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A Place for Card Kindness

2013.03.18 09:12 lehmongeloh A Place for Card Kindness

This is a place to send or receive cards for anyone who would like one. The purpose of RAoC is to spread a little bit of joy around the world. All are welcome! Please read the sidebar or Wiki/FAQ page to get started.
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2013.06.30 00:13 d4rkhorizoN sadboys

A subreddit dedicated to the Sadboys (SBE) and Drain Gang / Gravity Boys Shield Gang (GTBSG) music collectives. The wave makers, this is navy rap. "sign on the door says drain members only"
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2014.03.17 08:46 evilscheme: help others wreak havoc on the world

∇ **This sub is for: giving and receiving practical advice on how to execute or create evil schemes** ∇ **Come here to post finished results too** ∇ Have you ever wanted to come up with a evil scheme, but just never had the time or intelligence? Need practical advice? **With the help of others, here you can come up with evil schemes to wreak havoc or revenge upon your targets!**
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2023.05.30 23:42 Nv7z2 graphql unexpected error

Yo guys, im trying to build my first ever node.js + graphql backend and I'm doing something wrong (but idk what). I'm using MongoDB + Mongoose + TypeScript stack.

What is wrong here, why is it wrong and how can I fix it?
Here's my project repo: https://github.com/Nv7z2/Seo-task-manager
Backend project structure:
├── backend │ ├── app.ts │ ├── package-lock.json │ ├── package.json │ ├── src │ │ ├── constants │ │ │ ├── auth │ │ │ └── task │ │ │ └── taskStatus.const.ts │ │ ├── controllers │ │ │ ├── auth.controller.ts │ │ │ ├── task │ │ │ │ ├── taskPriority.controller.ts │ │ │ │ └── taskStatus.controller.ts │ │ │ └── topic │ │ │ └── topicalCluster.controller.ts │ │ ├── database │ │ │ └── connectDb.ts │ │ ├── graphql │ │ │ ├── modules │ │ │ │ ├── auth │ │ │ │ │ └── auth.graphql.ts │ │ │ │ ├── task │ │ │ │ │ ├── taskPriority.graphql.ts │ │ │ │ │ └── taskStatus.graphql.ts │ │ │ │ └── topic │ │ │ │ └── topicalCluster.graphql.ts │ │ │ ├── resolvers.ts │ │ │ └── schemas.ts │ │ ├── middlewares │ │ │ └── authMiddleware.ts │ │ ├── models │ │ │ ├── task │ │ │ │ ├── taskPriority.model.ts │ │ │ │ └── taskStatus.model.ts │ │ │ ├── topic │ │ │ │ └── topicalCluster.model.ts │ │ │ └── user.ts │ │ └── utils │ │ ├── auth │ │ │ ├── generateRandomPassword.ts │ │ │ └── handleAuthResponse.ts │ │ ├── handleResponse.ts │ │ └── task │ └── tsconfig.json 

How I run the backend on localhost:
npm run build:watch npm run prod 

The query I'm sending through localhost sandbox:
mutation CreateTaskStatus($input: TaskStatusInput!) { createTaskStatus(input: $input) { code data { _id name type } } } 
Input to the mentioned query:
{ "input": { "name": "Done", "type": "done" } } 

Expected output:
{ data: { name: 'Done', type: 'done', color: '#ff9800', _id: new ObjectId("64766962e889308cbdf9fc6a"), createdAt: 2023-05-30T21:23:46.218Z, updatedAt: 2023-05-30T21:23:46.218Z, __v: 0 }, code: 'task_status_created' } 
Actual output:
{ "data": {}, "errors": [ { "message": "Cannot return null for non-nullable field Mutation.createTaskStatus.", "locations": [ { "line": 2, "column": 3 } ], "path": [ "createTaskStatus" ], "extensions": { "code": "INTERNAL_SERVER_ERROR", "stacktrace": [ "Error: Cannot return null for non-nullable field Mutation.createTaskStatus.", " at completeValue (/Users/nv7z2/seo task managebackend/node_modules/graphql/execution/execute.js:594:13)", " at executeField (/Users/nv7z2/seo task managebackend/node_modules/graphql/execution/execute.js:489:19)", " at /Users/nv7z2/seo task managebackend/node_modules/graphql/execution/execute.js:377:22", " at promiseReduce (/Users/nv7z2/seo task managebackend/node_modules/graphql/jsutils/promiseReduce.js:23:9)", " at executeFieldsSerially (/Users/nv7z2/seo task managebackend/node_modules/graphql/execution/execute.js:373:43)", " at executeOperation (/Users/nv7z2/seo task managebackend/node_modules/graphql/execution/execute.js:347:14)", " at execute (/Users/nv7z2/seo task managebackend/node_modules/graphql/execution/execute.js:136:20)", " at executeIncrementally (/Users/nv7z2/seo task managebackend/node_modules/@apollo/servedist/cjs/incrementalDeliveryPolyfill.js:47:34)", " at process.processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:95:5)", " at async execute (/Users/nv7z2/seo task managebackend/node_modules/@apollo/servedist/cjs/requestPipeline.js:229:37)" ] } } ] } 
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2023.05.30 23:41 negativeused Anxiety about teeth removal at age 37

Hi I had issues with neck pain and tooth pain the past few years and got desperate. I started seeing a dentist with confusion and anxiety a few months ago... I've always had cavities growing up and such have big spacing between teeth and been to dentist many times growing up. My 4 wisdom teeth were not impacted but in my late teens my dentist from many many years ripped my top left out. I left the rest in because they grew in fine... well... now I'm in my late 30s and I've been having issues with food getting stuck in my last molar on the top right for years... hard to clean getting infected sometimes from prodding or food etc... never got it out... when its clean it never bothered me but the food and picking always bugged it on and off all the time. Bc of my neck pain, I was hoping make it was this tooth...so the new dentist that i was seeing told me i have peridontal disease and need root scaling planing done... also need that tooth out she said bc the peridontal disease made it like a pocket...so she said i should have this done by an oral surgeon.. until i went back and they decided to do the extraction for this molar themselves suddenly. as I'm like ok i guess.... she's like oh how about we take out the wisdom tooth too that we want outbc of the pocket and bone loss etc too, we could do it right here if you want... I'm like uhm crap, hm, ok yea let's do that too why not... without thinking about it much... but now I'm 37 and i have 2 missing top molars and i now can't chew on that side with my molars and it has caused extreme depression and anxiety. Why did I ruin my good wisdom tooth? now I can't chew on that side? I'm only 37? I ruined my life I'm so sad please help
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2023.05.30 23:40 Flamefart3 Imma be honest, the theory with the mimic is kinda stupid

Ok so before you bite my frontal lobe off just hear me out.
From what I know the mimic was something that came from the books right? And wasn’t it a known thing that the books aren’t canonical to the games? In my opinion of events, assuming the mimic theory isn’t true, I’ll start from Henry’s speech at the end of fnaf 6
Everyone burns, but doesn’t die (except Henry), so they’re all trapped in the wreckage
William is tortured by Cassidy since he has nowhere to go and is once again on the brink of death
Fazbear entertainment uses the AI chips in the animatronics to expedite production of fnaf vr. What they don’t know is that William’s soul was on the ai chip that they took out of his corpse/animatronic, so William is able to escape Cassidy’s torture and manifest himself in the game as Glitchtrap
William uses the game as a means to possess beta testers to try to take over their minds, which he eventually succeeds in Vanessa.
Vanessa, under williams influence, takes over the pizzaplex and infects it with the virus, which makes all the other animatronics hostile. Vanny then uses the glam rocks to burrow down to the fnaf 6 location to recover his body. Vanny uses Monty to destroy glam rock Bonnie to use as part to repair william’s body, which would become Burntrap.
Meanwhile, when the fnaf 6 location was uncovered, Micheal’s soul managed to escape, finding a home in glamrock Freddy, where he lies dormant.
One day, Gregory comes along, trying to uncover the mystery behind 9 children’s disappearances (which we find out about in SB worst ending), but gets chased by Vanny/Vanessa and eventually hides in Freddy’s chest.
This when the events of the game take place.
Now with what we see in the Ruin trailer and assuming that the Afton ending is the canon ending, I think Gregory escapes the pizzaplex but Freddy gets trapped under falling rubble. Gregory eventually comes back to try to find Freddy but gets trapped (presumably by William and Vanny), and thus somehow calls Cassie for help, which will lead to whatever happens in the ruin dlc
This my personal take on events since I think there a lot of holes in the mimic theory, and I don’t want to follow something that is only a mimic of the franchises main villain. What are your thoughts?
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2023.05.30 23:38 Bismuth941 30 [M4F] Maine/US - Gamer guy looking for their gamer gal.

Hello! My name is Graeme and hope to chat with you soon. Personally I'd like to find someone in the US that we eventually will be able to meet up. Granted I'm not in a position to move for a while, but while knows how it'll go right? I may make that leap for someone, if they're that right someone ya know? Anyway let's get on with it shall we?
If I had to describe myself I would probably say that I'm a sarcastic and antisocial introvert.
Some of my hobbies: Video games (pc mostly, some switch) I've played tons of them just ask and I've probably heard of it if nothing else. Favorites include stuff like LoZ, Hollow Knight, Diablo, and Stardew Valley. Animes/TV, can't get enough One Piece, Futurama, or Adventure Time. Currently watching Yu Yu Hakusho but I'm just about to finish it so if you've got any recommendations on what I should watch next lmk. DIY projects, just starting to do 3D printing. Cooking, although I'm not very good at it, lol. I just got back into reading and I'm currently reading the 2nd Witcher book. And I do of course enjoy doing some outdoors stuff at times like hiking/camping and golfing.
If you enjoy movies I can watch just about anything. It's hard to find something that I go to watch and I just turn off, lol. But my top three movies would probably have to be: Interstellar, Life's Aquatic with Steve Sizzou, and There Will Be Blood. And of course I love all the classic stuff like Jurassic Park, Star Wars, Lord Of the Rings, and Harry Potter. It seems like the HP movies are the most rewatchable things I've ever seen idk why. Any time I see any of them come on I know I can flip that on. Even if I don't actually watch it, lol. I also just love Wes Anderson, Taika Waititi, and Quentin Tarantino films in general.
Ideally you'll be as lame and introverted as I am. If you drink and smoke, that's fine by me. Personally I don't. So ya know... all the weed would be yours if that's your thing, lol. I'm not too particular about appearances, but I will say I'm not into large gals or ladies that are much older than myself. Sounds shallow to say, but I'm just not. Don't ever let that get you down though, be the best you that you can be right?
As for myself, I'm 5'10", 155 lbs averageish build would like to try to get more in shape though. Brown eyes and hair (what little I have of it). I have a pic on my profile if you're curious.
That's mostly it about me really. Just a nerdy sort of dude that's been alone for far too long and trying to get out there. If you think you'd be interested of course lmk, maybe tell me a bit about yourself, and maybe we can jam out on some game some time to get to know each other or something. If you read all of this kudos to you and if nothing else; Good luck on your search!
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2023.05.30 23:38 Bismuth941 30 [M4F] Maine/US - Gamer guy looking for their gamer gal.

Hello! My name is Graeme and hope to chat with you soon. Personally I'd like to find someone in the US that we eventually will be able to meet up. Granted I'm not in a position to move for a while, but while knows how it'll go right? I may make that leap for someone, if they're that right someone ya know? Anyway let's get on with it shall we?
If I had to describe myself I would probably say that I'm a sarcastic and antisocial introvert.
Some of my hobbies: Video games (pc mostly, some switch) I've played tons of them just ask and I've probably heard of it if nothing else. Favorites include stuff like LoZ, Hollow Knight, Diablo, and Stardew Valley. Animes/TV, can't get enough One Piece, Futurama, or Adventure Time. Currently watching Yu Yu Hakusho but I'm just about to finish it so if you've got any recommendations on what I should watch next lmk. DIY projects, just starting to do 3D printing. Cooking, although I'm not very good at it, lol. I just got back into reading and I'm currently reading the 2nd Witcher book. And I do of course enjoy doing some outdoors stuff at times like hiking/camping and golfing.
If you enjoy movies I can watch just about anything. It's hard to find something that I go to watch and I just turn off, lol. But my top three movies would probably have to be: Interstellar, Life's Aquatic with Steve Sizzou, and There Will Be Blood. And of course I love all the classic stuff like Jurassic Park, Star Wars, Lord Of the Rings, and Harry Potter. It seems like the HP movies are the most rewatchable things I've ever seen idk why. Any time I see any of them come on I know I can flip that on. Even if I don't actually watch it, lol. I also just love Wes Anderson, Taika Waititi, and Quentin Tarantino films in general.
Ideally you'll be as lame and introverted as I am. If you drink and smoke, that's fine by me. Personally I don't. So ya know... all the weed would be yours if that's your thing, lol. I'm not too particular about appearances, but I will say I'm not into large gals or ladies that are much older than myself. Sounds shallow to say, but I'm just not. Don't ever let that get you down though, be the best you that you can be right?
As for myself, I'm 5'10", 155 lbs averageish build would like to try to get more in shape though. Brown eyes and hair (what little I have of it). I have a pic on my profile if you're curious.
That's mostly it about me really. Just a nerdy sort of dude that's been alone for far too long and trying to get out there. If you think you'd be interested of course lmk, maybe tell me a bit about yourself, and maybe we can jam out on some game some time to get to know each other or something. If you read all of this kudos to you and if nothing else; Good luck on your search!
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2023.05.30 23:37 DunkinDonuts_throw Can employers include & enforce policies that are, otherwise illegal, in employment contracts?

Location: Georgia, USA
I have worked at multiple fast food & retail establishments that include in their handbook that they will fire you if you discuss your wages.
I understand that this is illegal under the National Labor Relations Act, however, all of these jobs have required me to sign a handbook/contract agreeing to these terms of employment.
More recently, I encountered a new policy that states that anyone who quits without a two weeks' notice agrees to forfeit their hired wage. Instead, for that pay period, they will receive minimum wage for hours worked. My understanding of Georgia & federal employment law is that employees can not retroactively change your wage for hours worked.
I am wondering if these contracts are legally binding in spite of the laws prohibiting this conducted from employers. And if they are still legally binding, why? How do such laws truly protect workers?
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2023.05.30 23:35 Late_Set_5640 I want to say I was groomed but that seems too harsh

I just needed to dump this somewhere cause it’s been weighing me down recently.
One of my relatives (who I’ll call Nora) owns a horse ranch and so every holiday/vacation I would come down and get riding lessons for free. Enter James. Nora had essentially “rescued” him from Mexico as a teen, brought him to the US, gave him a job at the ranch, and helped him get a visa. This was all quite a while ago as he’s in his 60s/70s now. He was my horse trainer and he knew me ever since I was a baby.
Other important information is that now my family lives on the ranch and has since I finished 8th grade (so for about 9 years now). Reason being that Nora promised my dad a job running her other business, but after we had finished building our house, her promise fell through. So my family is still here but my dad commutes about 2 hrs to work.
So obviously once I started living on the ranch I kicked my horse riding up a notch. I would ride almost every day of the week, I started a side gig where people paid me to ride their horses every week, and I joined an equestrian drill team. So I spent a lot of time with James. He would always help, always be down to teach me, text asking if I wanted to go out trail riding, ask me to help him train horses. I really admired and respected him.
But somewhere along the lines things changed. I don’t remember when. It was around when I was 16 I think. But James started bringing me flowers he found in the pasture, and one day he asked me to close my eye, said he had a surprise for me, and then kissed the side of my mouth. I don’t remember what exactly went through my mind but afterwards I remember telling myself that it was probably a cultural thing, and that he was a lonely old man who was just bad at expressing himself. I also never closed my eyes when he asked to me again after that.
Nothing much happened after that till I was 19/20. I was home from college during the school year because of Covid, so James offered to pay me something like 20 bucks an hour to muck and feed the horses in the morning and evening. I said heck yeah that’s pretty good money. But things kinda escalated from there. The kids incident had been almost completely erased from my mind just cause I didn’t think much of it at that point. But at some point during the mornings, started grabbing my hand and holding it while we walked to feed horses. I tried to brush it off again as just a thing, but I started wearing gloves, huge jackets, baggy pants, and hats and basically tried looking “ugly” every time I went to work cause I just didn’t feel comfortable around him anymore. But I didn’t want to rock the boat by saying anything. Especially since I was sure that I was making a big deal out of nothing and I was overthinking things. Every time he would grab my hand I would let it go limp, hoping to get the message across. And I tried to remember to keep my hands my pockets as much as I could.
I know that hand-holding isn’t a big deal, but I’m not a touchy-feely person, especially not with guys. So before that I had only held hands with a couple people, and those people hand be my boyfriends, so for me it was uncomfortable.
Fast forward a year and I got a boyfriend and was home for Christmas. Started helping out with mucking stalls in the morning again. At some point James asked if I wanted anything for Valentine’s Day. And at this point I thought OH HELL NO. So I dropped that I have a boyfriend now, so he didn’t need to get me anything and that he should stop trying to hold my hand because of boyfriend. (Not sure why I didn’t think of this excuse earlier, even if it would have been a lie)
I guess this got him thinking because later that day he sat me down and asked me to stay at the ranch once I finished my degree and help him run it. And then he told me that he loved me and had been “fighting against it” really hard but he couldn’t stop.
I think I went into shock. I smiled. I said it was fine, then I left. I made it back to my house and into my room before freaked out. I felt like an idiot. I felt gross and violated even though nothing actually happened. This man’s was 40+ years older than me, new me since I was a baby and was basically part of my family. I’m actually pretty sure that Nora adopted him and he’s in her will.
After that I had no idea what to do. I was so ashamed, how could I tell my parents what I let happen. I should have shut that shit down as soon as I felt something was off. So I called a friend who knew him and was on the drill team with me. I told her everything and low and behold he had done the same thing to her. Well fuck.
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2023.05.30 23:34 Far_Path3294 B5 was a very unique sci-fi for including Jewish representation

After Commander Chakotay was a main character in Star Trek: Voyager I always found it very disturbing how in Trek's version of the future Native Americans still exist but Jews don't. Especially considering that in the current real world the global Jewish population is much bigger than the indigenous American one. What the hell happened to all the Jews?? You can try making the argument that society at that point had moved on from religion. But Jewish is also an ethnicity, and Generations showed that Christmas is still a thing. I know this isn't a Trek subreddit. I just felt the need to vent.
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2023.05.30 23:34 jhk84 First time playing. Going in blind. Just beat the 4th Palace here is wave 4 of my way off predictions.

Hope everyone had a great holiday weekend!
I actually wrote up a post right after the 4th palace. Then I played a bit and they dropped so much more info that I had to toss it. Tomorrow is the trip to Hawaii so I thought this was a good point to stop and make another round of predictions.
The 4th palace is my favorite so far. There was so much symbolism to look into and I really liked the whole cursed gem bit. The end boss was a little annoying.
Things are really picking up pace. I had so many questions that were answered like 20 min later. They're really starting reveal some important details.
This is what I have as of now. In addition to my way off predictions there are also a few bits of info I'm that I'm not sure how they fit yet and some general impressions. I tried to keep it short (I failed).
Please no spoilers for any of the Persona games. This is my first and I plan on picking up 3/4.
After Palace 1 predictions : https://www.reddit.com/Persona5/comments/13odesi/first_time_playing_going_in_blind_my_horribly/
After Palace 2 prediction : https://www.reddit.com/Persona5/comments/13q3q9j/first_time_playing_going_in_blind_just_beat_the/
After Palace 3 predictions: https://www.reddit.com/Persona5/comments/13sl0vp/first_time_playing_going_in_blind_just_beat_the/

Futaba/Alibaba and somehow Morgana
---tinfoil hat time---
Kasumi
Maruki
Akechi
Twins / Butterfly Lady
Igor
Sojiro
Sae's Boss / Shido

Limo Girl.
Opening Casino Heist
Mashima

Best Girl current rankings - Nothing is set yet no decisions have been made just the current rankings.
Best Bro current rankings.
Best Kitty current rankings.
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2023.05.30 23:34 Vinh32y Toyota Finance Cannot Locate Vehicle Account

I am trying to acquire a Lien Release for my deceased in-law’s vehicle. I am based out of Houston, TX - where the vehicle was originally purchased in 2000. The dealership referred me to Toyota Financial, who couldn’t find the truck. They then redirected me to Southeast Toyota who also cannot locate the account. The dealership print out shows the Lien holder as TMCC, which I googled to be the same number as Toyota financial. I’m not sure where to look next. I have already made a trip to the DMV, which is how I found out there was a lien still on the truck.
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2023.05.30 23:34 youraveragepuppy AITA for wanting to tell my dad what his friends think of him?

So I just overheard my mom on the phone with one of my dads closest friends, (for context my parents just got divorced so a lot of my parents' friends are contacting the others to see if they're okay, it's nothing weird or sexual but they just had a lot of friends they shared an none of them are on my dads side so they all flock to see if my moms okay((my dads just getting out of a nasty situation but blame the father right??? Always! ANYWAYS))
So I overheard this guy let's call him Rob because he's always so loud an my mom didn't even have to put it on speaker for me to hear. Rob starts asking my mom how she's holding up and how are the kids and Robs telling her about him and his family (my moms besties with his wife) it's a normal convo and then there's a pause an rob sighs an says "have you talked to (let's call my dad Larz) Larz recently? See if he's changed his mind?" And my moms like no we don't talk an rob starts saying dumb shit like "wow yeah...unbelievable he's nuts" and I start rEALLYY listening in now because my dad has went to WAR for his friends all his life supporting them and financially getting them out the mud and flying around the country just to see them. I was shocked but not as shocked as what Rob said next.
He goes "yeah I don't talk to Larz anymore he's weird he seems off, I don't speak to him he's just weird now like crazy" LIKE THOSE EXACT WORDS and now I'm pissed because in reality I never liked this guy not once in my life he's a fucking creep but my dad always makes friends with losers who ruin everyone around them so they aren't alone. Rob would've been nothing without my dad helping him out financially and getting his life on track finding a wife starting a family blah blah blah. SO I turn and look at my mom with a confused face an she's not looking at me just at the ground nodding and agreeing but in a people pleaser way. And once they hang up after shit talking my poor father I ask her if Rob really just called Larz weird an says he's not his friend anymore? And she starts getting frustrated at me and starts saying stuff like,
"Well it's not my fault your father made a mistake and everyone knows it" When infact she knOWS it's her fault, the emotional abuse she fed my dad throughout their marriage is incredibly sick (I still love her but damn!) like my dad at a certain point just started having to be just as nasty back and now everyone thinks he's the bad guy. It was never fist fighting cussing or anything like that just really cruel shit to say.
Now I'm torn between telling my dad that Rob said this about him so my dad stops supporting and donating money to his work. I don't want him financially supporting Robs little LLC if Rob's just gonna be shit talking my dad.
I really feel he would be devastated to hear who he thought his friend was say that shit....
AITA for wanting to tell him something that might hurt him though?? I don't wanna make him feel sad
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2023.05.30 23:34 compostghostttt WIBTA if I didn't go to my childhood best friend's wedding?

My (20s F) best childhood friend Alexandra (20s F) is getting married in the deep American south in early December. I live in the northeast, but we are both from the west coast, and grew up together as best friends. Around ten years ago after I moved out here, we naturally grew apart due to distance etc, but I still care about her very much.
As we got older though, Alexandra's political opinions started to heavily differ from mine and became a lot more conservative. I honestly didn't mind it so much as long as we rarely talked politics, but in the last couple years she got engaged to B (20s M), who is essentially a Q-anoner and conspiracy theorist, and she has now taken on all of his same opinions as him. This includes being extremely anti-vax.
I know COVID isn't considered as big of a deal anymore, but I still need to be careful, as my grandmother is over a hundred years old and my mom is diabetic. The fact that they have chosen to get married right before Christmas (the only time of year I go home to my family) and have an indoor wedding where NO ONE will be vaccinated is very concerning to me.
I brought this up to Alexandra a few months ago and she got really upset, stating she would be absolutely heartbroken if I decided to not attend her wedding, to the point where it felt like our entire friendship was on the line. I asked if I could just wear a mask the whole time and B interjected and said that would make people 'uncomfortable'. That attitude honestly cemented that I just really don't want to go to this thing if it means risking my mother's and grandmother's health. (It's especially sad too, because my mom was also like a second mom to her, and it feels really weird that she doesn't seem to care about her health in the grand scheme of things.) Still, whenever I've asked advice from even my most liberal-leaning friends, I get a bit of a side-eye and essentially am told that it would be pretty selfish of me not to attend, and that I should just suck it up and wear a mask if I really care about Alexandra.
She now keeps hitting me up to RSVP over and over, and I haven't responded yet because I just don't know what to do. I need to give her an answer by mid-June and am really struggling - I don't want to ruin my friendship with her, but I don't want to risk my family either. If I say I can't go, WIBTA?
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2023.05.30 23:33 SporadicEmoter How not to let a bad ending ruin my experience?

I went to a concert last night that I've been anticipating for months. It was great, I had fun, and saw my favourite artist.
After it ended, the lines to get on public transport were ridiculously long and there were only so many trains before the station shut for the night. The journey by train also would've taken me 90+ minutes. I decided to just call an Uber, accepting the price surge. After having a few cancel on me, I finally got one...then my phone died. I couldn't remember the license plate number. Mind you, it was on 40%, so low but it had never died on that before. I started to panic because my friend had already left. I asked two guys if they could help me and they were very kind, but not super helpful.
Eventually, I bit the bullet and hailed a taxi. I was more concerned in that moment about just getting home safe than the money. Nevertheless, it ended up costing me double what it would've to get home last night, had my phone not died.
It's also getting me down because my night was going so well. It feels like it ruined it, and I don't want it to. I'm trying to work more on positive thinking, but sometimes it just feels like bad things always happen to me.
Any advice on how to salvage the memory of an experience?
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2023.05.30 23:33 AquaSpaghetti 100 reasons why superfkr shouldnt commit suicide.

  1. We would miss you.
  2. It's not worth the regret. Either by yourself, if you failed or just simply left scars or the regret everyone else feels by not doing enough to help you.
  3. It does get better. Believe it or not, it will eventually get better. Sometimes you have to go through the storm to get to the rainbow.
  4. There's so much you would miss out on doing.
  5. There is always a reason to live. It might not be clear right now, but it is always there.
  6. So many people care, and it would hurt them if you hurt yourself.
  7. You ARE worth it. Don't let anyone, especially yourself, tell you otherwise.
  8. You are amazing.
  9. A time will come, once you've battled the toughest times of your life and are in ease once again, where you will be so glad that you decided to keep on living. You will emerge stronger from this all, and won't regret your choice to carry on with life. Because things always get better.
  10. What about all the things you've always wanted to do? What about the things you've planned, but never got around to doing? You can't do them when you're dead.
  11. I love you. Even if only one person loves you, that's still a reason to stay alive.
  12. You won't be able to listen to music if you die.
  13. Killing yourself is never worth it. You'll hurt both yourself and all the people you care about.
  14. There are so many people that would miss you, including me.
  15. You're preventing a future generation, YOUR KIDS, from even being born.
  16. How do you think your family would feel? Would it improve their lives if you died?
  17. You're gorgeous, amazing, and to someone you are perfect.
  18. Think about your favorite music artist, you'll never hear their voice again...
  19. You'll never have the feeling of walking into a warm building on a cold day
  20. Listening to incredibly loud music
  21. Being alive is just really good.
  22. Not being alive is really bad.
  23. Finding your soulmate.
  24. Red pandas
  25. Going to diners at three in the morning.
  26. Really soft pillows.
  27. Eating pizza in New York City.
  28. Proving people wrong with your success.
  29. Watching the jerks that doubted you fail at life.
  30. Seeing someone trip over a garbage can.
  31. Being able to help other people.
  32. Bonfires.
  33. Sitting on rooftops.
  34. Seeing every single country in the world.
  35. Going on road trips.
  36. You might win the lottery someday.
  37. Listening to music on a record player.
  38. Going to the top of the Eiffel Tower.
  39. Taking really cool pictures.
  40. Literally meeting thousands of new people.
  41. Hearing crazy stories.
  42. Telling crazy stories.
  43. Eating ice cream on a hot day.
  44. More Harry Potter books could come out, you never know.
  45. Traveling to another planet someday.
  46. Having an underwater house.
  47. Randomly running into your hero on the street.
  48. Having your own room at a fancy hotel.
  49. Trampolines.
  50. Think about your favorite movie, you'll never watch it again.
  51. Think about the feeling of laughing out loud in a public place because your best friend has just sent you an inside joke,
  52. Your survival will make the world better, even if it's for just one person or 20 or 100 or more.
  53. People do care.
  54. Treehouses
  55. Hanging out with your soul mate in a treehouse
  56. Snorting when you laugh and not caring who sees
  57. I don't even know you and I love you.
  58. I don't even know you and I care about you.
  59. Nobody is going to be like you ever, so embrace your uniqueness!
  60. You won't be here to experience the first cat world emperor.
  61. WHAT ABOUT FOOD?! YOU'LL MISS CHOCOLATE
  62. Starbucks.
  63. Hugs.
  64. Stargazing.
  65. You have a purpose, and it's up to you to find out what it is.
  66. You've changed somebody's life.
  67. You could change the world.
  68. You will meet the person that's perfect for you.
  69. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
  70. If you end your life, you're stopping yourself from achieving great things.
  71. Making snow angels.
  72. Making snowmen.
  73. Snowball fights.
  74. Life is what you make of it.
  75. Everybody has talent.
  76. Laughing until you cry.
  77. Having the ability to be sad means you have the ability to be happy.
  78. The world would not be the same if you didn't exist.
  79. It's possible to turn frowns, upside down
  80. Be yourself, don't take anyone's shit, and never let them take you alive.
  81. Heroes are ordinary people who make themselves extraordinary. Be your own hero.
  82. Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.
  83. One day your smile will be real.
  84. Having a really hot, relaxing bath after a stressful day.
  85. Lying on the grass and laughing at the clouds.
  86. Getting completely smashed with your best friends.
  87. Eating crazy food.
  88. Staying up all night watching your favorite films with a loved one.
  89. Sleeping in all day.
  90. Creating something you're proud of.
  91. You can look back on yourself 70 years later and be proud you didn't commit suicide.
  92. Being able to meet your Internet friends.
  93. Tea / Coffee / Hot Chocolate
  94. The new season of Sherlock
  95. Cuddling under the stars.
  96. Being stupid in public because you just can.
  97. If you are reading this then you are alive! Is there any more reason to smile?
  98. Being able to hug that one person you haven't seen in years
  99. People care enough about you and your future to come up with 100 reasons for you not to do this.
  100. But, the final and most important one is, just, being able to experience life. Because even if your life doesn't seem so great right now, anything could happen.
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2023.05.30 23:33 IOTSONLINE LionEnglish

We are looking for a fun, hard-working person to join our friendly team. Our team consists of 3 foreigner teachers and 3 bilingual Korean teachers. We focus on young learners at elementary school level and have designed a curriculum aimed at preparing our students for Cambridge YLE assessments.
Start date: ASAP or First Week of June ~ Third Week of June (Negotiable)
Job Description:
Full-time native English teacher responsible for teaching elementary students.
Monday ~ Friday :12:30 ~ 7:50
Up to 5.5 teaching hours per day plus preparation time each day.
Candidate requirements: Currently in Korea with F-type visa only Bachelors Degree or higher
Experience:
Some teaching experience required, working with young students preferred.
The ideal candidate will have a passion for education and a love of working with children.
You should have a good understanding of how to manage a classroom and the flexibility to manipulate lessons to meet the individual needs and levels of students. Patience, compassion, and the desire to build strong relationships with your students is important.
Enthusiasm and energy to incorporate into your lessons and the creativity to make learning fun.
Position Benefits include: Salary: 3.2 million won (Full Time), depending on experience
2 national insurances (Optional)
Paid vacation: (Summer Vacation and Winter Vacation) + national holidays
Why you should work with us: - Good location in Seoul (SEODAEMUN-GU)
- Fantastic kids in small class sizes (10 or fewer)
- Full training and support
- Interactive classroom materials - Salaries paid on time with employee record
- Special events - Build your career with support for external Cambridge teaching qualifications provided
If interested, please send the following information to manager at [lionenglish_[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
  1. Your current resume
  2. Current photo
  3. References or reference letters, if possible
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2023.05.30 23:31 iStarreh Advice needed for latex hybrid offerings

Hello Mattress!
Sorry for the long post, but I would really love any and all advice.
After spending most of the day trialing mattresses at local businesses, I think I have narrowed down my preferences. I tried 6 latex hybrid mattresses (more like mattresses with some latex in them lol) today and found them incredibly comfortable. However, the prices at these local stores seem to be a little higher than what I've found available online. At this point I'm torn if I should bite the bullet and go with the local mattress because I know I thoroughly enjoyed it in the store or if I should attempt to DIY or locate a similar mattress for a cheaper price. For reference, I am 5'4", 130lb, side/back sleeper.
The specs of the $1800 (Queen + boxspring) mattress I like:
  1. Polar touch stretch cover
  2. Spinal Zone swirl gel crown
  3. 2" natural Talalay latex
  4. CertiPUR premium high-density harvest foams (quote from the owner "at least 2.5-4lb density")
  5. 8" Responsive coils (website: "more than 800", in person: "Queen count 789"; owner says it's probably the same coils as the mattress below)
  6. Life Edge support system ("firmer edge support")
The specs of the $2100 (Queen + boxspring) mattress I like:
  1. Hand-tufted maximum cooling fabric cover
  2. Ecoloft fiber quilt
  3. HiLoft FR fibers
  4. High-density plant-based hyper foam
  5. 1" nanocoil layer (Queen 1,396; was told this is their most expensive layer)
  6. Natural Talalay latex (I forgot to ask how much was in this one)
  7. CertiPUR premium foam layers
  8. 8" QE + Spinal Zone flexelator with Dynamic edge (Queen count 789)
In the store I also tried a Harvest Green mattress which had 1" of dunlop at the bottom, 8" of coils, then 2" of dunlop and it was AWFUL. I placed a medium-ish 3" talalay topper (owner said "probably 20-30ILD") on it and it wasn't the worst but definitely still too firm. That made me wonder if the Latex Mattress Factory Luxerion mattress (the price!) might end up being too firm for me, even with a talalay or foam topper on it.
The mattresses were incredibly comfortable and I thoroughly enjoyed being on them. I just don't know if I can justify the prices or if there was a cheaper option (I was eyeing the SleepEZ hybrid but found it unnecessary to have a dual-sided mattress).
Additionally, at another store I tried a 7" talalay mattress (32 ILD ish?) which honestly didn't feel bad, though I did want a little bit more plushness on top of it. This made me wonder something: there is a local person selling a one-month-old used 9" Plushbeds Botanical Bliss mattress (6" dunlop core, 2" talalay comfort layer, 1" cotton cover) in medium for $500. Would it end up being better in the long run to just get that mattress and play around with adding toppers to that and forgo the warranty?
I know this was a lot of info, so if anyone has any input at all it would be much appreciated.
TL;DR: Do I get the expensive latex-foam-coil hybrid bed I tried in person and absolutely loved, try to find something similar but cheaper, or do I go for the $500 Plushbeds full-latex option near me and play around with that?
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2023.05.30 23:31 Cultural_Memory000 My system of magic, miracles or whatever you want to call it.

I created a magic system for one of my anthology comics stories that I think would go well with it, plus that particular story I plan to make it a standalone series of my anthology comics series.
In itself, magic in that world is basically a psychic ability that uses supernatural means to make changes in reality, but being a psychic ability it is subject to the health and state of the human brain, as well as to the state and mental health.
In itself, magic has two sources: the human brain and God.
It's basically a muscle: the more you have it, the stronger it is, but if you lift too much weight you're going to get injured, but in this case you'll have a stroke, mental illness and things like that. You have to remember that even stress can give you cancer.
It is very dangerous to practice magic if you are drugged, if you are sleepy, if you have mental problems, etc., in addition to trying something that is outside your current limits or contacting supernatural entities, since it will not only screw up your life, but also to many more. Just imagine Scarlet Witch or Carrie making her messes though you have to put magic powers on Carrie when she destroyed almost the whole town on prom night plus she died from using too many of her powers so it matches my system of magic.
In itself, although this magic system has limitations, it is a soft magic system, since there are no limits to how powerful it can be.
I did it this way since I can base myself on the human brain and what is known in mental health to put limitations and consequences on magic, make it more realistic and incidentally not so broken.
Babies when they are in the mother's womb cannot do very powerful magic since their magical muscle is not developed, babies and very young people have that muscle underdeveloped. That muscle begins to develop more intensely at puberty and is considered fully developed after 14 years of age. The more you train that magical muscle, the stronger it will be.
In the case of earthly humans, yes. The magic muscle weakens with age, as it is a natural biological prevention means to prevent people with senile dementia and other degenerative diseases of the brain due to old age from creating disasters. The muscle begins to weaken at high speed after the age of 50. Earth humans have magic since the year 2000 when babies with that ability were born, so no Earth magical humans have reached old age yet as not enough time has passed.
The muscle is not physical but at the same time it is, since part of its strength derives from the supernatural, from the brain's ability to use the supernatural to make changes in reality. The physical part of the muscle is the brain, more specifically an area of the brain developed for this purpose that is located in the frontal lobe and that extends in a series of neuronal ramifications throughout the brain. That part of the brain is called the arcane lobe.
By using this muscle, the heart rate increases and blood pressure rises, breathing becomes more intense, all this so that the brain has more oxygen, so that it has more energy to use magic, that leads to mental fatigue and physically from using a lot of magic constantly and without rest, since part of the body's nutrients will be consumed and the brain will be more stressed and tired from so much mental activity. It is recommended to replace the spent nutrients by eating nutritious food, resting, relaxing and sleeping.
Arcane lobe is a hereditary mutation.
Schools and colleges vary, most high schools and colleges have integrated compulsory courses to learn how to use magic correctly, there are specialized schools and colleges for that and other more professional ones. For the careers that need magic in a professional, specialized, constant or simply more face-to-face way, you should go to the most professional schools and faculties. In itself, learning to use magic correctly in specialized basic classes for that is mandatory to minimize the risks of that power.
Magic is very much incorporated into the world. It is very incorporated in Eden, which is a world connected to ours, and in our world it has been very incorporated since the year 2000 when the parallel world of Eden introduced that magical mutation to our world. Magic plays a fundamental role in the modern world, since the people who can use magic are 29% of the population, so there will be some people in the office who can turn on the light with magic, and there are specialized jobs that require magic. magical professionals. Magic and technology merged to create magical technology, so most things have magic built into them, and technological advances have come a long way since then.
Magic can manipulate reality itself but it depends on how strong the magical muscle of the person in question is, most are only capable of telekinesis, slight manipulation of matter, telepathy, creating illusions, some dreams that predict the future in a way unclear, slight precognition, remarkable intuition, and certain slight alterations in reality, such as the probabilities of events or alterations to the laws of physics such as reverse gravity, and use spells, incantations, etc., to do larger tasks. Others, however, can greatly alter reality at the city or even continent level with just their will, the most powerful can alter reality at a planetary level, although all help each other with spells to carry out larger tasks since spells are a way of channeling the mind to alter reality in a more powerful, stable and precise way (depending on the person with this ability and the spell in question as there are complicated spells that less prepared people are not ready to perform and it will end very badly ((in fact, using magic recklessly always ends incredibly badly)).
Magic can be done while asleep and is called involuntary magic, although this is a disorder that affects the arcane lobe, since the magical muscle is usually partially at rest during sleep and is only capable of performing precognitive dreams, warning you of a danger, telepathy that sometimes generates shared dreams, and so on.
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2023.05.30 23:30 reddit0r_9 Audi A3 8L - won't start - please help

I found out that my car draws 240 mA of current when it is off. When I pulled the fuse for the central locking / interior lighting (No 14), the consumption dropped to 0. Therefore I assume that the consumer is located here, correct?. Now the question: how can I now further narrow down what it is. The central locking and some lights still go even though the fuse was pulled, is this normal?
Thanks for the help.
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2023.05.30 23:30 Vegetable_Solid_6823 Help with my relationship please I don’t know what to do

Hello everyone, sorry for my bad English. Now I’m in times when I don’t know what to do. Here is my story me 23M and my girlfriend 19F having a 2 year relationship. We meet back to school 4 years ago and we were good friends. 2 years ago I invited her for date and things come out in good ways. First year was very great we never had any problems. First problem came when my brother found himself a girlfriend, later I found out she had conflict with her brother. She hated my brothers girlfriend because she can’t greet to her (to me same) and atc. but what can I do if she is stupid? I said it to my brother talk to her but it didn’t help. She is just stupid I can’t help her. Then she said she is using my brother, yes I talked to my brother about that but he have to find you. Then came the second problem, my girlfriend (it was not her fault) had problem with her sister. Who was the main problem? By my gf mother, me and my gf, because I’m using her (I don’t know how the hell), her mother also declared she (my gf) is ruining her life (with no reason, everytime before she said that, she will not go to her promotion, also she will move somewhere else from house and divorce because everyone is destroying her-and it was just one stupid problem). Then I had birthday and also was invated my brothers girlfriend, from that also problem came because from that reason my girlfriend didn’t wanted to came to my birthday and then it is also my fault. Then at november 2022 my father said shit thing to her 2 times, I discused it with my father do never say something to her like that. I talked about that also with her. My father agreed she was to our house 3 times and troubles didn’t came back with my father. At new year also problem came, she got into conflict with her mother with some little shit thing also about her sister, who was again the bad one? She (who didn’t do anything wrong) and me (who wasnt been there) so again shit thing were said by her mom that I just use her and I’m destoying her( my gf). But question is how the hell? 1,5 went by and we didn’t had normal conflict, I was messeging with her every day, every free time I had I was with her, we went out I paid, when she was ill I cared and was also with her, when she get into conflict with her mother and cried wiped away her tears, I never cheated or talked to other girl. So how the thing come out? Her mother messeged me to come help with my gf because she is crying hard, I just wondered me, The bad one? Who is “destroying” her. I love her more that anything I came that night but it hurt a lot. In january my gf starter to blame me, in her opinion because I planned that we could build house near my parents because we didn’t have to buy space, in summer she agreed now it was problem, I said okay we can think about something different so we can be happy, it was also problem that I wanted after school work in our shop and she wanted to move somewhere else from here, she said why I don’t want any other option, I said okay we can discuss out something. In end of February her mother get also in conflict now with her husband, she felt at night with car. I thought if she hates me some much maybe if I help her now, she will hopefully change, so I went with my gf to find her and we found her, she was greatful. I thought now thing will get right. I started to help to her sister with things so she also will stop hate me without reason. One day I went with her mother and she asked me why she don’t want to go to us (my gf). I said because she ( my gf) hate my brothers gf and my father and only my mom not. One week later my gf started to act strange. I found out she is writing with other male friends. To one of them she wrote how much I’m destroying her and that my family hate her because she said true about my brothers girlfriend(she didn’t said anything), I found it out when I was with her, it destroyed me I couldn’t say anything to her. Only thing was in my head, why me? When I’m giving her everything. Then about one week later she also get into conflict with her mother, because her mother claimed my mother is talking shits about her family. And how? because her friend is not talking that much to her so my gf mother for sure my mother said something shit about my girlfriends family. But no evidence, no examples what she said just claims. My gf mother started care about my gf (before everything was my gf fault in her life, she hated her) and started to talk shit about how bitch my mother is and how much my family want to destroy her family. I didn’t knew anything at that time about that. In April I had difficult times I was had lot of at university. I wrote just with my girlfriend everyday sometimes I was her, yes I was not too happy like before because I was extremely exhausted and tired from university. Then from that she got angry and said that I’m scum because of my family and I didn’t trust her because I first time I said I don’t believe my mother could say anything bad about her family because she always loved her. She said she need time I gave her I also was at her graduation and she invited me out, we also went out, messaged daily. One week ago she started me from no reason ignore. Next day I wrote if she want to get out she said we will discuss, at day nothing and next day also I said if she don’t want just say I’d don’t ignore me. Then she wrote I blame her for everything and she will ignore me. And here I’m. I’m destroyed mentally, I don’t know what to do I would like just to die. I love her so much I also had everything planned to move where she will be next year. What to do please help
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2023.05.30 23:28 DusanBisenic Image of the Shoah in international movies

Hello guys, me and my Uni Vienna colleagues have to produce a movie about the Shoah in internatinal film. (Films like the great dictator, the murderer is between us, le silence de la mer) We need help, we want to give "normal-guys" a voice in our movie. Of course we could ask professional Movie critisizers but it is very important to us, to ask people who are affected to such movies about holocaust or judaism after the 2nd World war. I would ask you guys to help us finish this important Project, we only have 1 Question, "What is your personal Opinion, about Holocaust-Movies which are produced after WWII? How do you feel as a Jewish Person when u see them?"
I Thank you all so much in advance and i hope you are willing to help us. King regards Dusan
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