Bdsp and pokemon home

english is not my first language so excuse my grammatical errors
so to start with i have social anxiety ever since i started noticing girls(yes only around girls my age group not around men. i turn into extrovert around people are older and kids also people i know from childhood) im 21 now decided to go to college then go abroad to complete masters and settle there (i live in india) i didn't not to go to college after graduating high school when i was 17 cause of bullying even tho im 5"11"(tall for indian man cause average here is 5.6 and i never encountered anyone taller than me) my mom wanted me to go to college and was fully gonna fund me(i live with her she has a terrible disease dont know i should tell it but she is always weak and sick) but i said no.besides i got a small online work at home job right after high school with decent pay these past 4 years were okayish i did whatever i want bought my fav consoles,games,built a pc cause i dont have to pay for anything my mom earns a lot she does all the paying and she still treats me like a kid which really bothers me whenever i ask her to take me dentist for bracers that i will pay it with my own money she says something like "nah its alright you look great my intertsomeworkername's son has worst teeth i have ever seen its normal it will cover up when you get into your 30s"(it was 20s when im a teenager) and i cant deal with anxiety with going outside alone to a hospital getting appointment and explaining doctor about my teeth so stopped asking her carried on doing what i do.but these past 2-3 months i keep feeling really alone and miserable like something is missing in my life(it started with a dream i had early morning was so good felt very real)games doesn't feel entertaining anymore.
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reality check:
i ran into my classmate 22M last month in who is about to graduate college he was never my friend just a casual at times made fun of me and played along when someone bullied but i can tell he matured and moved on from high school phase we were greeting each other he was with his 3 years relationship girlfriend she was complaining they have gotten to city at 5:30 am been waiting for her license and that she is hungry for breakfast so i took them to a coffee shop nearby we were having breakfast he paid for it we are catching up about our lives that made me realize how much of idiot i am laid back in outside world stuff, he was talking about all this taxes, political stance,government plans,laws etc i was agreeing with as i no idea most of it that he noticed it and changed the topic and started treating like a kid(not in a insulting way) explaining everything in more detailed way started asking questions about games asked me if im still playing Skyrim and it was a great game i felt so embarrassed said no(but i do) he said something like "dude are you like 7ft or something how many you been with" he said while laughing he is 5.7 i didn't pluck up the courage tell him i haven't even kissed a girl yet so i said 3 girls,his girlfriend was into this and started asking details about breakups and meetups and kept laughing at scenarios im saying about these imaginary girlfriends. my friend smile disappeared kept awkwardly smirking not because i was flirting with his girlfriend or anything he picked it right off the bat i making these up she kept pressing me i panicked said i had my first girlfriend in 10th grade but i studied till 12th with him i never talked with girl in my class ever he knows it.while leaving he never confronted me about anything about lying maybe felt bad about me then started telling how he approached his girlfriend and made moves in the most detailed way possible almost like telling me how to get a girlfriend he asked for my Instagram(guess what i don't have one cause people use Instagram post pictures of themselves and i dont rate myself as good looking person)and said we should hangout sometime he took my number then we said goodbye went our ways.
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my childhood
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ever since this conversation i felt like the biggest loser of all time. i have a hard time eating,sleeping,working and my depression got worse . i had traumatic cheating parents childhood involving AP's sidechick(yes not his wife and he lied to my mom being single) beating the living hell out of my mom and stomping her face on the ground infront of 9 year old me and in laws allowing and encouraging giving ap wife full support against my mom for cheating on my sick dad, my grandma has big castle type house all her children live together they kicked us out of house after my dad died my mom got my dad's job according Indian rules thought everything was going great until she contracted HIV we still have no idea how it happened as she only had affair with 1 guy my mom keeps telling someone planned against her could be in laws or AP's wife and the're totally capable of doing it.i know what you people might be thinking my mom but she is not that type of person she is the most caring and generous person i ever known goes out help homeless people,animals. even though i completely agree cheating is wrong any situation this is only time i can justify as my dad is completely selfish passive aggressive person beating my mom is common thing for him i used see it as kid sometimes he used yell most vulger dirtiest insults at her loudly that everyone around us can hear it(we lived separately when my dad was healthier) my mother told me he cheated on her multiple times(could be true but i didnt believe as i was not born yet i only believe what i see)she also told me beat her infront of my uncle(her brother)when she said got a job and going to do it even after they are married( i asked my uncle and few people around they told me its true) she put with this for 7 years before he got sick running away is not an options as we live in india and she is jobless and wives leave husbands are shamed.she did all these sacrifices and put up with him cause she loved him when he got both his kidneys failed she took real care him he cant even walk without holding someone and became deaf 1 year after the condition 2nd year they took something out his body idk what and placed a machine he cant pee they used do something called dialysis to remove waste from his body so their sexual relationship is dead so she cheated on him (which is still wrong )leaving him would worsen him all alone no one to take care.when he found he got pissed called my uncle(his brother) he came insulted my mom took us and dad home to grandma grandparents and all in laws started making me and my sister hate my mom telling us insult her and we did when she use to call i was pissed at that time watching someone else in my dad's position.three days we realized all in laws taking care of their children(cousins) no one actually making breakfast lunch or anything for us everyone kept ignoring our needs so i called mom so she sent her brother we went back to her. my dad needs dialysis his brothers kept delaying it saying they are busy its been weeks so he called mom she came picked him up took him to hospital it takes like entire day he died few years later. we moved in with grandma where she tortured daily verbally and used like maid but we dont have anywhere else stay then found out her ap had 1 wife and 1 affair his wife left him. mom distanced herself from him my mom is 4 ft ap's affair beat her so many times cause my uncles and aunts kept calling her they hated her so much idk why. we moved out she got aids i have panic attack when someone makes an aids joke. as kid i dont know what it is or why my mom kept crying holding the reports or why she distanced herself from us and kept her seperate plates glasses has her own seperate bathroom stopped us from kissing her i thought its just a random sickness then searched about it google back in 2019 it said they only live between 9-15 years and its already been 13 years she is getting skinner everyday her blood count dropped to 4 i been having nightmares recently about her i wake up cant sleep anymore and start getting emotional start praying all this things fucked my mind up when someone even says the word cheating or aids my heart starts beating and i have panic attack
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fixing myself
i did my best ignoring it went with other hobbies like playing games and lot of daydreaming fantasy stuff like me present in lord of rings being Aragorn and it worked infact daydreaming is my favorite thing i lock my room walk around thinking about these cool stuff it makes so happy takes me into a place where everything happens according to my favor i control everything.but after conversation with my friend i wanted fix my life bought a motorcycle started going out for groceries got my bracers(went with mom tho) started going to gym(its been 1month by tomorrow) nervous at start thought people would stare at me but no one did there were more skinny and shorter guys than me applied to college starting next month. want to be in a relationship but it comes with cheating(not all don't get triggered but could be the one i gotten myself into)so i went reddit to see how people do post infidelity to prepare myself mentally if i ever get cheated and oh boy this is the biggest mistake of my life the things i 've read till now i always thought some personality traits makes someone loyal but everything is a lie and the way people got fucked over even after years after marriage and the stories i read im really empathic to the people got cheated on i feel like it happened to me and get emotional idk what to do im depressed and overthinking too much about something that never happened to me that i decided im done with this shit should just face the very own thing i fear and talk to actual girls rather than reading online about them
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to the point
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im going to college this is where i most likely find any relationship since im working on myself i feel i have a chance if im confident.i have been practising interactions with strangers getting motorcycle really helped as everyone kept asking for a ride picked like 4 people in the past week(noticed they all start conversation and keep talking) for them it might be free ride and i lose petrol but interactions helped .so to the point like 2 hours ago 10pm i went out buy my energy drink and some medicines for mom's headache saw this women lives in the same apartment started buying medicines i talked with her like 3 times i call her aunty. my mom is not social either she talked with her like 4 times this women has parlor few weeks ago in elevator she asked my mom is she wants her hair done she agreed gave appointment next day(sunday).next day she came but my mom didnt go she said she will come later but she never did or talked to her after.i had feeling she is pissed at my mom thought it would make it worse and make me look like a jerk if i let her walk at 10pm while there are so many drunks around when im actually going to the same place i thought it wouldn't hurt give her ride home asked her if she is going home she said yes i told her i could give her ride she said no need there is my husband. when i turn around there is her husband on motorcycle with kids he gave me an angry look asked her who is it then she said boy from 3rd floor i came back home did i do anything wrong in here i am making up all these scenarios that he will confront me tomorrow. i told my mom she got pissed she is angry recently about me giving lifts random people wasting fuel.dont help anyone unless they ask. she said i didnt do anything wrong she told this women's husband is controlling and they are in toxic relationship they always fight(there's always screams and fights in our apartment i dont know who is who even tho i live here) and he is really suspicious of her i should apologize if he confronts.or forgot it like never happened.given everything im going through this is the last thing i need

Core Skills covers grip, vision, trigger control, and movement.
Match Skills is planning and executing efficient stage runs.
The core-skills class will give you plenty of drills to practice on your own. The match-skills class is mostly stage runs with discussions on maximizing points and minimizing time, but you'll get a few take-home drills as well.
Both are one-day classes with six people where you'll get plenty of one-on-one coaching.
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I want/need to replace my two Google IQ Outdoor cameras at my house. I am getting analysis paralysis and my head is spinning. One camera is on the front porch and the other is above my garage door with a view of the driveway/street/partial neighbors houses across the street. Both cameras are hardwired. Driveway Camera - Used for alerting me when a car or someone arrives or is in my driveway/front yard. My property is in a HOA right by the front gate. I have been asked several times from neighbors to help them by checking my cameras footage to see they recorded someone or a car. Porch Camera - Check remotely for packages. See who is at the door and if I want to answer. When upstairs or not home I can communicate via 2 way speaker. I would love a POE setup but to get a network cable to the cameras would be really tough or pricey to pay someone. Unless there is another way? Ideal replacement system requirements No battery/solar powered cameras. I have power connected to my current wifi camera locations. So I guess that leaves wireless with plug in power again. Image quality - Image Quality - Image Quality Night Vision - Prefer color if possibly - Again Image Quality 24/7 Video Recording with the ability to view on iphone remotely Able to watch previous recorded time slots To be able to create custom zone areas ACCURATE and TIMELY notifications for People/Motion etc. At least one camera (Front Door) should have two-way audio Decent field of view - At least the front of house camera I would much rather prefer a local storage setup if possible. A cloud subscription service would be a last resort. I would greatly appreciate any suggestions for specific brands and models. Any and all feedback is welcome. Thanks

She was diagnosed summer last year with early CKD (SDMA 14) and doing really good up through March of this year (SDMA 17 and 18), when she suddenly needed oral surgery because she was biting her cheek when she ate due to a malocclusion.
We were so hesitant of putting her under anesthesia because of her age and small weight, but we knew she was a fighter and living with pain while eating would be no life at all. So I found her the best vet two hours away in Dallas, an amazing facility with human-standard care. The oral surgery was a success and she was a complete champ, so strong and didn’t let it get her down. She never had pain eating again all spring.
What I wished for while she was under is that she’d get to enjoy at least one more spring on her screened-in porch, her favorite place in the world, and that’s what she got.
We had to say goodbye to Lily on May 31st. On the 30th she came and told her momma something was suddenly wrong, and very different. She would go to her water bowl but not drink, look at her food but not eat. Something I hadn’t seen her do since she was a kitten and needed emergency surgery for a congenital diaphragmatic hernia.
I took her to the ER the same day and then the normal vet when they opened. Her results were not good. Her SDMA was 37, she had the beginnings of systemic issues like fluid on her lungs and an enlarged heart, and her breath was uremic. The week before she was her normal self, and even played with me chasing each other around the house.
When the vet gave the results, I understood what she was saying between the lines, and made the decision that morning to have the vet come out to the house that evening to help us say goodbye to our baby girl.
She had the best possible, most ideal last day, something I’m so grateful for. I gave her gabapentin that morning before taking her to the vet and it never left her system—she was calm up until the very end and relaxed laid out in my lap, not hunched over or uncomfortable. With the fluids and meds the vet gave her that morning she drank half a bowl of water when she got home and was even able to eat her favorite food: people chicken.
Her 7 favorite people spent the whole day adoring her and loving on her. Then around 6 pm on her porch listening to the birds and soaking in the sunbeams, she passed on peacefully with the help of her vet. She was in my lap and I was looking into her eyes when she went.
The perfect ending right? So why am I so angry, and why do I feel so cheated? I question myself about everything. Why did she only get a year after being diagnosed when other cats get a few? Why did her SDMA only go up 4 points in the first 6+ months then more than double in the next 3?
Why didn’t I ask more questions or take more time before saying goodbye instead of making that choice the same day? She could still be here, and I could still be saying goodbye.
She would barely eat kidney food and was already tiny so I had to feed her normal food as well. Did that help kill her or keep her from wasting away even faster? Was her oral surgery something that was too hard for her kidneys to handle? Maybe biting her cheek while eating would have been better than dying three months later if so.
I feel like I failed her, and she’s gone so early because of me. I didn’t do something right that others do right, when their cats get a few more years instead of one.
It’s only been a few days but I miss my best friend so much it’s agony. I see her everywhere and in everything, I even dream about her. It feels like I’ll never be able to move forward and life will never be okay without her here, and I sometimes wish I was just in the ground with her so she wouldn’t have to be alone.
I love you, little girl:
https://imgur.com/a/ANPi2DP
(Does not contain anything nsfw, despite imgur’s warning—just her last image and her memorial/grave)

Core Skills covers grip, vision, trigger control, and movement.
Match Skills is planning and executing efficient stage runs.
The core-skills class will give you plenty of drills to practice on your own. The match-skills class is mostly stage runs with discussions on maximizing points and minimizing time, but you'll get a few take-home drills as well.
Both are one-day classes with six people where you'll get plenty of one-on-one coaching.
Core Skills sign-up: link
Match Skills sign-up: link

I’ve a relative currently in a home as they’re no longer able to care for themselves or live independently.
They’ve been there only a handful of weeks but there’s little niggly things the carers/nurses are forgetting to do i.e. ensure they’re hooked up to the oxygen (4 times this far they’ve been left sitting without oxygen) and being left unchanged in soaking wet pads as they have issues getting to the bathroom - mostly due to the oxygen issue.
I was just wondering if anyone had a poor experience with a relative in a home and how you’ve dealt with it? We’ve complained after each blip - perhaps we didn’t complain via the official route which we didn’t realise at the time but we are seeking to meet the homes management, someone accountable and make a formal complaint. Upon research I also see there’s an Ombudsman but I’d be keen to hear people’s experience and advice if any 🙏

Long story short i recently broke up with my boyfriend because despite it being almost 3 years i still can’t stop thinking about my ex. He has a girlfriend and i don’t wanna be a home wrecker but deep Down i think he is the one for me. I need to know how to try to get him back because it’s crazy how much i miss him and want to be with him. I’m a different person since when we broke up which was due mostly to my mental health. Please help me.

A month of no contact/post BU in, the worst part for me is I am trying to do all sorts of things with friends and make new friends etc, but everything feels like a temporary distraction, like I shouldn't be there but somewhere else. At the end of the day when I head back home, the thoughts start again.
Nights and mornings are the worst, that intense feeling of loneliness and that you are doing things with no real purpose...that's my journey through this. Anyone else?

26th of June. On that day I'm going to chug as many cleaning liquids as I can to finally kill myself. I've been suffering with school for almost 6 years now, with probably over 12 suicide attempts that no one knows about. I just can't handle it anymore. Once my exams are over and the holidays start, the first day I'm home alone, I'm going to finally kill myself. I'm emotionally disconnected from everything and physically and mentally can't keep up. Suicide is now what I want and think is best. For me, I hope it's slow and painful, but I hope it works. I just don't see life as worth living anymore, and even though I know I'll burn in he'll, I'll rather do that than continue my miserable life. My facade of happiness has gone on too long. I'm getting too depressed to even leave my bed. So until the 26th, I thought I'll document my last few weeks on here, so when I die, people will have a shitty look into my last weeks. Don't know what I'll do until then. I'm not happy now, but I will be soon. Bye.

So I’m new to this. I read that the battery life is about 18 hours. I left the watch to charge over night and then decided to take it to work the next day. I figured it would last till I came home and left my charger (12 hour shift) Now I’ve been pretty active with this. I’ve been doing actual workouts with the digimon but I noticed I was on one bar. I read that if it dies the digimon is gone and frankly all my hard work goes too. It’s also a pain because I can’t do training or battles as the battery may die. So I put him into the app. With the timers still tick away? There should be about 8 hours left till he digivolves into a champion but I haven’t had time to battle with him enough times to get my desired form.

(Sorry for any typos or weird formatting I am on mobile)
I asked for a separation 3 months ago, he was very much opposed and still wants reconciliation, however he has said that the separation was 100% his fault and he treated me terribly (controlling, emotionally/mentally abusive, treated me like property, completely checked out and not contributing and seriously invading my privacy while lying to me constantly). I lived with my parents for 2 months immediately after the separation but always brought my kids back for the weekend to spend with dad (3 hours drive).
A month ago I started a new job and moved back to the house and got my kids in daycare. Their dad is renting a room close by and picks the kids up after daycare. I have them in the morning and bring them to daycare, I work until 6 pm and take over their care from him after work until bedtime and I am with them over nights (they’re both little enough that they still wake up at night sometimes).
I’ve been very clear with him that I’m looking for a house to rent with my friend. I’ve let him know every step of the way from going to look at places, sending applications and finally getting accepted for a place, a beautiful little house.
We are originally from the city, which is a little over an hour from where we are now. We’ve live in our rural house for a year now. I’ve always been clear that I’m moving back to the city because that’s where I have friends and some family still.
I told him my plan for the kids, the school close to my new house is excellent and our oldest starts school im this fall. It’s one of the top 10 schools in the city testing scores well above average, and it’s bilingual. I have made a schedule for 2 very close friends and my sister to help pick the kids up after school/daycare while I’m still working and watch them for about an hour, and their dad works in the city 1-2 times a week and am planning for him to pick them up on those days so he gets extra time, and he would still have them on the weekends to try to get them as much time with both of us.
Today my STBXH told me that he thinks the kids should stay out in the country with him during the week, and I could have them on weekends. I wouldn’t see them at all during the week because of my later ending work schedule. The school in the rural area the Josie we own together is also one of the lowest rated schools in the district. Bottom 20 of nearly 400 with all testing scores below average and it is not bilingual. Because STBXH also works in the city, an hour away, 1-2 times a week, if there was an emergency or if either of the kids were sick and had to be picked up he would be an hour+ away with no one local to help him. He wouldn’t be able to even do drop off on those days because he leaves the house at 6 am, he’s hoping to ask to get an exemption to be able to wfh all the time, but I don’t know if they’d give them out for people having to pick up their kids or everyone would ask for one. He digs in very hard and we don’t see eye to eye right now. I don’t want to have to deal with lawyers and court, and I want to keep things as amicable as we can to be the best co-parents we can. I also feel concerned mildly about them being with him 5 days straight. He has never watched them for that long by himself, their entire lives. I have had them for weeks alone and have always been the primary caregiver and organizer of the kids stuff; buying clothes, getting health cards, doctors appointments etc. He also has a history of alcoholism, he struggled on and off for years and I had one very bad experience we’re I went to visit a friend for the evening an hour away and came home to the kids sleeping (safely and soundly thank god) but STBXH had 8-10 beers and smoked weed after I left and was completely passed out in the bed on top of the covers with his clothes on. I was really scared, and angry. He’s been sober for 6 ish months now. I don’t know what to do if he digs in and doesn’t agree to a plan with me. Lawyers take a long time, are expensive (money I don’t really have honestly) and it’s really hard on the kids. I think maybe he thinks if he digs in, I would stay out here to be with my kids. It’s not a good option and I don’t want to be controlled like that, out of fear of losing my kids. What is the best route?

So when I was a kid my Dad was basically a verbally abusive enablecovert narc that treated me pretty badly. I guess you would call it living in an "emotionally invalidating home".
Anyway I remember one time around the age of 13 or 14 a friend of mine interacted with me and my Dad for about a weekend and after that my friend basically started emotionally invalidating me too - just like my Dad.
It was pretty crazy to come to this realization. Does anyone else have a similar experience?

This is a custom build that I put together with a mixture of new, open box, and used parts. Works great and ready for a new home.
Looking for $450 shipped or $400 local.
Timestamp is https://imgur.com/a/YEM5qRV.
-CPU: AMD Ryzen 5 5500 3.6GHz (brand new!)
-CPU Cooling: Stock AMD Wraith cooler (brand new!)
-Motherboard: Gigabyte B450 D3SH Wifi AM4 (open box)
-GPU: Gigabyte Radeon RX 5700XT 8GB (open box)
-Memory: 2x 8GB G.SKILL Trident Z RGB DDR4-3000 RAM (used, but like new)
-Storage: 1TB WD Blue SN570 NVMe SSD (used, but like new)
-PSU: HP Cooler Master non-modular 800W 80 Plus Gold rated (used, like new)
-Cooling: 2x Lian Li ARGB front fans + 1 Kingwin Blue LED rear fan (open box)
-Case: Lian Li Lancool 205M Mesh ATX Mid Tower with tempered glass side panel (open box)
-Wireless: Intel® Dual Band 802.11ac Wifi + Bluetooth 4.2 (open box)
-OS: Win 10 Pro with activation

Just what the title says - my life seems devoid of meaning and would like to spend my free time actually creating something that I can be proud of. Would love opinions or suggestions on if this plausible with no experience and if it is what a good starting point would be?
My initial thoughts were habitat for humanity or a part time construction job to get initiated in the field but if my goal is building an entire home I don't want to get siloed into a small part of that process and waste time. Building on my own would give access to the entire process and be more flexible as far as time spent working.

I saw one as a taxi the other day and googled them as soon as I got home. They’re a Chinese made EV, who claim to have invented a groundbreaking battery system for the car. The price is quite competitive, but I wonder if they’re actually any use?

First time poster; also on mobile.
I (23f) ordered a plague doctor style mask off of Temu a couple of weeks ago, to pull a little prank on my mom (43f) and mildly spook her. It came in while I was at work today and I opened it once I got home. I walked into my mom’s room and oriented myself to look at her (I wear glasses but they didn’t fit under the mask.) My mom jumped when I walked in and yelled at me to take the mask off. I did and told her sorry, that I didn’t mean to scare her that bad with it. She then got mad at me and said that she wasn’t scared. She told me that it was ‘insensitive to the people who suffered through the Black Plague’ and I was mocking them. I insisted that I didn’t intend to mock anyone and that I was having harmless fun with the mask. Mom told me that she doesn’t want to see the mask again. She’s giving me the cold shoulder now.
Preemptively answering a few questions some people might have:

1. Nobody in our household and none of our relatives have ever had COVID or was suspected to have it.
2. Nobody in our family history as far as I know has ever had the plague. I don’t know if our history reaches that far but the plague happened in the 1300’s so we wouldn’t have any records from then even if it did.
3. We took COVID very seriously and social distanced, wore masks, and we got the vaccine (and I got both boosters). Even once the restrictions were eased in our state, we were very militant about PPE and social distancing for about a year until our numbers dropped to ‘safe’ levels.

Hi everyone,
I was recently admitted as a transfer student from a California Community College to both UCLA and Northwestern, and I am having trouble deciding what university to attend (great problem to have, but is a very hard decision). Here are my current thoughts:
Overall school rankings/student body:
Northwestern is a more selective school than UCLA, and when I visited campus, I met a student who transferred from UCLA to Northwestern that estimated the students at Northwestern are equivalent to the top 5-30% of students at UCLA. From the people I met, this seemed accurate. People also seemed much friendlier at Northwestern - I met so many cool people when visiting. I didn't like the students at UCLA as much, and they seemed more closed off (although there were of course cool/smart/interesting people at both schools).
The major:
I want to study both liberal arts and computer science (I like math & computer science, but not physics/chemistry/other STEM subjects and really like liberal arts like polysci/philosophy/languages/etc). At UCLA, I'd be a Linguistics and Computer Science major in the College of Arts and Sciences (one combined major, not a double major; not in the engineering school). This major has too much linguistics for my liking; I'd rather study more CS. However, I do find languages very interesting and like I said, I like liberal arts. At Northwestern, I was admitted for CS in the College of Arts and Sciences (also not engineering). However, it looks unlikely that I could double majominor in a liberal arts subject two years, which was one of the big reasons I applied. UCLA is better known/better ranked for CS.
The classes:
Classes are smaller, more undergraduate focused, and professors seem better at Northwestern. Not too much contest here.
The campus:
I like Northwestern's campus better, and I live near UCLA. Getting away from home and experiencing new things seems worthwhile, but the weather is better in LA and there's more things to do (especially in the winter). Probably better placed for tech jobs as well.
The cost:
No contest - full pay at Northwestern for 2 years vs full instate pay at UCLA for 2 years. I estimate with flights, tuition, etc, this difference is ~100k more for Northwestern. I won't need to take out loans, but I don't want to blow through money for no reason.
The credits:
Also no contest. UCLA gave me all my credits, and Northwestern didn't. They gave me a fair number, but when I met with an academic advisor, she made it clear that graduating in 2 years would require me to take a very intense workload. I am fine with working hard, but I know everyone at Northwestern will be very smart and taking such an intense courseload might not end well (especially because I want time for hobbies, a social life, personal projects, internships, etc)
Any advice would be appreciated!

I want to get something that can unlock some 4k gaming. I know it won't be perfect but I have the monitor already so I want to enjoy it more. Please let me know if this build is a good combination of components, if anything is overkill or underkill. I haven't built a PC in years so I'm out of the loop!
I play some demanding games like:
* Escape from tarkov
* Total war series games
Prices are in Canadian.
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Motherboard	MSI MAG X670E TOMAHAWK WIFI ATX AM5 Motherboard	$419.99 @ Canada Computers
Memory	G.Skill Trident Z5 Neo 64 GB (2 x 32 GB) DDR5-6000 CL30 Memory	-
Storage	Samsung 990 Pro 2 TB M.2-2280 PCIe 4.0 X4 NVME Solid State Drive	$324.99 @ Canada Computers
Video Card	Gigabyte GAMING OC GeForce RTX 4090 24 GB Video Card	$2249.98 @ Amazon Canada
Case	Fractal Design North ATX Mid Tower Case	$179.99 @ Canada Computers
Power Supply	Thermaltake Toughpower GF3 TT Premium 1000 W 80+ Gold Certified Fully Modular ATX Power Supply	$214.99 @ Canada Computers
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Wanted to know if I get an Xfinity Mobile number will I get a discount on my Xfinity Home Internet.