Michael's pizza bar and grill

Maybe it is just me and I am socially awkward, but when I am in a bar or pub, sometimes I am not sure if someone is open to interaction. So I made an app where you can long press on someone's profile and see if they are open to interaction. Users are ordered by proximity in your immediate vicinity, so that's how the people on top in the app would be closest to you.
Users post their outfit of the day and content resets at midnight, so the app is basically a digital version of your real local environment. If you want to check it out, feedback would be appreciated. Here is the detailed listing: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/%C3%B3%C3%B2td/id1497395972
Also I don't want to pretend like this can only be used in Canterbury. However, users in Canterbury will only be able to see other users in Canterbury/local area.

Hi reddit.
Throwaway account bc it feels like a sensitive situation.
I work in a small retail store in a fairly small town. We sell fairly expensive product, though we try our best to make everything as affordable as we can. It's a nice job, I needed it when it was offered to me, I got it against all odds, and it has to do with the field I want to make a career and life in. I started out super excited and now about six months in I literally dread going to work every day. I can't wait to get out at the end of every day, just because of this one coworker.
For context, I'm 24 and work with a handful of other people including the coworker in question, who's in his 50's. When I started he seemed really nice and wanted to take me under his wing and show me the ropes. And that quickly became me doing the majority of his job while he took the credit for it, and the rest of this mess.
I already felt weird about him because his walk didn't match his talk at work. We don't have any managers but he acts like one because he orders most of our product. But he literally barely does anything until he wants to look like he is. He sits up in his corner or his office and avoids helping with customers. Every now and then when product comes in he'll act busy and huff and puff and curse under his breath as he goes past us and customers. He's gotten in trouble before for cursing and yelling when customers are in the store. Has rage fits where he's thrown expensive product over his head to "move" it and broken things doing this. And literally every other person at our company does not like him, but they don't really fire people?? So he's still here.
I don't have a car and was walking to work every day for a few months without telling anyone, because I didn't want to make anyone go out of their way. But then I started having sleeping issues and not showing up as early as I used to and people started seeing me walk around the corner. So this coworker started offering me rides, and I took them every now and then at first because it meant I didn't have to walk every day. When more people started finding out I got more offers too, but he was always the first to text me in the mornings and it was fine at first.
Since he also freelances in the field I want to go into, he started inviting me to events he was working, having me help him with his equipment while driving to venues and watch "how the old guys do it" all the while telling me stories about other girls he'd take to do this, though always with the caveat, "Never anything below the belt." And I started to really get the skeevies, have avoided these kinds of trips since.
I've been made aware that he has used the company credit card to make personal purchases -- including sex toys for his wife?? who also works in the company btw -- and have them delivered to the store, then he just pays back the company over time. And he spends WAY too much of our bosses' money anyway buying product we don't need, or buying too much product that we physically don't have space for. Like recently a buy in for a company was around $35k at max for the products we needed and he made an order for $70k including a ton of product that is over the price range we try to keep in stock for our customer base. Like stuff we probably won't sell for years. It's just gonna sit in our back room with tons of other expensive stuff we keep there "until someone asks about it" but only get pulled out for people to see them and leave.
He leaves work early all the time, has an excuse to take off almost every weekend so the rest of us always have to work them. We've handled it well, and can handle ourselves, so that bit's just annoying. But it somehow it just feels like it gets worse every day.
Because then, on days where just he and I would be working, he started bringing up sexual topics. Now I can get close to people and talk about that stuff but I have specific childhood trauma related to older men and after they'd known me for awhile I'd opened up a bit to my immediate coworkers about it. So when it happened the first time and he started talking about porn him and his wife watched and his opinions on BDSM?? I told him politely that I didn't really like to get into these conversations because I wasn't in a good spot to talk about it. He continued, and because we had hours of work left and there's not much I can do without leaving my post, I just kinda sat through it with small additions to conversation until either the phone rang or a customer came in and I had a reason to get up/leave the conversation.
Then he started inviting me to their house saying we could cook dinner and he could show me music and stuff. I haven't accepted that. Then it got to the point where he was still inviting me to events and saying I could go with him and stay at their house and just come to work the next morning.
One time my dumbass left my phone at work and walked to my roommate's job to ask to use theirs to contact coworkers because I was scared about being home alone where we live with no way to call for help if i landed in an emergency situation. He was the only one who answered and after I used my roommate's car to get home (bc they wouldn't let me walk lol) he coordinated getting my phone with my roommate and showed up to their job to ask which apartment at our complex I lived in. My roomie was like, "Oh I can take it home to them when I get off!" To which this man responded, "No, I'd feel better if I just went and dropped it off myself." I, sitting alone at home, got a knock on the door and it was him, saying, "Special Delivery!" And smiling. Very kind, I'm very appreciative, but it feels weird with the context of everything else.
I've stopped taking rides from him so much recently and I think it's upset him. He's been a lot more pissy at work. I felt bad about still taking rides from him when I felt uncomfortable, but I really wanted to stop when he showed me a song saying, "I wanted to show it to you because I know we have similar trauma." And I don't want to play trauma olympics, but this man is referring to both of us having had left the same religion in our pasts. For context, he chose to leave because it didn't sit right with him anymore. I had sex for the first time when I was 18 and had to publicly step down from my leadership position and got put through what was basically a "redemption program" I ended up defecting from because it was so dehumanizing. It felt a lil more than mildly insulting after I'd opened up to him about some of what I'd been through.
My roommates watched me go from being excited about work to not talking about it at all, and when I finally told them what was going on they won't let me take rides from him and are driving me to and from work. My other coworkers just found out he's been inviting me to stay at their house and they're appalled and trying to get me to talk to our bosses about it.
Last week one of said other coworkers went to our boss about his rage fits and that led to a non-directed talk to all of us by our owner that was basically, "We want everyone to be happy coming to work, if you're unhappy please come talk to us." But it was worded in a way where I don't think he knew it was about him.
So now I'm getting a little pressure to take my situation to them because the doors have been opened for me to do so.
I'm just scared. Because I've been through far worse and know that I can handle it, albeit my being uncomfortable. I know how to navigate situations with creepy men, I used to work restaurants in the bar scene here. But the only people with authority in our company is our owner and co owner, and they're pretty hands off because they actively work alongside everyone else too while running everything.
If I do say something, what if they don't do anything? He's made it through so many fireable offenses without being fired, how would this be any different? Plus I feel bad thinking about the prospect of someone potentially losing their livelihood just because I, a person who has been here 6 months, is uncomfortable. If I speak up and nothing happens, what if the work environment becomes more uncomfortable and hostile?
So here's my question. Should I talk to my bosses, and if so how should I go about it? Should I just stay quiet and deal with it? Is there some kind of middle ground I'm not considering?
Thank you for reading if you got this far and thank you for any advice that may be offered in advance <3

What is the general ruling on cooking outdoors? Been looking around Berlin.de, and the only thing they have is on BBQing. Like what is the consensus on an electric grill? Or using an electric hob?

Hi everyone, I’ve been reading all of the related posts that I can find so I’m starting to get an idea of what to expect from my first trip to the Baltics: - Unfortunately not the best time to go with lots of construction but oh well :/ - Also have to be somewhat careful with the local “gopniks” - There’s a nice swamp somewhere (cue Shrek) - Cool bar with fun and easy to learn dances in Riga (maybe still exists?)
I know there is a lot of debate over which city to visit so I’m going to see all of them over two weeks. I’ll have a weekend in Vilnius (which seems to get a bit less love) then to Riga and then to Tallinn.
So my questions are: 1. Can I get around fine by bus/train or is a car a must? 2. What things outside of the city are must dos? And if so, just a day trip or to stay a night? 3. Any other must/should dos? 4. Must try foods or drinks? 5. I usually love trying to meet up with people of where I visit instead of just hanging out with other foreigners in hostels and such, but I don’t know anyone from the Baltics. Anyone fancy a pint, first round on me!

Hello,
I have no idea what to do, and I am very afraid.
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I am afraid that if I come out, I will be jailed for a crime I – supposedly, under duress and under circumstances we couldn’t change at all, committed. I am afraid that because I waited so long – and still waiting – to report this, that I will be blamed for my silence, and because I am the only one able or willing to come out about it. So, I am here to vent it out, to see if anything can be done. I do not want to be barred from leaving this country over something that if I could have stopped, I would have.
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For some background, my family is an odd one. My mother, Annette, is a highly religious woman (cult-ish is better wording), who has done every kind of abuse to me under the sun, except for but toeing the line of sexual abuse. She has triangulated my family against each other, with only her being the “good one”. She made herself as close to a god as one can try to make themselves out to be. She was able to keep me away from the police, as we’ve had some bad experiences in the past (the only ones I remember were traffic issues, but they were bad enough to leave a taste in my mouth), not to mention she was paranoid to the point she thought she was being gang stalked.
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My sister, Annamarie, is similarly terrible, doing the same things Annette had, with beating me, starving me, yelling and screaming, and many other things. She neglected my disabled sister, to the point of her being emaciated.
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Our other sister, Aquamarine, is disabled heavily, as she can’t talk, has limited mobility, and – as infantilizing as this may sound, but the most compacted way I can explain it – she is like a toddler in mental age and capabilities.
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And my father, who has done every abuse too, including sexual, but our feelings about him are complicated. It’s harder to hate a dead man who was murdered by my mother, especially when she got worse once she got away with it. I’m getting ahead of myself though.
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I have audio recordings of what happened, the area it was recorded in is a one-party consent state, but it allows for some lead up and a time frame. I will have to be a little vague, as I am worried the police will track me and… well, I would rather not find out what happens if I’m to be locked up in a room with nothing to do but be afraid of intimidating police officers screaming at me for 48 hours.
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We lived in a house where there were three houses, two storage units, and whatever extra knickknacks my mom continued to buy all rolled into one house; we were basically hoarders. We had boxes everywhere with tiny trails between the six- and seven-feet walls of boxes, we had mice and rats, we had insects, and it was constantly dirty. We did not have an A/C or working evaporate cooler, which is extra bad in Arizona summers. And the worst part about this is, my father is diabetic.
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In June, my mother and I had left to go to Flagstaff in Arizona, and we had been there the entire day and for some of the night. By the time we got back, my dad was severely dehydrated, and my sister had refused to refrigerate the Gatorade we provided, so he didn’t drink it. In the end, he ended up falling into a coma.
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After this, we loaded him into a car, everyone got into it, and we all left for Phoenix, and then later into California. For at least an entire 24 hours, we were stuck in a heavily cramped car, in a hot area, with very little water breaks, and just running around like a chicken with its head cut off.
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My mother did not go to a hospital. Between Arizona and California, my sister and my mother told me that they heard my dad “burp” while I was asleep between AZ and CA, which I suppose would be a death groan. I do not know which state his death happened in.After an entire day driving around in the hot California heat, going through hell’s half acre, we ended up in Blythe, CA, and to a hospital, where he was pronounced dead. A police officer harassed us for several minutes while we were attempting to sleep, before we were finally allowed to rest. Afterwards, we drove all the way to Arizona, and the abuse ramped tenfold until I finally left.
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I do not know where my disabled sister is, and I don’t doubt she might be currently being abused. I do not know where my sister and my mom went; all I know is that they stayed in Arizona. I do not know if my dad has a life insurance policy, or how to request a death certificate; all I know is that his death was ruled out as a heart failure, instead of murder via intentional medical neglect, and that my mother was very happy and “thanked god that my father is now burning in hell”. Suffice it to say, it was very much intentional.
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I have moved far away, and I do not have the time nor funds to go back, even if I wanted to – as I’ve left things I want to gain back, such as awards, childhood toys, and such. I do not think I can report it here. I do not know if I should, even at the risk of my disabled sister’s health. I have called CPS, but they have not been able to find anyone at the house. I have voice recordings, but I have yet to redact any information that might be too identifying, though if anyone is interested, I might get around to that.
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I also don’t have money to blow out the wazoo for lawyers, especially not for two in two different states. I don’t want to be locked up in a pen for the rest of my days, and I do not have any family members I can get into contact with to help, as I’ve never met any of them in any years I remember them, much less contact them.
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I may end up being a silent victim, because it is too much of a risk to myself for me to speak up. Any advice will be appreciated. I may answer questions, but I will probably stay vague for my own safety. I hope this all made sense.

Judgement Day 2006 (Smackdown)
Date: May 21st
Location: US Airlines Arena, Phoenix, Arizona
Attendance: 14,000
Commentators: Michael Cole & Tazz
Card:
WWE Tag Team Championships
Paul London & Brian Kendrick (c) vs MnM
Cruiserweight Championship
Kid Kash (c) vs Chavo Guerrero
Finlay vs Undertaker (Finlay attacks Taker with the shelailaigh on an episode of Smackdown and says he wants to take on the toughest bastard in the yard. Taker accepts because he wants revenge for the attack)
United States Championship
JBL (c) vs Chris Benoit (This is JBLs final match for about 2 years)
Matt Hardy vs Mark Henry
King Of The Ring Final
Bobby Lashley vs Booker T
World Heavyweight Championship
Rey Mysterio (c) vs Kurt Angle (Angle cashes in his rematch clause and turns heel on Rey; saying that the big gold belt belongs around the waist of the Olympic Gold Medalist and Rey is competing well outside his weight class. Mysterio wants to continue living his dream)
One Night Stand 2006 (ECW)
Date: June 11th
Location: Hammerstein Ballroom, New York City, New York
Attendance: 2,460
Commentator: Joey Styles
Card:
Mike Awesome vs Psicosis
Tommy Dreamer vs Jerry Lawler
FBI vs Super Crazy & Tajiri
Rhyno vs Randy Orton
Sabu vs Raven (CM Punk debuts towards the end of the match and helps Raven win. He is revealed on the first episode of ECW as Raven's new follower)
Kurt Angle cuts an anti-ECW promo in the ring before being caned by the Sandman and choked out by Tazz. Angle is carried out on a stretcher. This is his last appearance in WWE for 11 years
Edge vs Mick Foley (The match from WrestleMania 22 IRL)
Masoto Tanaka vs Balls Mahoney
WWE Championship
Rob Van Dam vs John Cena (c) (RVD announces beforehand that he'll be cashing in his MITB contract at this PPV. He wins clean this time, no interference from Edge. On the first episode of Hardcore TV, RVD cuts the WWE Championship equivalent of the Shane Douglas "they can all kiss my arse" promo and vacates the belt and is rewarded with the revived ECW Championship. A tournament is declared on Raw for the vacant championship)
Notes:

• The spinner belt is retired after One Night Stand and the Winged Eagle belt is brought back instead
• Hardcore TV airs on WWE.com in this timeline
• All episodes of ECW are at the ECW Arena, though PPVs still move around

Vengeance 2006 (Raw)
Date: June 25th
Location: Charlotte Bobcats Arena, Charlotte, North Carolina
Attendance: 6,800
Card:
Quarter-finals:
Edge vs Kane
John Cena vs Ric Flair
Big Show vs Shelton Benjamin
Triple H vs Shawn Michaels
Intercontinental Championship
Gregory Helms (c) vs Johnny Nitro
Semi-finals
Edge vs John Cena
Shawn Michaels vs Shelton Benjamin
World Tag Team Championships
Lance Cade & Trevor Murdoch vs Carlito & Chris Masters (c)
Umaga vs Eugene
Final
Edge vs Shelton Benjamin
Great American Bash 2006 (Smackdown)
Date: July 23rd
Location: Conseco Field House, Indianapolis, Indiana
Attendance: 9,750
Commentators: Michael Cole & JBL
Card:
WWE Tag Team Championships
Paul London & Brian Kendrick (c) vs 3 Count (Jamie Noble & Shannon Moore)
Cruiserweight Championship
Chavo Guerrero (c) vs Jimmy Wang Yang
Triple threat for United States Championship
Finlay vs Bobby Lashley vs Chris Benoit (c)
Matt Hardy vs William Regal
Boogeyman vs Mr Kennedy
#1 contender for World Heavyweight Championship
Batista vs King Booker (Batista returns on the Smackdown after Vengeance and says he wants to take back the belt he never lost. Booker interupts and says he won KOTR therefore he's rightful #1 contender and Batista cant just waltz back onto smackdown after doing nothing for 8 months and demand to be #1 contender. Teddy Long makes this match to settle the issue. Match ends in a double DQ)
World Heavyweight Championship
Undertaker vs Rey Mysterio (c) (Taker wins a battle royal on Smackdown to earn this shot. Rey isnt scared of him and says its not the size of the dog in the fight, its the size of the fight in the dog. Taker admires Reys courage but says all the courage in the world wont save him from the deadman.)
Heatwave 2006 (ECW)

• ECW hold a PPV every 3-4 months in the same month as a big 4

Date: August 13th
Location: War Memorial Auditorium, Fort Lauderdale, Florida
Attendance: 1,800
Commentators: Joey Styles & Mick Foley
Card:
Tournament Final for revived ECW Tag Team Championships
Danny Doring & Roadkill vs Impact Players
Jerry Lynn vs Mike Knox
Psicosis vs Hardcore Holly
4 way elimination match to determine #1 contender for ECW Championship
Tajiri vs Super Crazy vs Kid Kash vs Mike Awesome
Balls Mahoney vs Matt Striker
Tommy Dreamer vs Masoto Tanaka
Raven W/CM Punk vs Sabu (Sabu demands a rematch after ONS. Raven accepts and gets Punk to do his bidding in the build-up)
Sandman vs Marcus Cor Von W/Taz
ECW Championship
Rhino vs Rob Van Dam (c) (Rhino gores RVD on an episode of Hardcore TV and says he was the last OG ECW Champion and as far hes concerned still is as he never lost the belt. RVD says Rhino is right but wants to show him who the current champion is by kicking his arse)
Summerslam 2006 (Raw and Smackdown)
Date: August 20th
Location: TD Banknorth Garden, Boston, Massachusetts
Attendance: 16,168
Commentators: JR & Jerry Lawler (Raw); Michael Cole & JBL (Smackdown)
Card:
Triple threat for Intercontinental Championship
Johnny Nitro (c) vs Gregory Helms vs Mystery opponent (Returning Jeff Hardy)
Great Khali vs Undertaker
United States Championship
Mark Henry vs Bobby Lashley (c)
Kane vs Umaga
WWE Tag Team Championships
William Regal & Finlay vs Paul London & Brian Kendrick (c)
Women's Championship
Mickie James (c) vs Lita
Mr Kennedy vs Chris Benoit
World Tag Team Championships
Carlito & Chris Masters (c) vs Triple H & Shawn Michaels
Triple Threat match for World Heavyweight Championship
Rey Mysterio (c) vs Batista vs King Booker (After the non-finish at GAB, Teddy Long makes this match. Batista wants the belt back that he never lost, Booker wants to be champ again and Mysterio is willing to take on all comers)
Fatal 4 way for WWE Championship
Randy Orton vs Shelton Benjamin (c) vs Edge vs John Cena (Cena and Edge want to destroy each other; Orton gets added to the match after pinning Benjamin on Raw and says he wants to end Benjamin's reign before it gets started and Benjamin wants to continue proving he's the best athlete in the business)

I’ll go first and then wait for the cringe to roll in!
I used to work in a famous restaurant in Belfast City Centre in the early 2000’s. I was ‘silver service’ so I set the tables, cleared them, got drinks and helped in the kitchen. One day there was a birthday party booked and they’d brought a toddler with them. I was busy flitting from table to table during the evening rush. When it calmed down a little bit, I caught a breather before collecting glasses from the party table. The toddler was standing on one of the seats with his back to me and as I was reaching over to pick up a glass, I rubbed him on the head and asked the lady next to him, “How old is he? He’s lovely!” She glared at me, as did the rest of the party as I made my way round the table. Only when I got to facing the toddler did I realise he was an adult man with dwarfism!
Being an immature teenager, I balked at my mistake, brought the glasses to the bar for cleaning and told my boss I needed to go home because I felt sick. It was kinda the truth! Haven’t done that again.
So let’s hear them :)

I've started searching for podcast episodes featuring interesting outdoor adventurers, it's great to listen to these while travelling to or from hiking and rock climbing destinations. It seems like Peter doesn't have many of these guests? Would love your suggestions, the 2 so far that I'm aware of are Tom Bilyeu (Quest Nutrition) and Michael Easter (Comfort Crisis).

I was up in the local District Court on a minor matter there last week (first time in my 30+ years I've ever set foot inside a court building) and had to sit through a load of cases. I thought people on here would find it interesting. Despite some of the nonsense that goes on with Judges like Nolan and Dempsey I thought the Judge here was quite fair.
Now, apparently the day I was down is the day of the week when there's nobody even from the DPP there, it's just the Gardaí prosecuting so it's quite informal and nothing too serious up. Nobody on the day I was there, of the approx 80 cases I witnessed was sent to jail. It was mainly fines and community service orders. There was also a few cases thrown out for either no witnesses or no gardaí showing up. The people who were down in the cells and had been in custody from the night previous were simply being released on bail so we didn't get much info on what happened with them.
So here's a summary :
1 – A 20 year old guy was up for breach of Covid guidelines from 2 years ago. He pled guilty and explained that he had just started college and was working in a bar. Both were closed and so he was just sitting at home in his parents house bored. He went out in his car to purchase a Playstation 5 that was advertised on DoneDeal. Gardaí pulled him over, took his name etc.. and he was summoned to court. Judge was less than impressed that her time was being wasted on this. She crticised Gardaí for not just issuing a fine. As he had pled guilty she let him off with a €100 charity donation and the probabtion action.
2 – A middle-aged guy who worked in a factory. He was charged with criminal damage. Circumstances weren't really clear but sounded like a broken window or something during a row. Guy had no legal representation and told judge “I just want to plead guilty, I can't afford a solicitor”. The Judge explained he could get free legal aid but he said he was working and didn't think he was entitled to that. Judge asked him if what he worked at and he said in a factory. “Do you own the factory?” she asked and he said “no, so then she explained to him that he was entitled to legal aid and told him she wouldn't accept a guilty plea to charges from someone who had no legal representation. She asked the Gardaí to tell her was he “at risk” (I assume that meant of a prison sentence) and the Garda said not in his view. Anyway she told him she'd adjourn it to another day and he was to come back and deal with it.
3 – A woman in her 30s was up for walking out of a grocery shop with a trolley full of stuff without paying. She pled guilty. Turned out at the time she had left her husband and was in sheltered domestic violence accommodation with her daughter. As she had no job at the time she had no money to purchase groceries. Probabtion report was furnished pointing out she was now in employment and had an apartment for herself and her kid. Judge convicted her and gave her a small fine.
4 – Two young lads in tracksuits were up on drugs possession charges and dangerous driving. Garda didn't show up. Judge asked for an explanation and Gardaí told her that the prosecuting Garda had moved to Cyprus for a year. Judge seemed annoyed and was asking when the Garda found out he was moving to Cyrpus and the Garda Prosecutor said only recently. She seemed exasperated and told them “it's your lucky day lads” and struck case out.
5 – A guy was up for for driving without insurance. He was already banned from driving and had 6 previous convictions, 3 of which were suspended prison sentences for motoring offences. He pled guilty and got a €400 fine and community service.
5 – A guy who had been convicted and banned from driving for dangerous driving was up for sentencing. Judge had viewed probation report. His lawyer made him stand up and pointed out that he had set up his own car valeting service “look you can see he has his logo on his workwear and everything, now obviously they have to bring the cars to him”. Judge accepted he had done well and fined him.
6 – Homeless woman was up for fraud. She had been going into the bank and taking out large withdrawals from her mother's account. Think it was €8000 in total. Turned out on the third attempt a bank teller who knew her mother twigged what was going on and called Gardaí. Her mother had asked Gardaí not to charge her daughter. Judge ordered a probation report be prepared before sentencing and her to attend a drugs programme. Also explained to her that if she could repay the money before that date then that would stand to her.
7 – Next up was a young guy in for sentencing for dangerous driving and driving without insurance. He had been ordered on a previous occasion to attend and complete a driver training course before sentencing. Turns out he didn't show up to it. He claimed his bus didn't show up and second time he had no explanation. Judge asked him was he working and he said he wasn't. Judge said if he wasn't working and had no education classes to attend then he had no excuse and convicted him and banend from driving for 2 years along with €450 fine.
8 – Another guy up on dangerous driving along with cannabis possession. Think he had caused an minor accident. Pled guilty and judge fined him €400 and ordered him to complete a driver awareness course.

on pizza oven i saw a mod called "jam vs pizza tower" i decided to download the newest version and it was pretty good, not as good as the eevee mod though

Like the title said, then after I got it when I checked, there is some rust on the metal bar?(the one behind the fan) Seller said that the card were used for gaming for around 1.5 year
https://imgur.com/a/03qob2A
And then I ran 3Dmark time spy and got
Time Spy Score: 9910
graphics score: 10500
CPU Score: 6669 (R5 3600)
max value of HWmonitor:
https://imgur.com/a/N172SAp
Is it normal or should I return it? It still had official warranty though.

In my junior year, it was honestly kind of traumatic due to the bullying i endured. I wouldnt say i’m ugly at all, but it definitely took a toll on me.
There was a senior, lets call her Jess. Jess hated me. I’m pretty sure it was because her boyfriend at the time had a crush on me, but i never reciprocated the feelings back.
I had a friend group with Jess, and 4 other boys, lets call them Michael, John, Finn, and my boyfriend at the time, lets call him Xaiver.
I never had the best relationship with Jess, since we were the only 2 girls in a small private school. My closest friend there was Michael, and my boyfriend Xaiver.
One day, Xaiver just randomly texted me a bunch of screenshots, calling them “fake insert swear word here” for what they did to me. I was very confused.
Turns out, there were 5 whole pages on Discord of them just talking mad shit about my looks, my body, etc. It spanned for over a week. I was devastated. Jess was the ringleader, talking about my clothes, how i show too much skin, and how no boy would ever want me because i’m not society’s beauty standard. How im a disgusting word that reddit does not allow.
From that point on, i was isolated and on my own with Xavier, until we broke up 3 months later. I didnt even do anything. I was the quiet kid in my school.
Now, after 8 months of isolation, they want to be my friend again, because Jess dropped them and got kicked out of her home for dating a 27 year old. I dont know what to do.

My kindergartener fell off the monkey bars at school and broke her arm. This was not school negligence, or faulty playground equipment, it was just an accident. As far as I know, the school did everything they should have done; there was a teacher observing, who helped my daughter up and did a quick check. She must have been riding off shock and adrenaline, because it took about 2 minutes for the pain/tears to kick in, after which the teacher walked her to the nurse.
The nurse called home and I knew it was bad. A trip to Urgent Care confirmed our suspicions by taking an x-ray. The P.A. recommended we transfer to a children’s hospital for further care and surgery, which we did. She had surgery last week and returned to class this week.
My request for advice is this… is the school responsible for the accident, or at least responsible for any of the doctor bills? Should I seek an attorney to help me with this matter? I am not experienced with legal issues, and I don’t want to blame the school for an accident, but I am anticipating the hospital fees. We carry a high-deductible insurance policy, and surely the insurance company will want their $7,500 (total annual deductible for family)before they pay their portion.

This is what I have https://www.heb.com/product-detail/h-e-b-beef-sirloin-fajitas-butterflied-usda-select/461109
Time and temp suggestions and also....
In the past when I've cooked beef fajitas (skirt steak), I marinated before throwing on the grill. Should I marinate this sirloin?
When should I season?
And FWIW, will be using Instant Pot Pro sous vide function.
Thanks in advance for your help.

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People-pleaser looking for sage advice from those with shinier spines and sharper tongues than mine. I struggle with confrontation (but am working on it).
My MIL and FIL have a tendency of constantly layering conversations with guilt and it makes me so uncomfortable.
I’ve brought this up to DH and he basically is immune to the comments, stating that they don’t bother him because “I’ve grown up with this all my life.” And he is more able to roll his eyes and shrug it off. He said he doesn’t want me to be upset, so he will start calling his parents out. We have the basic rule of ~you handle your family and I’ll handle mine~ which usually works well. However with these comments, it seems like DH is so accustomed to them, he doesn’t even really notice them. Meanwhile to me I get the visceral reaction of touching a hot iron because I’m not really used to guilting in my family dynamic.
Moral of the story, I need to get better at replying in the moment with “comebacks” on my own instead of relying on DH. Basically stand my ground without imploding the in-law relationship. Particularly because, we’d probably see them MORE if they didn’t make comments like these.
A small sampling, so you can understand where I’m coming from:

1. new years day FIL to DH: I can’t believe you didn’t call your mother at midnight. She was so sad. (Gag- we texted her at 10 AM, as far as I’m aware she’s not the New Year Baby and Jan 1 isn’t about her)
2. Every phone call begins with “hello stranger” “my long lost son/ daughter in law” etc. It happened this week even though we spent hours with her 10 days prior.
3. Random “I miss you so so much” (keep in mind, we see them about every 2 weeks)
4. Every time we see them it’s an over dramatic long tight hug and kisses on the cheek as if we’ve just come home from war.
5. I threw a birthday “party” for DH for a milestone birthday he was feeling blah about. It was a late night bar hopping event & they said they were upset they weren’t invited. Meanwhile there’s no way they would have enjoyed (or even gotten into) the clubs/ bars we attended. It just wasn’t a “parent” event.

Would love some quick comebacks to keep in the back pocket. Thanks all!

Hello, this is a serios post, i am not playing dumb. i have a new (to me) SV650 2021 ABS (netherlands), i bought it with 150km on odometer from a dealer, (the factory warranty expired a few weeks before i bought it) and now i have 1050km total odometer. Last weekend i changed the oil and oil filter.
Now the problem: ever since i got the bike a few weeks ago, when i start it cold (summer ambient temperature between 16-21 degrees C) it fluctuates a bit in idle (i know it starts with a higher rpm and it gets slowly down to 1250rpm, i mean i can see sometimes one bar of rev being on and off every few seconds and i can hear the rhythm) ; also i hear a very clear metalic clicking as a background/second sound on idle (i could imagine it is the cam timing chain in the cylinder head, but it's quite loud).
i filmed one minute with my phone and you can see the video below (probably its best to listen with headphones). I asked someone about the slight idle fluctuation + the metallic clicking, and he said it is totally normal for a V twin. this person is a sales rep at a big moto dealer.
Now i am asking you, those who have experience and had maybe similar issues. Is there something that i could do (thought the bike is basically brand new) or should i just learn to live with it and call it a day?
Lastly, i had 3 bikes before this, all parallel twin, honda cb500x, bmw f800gs, and ninja 650 - so i never had a vtwin motorcycle and the idle for all those bikes was completely smooth. THANK YOU
video/audio clip: https://imgur.com/a/Ixvv19g

Maybe it is just me and I am socially awkward, but when I am in a bar or pub, sometimes I am not sure if someone is open to interaction. So I made an app where you can long press on someone's profile and see if they are open to interaction. Users are ordered by proximity in your immediate vicinity, so that's how the people on top in the app would be closest to you.
Users post their outfit of the day and content resets at midnight, so the app is basically a digital version of your real local environment. If you want to check it out, feedback would be appreciated. Here is the detailed listing: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/%C3%B3%C3%B2td/id1497395972
Also I don't want to pretend like this can only be used in Wolverhampton. However, users in Wolverhampton will only be able to see other users in Wolverhampton/local area.