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A subreddit dedicated to the unresolved paranormal, natural, and unexplained mysteries of the world. Submissions should outline a mystery, such as: Paranormal, UFOs, Ancient Cultures, Cryptozoology, Consciousness, Futurism, Fringe Science, and other Anomalies. Submissions should outline a mystery and provide a link to a more detailed review of the case such as a Wiki article or news report. Replies analyzing and speculating over the mystery and possible explanations are encouraged.
2023.04.01 12:09 nsfwfilm How to get over someone?
Itās been 2 months. NC since BU.
How do I get over her and move on?
Relationship was great until she blindsided me, so I donāt really have the usual āIām better without herā mentality, as sheās great and I still view her highly.
I keep seeing the usual ājust let her go and move onā, but how does one actually do that?
Iām already going to the gym, seeing friends and focusing on my degree.
Anything else I can do?
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How do I get over her and move on?
Relationship was great until she blindsided me, so I donāt really have the usual āIām better without herā mentality, as sheās great and I still view her highly.
I keep seeing the usual ājust let her go and move onā, but how does one actually do that?
Iām already going to the gym, seeing friends and focusing on my degree.
Anything else I can do?
2023.04.01 12:08 DifficultyEast5803 Her new album is her BEST album yet
Idk I just feel like these new songs are amazing. Thereās not one that I donāt play daily. Itās like the writing and the vocals have never been better more . The things sheās talking about the vocals, itās too good!!! It feels like she poured her love and really took her time with this. Iām playing it more than I even expected and I wish you roses has grew on me! At first It wasnāt my favorite but now???? I canāt stop playing it I love hasta cuando and moonlight/ worth a wait is my favorite too .. especially that ending on hasta cuando like she really popped off. Definitely my favorite from her so far!!!!
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2023.04.01 12:08 Hour-Bathroom-3283 I donāt know if this counts
When I was 13 I went to a summer camp when I was alone in a room with a guy who I was met at the camp. I was standing on his bed playing games or something and he suddenly takes of my pants. Startled I ran out of the room but he was trying to tell me to stay saying that he wonāt rape me again. The next day or a few days after he came in my room trying to get me to masturbate with him. I was reluctant but I didnāt know how to react. He was bigger and stronger than me and forced my pants off. He started touching me and sucked my dick too. I touched him back because the feeling was good but I was still not sure of what was happening to me. He tried to forced his dick in my mouth but I didnāt let him do it and hand my teeth shut so he eventually gave up. The next day I went back to him asking him to suck my dick because I was immature and didnāt know what was happening besides knowing that it feels good. After he did it, he started holding it against me saying that heāll tell the others. He didnāt and the camp got over. I cried when I saw my parents and never told anyone in my family about it. I told a few of my friends at the time but even they were immature at the time and sort of held it over me like an embarrassing story that they didnāt tell anyone else. Btw a few days after we got back from camp he called me asking me to masturbate with him, I said no, blocked him and thought that he was out of my life. Today I saw him because a friend shared a post about acceptances to a nearby school and he was featured in that. I thought that he was just a remnant of the past but this feels weird again. Idk why Iām scared. Just scared of everything. Scared of seeing him succeed in life. Scared that heāll tell people. Scared that I might see him in person because I often go to that school. I donāt know what to do or how to react. I donāt know whatās happening. I donāt know how posting this will make me feel but Iām getting this off my chest.
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2023.04.01 12:07 Difficult-Willow7094 Spiralling thoughts after arguments
Hi all, Wondering if any of you might help with some steps you have found useful.
Just recently had an argument with my wife. Background: I live in my wifeās country and all people Iām close to are either her family or her friends.
Every time I have an argument with her I completed spiral. For example: I feel shitty for a comment I might have made, I feel judged and alone by the fact I have no one here that would āsideā with me. (I know that sides is not really a real thing but you know what I mean, itās her family and her friends, I will always be the āother oneā). I feel alone but at the same I want to be alone. Sometimes I feel that if I canāt make her happy than Iād rather no be here at all. I have thoughts about packing my stuff and leaving. Sometimes I feel to just go die somewhere in Ukraine helping them in their fight feeling that would be at least āsomewhat useful for someoneā. Note the term feel. My mind knows that Iām being an idiot. But thatās how I feel.
At the same time I know Iām a coward. It takes me 2-3 days to recover from this state, rejecting any attempt my wife or friends do to reach out, do something or even ātalk about itā. Iām a coward for not simply admitting that I might have said or did something incorrectly on the argument, apologise and move on and enjoy the rest of the day I sulk in my own misery closing myself up.
After a few days I act as I go over it, I act as if nothing happened. I hate myself through the entire thing but I canāt seem to be able to say yes. Am I too proud? Coward? I donāt know what to do.
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Just recently had an argument with my wife. Background: I live in my wifeās country and all people Iām close to are either her family or her friends.
Every time I have an argument with her I completed spiral. For example: I feel shitty for a comment I might have made, I feel judged and alone by the fact I have no one here that would āsideā with me. (I know that sides is not really a real thing but you know what I mean, itās her family and her friends, I will always be the āother oneā). I feel alone but at the same I want to be alone. Sometimes I feel that if I canāt make her happy than Iād rather no be here at all. I have thoughts about packing my stuff and leaving. Sometimes I feel to just go die somewhere in Ukraine helping them in their fight feeling that would be at least āsomewhat useful for someoneā. Note the term feel. My mind knows that Iām being an idiot. But thatās how I feel.
At the same time I know Iām a coward. It takes me 2-3 days to recover from this state, rejecting any attempt my wife or friends do to reach out, do something or even ātalk about itā. Iām a coward for not simply admitting that I might have said or did something incorrectly on the argument, apologise and move on and enjoy the rest of the day I sulk in my own misery closing myself up.
After a few days I act as I go over it, I act as if nothing happened. I hate myself through the entire thing but I canāt seem to be able to say yes. Am I too proud? Coward? I donāt know what to do.
2023.04.01 12:07 Liquorandthaxan Well family itās time
Ended up finding a ryab place I go at 10am today ā¦. They are gonna keep me for 3 weeks , I hope this works I really do. My biggest fear is getting out of it and going back to good ol vodka. Currently is 4AM and Iām quite scared to sleep cause I donāt wanna wake up again with vomit everywhere. I have a 1mg xan and also got 3 Antivan so Iām gonna take my Xanax and Ativan before going in. Also hiding .5 Xanax in my sock , they let me ge changed in a bathroom. Told the rehab Iāve Had lots of seizures, I know this is not a dry alcoholics sub but I like this sub. Iām so scared to go tomorrow. Love yalll hopefully u hear again. Fuck
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2023.04.01 12:07 ThrowRA1135309 I 22F donāt know if I love my 24M husband anymore.
My husband and I have been married for just under a year and weāve gone through a lot already. Even after some pretty ridiculous tribulations, like cheating, physical fights, and even jail, we always somehow manage to stay together. Weāve both seriously messed up and the blame isnāt on a single person. I really love and care about him, or else I wouldnāt have married him, but I donāt think that iām in love with him anymore. When weāre apart from each other I miss him, but at the same time after five minutes together I start to wish he never came over. 95% of the time we spend together he just seriously bugs me and acts like a kid. I constantly question why my feelings contradict themselves. I feel like Iāve finally come to a semi-conclusion as to why, and I believe itās because Iāve been growing up without him. We started dating when I was 18 and still in high school and he was adulting in the real world. Things felt natural because we were on the same wavelength mentally, but now that Iām older and not a brand new adult, iāve matured and he hasnāt done the same. I donāt want to leave him behind, but it feels like thatās the only solution now especially since I donāt feel like iām capable of reciprocating the same type of love anymore. He is extremely emotional and I know this would make him very upset. Does anyone have any advice as to how to express how iāve been feeling? Or if I should be doing something else to fix it? Thank you!
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2023.04.01 12:07 Lord_Tom_of_Essex How was r/Place a year ago?!!?
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2023.04.01 12:07 doodlearm my mom wants to see my art
I was basically raised to be an artist. Due to the current stressors of surviving the world right now I havenāt done it much. I have been unemployed and very nervous, I keep texting her āwhat ifsā on degrees I could get or ways to scrape by. She asks when the world will see my art. She says itās good I want to work but sheās worried that I havenāt made anything. I keep thinking up positions and degrees that will keep me hired but she wants me to paint. I wanted to paint too a long time ago. Every time i start sketching I feel deep guilt and fear that Iām not applying for jobs. I really just want to draw. I want to so bad. But artists are useless to society unless we want to make a company logo or advertisement. I think she can see that im losing myself in the rat race. These are the worst growing pains.
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2023.04.01 12:07 ThrowRAthirstytwerk How can I overcome being thirsty?
When I go clubbing or go out to meet women I feel like I come across as very eager or thirsty. I donāt know what to do about that. I havenāt been touched by a woman in years. I think I actually am thirsty because of that and I canāt hide that Iām excited to want to get close to a woman. It keeps me up late at night sometimes.
I just wish that I wasnāt so awkward and thirsty. Itās like guys who are successful with women just get more successful because they get sex and romance so theyāre not thirsty for it. Guys like me are literally shaking trying to talk to girls because I have no idea of this girl will finally be the one to change my life. I know that sounds desperate but I am.
Tl;dr I am too thirsty
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I just wish that I wasnāt so awkward and thirsty. Itās like guys who are successful with women just get more successful because they get sex and romance so theyāre not thirsty for it. Guys like me are literally shaking trying to talk to girls because I have no idea of this girl will finally be the one to change my life. I know that sounds desperate but I am.
Tl;dr I am too thirsty
2023.04.01 12:07 RecognitionOk3366 AITA for blowing snapping at my parents during a family trip?
I, 15m am a student in dubai, UAE. I am currently on spring break and my parents told me a day before Sunday that we will go to Australia and New Zealand for 3 weeks (my holiday is 2 weeks). I had already made plans with all my friends for small trips around the country that I would have paid with my own money. Not to mention that the week after the break I have some big exams that would determine my career. They tell me ātoo bad youāre coming with usā. I complain a bit, but oblige. I know they just want to spend time with me but this is getting out of hand. After we landed, they took my phone and said that Iām not getting it back until the end of the holiday. I complain again a bit, but oblige. The first week was not bad. A lot of beautiful views, trios and all that. But I found out that my parents have tried to block my friends and try to make them hate me because āthis holiday is all about us. You donāt need themā. At this point, I just snap. I start yelling āIām done with this. All this trip all you do is make fun of me for missing my friends and wanting to be in school. You guys are making me miss the most important week of my school year for a holiday that I never even agreed to. I would have had no problem if you guys at least let me message my friends or even just be in school on time. But no, you guys had to just keep me here for yourselves.ā I am currently using a public computer to message this but my mom is still crying and my dad is fuming. I feel a bit bad for this but I feel like I did the right decision. AITA?
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2023.04.01 12:06 knoeppi81 Short breath normal?
 | Our boy Poldi is now 8 months old not castrated yet, 6.5kg (14.3lb). So far no health issues except some digestive problems right after he moved in. submitted by knoeppi81 to mainecoons [link] [comments] We took him with us on a city trip last week and, because he spent a lot of time alone in the hotel room, bought a laser pointer to work him out fast after we returned late from exploring the city. Now back home I noticed that he gets quite out of breath during play with laser pointer (which we rarely use - mostly using a stick with some strings attached rhat he can chase - no worries). Yesterday after 5-10 minutes of chasing the lp he was panting like a dog. And had to lay down. For another 10 or so minutes he would start panting again if we made him stand up and walk for a few meters then lay down again. I noticed this before when he would be hunting sun reflections on the floor eg. from my watch but didnāt think much. Now Iām a little worried if this is normal due to him still growing or could be a sign of heart issues. Anyone else had this experience at that age? Is he too fat? Growing too fast? See pictures with objects for scale (didnt find a banana). Or am I thinking too much? |
2023.04.01 12:06 ThrowRAthirstytwerk I feel so thirsty
When I go clubbing or go out to meet women I feel like I come across as very eager or thirsty. I donāt know what to do about that. I havenāt been touched by a woman in years. I think I actually am thirsty because of that and I canāt hide that Iām excited to want to get close to a woman. It keeps me up late at night sometimes.
I just wish that I wasnāt so awkward and thirsty. Itās like guys who are successful with women just get more successful because they get sex and romance so theyāre not thirsty for it. Guys like me are literally shaking trying to talk to girls because I have no idea of this girl will finally be the one to change my life. I know that sounds desperate but I am.
Tl;dr I am too thirsty
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I just wish that I wasnāt so awkward and thirsty. Itās like guys who are successful with women just get more successful because they get sex and romance so theyāre not thirsty for it. Guys like me are literally shaking trying to talk to girls because I have no idea of this girl will finally be the one to change my life. I know that sounds desperate but I am.
Tl;dr I am too thirsty
2023.04.01 12:06 TomorrowLazy Oh man how I wish I could go back in time and beat the shit out of 16 year old me for selling my 96ā Accord knowing now what I couldāve done with it and how simply nice of car it wasā¦
 | I know it doesnāt seem like much because it wasnāt- but the possibilities eat me alive. I bought it for $300CAD from a kid in college that never drove it on salt roads (lived in Alberta they donāt use it), only 80 000 clicks, zero rust or any other body damage and seats still had lumbar support it was driven so littleā¦ all I did was un-sieze the wheel, jump it, and drove it home. submitted by TomorrowLazy to JDM [link] [comments] Ended up selling it because my dad caught me smoking weed in it lmao said it was either I sold it or if he caught me smoking again heād call the cops š of course 16 year old me didnāt choose the latter because all my āfriendsā smoked hahaha god I was stupid. Thoughts? What wouldāve you done to it? Flip it? Keep it? Lmk how dumb I was lol Iām bored and want to open a conversation on this š¤£šÆ |
2023.04.01 12:06 TrainerAppropriate19 Do most women like shitty guys?
I (M 19) am sorry in advance if this sounds like one of those ānice guysā vs ābad boysā posts. Iām not asking if āwomen like bad boysā. I know that there are women that do and women that donāt. But do most of them like shitty guys? Iām 19 and in college and it seems like that. Also on Reddit and everywhere else on the internet I see more posts saying that women like bad men than vice versa. And then thereās the whole āthey choose good guys when theyāre youngerā thing. And it kind of scares me to an extent because I wouldnāt want to be with someone because they wanted to just āsettleā with me after making bad decisions in their younger days. And I get it, people from both genders do choose bad partners unknowingly sometimes. But if most women, as the internet claims, choose to be with shitty guys then I donāt know how to feel. Because I am personally scared of accidentally ending up with a bad person, let alone choosing to be with one. This is not something I believe is a fact or anything but after seeing this topic discussed on the internet so many times, I have been a little anxious. Is it really true that most women choose to be with shitty men?
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2023.04.01 12:06 JBradley_BradleyJ People who are ābad at replyingā, why?
Perhaps Iām just different, but I reply to every text and message I get within seconds/minutes. Whereas some people take hours or all day. In some cases it could be that they donāt want to reply to me, and thatās fair. Whatās your reasoning?
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2023.04.01 12:06 Putrid_Ad9819 Eating fist after 8 years of being a vegan
In my research all I found were vegetarians taking about how fish affected their body and maybe Iām not looking hard enough but I havenāt really found any help with my questions. I tried salmon at age 20 and I went completely plant-based at barely 13. The salmon was fine and other than the classic weird adjustment to the texture, smell, and taste it wasnāt bad. It sat in my stomach fine, the only difference was I felt a different type of full than in the past. I probably ate around 100g and could barely stomach it from fullness alone. This morning my stomach felt like it had rocks in it and I was going to vomit. I worked out and everything was fine other than mild discomfort but the fishy taste is awful. It may sound stupid because itās fish so obviously but I didnāt expect it to taste like I chugged 5 gallons of lake water. Anyways, hopefully the discomfort and bad taste goes away but I wanted to share my experience. I looked around before trying fish to seen what Iād be in for and nothing really helped when it really came down to the fact. Maybe starting with less fish will help when transitioning to more options in your diet. Although I definitely think salmon was a good choice since Iāve read it pretty easy to stomach fish wise.
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2023.04.01 12:06 churningtildeath The fact farm animals are killed makes the quality of their life meaningless.
Iām not a vegetarian. I eat lots of meat and I even have tried the carnivorediet. Many people think that animals that are meant for consumption should still be treated with a 5 star lifestyle, like a dog or a cat would have.
My roomate criticized me for eating āTysonā brand chicken because of the way they treat their chickens and how they never step foot outside. I couldnāt care less because at the end of the day Iām pro human and animals that are gonna be my lunch always take a back seat.
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My roomate criticized me for eating āTysonā brand chicken because of the way they treat their chickens and how they never step foot outside. I couldnāt care less because at the end of the day Iām pro human and animals that are gonna be my lunch always take a back seat.
2023.04.01 12:06 ThrowRAthirstytwerk (M21) I feel so thirsty when it comes to dating (F21) women. How can I deal with that?
When I go clubbing or go out to meet women I feel like I come across as very eager or thirsty. I donāt know what to do about that. I havenāt been touched by a woman in years. I think I actually am thirsty because of that and I canāt hide that Iām excited to want to get close to a woman. It keeps me up late at night sometimes.
I just wish that I wasnāt so awkward and thirsty. Itās like guys who are successful with women just get more successful because they get sex and romance so theyāre not thirsty for it. Guys like me are literally shaking trying to talk to girls because I have no idea of this girl will finally be the one to change my life. I know that sounds desperate but I am.
Tl;dr I am too thirsty
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I just wish that I wasnāt so awkward and thirsty. Itās like guys who are successful with women just get more successful because they get sex and romance so theyāre not thirsty for it. Guys like me are literally shaking trying to talk to girls because I have no idea of this girl will finally be the one to change my life. I know that sounds desperate but I am.
Tl;dr I am too thirsty
2023.04.01 12:06 mrausgor Supercard of Honor Replay
How do I watch a ROH Replay? FITE is saying itās not available in my territory (Iām US West Coast, Iām in the actual territory of the event lol). Am I doing something wrong or is just not available yet?
Sorry if this is a repost, a search didnāt provide any hits and Iām trying like a mad lad not to get spoiled.
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Sorry if this is a repost, a search didnāt provide any hits and Iām trying like a mad lad not to get spoiled.
2023.04.01 12:05 Bones_7745 45 [M4F] #Georgia Attractive married dad seeking a sweet playful girl
Iām 45 and married. Iām wanting an online relationship with a younger cute girl. Have you ever wanted the excitement of flirting and having a relationship with a married man? Does the thought of taking something thatās not yours appeal to you? Do you love the thought of taking his attention away from his wife? If so, then we should chat.
Most women would find me very attractive. I have tattoos and piercings. Iām looking for a girl that is serious and can devote time to this. I have plenty of time to devote to our relationship and will match your effort. Iām friendly and respectful so if this is your first time trying an older guy then I would be a perfect fit for you. Take a chance. Message me. I think you would love the dynamic of an older married man. Or if you just need a father figure, I can play that role as well. Canāt wait to hear from you!
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Most women would find me very attractive. I have tattoos and piercings. Iām looking for a girl that is serious and can devote time to this. I have plenty of time to devote to our relationship and will match your effort. Iām friendly and respectful so if this is your first time trying an older guy then I would be a perfect fit for you. Take a chance. Message me. I think you would love the dynamic of an older married man. Or if you just need a father figure, I can play that role as well. Canāt wait to hear from you!
2023.04.01 12:05 OtherwiseEggplant307 30 M UK - having a nice lay in, looking to chat with some new people [chat]
Sooo I really donāt want to get out of bed this morning, it was a long week now I wanna be a bit lazy
Would be great to chat with some new people and maybe make some new friends
Iām a pretty open person so all are welcome to chat about anything and everything š¤
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Would be great to chat with some new people and maybe make some new friends
Iām a pretty open person so all are welcome to chat about anything and everything š¤
2023.04.01 12:04 Digital_Slicer Help With Personality
So Iāve never had this issue before up until very recently, but I feel like thereās two drastically different versions of me stuck inside myself. One feels like myself, more laidback and mature, but the other one is just careless and immature. Itās kind of like a light switch and I donāt like that. I donāt know if Iām just out of tune with my emotions, but it feels like I canāt ever bring out that laidback side of me enough.
For extra context, I have anxiety, depression, and ADHD if any of those would have an effect on the situation.
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For extra context, I have anxiety, depression, and ADHD if any of those would have an effect on the situation.