Sorry in advance for this drawn out post, but to explain the full story I’ll need to lay down the foundation. To start I am a 20F with a brother, mother, and grandfather living in the the same house. My brother who is a few years younger than me has always had aggression and anger problems. I’ve suggested he gets counseling for many years now, to both my grandfather and mother. Their response is to pray when he has an outburst. Ignoring he needs outside help. And while I’m a believer myself, I don’t think prayer can just magically solve mental health concerns.
In the belief, yes God is there, but doesn’t solve problems in waving a magic hand. But by allowing humankind to have the knowledge to help themselves. In fast forwarding from this background I’ve laid to those who are reading this, my brother had an outburst in the morning, in getting angry with my mother, when she had told him to do his chores, with a warning to do so, or he can stay with our father. A common threat nowadays since he often forgets to do household responsibilities, and tends to go out with his friends playing basketball.
All this of course triggers my brother, leading him to say he doesn’t give a dam, while in front of our grandfather who tells our mother, some time after the incident has occurred. Leading to a big argument between my grandpa putting me under the bus, as he doesn’t tell the whole story. In me needing to give the full details, as my mother pressures me to repeat what he said word for word.
I really do love my grandfather but he’s a shit stirrer, and will get you in trouble, or put in the spot light if you share details of your life. Not just for myself, but for my brother and mother. Whom the latter is finally making word on sending my brother away. As she doesn’t feel comfortable having my brother in the house and caring for him.
Overall I just wished my grandfather never said anything. Or at the very least waited to tell what happened, and get me involved with his unfinished report of what he witness.

Hey everyone this is the first time i’m using reddit. don’t know what to do. Its a loong story! So be ready and sorry if i ramble.
I’ve been with my fiancé for over 5 years now and got engaged 2020 with him. We tried to have a destination wedding but his family makes it difficult, meanwhile mine are just waiting for the date.
So i tried to compromise, we could have one here BUT both families would have to pay, so both said yes. My family was still thrilled and even helped me look for venues, and offered to pay a good portion too (invitations, photo, video, host, dress, florist, etc) .
His parents didn’t like the cheaper venues i found, some didn’t have the dates or they couldn’t or bargain and so i kept looking. Until I finally found one venue.
When the time came to give a deposit, his family wanted us to pay it instead. me and my fiancé had an argument for that.
I said “ understand this i had to do this almost all by myself, because your parents didn’t bother to look or help. you would’ve looked at venues late because you think we have plenty of time but we don’t! we wouldn’t be able to get one in time.”
He argued “but what about a chea- ( I cut him off )
“Don’t forget I tried cheaper venues and they didn’t want it either! and NOW! When i find the right venue, they just want us to pay? My parents are already pitching enough. And now we have to pay for what your parents want? NO!”
My fiancé was silent and didn’t know how to argue back at that moment so i finished with
“just postpone the weddings until further notice, i just don ‘t want to plan anymore”
I hadn’t spoken to him for about a week. After that week passed, he had apologized and fought with his parents. I heard him on the phone actually defending me, how it was our wedding (it was a proud moment) and they make it difficult, when they aren’t doing anything.
The next following week I guess his parents were afraid, said before they would pitch in, they would have to talk to my parents first.
Just so you know guys - his parents separated a couple years back, and both make lots of money, one owns a firm and the other property managements. And go on vacations abroad for a month for the summer. They both would just split cost, pretty much pocket change for them both. Their guest count is about 100 split they would only pay 10k each. While my parents work two jobs, was going to pay about close to with guest 50 cost up to 45k with everything else.
I wouldn’t allow it, Its now 2023.
some of you may ask too. “Why don’t you and your fiancé just pay for it?” why can’t you just have your wedding without them?”
we only wanted the destination wedding and it would’ve just cost under $10k. After we’d have enough to buy our dream house. I thought about eloping too but he really wants his parents there We’re both mentally exhausted. Sorry i ramble on.
Aita for not wanting a wedding anymore and postponing?

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To start the story, this all started sometime during lockdowns where I was pretty much completely isolated (to be absolutely honest, I wasn't completely isolated, I lived with my family still, but was never able to leave the house and there were no visitors either, plus at this point I'd hole myself up and isolate myself) for the last piece of my final year of high school and the entire first year of University. I was in several large group chats dedicated to different groups at my University (so, one for certain years, one for people within a certain Faculty and etc.) and after a series of events (was someone within my Faculty and in some of my classes), was talking to a guy online (only through texts, no voice calls or anything).
To be honest, I had a very very low impression of him based on some things he said in those group chats (mostly because they gave me icky vibes, though honestly, if I explained why or attempted to, or even pointed to what gave me those vibes, a lot would raise an eyebrow at me), but after texting for a bit, my opinion of him increased because I saw he was actually really nice and I could really get along with him. We ended up texting a lot, and he became the person I confided to about many deeply personal things. Now, after some time, it became quite clear that he had certain feelings for me, and because I felt very safe talking to him and enjoyed talking to him, I was unbothered by this and became occasionally flirtatious (not that we were dating though. I think at most we were friends with the possibility of something more).
Now, I should say, every now and again, there'd always be something he said (or just certain brief conversations in general), that reminded me of some traits of his that I really did not like, that deep down would mean we were not compatible. However, I always ended up sweeping those concerns under the rug because otherwise he was really nice and I enjoyed talking to him. Eventually, I saw a picture of him and realized I was very much not attracted to him. However, I pushed this concern down as well, because otherwise he was nice, and I felt that, I guess based on all the "don't be shallow, inner beauty is all that matters" messages in the media I consumed since birth, turning a person down/rejecting them or something along those lines would make me a bad person because I'd be being shallow. And I have had cases where I wasn't initially attracted to a person but grew attracted after talking to them (these were all in person though), so I thought the same could happen here as well. As well, since this was all over text, it was super easy to forget these things that made my brain say "not compatible", so I could easily go back to the same mode I was in before.
Eventually, classes became in person again and we met, and our dynamic was completely different (probably because we were more shy in person, and honestly, I can't imagine talking about all the super personal things I have online in person). And it was pretty much then, I think, that all of those things that my brain had screamed at me, that I had attempted to ignore, came back at full force, making me always feel on edge around him in person, to the point where I felt like my skin was crawling, every hair on my body was up, and felt the inexplicable urge to just run. And I should state, it's not like he was a bad person or even weird/eccentric. It was more so of a me issue.
When I made it clear that I actually did not want our relationship to turn the romantic route, he took that very well and said he'd be perfectly happy with us just being friends. At first I thought this was fine because I thought that those feelings I had around him in person were a product of the fact that I felt he expected me to enter a romantic relationship with him when we met in person, and with that pressure now off, I shouldn't feel that way. But unfortunately, that was not the case, and I still felt that way around him. Eventually, he found out how I felt, which hurt him, and we parted ways. Honestly, I both felt extremely awful because I hurt him, but also relieved because it meant I was no longer going to be in situations where I constantly felt on edge (which I honestly feel guilty about).
To end off the story bit, we made no contact for a while, until I started briefly talking about a personal project of mine that I was really passionate about in a group chat, and he DMed asking to hear more about it because he was curious. Because I was very excited about this project and trusted he could keep a secret, I ended up telling him about it, so now every now and then again I tell him a bit about it and how's it's going and sometimes we chat about other things. I'm pretty comfortable talking to him online because, I guess for some reason, my brain sees online him and in person him as completely different people. So when online I can completely switch back into feeling safe and secure when talking to him. The only thing I worry about is that he will want to see me in person again because I seem comfortable DMing him.
Pretty much because of all of this, I have bouts of self-loathing and hopelessness where I can't help but feel awful for what I did and how by attempting to not be an awful person, I ended up being an awful person anyways, and now feel like I am such an awful person, despite the lessons I learned, I am not only beyond forgiveness or redemption, but am doomed to always be an awful person, and if anyone else found out about this, they'd be disgusted and rightfully think I am an awful person. If anyone wanting to be my friend (or more) found out, they'd no longer want to even be seen or connected to me in any shape or form, my entire family would be disgusted and ashamed of me, and my life would be ruined. I am ruined and have no future. This last part is also comes in to the anxiety part where I remember a specific conversation or flirtatious thing I said and suddenly can't think clearly about anything else and it just pounds in my head like "What if someone saw that? I don't think anyone would want to be seen with you after seeing that. God, your family would be so ashamed of you that there is literally nothing you could do to get them to ever look at you the same again" and comes with the urges to search for those messages and delete them or even block him (though I haven't done that). I then further get anxiety that if I do anything to upset him, he may divulge my secrets. All of which I feel awful for, because in absolutely no instance has he shown any indication that he would ever do something so awful, and to even have an anxiety about it, let alone a thought about it feels insulting to him. Furthermore, I feel bad for even feeling the way I do about these things because he's the type who will treasure the good memories, even if things don't end well, and know that despite what happened with us, he thinks of those bits before fondly. And I'm here being tormented by them. I can't imagine how awful it'd feel to find out that someone was tormented by a memory you made with them that you have a very positive association with. Or how awful it'd be to find out that person had concerns about being socially outcast because of the time they spent talking to you, as if it were shameful. Overall, my thoughts, worries, and concerns reveal me to be an awful person. A completely vile, inhuman, monster.
I have absolutely no one to talk about this with. My family is 100% not an option as that, though may not turn out exactly as in my head, will definitely end in disaster. My friends aren't really an option because I'm not on that personal of a level with them. At this point, I keep people at an arm's length and get paranoid/anxious when anyone tries to get closer, and am perfectly content with just being alone (not that I want to be alone for the rest of my life, I just currently have no desire to interact with people). I want to be able to move past this and stop having these thoughts, but I always find that they get brought back up over and over by seemingly randomly appearing unrelated things. I also worry that I will never be able to form any meaningful relationships in person.

Hey! I was just accepted to Dalhousie Law today, super stoked!
I’m planning to visit in June for first time and hopefully look for a place then to rent.
What is your guys experience with availability of rentals, is there stuff still available in the summer to rent for the coming year?
And what areas of city do you recommend looking (ideally near campus)? I have never been to Halifax so any knowledge is appreciated!

I’m an incoming freshman for the 23-24 year, and I wanted to know how likely it was for me to get into a dorm in the Highland district considering I submitted my housing fee January 29th. I have my heart set on Highland since it is close to the science buildings relating to my major and I’ve heard great things about it. I don’t want to be picky, Likins seems to be pretty popular. I’ve also read good things about La Paz, Posada and Pueblo but I think I’m fine with anything that’s not Hopi. Seeing that housing fees opened in August I got a little concerned that I wouldn’t have many options available, so I was wondering how likely it was that I’d get a dorm I want?

I’ll admit it, I have been lying that I’m happy and that I’m okay. I’m far from the opposite.
It started when my heath took a turn for the worst, I went from being around people to never being able to. I can’t drive, I can’t leave my house at all, I can’t even have actual college classes. I’m stuck in my stupid fucking room for two years while doctors just fucking act like idiots.
And to make it worse, no one has noticed that I’m struggling. I know that not everyone can see the signs when someone is struggling. But I’ve shown so many signs and no one has even realized, I don’t know how many times I’ve thought about giving up. I just wished one of the people I considers family or friends to realize I need someone. Even if it’s just a shoulder to cry on, I don’t want to have to beg to have someone barely care anymore.

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Title Explains everything pretty much.
I adopted this cat from street, more like he came to my house, initially he was way too scared to come to me i saw this cat for few days that he just stares at me. I started giving food in a tray all the left overs, over the months he started to trust me and now always want to be close to me. Its nail is quite big so i try to keep minimum distance. Anyways long story short everything was good we had our own personal space and understanding.
this recent event he is getting bullied outside and come back homes to express his frustration.

I posted similar post before but it’s not letting me view comments at all.
TLDR: his home life is shit, he’s got adhd and is on crutches and can’t occupy his mind enough, he’s getting pent up in rage, and he takes things out on me sometimes like yelling which I don’t like because I have trauma ✨
I haven’t received any affection since he’s gone through the major surgery nearly two months ago. I’m always the one giving the affection.
I don’t know how to approach him on this topic because I believe it’s unfair that I bother him with my needs when he’s going through things.
But I have no job at the moment and I’m stuck in the house with him and his shit parents. We are hoping to move out but we need at least one of us to work and get a car. Even that will be enough freedom but for now I’m affection deprived.

Luckiest House of the Day: Ursine (Bear) That hard work will pay off. Be there to enjoy it.
Sanguine Houses of the Day: Canid (Wolf), Feline (Cat), Serpentes (Snake) Sometime today will be Sociable and Easygoing. Don't let goals get too far out of view while enjoying that carefree joy. The following might experience the following:

• Canid (Wolf) - Talkative
• Feline (Cat) - Outgoing
• Serpentes (Snake) - Carefree

Choleric Houses of the Day: Crocodilia (Crocodile), Hyenad (Hyena), Selachimorpha (Shark) Today brings Restless and Changeable temperaments. Channel the energy but don't let theatrics to derail the day otherwise others will think you're egocentric. The following have a tendency for the following:

• Crocodilia (Crocodile) - Aggressive
• Hyenad (Hyena) - Optimistic
• Selachimorpha (Shark) - Impulsive

Melancholic Houses of the Day: Squamata (Lizard), Vulpine (Fox), Rodent (Rat) Reserved and Moody will plague the day. This will be balancing act to keep out of unwarranted suspicions, but if the mood can manage it will lead to a breakthrough. The following must resist dwelling in the following patterns:

• Squamata (Lizard) - Sober
• Vulpine (Fox) - Unsociable
• Rodent (Rat) - Quiet

Phlegmatic Houses of the Day: Chiperaran (Bat), Corvidae (Raven), Arachnae (Spider) Calm and Controlled is today's central points. The persistent ones can find plenty of time to get some self care. The following should cultivate the following attitudes:

• Chiperaran (Bat) - Thoughtful
• Corvidae (Raven) - Reliable
• Arachnae (Spider) - Passive

Ascending style: Anti or Contrasting Descending style: Domestic or Urban Retrograde style: Wild or Natural

Initially I was always a liberal guy but slightly(bas thoda sa zada nahi) islamophic, whenever I use to Hear any muslim influencer say india is intolerant or muslims are unsafe i thought they were trying to defame .3 days ago I use to be very proud hindu but due to this incident everytime I hear someone say sanatan or praising bjp I start hating them and Hindus.
In the school Phys ed grp. After the teachers left students started posting memes which soon became political and very hateful. Some use to send religious content like paintings and drawings of God ,temple pics etc. That day i posted a scripture from a south indian temple with these captions "let's go back to the old ways 😈" ,in that scripture there was a 5some going on and I had no intent to hurt anyone's sentiment. In that group most of the people started calling me bulla and accused me of defaming SANATAN DHARM.........like wtf ?? Why are you following it then if you can't tolerate their art ,it was also a part of you culture why are you feeling embarassed?? Can't you embrace it ? And after that those goons from humanities and commerce (btw I am a science student and no-one gets offended so easily in my grp) started calling me and harrassing me .calls started coming from random people threatening me of thrashing me and beating me in front of my house. They all were so desperate for my address that they started asking everyone who lives near me ,who can take them to my house. I was extremely terrified . Somehow I managed to cool down the situation thanks to my good negotiation skills. But after that incident i just hate every hindu who talks about so called "SaNataN DhARm" and i realise that my attachment to this country is drifting away and i think i might become one of those folks in rindia who are indians but posts anti-India content. Now anything bad which any minority did in india during these 5 years by brain is justifies it maybe due to some kind of newly developed biased. Now I feel like my whole life is kind of meaningless because I always wanted to do something good for the country but when I think of the population which is filled with people like this i don't like the way things are going.

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Hi guys,
I was thinking of buying a van(camper) and renting it out to tourists and holiday goers.
Friends of mine are doing it andmaking quite alot of money for a side hustle.
It seems that the bigger well established companies like jucy vans are just so expensive and people are looking for an alternative.
Does anyone else do this? Any feedback or thoughts are most welcome..

Shots and Shade
Everyone is heading down to Jersey Shore and Melissa and Joey are having a luau party! Let's see how it goes...
First, we see all the women in their homes before the trip. Teresa won't eat because she wants to be thin for the wedding. Gia tells her she is ridiculous because just had pizza. Cheater!! Joe cuts Marge a big fat bagel. Yum!!
Now we see Rachel and Danielle go clothes shopping for the trip to the shore. I thought it was odd for these two to be together. They are looking for outfits for the luau. Rachel says in her confessional that they are alike, both straight shooters. I don't see it. I think Danielle speaks her mind, but Rachel stirs up trouble. They are the youngest with small children, so they have that in common. Danielle hasn't been to the shore since she was 25. She tried to avoid it because she turned into Snooky when she used to go. The girls bring up Danielle and her brother who don't speak. They compare Danielle's relationship with her brother to Teresa's with Joey. Danielle says her relationship is a lost cause. It is kind of strange. Rachel tells us she is the opposite and is very close to her brother.
Oh, oh, the lady's gossip -- First they say they have to get Marge and Jen to speak. I don't see this happening. The Marge told the world Bill had an affair a decade ago last year. Who does that? Mind your business. Jennifer is right to not speak to her. Rachel tells Danielle that it was strange for Teresa to give them a warning to them about The Marge. Why so strange? The Marge is a snake, take it or leave the advice. It was only good intent coming from Teresa. Danielle tells her she thinks Teresa was just watching out for them. Um hello, Danielle is right. Teresa was trying to be nice, but Rachel is running with it and stirring the pot. They both think Jennifer doesn't let anything go and are trying to figure out if The Marge is dangerous. She is!! The Marge is dangerous!! I am telling you. She will expose any of your secrets and go above and beyond to destroy a person. Why would Teresa want to be friends than an enemy with The Marge? It's because the woman is a shady! The Marge's ex best friend, Laura told Teresa and Jennnifer that Marge has an arsenal of stuff on the ladies and will drop the bomb at any given time, so everyone better tread lightly or The Marge will destroy you!
Jennifer goes with Teresa to pick out gifts for her bridesmaids at the Jewlers. They pick out dainty bracelets. Perfect! Then we go on to see what Teresa will wear on her special day. Teresa says she wants simple. Jennifer tells her no you are not simple, so we are going to go extra, even more extra than extra before!! Jen is really helping her with the jewelry. Teresa wanted diamond stud earrings, but Jen picked out these gorgeous earrings. They look beautiful on her. So, the boring studs are out. Now the ladies talk about the shore. Teresa feels like Melissa and Joey should have invited them to stay with them. Why? You all hate each other. What did I miss? Last week Joey didn't attend your housewarming party. How awkward would it be for them to stay with them at the shore? Very! Now the ladies go on to say that they think it is strange that Melissa and Joey invited Marge to stay at the shore with them. This means The Marge must have some dirt on them too. See, danger everywhere with The Marge. Lol The Marge receives an invite to the stay at Melissa's shore house and everyone's first thought is because she is dangerous!! Sorry Marge, but when you go spilling secrets, this is what people think of you. Personally, I just think Melissa and Marge have been friends for years, that is reason for the invite.
Mellissa and Joey arrive at their home first. Jackie and The Marge will stay with them. Jennifer and Bill arrived at their home next, Danielle and Nate, Louie and Teresa are on their way to stay with them. Rachel has her own home. Dolores and Adult Jennifer will stay with her. Frank and his girlfriend Brittany will stay in his shore home.
Back at Mellissa's house stirring up trouble. She tells Melisssa and Joey that her mother was invited to the wedding. Oh dear. What a crime. Joey brings up Danielle fighting with her brother. Now they are all gossiping about Danielle, they all seem to believe it is something bad that Danielle did, but she is hiding it. Nah. Jackie chimes in to say something doesn't add up with Danielle and calls her something to the effect of a lower class version of Snooky. Yes, Jackie because you are so elegant and demure. Her last procedure is making her look like she has Bell's Palsy in her confessional, so she has no room to talk about anyone's looks or their actions. She doesn't even know her. What is her problem with Danielle?
Back at Jennifer's house Teresa is telling Jen she has never been invited to stay at Joey's shore house. Gia asked once and Melissa said no. Hmm. How strange and rude of her to say no. Teresa goes on to say she wants to be around people who love her. Then we get a flashback of decades of fights, brawls and broken bones thrown on the floor from them all. If Teresa has peace with Louie she should just move on and stay away from them.
The luau party is about to begin. Let's see if it fun or a disaster waiting to happen. Louie tells Teresa to ignore negativity and to don't let it get to her. Bill tells Jen she looks gorgeous, and he will back her if The Marge attacks her.
Now everyone has attended. It starts off nice. Everyone seems happy and is getting along. Great atmosphere, great food and drinks. Jen is telling everyone Aloha and puts a lei on Joey as a gag. Fun party, right? Wrong! Right in the other room The Marge and Jackie are starting already!! They ask Rachel to spill what Teresa said about keeping Marge as a friend not an enemy. How many times will they discuss this? Rachel is adding fuel and talking about her conversation she had about The Marge. Rachel is not to be trusted. Now The Marge goes over to Mellissa and tells her every single thing Danielle and Rachel said. Thanks Rachel. You and Danielle are new to the group trying to figure everyone out. I don't see Danielle spilling what was said. Rachel has officially become The Marge's soldier. At least Danielle can stand on her own and make up her own mind without repeating what was said.
Everyone is drinking. Bill is such a happy drunk. The party is really action packed with a lot of drinking going on while the girls gossip and bicker on the side. At least the party isn't ruined. Bill is so wasted they might have to carry him out of there.
Oh dear, here comes The Marge asking Teresa about what was said to Danielle and Rachel. Teresa tells The Marge she was just giving advice and she thinks Rachel is trying to cause trouble. Ya think? Rachel denies, she blabs what and repeats what everyone tells her. Remind me, you and NJ to stay away from Rachel, the big mouth of Jersey. Teresa is not feeling Rachel now, she is on to her. Teresa and Marge seem to mend for now. The Marge tells he she really never did anything to anyone. Teresa laughs and so do I. This woman destroys people or tries her hardest to do so.
Paulie didn't attend. Does Bravo keep Dolores' boyfriends away on purpose? Frank tells her he is so lonely without the family dynamic. He told Dolores that Paulie needs to be around the family more. He calls his girlfriend, Brittany over and wanted her to confirm that it is sad that Dolores isn't not staying at their house. Britt tells Dolores she loves when she stays with them. Frank is just really hurt, and you see it in his face. I feel like he has some sort of dependence on Dolores and needs her around. A lot!!
Okay back to wedding drama. Adult Jennifer asks Louie how it is going with the wedding. He and Teresa say they want everyone to have fun, no assigned seats, just a great celebration!! Adult Jennifer brings up Melissa's mother not being invited and was it an oversite. Hell of a nerve this one has. Mind your business. Teresa tells her it was not an oversite and there is history, bad history. A decade ago, when the fights with the Teresa and Mellissa went down, Mellissa's sister and mother, Donna wrote nasty things on social media about Teresa. She said she forgave but will never forget. That should be enough to shut this down. But no, Louie tells her he apologized to Melissa's mother, Donna, and not to Teresa's knowledge about not being invited. Oh boy, sneaky play by him. Teresa looked a bit taken back. Louie tells the women he is being biased (fair) and is trying to keep the peace. Yeah no, stand with your wife. Teresa says in her confessional that she wishes Louie discussed this with her prior, but she claims he is just trying to keep the peace. She goes on to blame Joey for not coming to her with this because he loves a spectacle. What? He did come to you, he said something to Louie!! Back to the drama, Teresa looks annoyed with Louie and tells him well maybe you should invite her then. He tells her okay let me find her and invite her. She left the party, so I guess send an invite.
Back to the party everyone is getting more and more drunk. They are doing what drunk people do at parties, I guess. Joey is waxing Rachel's husband's hairy chest. I'm moving on with this..
Jackie grabs Jennifer and tells her she wants Jen and Marge to make up. Jen is it not having it. Jen goes on to say because of The Marge, they are trying to fix their relationship. Right now, they are disagreeing with how they raise their children. If one of their children gets an average score on a test, he calls them average and will grow up to be average. She will not have him call their children average. I wouldn't either. You praise and encourage your children, not put them down.
Back to the Teresa told Rachel and Danielle to watch out for The Marge scandal. Now Dolores chimes in with The Marge and Jackie and they gossip about Danielle. She overhears it and gets annoyed. Danielle just took the advice and spoke to blabber mouth Rachel, so why are they picking on her? Jackie is loving that all these nonsenses is getting thrown onto Danielle, like she is in the wrong. As far as I see it, Teresa and Danielle are the only ladies right with this situation. Teresa gave advice and Danielle kept quiet, unlike Rachel and The Marge who won't shut up about it. Danielle just stated what she heard to one (nasty) person, Rachel but the others are relentless with this. Go yell at Rachel ladies and leave Danielle alone. They won't stop talking about Danelle and she is getting mad. She goes and sits back with her husband. Melissa joins her and has the nerve to tell her the reason people are talking about her is because the rift between Danielle and her brother doesn't add up, and maybe she hides stuff. Go away Melissa, nobody asked you!! Danielle tells her she is not even hearing her because she is so pissed and is ready to unleash on these women, rightly so. She opened up to them about her brother and they question her about it? Helluva nerve they got. Danielle leaves the party because she has their number. She tells Jennifer and Teresa that she is done, and can they please go. Danielle is mad as hell, and she doesn't play. These ladies better watch what they say. There's a new girl in town and she will wreck you and check you.