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2023.06.07 11:45 info-Cosmocare345 Hair Botox Treatment Price in India

In recent years, the beauty and wellness industry has witnessed a surge in innovative hair treatments. One such popular procedure gaining attention is hair Botox treatment. Inspired by the success of Botox in facial rejuvenation, this innovative hair treatment has become a go-to solution for those seeking to revitalize and transform their hair. In this blog post, we will delve into the world of hair Botox treatment and explore its price range in India.

Understanding Hair Botox Treatment:

Hair Botox is a non-invasive cosmetic procedure aimed at repairing and revitalizing damaged or lackluster hair. Unlike traditional Botox injections used in facial procedures, hair Botox does not contain the neurotoxin found in facial Botox. Instead, it combines a unique blend of proteins, vitamins, and amino acids that penetrate the hair shaft, restoring and rejuvenating it from within.
The treatment works by filling in gaps and frayed cuticles, replenishing lost keratin, and improving the overall health and appearance of the hair. It can effectively address issues such as dryness, frizz, split ends, and lack of volume, leaving the hair smoother, shinier, and more manageable.

Factors Affecting Hair Botox Treatment Price:

Several factors contribute to the overall cost of hair Botox treatment in India. Here are some key factors to consider:
  1. Salon/Spa Reputation: The reputation and expertise of the salon or spa where you undergo the treatment can significantly impact the price. Well-established and renowned establishments may charge higher rates due to their brand value and quality of service.
  2. Location: The geographic location of the salon or spa also plays a role in determining the cost. Metropolitan cities and upscale areas generally have higher prices compared to smaller towns or suburban regions.
  3. Hair Length and Thickness: The length and thickness of your hair are crucial considerations. Longer or thicker hair may require more product and time, thus leading to higher costs.
  4. Additional Services: Some salons may offer additional services as part of the hair Botox treatment package. These could include haircuts, styling, deep conditioning, or specialized aftercare products. Such services can influence the overall price.

Average Hair Botox Treatment Price in India:

The cost of hair Botox treatment in India can vary significantly, ranging from approximately INR 3,000 to INR 10,000 or more. The price range depends on the factors mentioned above, as well as the expertise of the stylist and the products used.
It’s important to note that the cost mentioned above is an average estimate and can vary from salon to salon. It is always advisable to consult with a professional hairstylist or salon to get an accurate price quote based on your specific hair type and desired results.

Benefits of Hair Botox Treatment:

Hair Botox treatment offers several benefits, making it an appealing option for those seeking hair rejuvenation. Some key advantages include:
  1. Restores Hair Health: Hair Botox treatment repairs and nourishes damaged hair, improving its strength, elasticity, and overall health.
  2. Smooths and Reduces Frizz: The treatment smoothens the hair cuticles, minimizing frizz and enhancing manageability.
  3. Adds Shine and Luster: Hair Botox infuses the hair with essential nutrients, resulting in a healthy shine and lustrous appearance.
  4. Lasting Results: The effects of hair Botox treatment can last for several weeks or months, depending on individual hair care routines and maintenance.


Hair Botox treatment has emerged as a popular solution for rejuvenating and transforming dull and damaged hair. While the cost may vary based on several factors, it is essential to remember that quality and expertise are paramount when undergoing any cosmetic procedure. Consultation with a professional hairstylist or salon is crucial to determine the exact hair Botox treatment price and tailor it to your specific needs. Invest in your hair’s health and beauty, and unlock the secret to gorgeous, revitalized locks with hair Botox treatment in India. Contact us at to know more…
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2023.06.07 11:45 AutoNewsAdmin [World] - Air India plane flying to San Francisco lands in Russia after engine problem, US citizens 'likely' onboard

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2023.06.07 11:44 a_complicated_soul Me(m) and my best friend(f) have weird ass relationship

We met in college. Instantly became close. She had a boyfriend back then and with her being older and looks much better than me, from day 1 i decided i have no chance romantically with her. Since i am extreme introvert and mentally in dark place back then enjoyed her company and she became my best friend. Even i helped her a lot and she also consider me her best friend. We are extrmely close and everyone in our college thought we are a couple.
So then college ended, covid came but we still used to talk daily all through lockdown. Then we got jobs in same city and we moved in to same appartment. We got even more close. And these days she even changes her dress infront of me, even i started doing it. We sleep in same room when her boyfriend isnt staying over. We even cuddle sometime.
But thing is i have no interest to be her BF or marry her. As i feel she is with someone who is good for her. We both will most probably get married by end of this year. But i surely miss living with her and this weird relationship.
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2023.06.07 11:44 AutoNewsAdmin [Video] - Dam collapse brings added danger to frontline city of Kherson

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2023.06.07 11:44 bajie90 加州一名性侵小学生的禽兽老师被判了150年监禁。六名受害学生,一人被赔偿1250万美金,另五人各被赔偿800万美金。60%的罚金由市政府出,40%的罚金由学区出。这个老师其实只是一名课后助理老师,典型临时工。

加州一名性侵小学生的禽兽老师被判了150年监禁。六名受害学生,一人被赔偿1250万美金,另五人各被赔偿800万美金。60%的罚金由市政府出,40%的罚金由学区出。这个老师其实只是一名课后助理老师,典型临时工。 submitted by bajie90 to weibo_one [link] [comments]

2023.06.07 11:44 OkRice10 Road-trip to rural Taiwan

I have two days (this weekend) and a car - where should I go to see Taiwan outside of big cities?
I googled the usual places such the Sun Moon lake and the national parks, which look nice, but I’d rather drive around and see “Taiwan outside of big cities”, whatever that might be.
Any suggestions?
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2023.06.07 11:43 Unikym Mr. Autofire Серпентра и орда Serpentra and horde #mrautofire

Mr. Autofire Серпентра и орда Serpentra and horde #mrautofire
Записал видео в событии орда новым героем На данный момент играть им не рекомендуются Окаменевшие летающие монстры падают на башню и наносят урон Способность скорее мешает чем помогает
Recorded a video in the horde event with a new hero At the moment, they are not recommended to play Petrified flying monsters fall on the tower and cause damage The ability hinders rather than helps
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2023.06.07 11:43 Traditional_Fill_459 Refining standalone techno modular

I've spent a while tweaking my standalone techno modular:
It's used mainly for jam sessions with friends but also the occasional live set. It's intended to allow some reasonable amount of preparation of sets beforehand, but also some playability on the fly to still allow for surprises and to respond to what other players are doing.
It's working pretty well but I'm interested to get your views on whether there's anything that could be improved.
I like to keep it patched in the same config all the time so that the workflow is consistent and the wires can be channeled between the upper and lower row of modules so that they're out of the way. I use Tendrils to further improve ergonomics.
The ES9 is in there not only to integrate the modular with the laptop when I'm at home but also as a multi input sound card so I can plug in my other external gear.
The idea behind the modular is that the Constellation and LXR together provide quite a playable drum unit with the pattern switching on the Constellation and the morphing on the LXR. The Kickain provides the kick and sidechaining for the mix send on the Performance Mixer.
The Bitbox is used to play synced loops for things that are harder to do in modular such as longer pads and atmospheres, additional percussion, speech etc. Triggered using the touchscreen.
Synth voices:
The Dimension plus Flux and Beehive plus Freak are the two main synth voices with the Bitbox and LXR providing one more each if needed. The A-140 provides the envelopes for both the main voices.
The Ghost is the main FX processor and is on send-1 from the Performance mixer returning into the mix-in inputs on the mixer. The Golden Master is in the mixer's send loop after the Kickain and provides overall mix compression and EQ. The DVCA is used to tame the send from the mixer as it's too hot for the Kickain and causes it to clip (in a bad way).
The Constellation provides triggers for the synth voices and the Varigate 4+ provides 4 channels of quantised CV. Both allow me to save patches but also tweak on the fly.
The Tetrapad plus Tete are the main CV controller to allow on the fly capture of modulation as well as hands on playability. They are routed to control the filters, wavetable position on the Dimension, timbre on the Beehive, a CV input on the BitBox, two CV inputs on the LXR and one CV input on Pam's.Pam's can be used to generate LFOs as well, scaled by the CV input so that they can be controlled from the Tetrapad.
Most jam sessions are Ableton Link based so the ML:2 is used to provide clock and run to Pam's which then clocks the sequencers, Tete and the delay time on Ghost.
I have a load of other modules (lockdown madness) so have plenty of options to play around with but this is the best config that I've managed so far in terms of playability and fun.
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2023.06.07 11:42 FlagFootballSaint Unbalanced ELF: Will (...insert low-level team...) ever have a chance to compete?

As a life-long Enthroners fan (for a week now) and having attended the Enthroners-Thunder game and having watched some of RHE-FRA or RAI-RAV I don't see how low-end teams like Enthroners or Lions would ever have a chance to be a relevant player in the ELF.
They don't have the money. They don't have the appeal. They don't have the sponsors.
Fehervar will never top 2000 attendance (gentle reminder: it was 1200 on Saturday, not 1800), Prague will barely be able to reach that etc....
On the other side sone teams in Germany draw 5-digit numbers and sexy franchises like Rhein or sexy cities like Paris draw major talents (if Rhein or Paris and Fehervar knock on your door: Will you pick Fehervar)?
Long story short: If the 2023 trend of "sexy Franchises" stockpiling talent and money continues, the ELF will become a boring league and sooner or later the low-end teams will drop out.
The way out:
a) Stop expanding into areas where Football does not have a substantial local fanbase. If a location never cracked 2000-3000 this location should not even be considered.
b) Increase support for the low-end teams. The worse the team is the more options you should give them, including moving money from well-off teams to low-end teams (eg fund travels) or additional A/E-slots to keep them competitive
c) Play the hard game regarding financials. If any team overspends or bypasses the salary cap "just because they can", punish them hard
How do you think this league could become balanced long-term?
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2023.06.07 11:42 Macca_321 Cooked food delivery service for elderly Dad. Does such a thing exist?

Hi all,
I'm not even sure such a thing exists, but my 78 year old Dad has lost quite a lot of weight recently, as he is (self admittedly!) quite lazy when it comes to cooking, and doesn't want to put effort into a big meal when it's just him.
I would happily cook meals for him, but I live in another city and don't drive.
Does anyone know of a service which delivers cooked meals directly to home addresses? I'd be happy to pay, I'd just like him to gain a little weight back as his new frailty is a bit worrying.
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2023.06.07 11:41 serhatmemelord1 Cant fly anyone want to trade

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2023.06.07 11:41 harshverma2001 Which address should I put in DS160 application?

I am an Indian. I got my passport issued 5 years ago in my old apartment, so my passport has that address. I have moved from there to another apartment in the city, have been living here since 3 years. Which address should I mention in the DS160 form for F1 visa? Thanks
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2023.06.07 11:41 9Pierre_Total5 Finished an ADHD-episode at 3:08AM

1a. ADHD is like having 20 different storylines all going on at once in your head and you have to choose which one you will actually follow, like the main storyline, but you keep on changing storylines while they all continue so you keep missing vital steps in each and everyone of them to do (like when you have to do different tasks). You don't just see all the storylines in your head but you hear your voice speaking in all of them, about whatever it is they might be talking about. Wauw I just arrived home from an hour-walk from a friend's house, after arriving there from a barbeque at another friend's home in another city which I went towards after I got done with work. I came inside my appartment and instantly started to roll a joint and I was having the storylines-"problem" in my head and just decided to write down what was going on in my head, then decided I needed to explain myself as to why I decided to write this text, so I proceeded to type this text to explain myself. I got done working at 18u30 (6:30PM). I arrived at the barbeque at 20u30 (8:30PM), stayed there untill 12'ish (midnight), got to the friends place at 12:45, took are time to smoke a spliff (also rolled one for on the way home), left there at 1u30 AM. It's 2:50 now and I am going to go on and roll my joint, hoping I don't get distracted, like I just did...
2:52 ; just re-read the text for small errors.
2:55 ; got distracted again.
1b. 3:03 ; got done rolling the joint, but just at the end I just thought of something; people WITHOUT ADHD, when they have to do tasks, they have one storyline with all the different tasks in a logical order, while people WITH ADHD have all the tasks as seperate storylines just going on all at once in your head so you get stuck in choosing which one you will actually do first.
1c. The amount of storylines can fluxuate, since if you "hypothetically" would be smoking a joint outside on the terrace, there is only so much stuff you could actually do, while when you are walking on the street in a big city, the storylines are endless.
2. If I come around at your place, I WILL forget something.
  1. Opening the cabinet twice because I need 2 things from the same cabinet
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2023.06.07 11:40 Refill22 UL Pack Advice - airplane carry-on compliant

Hi looking for some UL/Lightweight pack advice. I've previously used framed packs most recently Osprey Atmos 65 and looking to get smaller and lighter. Cost of checking a bag with most airlines is now £50+ each way and so I'm looking for a pack with ~50L capacity that I can take on some airplanes (BA, Virgin etc. but not RyanaiEasyjet) as carry-on. That means it needs to be packable to 56 cms length (and ~35cm x 25cm other dimensions). Even smaller framed packs like the Osprey Exos 48L usually exceed the length (eg the Exos 48 is ~59cms at is shortest length without brain).
  1. I assume most frameless roll top UL packs can be made to be <55cms height by rolling the top down (obv this assumes pack not full as when I fly will not have gas, trekking poles, food etc in the pack)?
  2. Any recommendations for reasonably priced framed packs that might satisfy my criteria (can the Naturehike Rock be packed to fit within cabin bag size limits of 56x36x25 - this review suggests dimensions of 53x26x18 which sort of answers my question but does anyone have actual experience of taking this pack as carry on? Any other framed packs besides the NH?)
  3. If I set you a challenge to buy a UL/lightweight pack (framed or frameless) for long-distance hiking that was carry on compliant, between 45-60L capacity, with unlimited budget but still trying to choose something you thought was good value and comfortable, what would you choose?
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2023.06.07 11:40 eqinsuranceservice Protecting Your Home and Peace of Mind: Earthquake Home Insurance in California

Protecting Your Home and Peace of Mind: Earthquake Home Insurance in California
California, known for its stunning coastline, thriving cities, and beautiful landscapes, is also a state prone to seismic activity. With its location on the Pacific Ring of Fire, earthquakes are a natural occurrence that residents need to be prepared for. In the face of potential devastation, it is crucial for homeowners in California to understand the importance of earthquake home insurance. This article aims to shed light on earthquake home insurance in California, its significance, and the factors to consider when obtaining coverage.

Protecting Your Home

Understanding Earthquake Home Insurance

Earthquake home insurance, also known as earthquake insurance or seismic coverage, is a specialized form of insurance designed to protect homeowners from financial loss resulting from earthquake damage. Unlike standard homeowner's insurance policies, earthquake insurance specifically addresses the unique risks associated with seismic events.

Coverage and Benefits

Earthquake insurance typically covers structural damage to your home, as well as damage to personal belongings caused by an earthquake. Additionally, it can provide coverage for additional living expenses if your home becomes uninhabitable due to earthquake damage, such as temporary housing and food expenses. The coverage limit and deductible for earthquake insurance policies can vary widely. It's essential to evaluate your needs and select coverage that adequately protects your home and possessions. Some policies may also offer optional endorsements to cover specific items or structures, such as swimming pools, detached garages, or outbuildings.

Factors to Consider

1. Risk Assessment: California is a vast state with varying levels of seismic activity. The proximity to fault lines, historical earthquake data, and geological assessments of the region can help determine the risk level for your property. Evaluating the potential risk in your area is crucial in deciding the coverage you require.
2. Building Type: The construction and structural integrity of your home play a significant role in determining your insurance needs. Older homes, for example, may require additional coverage due to potential vulnerabilities. Retrofitting measures, such as bolting, bracing, or reinforcing your home's foundation, can also impact your insurance rates.
3. Coverage Limits and Deductibles: It is essential to carefully review the coverage limits and deductibles offered by different insurance providers. Consider the replacement value of your home and possessions to determine the appropriate coverage amount. Be mindful of deductibles as well, as they represent the amount you would need to pay out of pocket before insurance coverage kicks in.

Earthquake Home Insurance in California
4. Cost vs. Benefit: Assessing the cost of earthquake insurance against the potential benefits is crucial. Compare the premium costs with the estimated cost of rebuilding or repairing your home in the event of an earthquake. Keep in mind that insurance costs can vary based on factors such as location, construction type, and coverage limits.
5. Exclusions and Limitations: Like any insurance policy, earthquake insurance also has exclusions and limitations. It's crucial to understand what is covered and what is not. For instance, some policies may not cover landslides or damage resulting from other earth movements. Reviewing policy details and asking questions to insurance providers can help clarify any uncertainties.


Given California's high seismic activity, protecting your home and belongings with earthquake insurance is a prudent decision. Earthquakes can strike without warning, leaving behind a trail of destruction and financial burden. With earthquake home insurance, you can gain peace of mind, knowing that you are financially safeguarded against potential losses.
When considering earthquake insurance in California, it's crucial to assess the risk level in your area, understand your coverage needs, and carefully compare policies from different insurance providers. By taking proactive measures and securing earthquake home insurance, you can ensure that your home and your family's well-being are protected in the event of a seismic event.
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2023.06.07 11:40 kyogonogo Celtic target Enzo Maresca’s future is unlikely to be decided before Saturday’s Champions League final, with Leicester City now also showing an interest. Celtic’s board are also considering Ipswich Town manager Kieran McKenna in their hunt for a new manager.

Celtic target Enzo Maresca’s future is unlikely to be decided before Saturday’s Champions League final, with Leicester City now also showing an interest. Celtic’s board are also considering Ipswich Town manager Kieran McKenna in their hunt for a new manager. submitted by kyogonogo to CelticFC [link] [comments]

2023.06.07 11:40 ogreatgames Smashing Drive: Action Racing - Gamecube Game

Smashing Drive: Action Racing - Gamecube Game

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Smashing Drive for Nintendo Gamecube. Step hard on your engines because in this game, what matters is accuracy. Drive a taxi cab and use a turbo boost to surpass your opponents in the vibrant New York City. Players' scores are based on how fast they reached the destination - the faster you arrive, the higher score they can achieve. Complete several stages, collect power-ups, and use the infamous Sonic Horn Blast to beat the traffic. Surpass challenging levels, including Early Bird, Rush Hour, and Night Owl. --
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2023.06.07 11:40 SugaryToast Drake the type to wait until the pastor says “Do you take this woman to be your lawfully wedded wife” to reply “I… can’t 😔” leaving everyone at his beach wedding speechless as he walks off into the sunset alone

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2023.06.07 11:39 crazybrat22 LLB in big law

After completing a Cambridge law degree (LLB), can I take the bar and practice law in any city I want? Would I be able to work in big law as an attorney? Or would they prefer someone who has a JD? Also, what would the estimated salary be? Can I get a similar salary to JD graduates from Ivy League?
After graduating, I want to return to new york or abu dhabi. Would my chances be good there?
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2023.06.07 11:39 StoryStash Can you actually dial down feelings for someone?

TLDR: met a girl in another country. It’s the definition of a situationship, but I caught feelings, which makes me uninterested in dating other women. However I don’t want to pause my dating life for a situationship that is gonna lead nowhere, especially not because it’s long distance and we only see each other for a week every 3-4 months. How can I dial down my feelings for her, so I can continue this situationship, while I also can keep dating other girls? This is my first (long distance) situationship and I need some advice with handling feelings. I (31m) met Elza (30f) in her country about a year ago. We had a one night stand, and the day after she sent me incredibly long messages about how she was 6 months out of a toxic relationship and was in therapy to learn to love herself again, and that I made her feel the most beautiful version of herself since very long time. Wonderful messages to receive of course and for me the sex was really amazing, which led to us meeting for another time two days later before I had to fly back. Afterwards we kept in touch, but it was very casual. No daily messages or video calls like most long distance “couples”. We met up in person twice, once I flew to her and once she came to me. When she came to me, I even got an hotel in another city, to really show this was 100% casual. We basically only left the hotel room to get lunch and dinner. Then after a few days we admitted we wanted to see each other again fast. She invited me over and so I flew back, but this week felt less casual than our times together before. She had to work some days, so it felt like a normal relationship at some times. She introduced me to her parents and some friends. We bought gifts for each other: I gave her a sex toy she always wanted, and she gave me an expensive bracelet, to show the difference. Car rides were filled with deeper, more personal talks, like about countries we would like to live in and if we (not together) would like to have children in the future. Not all these subjects came from her, I also started thinking more and more if this could lead anywhere serious, so I was getting more and more curious in her future plans. However, we never really talked about us. Nobody asked “so what are we?“. We didn’t even talk about going exclusive. I kept dating other girls, and while we did not talk about it, I assumed she did see other guys as well. However after the last time we met, I noticed I was finding it more and more difficult to date other girls. Both from a moral view (it felt like cheating, even tho it wasn’t), but I also unfairly kept comparing my dates to Elza. So yeah, safe to say I caught feelings. She visited me once more, and while we both had to work some days, it was pure magic. I was falling in love hard. Then two weeks ago I was about to go on a three week solo roadtrip with my motorcycle, and the night before I left we had another video call. It was fun as usual, but at some point she tells me to make sure to bring enough condoms with me on the trip. We made comments like that before, especially in the beginning, to focus on how casual our situationship is. I thought it was a good moment to talk about "our future". She admitted she thought about it a lot too. For her it basically boiled down to: if I was born in her country, we were probably already engaged by now. But as I’m not, she doesn’t feel it can ever be serious. Her family doesn’t talk English, she could never move to another country, she saw a lot of hurdles, which are valid. To be really honest, I saw these hurdles too but I could already imagine me living in her apartment, doing my daily duolingo lessons to learn her language. She didn’t see any reason to make our situationship exclusive, but she said she hasn’t been dating after the second time I visited her, because she doesn’t need it. She did meet another guy recently who was perfect on paper, but she also kept comparing him to me, so she wasn't really attracted to him. But as it is now, it feels like our situationship will go on until she meets or I meet another person that we would actually want to go exclusive with. And as I don’t feel the need to date other girls, it’s basically me waiting until she tells me it’s over, which I’m not comfortable with at all. So I went on my roadtrip, and got a few dates, but it still didn’t feel right. So, for me it comes down to: I don’t want to pause my (dating) life for a situationship that will lead to nowhere. However, the only solution I see is breaking up with Elza, go through a period of grief but then afterwards I can start dating other people again. That would hurt like shit, and it feels like an overly dramatic choice. I'm perfectly aware that "forcing" her in a relationship is absolutely not possible and generally a very bad idea. Is there a way for me to again become less invested in Elza, so I can actually date other people while I keep in contact with her and see her in person every few months and we have an amazing time?
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2023.06.07 11:39 deathbygluten_ what would you say to an 18yr old girl trying to find her path in life?

*TW: SH, eating disorder, suicide*
TL;DR: my little sister is having a complicated and stressful transition to adulthood, i want to know what others might say to her during a time like this
apologies this is long but even if nobody reads it i had to get it all down somewhere, being the family therapist is tiring.
i’m 23 and big sister to the coolest, smartest, most gorgeous 18 yr old sister ever. our 16 ur old brother is the golden child, we both readily admit he’s way more chill and far cooler than us lol. unfortunately for my sister, she’s grown up with a pretty hard road of mental health issues, including multiple stays in behavioral hospitals, severe self harm, food restriction/anorexic tendencies, and several suicide attempts. she’s been in therapy from age 12, medicated since 13. recently she’s gotten in trouble for drinking at school and admitted to me that she’s smoking weed nearly every day. she also described to me stronger feelings of what sounds like DP/DR. if i could bear it all for her i would genuinely do it in a heartbeat.
here’s the thing. she’s got two weeks left of high school and has been working like hell to get her grades up to passing so she can graduate. she really wants this and i know she will achieve it, but school has always been hard for her so her emotions are all over the place with all this stress. it has also taken a toll on my family to help make everything happen in time for graduation—though i will say i’m proud of us all for how quickly and strongly we’ve each rallied around her despite our own plates already overflowing. we’ve been there for meetings with teachers, cops, and school admin, helped with catch-up tests, assignments, and homework, went to family therapy sessions with her reg therapist, as well as helping her thru a night of borderline alcohol poisoning… all in the past threee weeks.
tensions are kinda high with everyone because we’re all helping in so many ways to get her to the finish line (esp spicy btwn her and mom rn), and she seems to be in constant crisis about what happens next. our parents want her to live at home or on campus (20 min across town) and use the year of college they had prepaid for her when she was a child. it’s not so much about going to succeed or do well, just going to have tried it, to see if the experience is for her. she wants to move out on her own and start working immediately, but we’ve talked about how that’s not exactly feasible in our city—plus, she can’t drive yet so getting to a job is harder.
i just want her to focus on enjoying her summer, celebrate the win of graduating for a bit, then start the positive steps she says she wants to do that are good building blocks for any path, like get her license, find a part time job, practice managing her own money, etc. if she wants to keep working or try college it’s ultimately her decision and i know we will all have her back either way.
she’s just having so many struggles with purpose, identity, self image, self esteem, self confidence—more than i did, so i feel lost in guiding her… i just wish i could wave a magic wand and show her how awesome she is, how much better life gets once you’re out of the high school bubble and in a new setting. i tell her all this often but it doesn’t really stick—which i get, all that positive stuff sounded like a bunch of hooey to me at 18.
internet family people, what message do you think she should/would hear the most?
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2023.06.07 11:39 thebossofme888 I really hope that Neon have

Large enough that tall buildings on the other end when viewed from the entrance would be greatly affected by atmospheric perspective. Complex alleyways fully detailed and with secrets of their own like New Vegas but on the scale and detail of Cyberpunk 2077. Multiple floors like Blade Runner's city of high rises. Detailed weathering of walls, grime, etc. Windows that glow with light as night approaches. Ambient noise like conversations, doors opening, dogs barking, ships docking, large structures creaking, etc to have a zen-like immersion. Variety of shops for guns, food, clothing like Yakuza.
A bethesda made night city is what we need.
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