AF na lumabas sa SOA ko this May.
Nakareceive ako last year ng Php 10,000 shopping credits kahit wala naman ako sinalihan na promo. I looked up kung anong promo yung may ganong reward and NAFFL promo daw according to BPI website, BUT I checked the promo period and hindi ako pasok don kasi yung card application date ko ay late yata ng ilang days (1-2 weeks pa nga yata) sa card application deadline for the said promo na naka-indicate sa post ng BPI. Inassume ko na lang na baka from ibang non-NAFFL promos ko nakuha yung 10k shopping credits.
Tanong ko lang if possible na NAFFL pala yung cards ko or kung sa June pa talaga lalabas sa SOA yung bill for AF kasi June na na-activate yung isang card at late May (lagpas ng ilang days sa statement date) naman yung isa pang card? Sobrang bawi na ng cashback at rewards yung AF for both cards pero napakalaking bagay pa rin if mabawas sa mga bayarin ko yung AF for the cards. Ilang days ko na ring ni-ready ang sarili ko sa pag-contact sa CS to waive AF kaya sobrang nagulat lang ako nung wala sa SOA yung matagal kong inabangan na AF charge.

Hii, I'm looking lang for someone na kaladkadrin, yung willing gumala or mag laro ng kahit ano. Usually bored ako after work, need lang ng companion. Especially pag may lumabas na anime movie sa cinemas. About me • 5'8 / 77kg; decent lang hindi pogi • Working •Around cavite (Hindi naniningil ng gas) • Likes kahit anong computer game • Bored af
• Likes anime & american series • Listens to all genres of music except for metal (Into Jpop right now, kpop on a good day; always a sucker for OPM) also plays the guitar
• Likes coffee
About you : • May decent computer for games • Working or financially capable for gala pag walang work • Walang curfew ( I like driving at night or spontaneous na gala) • Cute daw sabi ng nanay • SFW also walang sabit • Down to earth, easy to talk to.
• Taga south
• Likes coffee
Send a message po! Excited to talk to you!

hi. im a shy person so pls bear with me.
abt me:
hopeless romantic
works at night
no car no house
interests include music, movies/tv shows, books, art (basic af, i know)
madaldal sa chat, introvert in person
abt you:
looking for a long-term relationship
shares common interests with me
hindi particular sa looks
most of all gusto ko yung gusto ako. if youre just bored and wont reply anymore after a day or two, let's not waste each other's time

I currently have a classic cc from SB and recently applied for a limit increase (granted but low w/c I was expecting to have a higher increase). And today, I received a Gold CC w/c naman hindi ako nag-apply. Questions (I hope you could help me) 1. I want to cancel my classic cc since they would cost me a lot esp AF, can I transfer my rewards/points sa Gold CC? 2. Is there any way to cancel the Annual Fee? 3. Bakit may dumating na Gold CC? Hehe
Thanks a lot!!

For context, I was born with loose ligaments, unfortunately. Ang pinaka-affected ay left knee ko which dislocates or "pops" when stressed (walking for too long, lifting heavy things, etc.). This has been very stressful for me kaya I had it checked last year and took 10 PT sessions. The goal is to strengthen my thighs so this would hold yung knee cap ko and avoid dislocation. Hanggang isometrics lang and naturo sakin and my room is a bit compressed so hindi ko na nasundan ng exercise as much after the sessions.
To push myself further, I got a subscription sa AF. I just had one of my first free assessments earlier today and was told if I avail yung coaching sessions, ang goal is to lose fat/weight first (normal naman ang weight ko, just a bit chubby hahah) before we get into strengthening/toning muscles esp. for my knees. Nanghhinayang ako sa "promotion" nila of getting 30 sessions agad kasi I've been reading a lot of negative reviews here, so I was thinking of getting just 5-10 sessions at least until I familiarize myself with the equipment and the gym mismo.
With this background, worth bang kumuha ng longer coaching lessons given na specific ang needs ko for my knees? Or okay nalang mag-self research/manood ng Youtube? Anxious lang ako kasi if generally getting fit lang ang goal, I'd prefer to just self research para tipid. Pero medyo malala na yung state ng tuhod ko, so idrk. :')
Thank you so much!