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2023.05.30 23:25 Dsg1695 How should I handle recent family drama?
This past weekend, my mom’s bf was acting like an ignorant dick & I wasn’t having it. He was being very reactive & acting ghetto, I was beyond irked I put my foot down. He’s been on good behavior for the past few yrs , is “reformed” & thought this behavior was a thing of the past. We all went out for bfast Sunday & had a bad experience at a diner so we left after no service after being seated for a while. We all get back in the car & everyone is throwing out their preferences & I had to be the bigger person saying everyone has to come to an agreement. He cursed under his breath, I said there’s no fucking need to act up, it’s just breakfast for crying out loud, the vibe is off & I’m not having it right now.
My mom picks somewhere hastily & we settle there, I sat at the far end of the table & didn’t talk for the whole time bc he pissed me off really bad. My mom right when we’re getting ready to leave asks if I’m ok bc I seem grumpy. I roll my eyes & and am like are you freaking joking right now I’m not the one that’s been acting up this whole time I’m simply reacting & you’re asking the wrong person. She takes a breath, says something about being positive & her bf says “exactly”. I couldn’t believe it, when we leave I storm off to the car, when we get home she & her bf spend the rest of the day out on the porch talking. In between that time she asks if I’m okay, I get defensive again & bring up his shitty behavior. Then maybe after an hr she comes back, says that she finally gets why I reacted the way I did & apparently she & him talked about it while they were out there.
She & I weren’t talking for a few months before, saying she really doesn’t want again & worries that’ll be the case bc of this new friction in the house now. Since Sunday she hasn’t really talked to me(we all live together), she said hi yesterday, I replied kind of dryly & left it at that. This morning, I walk by & normally she’d say good morning but doesn’t talk to me. I only confronted her with internet issues & she writes me a check for money she borrowed. I don’t get why I’m the one that is not being communicated with while her bf is the issue & they’re talking like nothing ever happened.
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2023.05.30 23:24 EnlightenedNargle I’ve decided to leave my emotionally abusive partner. I’m going to tell them tomorrow and I’m so broken. Please can I have some support, I’ve always felt at home here!
CW: Overdose, BPD, emotional abuse
We’ve been together since September 2021, lived together since 2022 and I lost myself. She has severe BPD but I didn’t care, I poured all I could into her. I thought that because she had stopped self harming and taking 2g of ketamine a day it meant everything was okay!
It wasn’t okay, this relationship broke me and I’m a shell of the person I was before. I was working full time, just got a first class MSc and was about to publish a paper when we got together. Now I’m on disability, not working and am extremely mentally unwell myself. She told me every day I have BPD so when I got diagnosed with autism I told them I had BPD too and also got that diagnosed. But I don’t think I have this, I’m not like her, I can’t lie, I can’t manipulate, and now I’m stuck with this label, that I begged the doctors to give me because I was so convinced I had it.
I have amazing pattern recognition & honestly I was obsessed with her, she was my favourite person, my special interest and I knew something was up. I kept asking and she kept saying nothing was wrong with us. Eventually I broke down and needed to know what was wrong and she admitted to “never lying, picking her words extremely carefully to never lie” which imo is just gaslighting because she was telling me everything was fine and it was all in my head. This lead to insane paranoia and anxiety, I got diagnosed with PMDD as I couldn’t cope and became quite delusional. She expected me to just get over this and move on, when I was non verbal for 3 days she took an OD in the house with me and nearly died. I suddenly couldn’t be upset or non verbal anymore because she tried to die. She knows I have hospital trauma and promised she wouldn’t never do that in our home. She admitted she decided 2 hours before doing it she was going to but didn’t say goodbye as I’d talk her out of it. This traumatised me, she went blue & stopped breathing in our living room.
Decided to go long distance so she could work on herself and be a better partner as our friends pointed out her abuse towards me. I did everything she told me, she told me I’m the perfect partner but she’s sabotaging this and can’t stop. She told me to come home on Thursday for a date, so I paid for travel and everything. At 12pm today she told me she loved me and everything’s fine, she’ll see me Thursday. At 2pm she wants space and to not even talk to me and refuses to see me Thursday. She made me give up my flat to move into her parents 2nd one and now she’s kicked me out of my home after saying I could come back every weekend. 2 days ago she left a part to send me videos of herself doing things and I can’t deal with the mixed messages anymore!
I can’t take this anymore. She’s not broken up with me and she says she “thinks” she loves me. But I can’t cope with the anxiety anymore I have to end it for good but I’m terrified. I’ve been in relationships for the last 7 years, I’ve never lived alone and I’m so so scared to end it. Please can I have some support :(
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2023.05.30 23:21 Dsg1695 How should I handle recent family drama?
This past weekend, my mom’s bf was acting like an ignorant dick & I wasn’t having it. He was being very reactive & acting ghetto, I was beyond irked I put my foot down. He’s been on good behavior for the past few yrs , is “reformed” & thought this behavior was a thing of the past. We all went out for bfast Sunday & had a bad experience at a diner so we left after no service after being seated for a while. We all get back in the car & everyone is throwing out their preferences & I had to be the bigger person saying everyone has to come to an agreement. He cursed under his breath, I said there’s no fucking need to act up, it’s just breakfast for crying out loud, the vibe is off & I’m not having it right now.
My mom picks somewhere hastily & we settle there, I sat at the far end of the table & didn’t talk for the whole time bc he pissed me off really bad. My mom right when we’re getting ready to leave asks if I’m ok bc I seem grumpy. I roll my eyes & and am like are you freaking joking right now I’m not the one that’s been acting up this whole time I’m simply reacting & you’re asking the wrong person. She takes a breath, says something about being positive & her bf says “exactly”. I couldn’t believe it, when we leave I storm off to the car, when we get home she & her bf spend the rest of the day out on the porch talking. In between that time she asks if I’m okay, I get defensive again & bring up his shitty behavior. Then maybe after an hr she comes back, says that she finally gets why I reacted the way I did & apparently she & him talked about it while they were out there.
She & I weren’t talking for a few months before, saying she really doesn’t want again & worries that’ll be the case bc of this new friction in the house now. Since Sunday she hasn’t really talked to me(we all live together), she said hi yesterday, I replied kind of dryly & left it at that. This morning, I walk by & normally she’d say good morning but doesn’t talk to me. I only confronted her with internet issues & she writes me a check for money she borrowed. I don’t get why I’m the one that is not being communicated with while her bf is the issue & they’re talking like nothing ever happened.
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2023.05.30 23:17 IOTSONLINE Little Fox Language Centre
We are looking for a new English teacher at Little Fox Language Centre in Seocho-gu, Gangnam in Seoul. The position would ideally begin in mid-June for training.
Job Overview:
- Monthly salary: 2.3 million KRW for first time teachers but a higher salary depending on experience.
- Working hours: Monday, Wednesday, Friday 11:30am-7:30pm + Tuesday and Thursday 12pm-8pm.
- Class length: M/W/F - 1 hr 30 minutes (break time included). T/T - 2 hrs 15 mins (break time included.) You will also get one 2hr and 15 minute block off to catch up with any unfinished work every week on a Tuesday or a Thursday.
- Classroom size: 10 students maximum
- Level: Elementary
- Contract duration: 12 months
Preferred Conditions:
- Currently living in South Korea, or have all documents available and ready to go.
- E2, F2,4,6 visa holder
- ESL experience preferred but not necessary
Benefits and Compensation:
- Housing: Free furnished housing close to the academy
- Vacation: In your first year you have 11 vacation days (plus all national holidays). 7 of these days are the school’s vacation days then you can use the other 4 days whenever you want.
- Other: Contributions to National Health Insurance & pension, severance pay upon the completion of the contract.
To apply for this position, please send us your resume/CV at : [
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2023.05.30 23:16 probablymilhouse just walked past an obscenely priced house in my neighbourhood
10x my (decent) salary for a reasonably sized house. things are getting absurd. I'm 24 years old. i don't have big dreams - i want a family, to keep them safe & comfortable, and to work a job i don't hate. Is this really too much to ask? apparently so.
sorry for the melodrama.
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2023.05.30 23:15 banbanfan01 update: teh epic grandkids are here :]
2023.05.30 23:12 Jobrated Side Marker Lights
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2023.05.30 23:11 deeptechsharing Upercent Dima Chart
Genre: Electronica, Indie Dance, Deep House, Melodic House & Techno, Organic House / Downtempo
Release Date: 2023-05-29
DOWNLOAD in 320kbps: https://sharing-db.club/djs-chart/436299_upercent-dima-chart/ Tracklist: 1. Michael Mayer, Barnt – Duration (Original Mix) (8:10) 2. Mano Le Tough, Kev Sheridan – Buzzin’ the Big House (Club Mix) (7:31) 3. Konrad Ritter, Neph – Bring It Home (Dave DK Remix) (6:15) 4. Skatman – I Used To (Hiphop Rewarp) (4:59) 5. Sam Shure – Echo Park (Original Mix) (6:04) 6. Marcus Worgull, Daniel Bortz – Dima (Upercent Remix) (5:49) 7. Onur Ozman – Limits of Dreaming Reality Starts (Original Mix) (6:48) 8. Red Axes – Relax Shiva (Instrumental) (6:13) 9. ARCYDARO – Radio Innocents (Original Mix) (6:20) 10. Mioclono, John Talabot, Velmondo – Disobedience (Original Mix) (8:46)
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2023.05.30 23:10 deeptechsharing VA – Defected Ibiza 2023 June 2023
Artist: VA
Title: Defected Ibiza 2023 June 2023
Genre: House, Tech House, Deep House, Dance / Electro Pop, Afro House, Melodic House & Techno, Minimal / Deep Tech, Nu Disco / Disco
Release Date: 2023-05-31
DOWNLOAD in 320kbps: https://sharing-db.club/djs-chart/436304_va-defected-ibiza-2023-june-2023/ Tracklist: 1. ANOTR, Abel Balder – Relax My Eyes (3:12) 2. Butch, Nic Fanciulli – I Want You (3:07) 3. Jansons – Nite Life (Original Mix) (5:00) 4. HoneyLuv, Seth Troxler, Paul Johnson – Sex & The City (MK Remix) (3:07) 5. PRUNK, Rona Ray – Keep It Simple (3:04) 6. HoneyLuv, Dope Earth Alien – Sway (feat. Dope Earth Alien) (2:47) 7. Majestic, Sara Sukkha – Dance All Night (feat. Sara Sukkha) (3:22) 8. Chris Stussy – All Night Long (3:54) 9. Michael Bibi, KinAhau, Audio Bullys – Different Side (3:13) 10. Floorplan – We Give Thee Honor (3:11) 11. Jack Swift – Can I Wait (5:48) 12. Mihalis Safras, Yvan Genkins – Las Solteras (4:00) 13. Joshwa – Bass Go Boom (2:58) 14. Shouse, Dennis Ferrer, Seth Troxler – (still) WON’T4GETU (6:14) 15. Larse – A Part Of (Riva Starr Saturn Mix) (3:25) 16. Kitty Amor, SomaDina – I Saw An Angel On The Roof & Wept (Kitty Amor ‘s Remix) (3:03) 17. Manda Moor – Picante (5:44) 18. MK, Dom Dolla – Rhyme Dust (3:01) 19. Cajmere, Dajaé, Marco Lys – Brighter Days (Marco Lys Remix) (6:22) 20. Mason Collective – A Little Affection (2:22) 21. Sam Divine, Hayley May – Face In The Crowd (3:04) 22. Radio Slave – Wild Life (Disco Mix) (5:49) 23. The Shapeshifters – Lola’s Theme (VIP) (7:18) 24. George Davis – Marimba Disco (Kai Alcé’s NDATL Interpretation) (6:37) 25. Tuccillo, Howard Perry – I Believe (feat. Howard Perry) (7:44) 26. Chloé Caillet, Falle Nioke, Wekafore – In The Middle feat. Falle Nioke & Wekaforé (3:37) 27. Hannah Wants, Ara – The One (feat. ARA) (2:57) 28. Cevin Fisher – Love You Some More (Harry Romero Remix) (3:25) 29. G Club, Banda Sonora – Guitarra G (8:46) 30. Dateless – Geekin (3:35) 31. Wallace – Breaking Up (5:38) 32. Melé – Groove La Afrika (2:49) 33. Angelo Ferreri – A Chance (3:13) 34. Ben Rau – You Got Me Running (6:07) 35. Darius Syrossian, George Smeddles – Back In The Dance (3:26) 36. Kolter – I Feel It Right (3:04) 37. Archie Hamilton, HQA – Let The Light In (feat. HQA) (3:08) 38. Jaden Thompson – Memories (7:17) 39. Jamie Jones – My Paradise (3:31) 40. Route 94 – Clapped (3:30) 41. Boogie Vice, Deep Aztec – Promises (N-You-Up Dub Mix) (3:40) 42. Kerri Chandler, Dreamer G – Hurry Up [Ministry of Sound] (Kerri’s Again Mix) (6:55) 43. Renato Cohen – Suddenly Funk (Andrea Oliva Remix) (3:58) 44. Low Steppa, Crusy – BFG (Extended Mix) (5:42) 45. Marco Lys – The Story Continues (4:50) 46. Melé, Toure Kunda – Talkin’ Drums (3:00) 47. Airborn Gav, Hurricane – Work (Atjazz Remix) (4:10) 48. Joeski – Afro Latinism (6:54) 49. Jovonn – RAISE UP (Raise Up High) (5:47) 50. Riva Starr, Mike Dunn – Feel The Heat (feat. Mike Dunn) (2:51) 51. Dennis Cruz – Una Rumbita (5:44) 52. salute, Sammy Virji – Peach (5:45) 53. Hannah Wants, Clementine Douglas – Cure My Desire (feat. Clementine Douglas) (2:59) 54. Atmos Blaq – Kwa Mama (6:30) 55. Made By Pete – Horizon Red (Extended) (7:07) 56. Cristoph, Awen – Time (4:18) 57. Ezel, Rona Ray – History Repeating (7:31) 58. Franky Rizardo, Ros T, T-Connection – Do What You Wanna Do (Live It Cool) (3:26) 59. Simon Kidzoo – 1 Thang (Original Mix) (3:21) 60. Riva Starr – Flying High (2:59) 61. The Martinez Brothers, Tokischa, Beltran – KILO (Beltran Remix) (4:07) 62. Totally Enormous Extinct Dinosaurs, Redlight – Regulate (2:34) 63. Jovonn, Prunk, M-High – Story Of House (Original Mix) (6:43) 64. A’Studio, Polina – SOS (feat. Polina) (Skylark Remix – Nic Fanciulli Edit) (3:24) 65. Mr. V – Mr. Bongo (Hello Children) (Butch Remix) (4:00) 66. Masters At Work – MAW Apes Groove (6:22) 67. Yours – IN THE MORNING (3:06) 68. Eddie Fowlkes – AHYEE (4:09) 69. Dennis Cruz, Martina Camargo – El Sueño (feat. Martina Camargo) (5:48) 70. Makez, dreamcastmoe – Phases (feat. dreamcastmoe) (VIP Mix) (4:35) 71. Radio Slave, NEZ – Wait A Minute (Dixon Extension) (6:27) 72. Yours – CALLING (3:30) 73. Ben Rau, Oden & Fatzo – Calling Out Your Name (I Can’t Sleep) (Oden & Fatzo Remix) (4:10) 74. Dirty Channels – Make You Cry (4:11) 75. Tensnake – Coma Cat (Chloé Caillet Remix) (3:35) 76. Francis Mercier, Nitefreak, Idd Aziz – Kamili (3:46) 77. Dennis Quin – Dedication To House Music (3:30) 78. Roach Motel – Movin’ On (Darius Syrossian 5am Remix) (3:14) 79. Eats Everything, Shezar – Get Up (3:06) 80. Low Steppa – The Feeling (Edit) (3:17) 81. Harry Romero, Inaya Day – Just Can’t Get Enough (Jamie Jones Edit) (3:28) 82. Shermanology – Souljack (3:44) 83. Arielle Free – You Can’t Stop Me (Edit) (4:05) 84. Classmatic, Nfasis – Toma Dale (5:23) 85. Junior Sanchez, NEZ – Hit It (feat. NEZ) (3:41) 86. Oden & Fatzo – Lauren (I Can’t Stay Forever) (3:20) 87. Todd Terry, Meca, Volkoder, Tristan Henry – Little Woman (feat. Tristan Henry) (3:48) 88. Mr. G – U Feel Mi (Kai Alce’s New Feel) (5:25) 89. Honey Dijon, Dope Earth Alien – It’s Quiet Now (feat. Dope Earth Alien) (3:02) 90. S.A.M., Sarah Ikumu – Spotlight (feat. Sarah Ikumu) (Sam Divine Remix) (2:45)
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2023.05.30 23:08 z3mcs What are your expectations for Winger, Ted & the Wizards for the next 3 months, 6 months, Year, and 2 Years?
Discounting injuries, what are you expecting Winger and Ted and the Wizards to do in the next 3 months?
First 3 months: May 30th through start of training camp in August - Trade everyone and start a rebuild?
- Trade the 8th pick and players to move up in the draft?
- Keep Beal and sign KP & Kuz?
- Keep Beal and draft best player available
- Keep Beal and draft for need (likely a guard)
- Fire Unseld Jr and replace with experienced coach
- Fire Unseld Jr and replace with rookie rebuild type coach
- Something else - describe
Next 6 months: Preseason through trade deadline in Mid February - Start Beal, KP, Kuz, Monte, Gaff
- Tank: start rebuild-acquired rookies and under 25-year-old players
- Start Beal & showcase KP/Kuz in prep for moving them
- Start Beal, KP, Kuz but plan to trade young guys to get 1 or 2 vets to compete
- Something else - describe
Next year: February 2024-February 2025 - Did the team tank after the all star break if they hadn't yet?
- If WUJ was retained, what record keeps him with the organization?
- Assuming no playoffs, what draft pick do you expect? 3? 5? 7? 1?
- Something else - describe
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2023.05.30 23:07 DowntownPassenger412 Whole set up. Looking for 11k
DTNVG Photonis Gen 2+ white phos, Battery Pack, Cable, Wilcox mount, Ops Core AMP’s, Ops Core Hi Cut Ballistic M/L. All very lightly used.
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2023.05.30 23:06 Blopppppppp Rumble in the Jungle - Solo Q Edition
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2023.05.30 23:05 imhere2913 Threatened with a 3 months notice over a stupid argument. This 3 month notice could greatly impact my life.
I posted this on
Advice and they suggested I share it here too. Sorry for it being quite emotional, I am genuinely panicking right now and feel really hurt.
" My partner is threatening me by sending a 3 months notice on the flat we rent together. This is due to me saying I am too busy to take photos for him, to which he responded in a very entitled way that annoyed me. This very childish back and forth fight led to him very suddenly saying that because of what "I've done" he's sending a 3 months notice. Last year he found our current flat on Rightmove, he strongly persuaded me to move in with him as it is affordable and meant we could live very close to where we work. The flat is part of an intermediate housing scheme helping people live close to where they work. I am a 15 minute walk away from my work, outside of the practicalities I really love where I live. He has mentioned wanting to move to another country for some time. He is currently in discussion with his work about working remotely. He has been very vague on how I fit in this, one thing he mentioned is that he’ll continue to contribute to the rent so it doesn't mean I have to lose the flat. But in moments when he has been unhappy about something I have or haven't done, he's often blamed me for being the reason he's still in the UK. He claims that I am a liability to him, that I have been preventing him from moving abroad, and I am the reason he is stuck, depressed and angry. After what I thought was a silly argument he’s claiming I'm to blame for us agreeing to sign a contract to this flat. The agreement was entirely mutual, and he strongly pushed for us to secure a 5 year contract on this flat. Prior to this, I had suggested many times that we should move to separate places knowing how much he wants to move to another country, but he strongly expressed how much he wanted me to live with him and rent this flat together. I'm very worried about the impact this can have on my life, especially financially. I am not on a high wage, I am trying to live in London during a cost of living crisis. Renting the flat I am in now saves a fortune on travel costs as I'm walking distance from work, I won't be able to afford this place alone and I don't know how I'd find somewhere else in 3 months. I have an art project coming up over the next 3 months that can be life-changing, but I also can't drop this project because I'm in agreement with them. Trying to relocate to a new flat and the financial impact of this could mean I'd lose this project, it would be an opportunity I could never get again, and it could be up to £8000 I owe the company for not being able to stick to my promise on completing this art project. I really hope I can get help! Instead of me responding to the company of this art project I am writing a draft letter to citizens advice and on here for help. He has already got in the way of one of the most important things to happen in my life, if not the most important thing. This could ruin my life, and it's over a very pathetic argument."
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2023.05.30 23:04 HercHuntsdirty My (24F) Girlfriend Ended 6 Year Relationship With Me (26M) - I Don’t Understand (Advice/Guidance Needed)
I (26M) was recently broken up with by my (24F) girlfriend of 6 years right after opening up to her about how I had been struggling a lot mentally recently. That's not necessarily the cause, but it happens to be a terrible coincidence.
Backstory to the unfortunate mental struggles:
About 10 weeks ago I had a very long night out and woke up extremely hungover. My brother met up with me that night in our parents car and ended up staying with us for a few drinks, so evidently he left the car.
Of course, I woke up and had a boatload of caffeine so I was already on edge a little bit. My brother was still asleep, so my mom asked me if I could quickly drive my dad to the car so he could take it home. No problem, I hopped in my car and drove there with my dad.
On the way home, completely unprovoked and no anxiety prior, I had an insane panic attack. I’ve never experienced anything like it before. I think I’ve only had one panic attack in my life, and for some reason it left me with a very small amount of social anxiety. During this attack, my hands and feet were completely numb and sweating. At first, I had literally no idea what was going on - I thought it was a legitimate health issue. I ended up taking a bit to drive home, but I made it.
Since then, I've just had heightened anxiety. I've had one other panic attack in the past and I eventually got over the lingering anxiety, so I knew it wasn't permanent.
Mental Health Backstory on her end:
To preface this, we both have anxiety/depression in our genetics unfortunately. In fact, her mom spent some time in the hospital when they were young because of how bad it got.
She also apparently had a ton of anxiety from work recently (she's a nurse, I'm in tech).
On my mothers side of the family, my mom, grandma and great grandma have struggled with anxiety their entire lives, some of them taking antidepressants.
Not fun genes for either of us to have, but we persevered!
Our Relationship:
This is what has been getting to me, our relationship was very healthy. We argued probably 2-3 times per year, we spent the majority of days together - as we lived only a 5 minute drive apart. We were both fully a part of each other's families. All of the normal relationship stuff, we were completely engulfed in it. We had also been looking at engagement rings for a bit and ALWAYS talked about our life together.
When I was about 19 before we were together, I used to drunkenly talk about her all of the time to my friends saying "if she ever gets out of the relationship with her boyfriend (at that time) she's the one I'm going for". When I was graduating high school, I went into her class on yearbook day, grabbed her yearbook and wrote my number in it. Long story short, she ended up single and within a month of that happening, we were together.
The "problems" we had over the years that were semi-recurring:
I didn't suggest enough of our plans. I explained to her a number of times that I'd happily go anywhere, I just don't tend to suggest ideas because sometimes she wanted to, other times she didn't. I've lived by the motto "happy wife, happy life" in that relationship, so I tended to go along with whatever she suggested.
We didn't take enough pictures together. I don't really like being in too many pictures and that bothered her.
We didn't travel together enough. This goes back to the anxiety, I hate flying and haven't done it in almost a decade. However, I have an appointment with my doctor in early July where I'm requesting some "emergencies only" anxiety medication to use for that exact scenario. Note - she went on a number of trips over the years with her closest friends. Furthermore, we had done weekend getaways via car together but those apparently don't count. To add, her friends are hopping on planes at least once per month to go somewhere, I think comparison became the thief of joy here.
I didn't tell her I loved her enough or hug her enough. This one is hard for me because I felt like I definitely told her I loved her a lot. She used to occasionally say "do you even love me", semi-joking but also serious, and I always told her of course I did and even though I may not say it a number of times a day, of course I do. I also did a TON of things for her to show how much I cared (ie. she very rarely had to make a lunch for work, I cooked for her almost every day and we don't even live together) The hugging thing is a bit different, as she's always been extremely affectionate and I never really have been. I truly think it comes down to how I was raised, affection just wasn't a huge part of my childhood. (note, that's not a problem for me or anything, I had incredible family/parents, it just wasn't as prominent as it was in her childhood)
I cared a lot about money and how we could set ourselves up to move out. She had taken 5 trips (two of them by train, three by plane) with her friends in the past year and after the 5th one I asked if she planned on slowing down so she could focus on tackling her student debt and so we could start saving to move out, have a wedding etc. Specifically, I wanted us to be in the position where we weren't renting a home, ESPECIALLY given how much money we were making combined. This part kind of confused me because she was the first one to suggest moving out, but when it came time to adjusting the lifestyle to prepare for it, she didn't like the idea. But, I did use it as a crutch for my anxiety to get out of things sometimes and I did open up to her about that. As an example though, I still went with her to the Gucci store and helped her pick out a very expensive purse to celebrate getting her first real nursing job after graduating. I don't feel that I cared about money (especially given the stage we were in in our lives) more than any of my buddies with girlfriends. I wanted us to be set up well for the coming stages of our lives; they were fast approaching. Furthermore, her friends are catching a plane every weekend and are living with their parents but pay cheque to pay cheque with no prospects of ever leaving unless it's renting
The Situation:
About 7-ish weeks ago, a few weeks after my panic attack, my girlfriend was very adamant that we needed to book a trip together. She said we hadn't been on a "real" trip during our relationship (by real, she means getting on a plane). We were sitting down in her bed on my laptop looking at destinations and flights, but I was incredibly anxious about the whole thing. As we were about to book, I broke down and was fully vulnerable to her for one of the first times in the 6 year relationship. I said that I just don't see myself getting onto a plane right now without some kind of medication to calm me down. On top of that, it would stress me out financially a bit, as I'm a full-time masters student and working full time. Plus, it was during my one-week semester break, so I honestly just wanted to relax.
From that day on, our relationship started going downhill. She said she felt extremely disappointed by the whole situation and she couldn't shake the feeling. We then started only hanging out maybe once per week and it was very bland when we did. A couple weeks after that incident, I slept over at her house and I could tell she was genuinely just not happy at that time.
Brief backstory - despite being 26, my mom still gives me a ton of flack if I sleep at her house. It was rare that I got away with it. But, I did it that night anyway because she always asked me to sleep over but I rarely wanted to have to deal with my mom. I thought it would help show her I'm really trying to get better. She also invited me over the following evening and I obviously went.
After that day, I don't think we saw each other for about 2 weeks. I texted her on a Friday evening and said I just don't feel like she wants to be with me anymore. She picked me up so we could talk, and explained that she felt very disappointed about how we were so close to booking the trip and ended up not doing it. She said she needed a break and I was fine with it, I understood where she was coming from.
During this time, I started seeing a therapist. I found one online who was one of the highest rated in my province and was also extremely experienced in marital/pre-marital counselling so I could tell her about the relationship issues I was having along with my anxiety.
Fast forward about 2 more weeks (last weekend) she texted me saying she was ready to talk and picked me up. She said it's probably best if we just end the relationship for the time being. She explained that she felt she had been disappointed a few times over the years and was bottling a lot of things up. She said she needed time to "find herself again" and didn't know if we would get back together at all in the future or not. Then, we sat there talking in her car for another 30 minutes like things were normal so it really threw me off.
I ended up texting her the next day and asked if I could pick her up because I was confused from the night prior since we talked so normally after the breakup conversation. We ended up talking again, sharing some tears and what not, but I kind of understood why she felt she needed to be alone for a bit, even though she didn't know if we would get back together or not. She said that people do this all of the time and sometimes they come back stronger, but if it was meant to be then we'll get back together. I also told her about how much help I'm getting and how I'm setting a goal to take a vacation when I finish my masters in November. She was noticeably happy and asked a lot about how I was talking to my therapist about improving as a person and a (what I thought was soon to be) fiancé. She asked for all of the details about what we talked about in regards to our relationship and was very happy that I was putting that much effort in.
A couple days ago is when she deleted are photos together, but it came right after she posted an Instagram story while out with a friend who has no stability whatsoever. This friend has been on and off with the same guy (who treats her terribly) for as long as we were together. Not to mention, she sleeps around a ton. I can't help but feel like some of this breakup is being influenced by her friends (specifically this one) wanting her to be single like they are out of jealousy or something. Or, they want her to be flying somewhere once a month with them with no plans for the future. My girlfriend has cried to me in the past because she had been brought to places she didn't want to be because her friend wanted to go for a guy. That friend has also been binge drinking several times weekly for years. The following night, her two friends posted a story of her incredibly drunk in the back of a car with her feet out of the window I'm sure in hopes that I would see it. We're grown ass adults, I can't help but feel like that's just not a cool thing to do to your friend in general? I don't care how drunk you are, in fact I expected her to have a night out with her friends and let loose but posting someone else like that is just insanely stupid to me! To put the icing on the cake, one of my long time buddies from high school decided to go for one of her friends and I gave him substantial warnings about her. Within a year, that relationship was completely over with and she was on to the next.
Neither of us were ever the type one to have one-night stands or get around, so I'm not concerned about anything like that during the breakup. If it happens it happens, but I won't be sleeping with anyone until I've put in all of my effort to saving everything we've built. She's only ever been with me and her ex, while I've had a handful more partners before her - but I've experienced enough in my 26 years to know that there was is only one woman for me.
After all of this, I still couldn't shake the feeling that I felt I was being abandoned during the one time in my entire life I've opened up to anyone and really wanted some support. I'm also just having a hard time processing why it happened and how I can salvage it.
I've texted her once per week since the breaks & breakup happened just telling her that I loved her and wished we were going to XYZ events coming up. I also always say in the message that "You don't have to respond or even read it, I just want you to know". I'm having a hard time deciding if I should continue giving her that weekly text or not, but I really do want her to know how much I care and thought we were a dream team.
I just can't help but feel like we had "problems" that were very fixable and were very minor compared to 99% of couples. Her two best friends have had 5+ boyfriends each in the time that we were together and countless one-night stands. Every time they would break up, I'd hear a story from my girlfriend about how terribly they were treated by these guys and we talked about how lucky we are to have each other. There was no forms of jealousy or self-consciousness between us either, neither of us were bothered when we went out alone with our respective friend groups. I also never for a second worried when she travelled with her friends that she'd cheat or something.
This wraps in with why I can't process the breakup. Aside from the few things we argued about here and there (few times a year) it was an incredibly healthy relationship. I had a great relationship with her friends (despite some of the things I've said about them above) and would often times opt to go out drinking with her group over my group of buddies. I acknowledged my shortcomings as a boyfriend (ie. the affection) with my therapist and she's giving me some help with it. Am I crazy for thinking 1. that I can fix what's happened and 2. Part of this breakup might just be her wanting to see how much I actually care?
Anyway, I might add to this if I remember more important points. I just needed to get some of this off my chest. If you've made it this far into my story, thanks for reading!
TL;DR - Our relationship was very healthy, we never argued, the breakup came essentially because I wasn’t ready to travel despite the fact that I’m actively getting help
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2023.05.30 22:54 Supersister777 Neighbourhood House Fire & Safety
I'm wondering, is it recommended to wait a period of time before going outside after a house fire that occurred down the street? There was a substantial amount of smoke that was isolated to the house, yet visible from my viewpoint. Would the air quality in our neighbourhood be minimally impacted? I wanted to take my dog for a walk, but I'm unsure if I should wait a few hours.
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2023.05.30 22:54 WhiskeyRanting RDA Recap - May 29, 2023
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2023.05.30 22:50 girluoeno My unregistered car was towed from my driveway by code enforcement, but the code they’re giving me doesn’t say I can’t have an unregistered car
I have a house in Albany but I knew I was going to be gone for about a year and wouldn’t need to drive my car so I canceled car insurance. In order to do that, they had me turn in my license plate. Then I left my car parked in the small parking lot on my property.
Fast forward to last week, I get back to Albany prepared to get my car checked up by a mechanic & get license plates… and my car is not there. I call the cops, they think the whole thing is weird and can’t tell me why it was towed. Eventually they find out they were told by code enforcement that it was a code violation so they had it towed. They give me the phone number of the code office.
Well I just got off the phone with an unbelievably rude guy from the code office who cited code NYS PMC 302.8 and said I can’t have an unregistered vehicle on my property. I asked if they sent out a notice and he read off that they sent a notice to an address all the way in California that I’ve never heard of or lived near.
After I hung up, I looked up the code it and says “not more than one inoperative or unlicensed motor vehicle shall be parked, kept or stored on any premises, and no vehicle shall at any time be in a state of major disassembly, disrepair, or in the process of being stripped or dismantled”
Not more than one. I only had one. And it was not in a state of disassembly/disrepaietc. So I called back to get clarification and he said no the code says you can’t have unregistered vehicle. Then he hung up on me.
I don’t even know where to go from here. It was towed 2 months ago and it’ll cost over $2500 to get it out of the tow place. Is this guy being truthful that I violated a code? If so, which code? And if this was a mistake, what do I do?
Thanks in advance for any help or insight you provide.
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2023.05.30 22:50 SlinkySlekker Neighbors’ visitors park in front of my home. Problem is, where they are parking is not on the street — we paid to pave over our flower beds, creating a setback from the street for our own additional parking spaces within our property line.
Just curious how others would handle this. My family home is on a private road, in a gated community, for the past 45 years. Very quiet neighborhood where most people have lived for decades. I know I’m very lucky to live where I do, and it’s 100% because of my father’s hard work, proper planning, and buying before the gates went up. We may have actually been the first interracial family here, and growing up, there were only about 15 other kids, at best, out of 100+ homes. In the past 20 years, we’ve become way more integrated (Thankfully. We even have gay couples now, and all!) but the vibe is definitely still Preppy/WASP-Y, mind your manners, be a good neighbor at all costs. We all know how blessed we are to be here & there is low turnover.
We’re in the mountains, don’t have sidewalks or street lamps, lots of bears, mountain lions, bobcats, etc., and everybody keeps themselves to themselves. The privacy of my neighborhood is as much geographical as attitudinal.
The neighborhood was almost destroyed by forest fires a few decades ago, and our house burned down, like every other person here. Because of fires & rock/mud slides, we realized we could be cut off and unable to leave our driveway in the back, in the next emergency. So when we rebuilt, we paid a lot of money to pave over our flower beds out front, which was about 6 feet set back from the road.
People keep parking there, which is odd, considering how little we, as a community, bother each other. If you have a party, you either shuttle guests in, notify your neighbors, or instruct visitors to park on the side of the street that has ZERO houses. Our “neighborhood manners” is to not bother each other, so it’s a BIG difference for us.
It never bothered me, because they’re our “in case of emergency or when the rest of the family visiting” spots. But I’m my mother’s caregiver, and she is s preternaturally territorial. She’s told the neighbors that we don’t want strangers parked in front of our house for hours at a time, especially because they’re literally trespassing on our property. We are the only house with a set-back, and private spaces in front. Anyone parking there can see that they are on our property, because our mailbox still meets the private road.
Recently, crime is creeping closer to our community — never a problem in the past b/c of our relative isolation. When my mother told me that she experiences low level fear and uncertainty to have unknown stranger parking in front of our house, I suddenly got it, and it’s beginning to annoy me also.
What would you do? She’s against “tacky” signs, but last night, I ordered “Private Property: No Parking” 6 x 12 signs I can place close to our curb — if she lets me. I inherited the house, but I’m determined to defer to my mother out of love and respect. She CANNOT abide these parkers, and occasionally will email around asking whose car it is.
I’m staying here after she passes, and I’m kinda stressed about this weird issue the new neighbors are causing. The old neighbors we’ve always known and shared private sensibilities are dying or downsizing. More new people apparently means more boundary testing. I’m a lawyer, and realize I’m 100% within my rights to tow their friends, all day every day, but I’m also a good neighbor who appreciates the introverted sense if community we’ve always had here.
I want it to stop for quite a few reasons, but mainly, I want our boundaries respected. Yes, our spots are next to the road, but legally and visually are not street parking. I’m intense and aggressive by nature (helps w/being a trial attorney), but I love this little oasis of peace and do not want to upset the balance we’ve always had. But it’s starting to piss me off, now, so I’d truly appreciate other perspectives on this.
Edit: It’s not a frequent thing, btw. Happens really only 6-12 times a year. But the agitation & feelings of disrespect/violation (?) it’s starting to cause is something I want to stop. Life is short, but property law is property law. I’m an introvert, despite being confrontational as a lawyer, and the crossing of my/my property boundaries mat flip my bitch switch, which I absolutely do not want.
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2023.05.30 22:48 MariahNicole1216 Help! Did I kill my impatients before they had a chance?
| So I am a very new gardener and only started learning last spring/summer since I bought a house the previous year. Last spring I planted impatients in this spot in the same manner and was able to get them to grow really full. Well I planted these about a week ago (I’m zone 5) and 3/4 of them are seemingly dying! One little section is doing well despite getting roughly equal amount of sun. I’ve been trying to figure out what could be wrong and today I thought of something. When planting I found a bottle of Schultz Starter Plus Transplanting solution in my shed from last year and decided to use that on the roots as I planted each flower. Well I happened to run out before I finished & the flowers that are doing well are also the ones that didn’t get solution.😭 Have I made a dire mistake? Is it possible to fix it and if so, how? I’m so sad! submitted by MariahNicole1216 to gardening [link] [comments] |