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Can anyone tell me what might be causing these panic attacks
So for context I’m a teenager and I live in a mostly safe area. The most recent crime we had was someone’s car got stolen a few years ago, there has never been any robberies or violence.
However for months, every so often when I go to bed I will suddenly feel like I can hear footsteps and the front/ back doors opening, this causes me to have panic attacks and lock myself inside a bathroom and hiding curled up in the bath tub. I will just lay there panicking until at least 5-6am. And I physically cannot move even if I needed the toilet I could not. I often make sure all of the doors are locked before bed but this still does not assure me.
Annoyingly I cannot bring myself to tell my parents about this so they will force me awake at around 10am meaning I will have gotten little sleep. And if I take a nap or look tired they will say I have been up on my devices and threaten to take them away. But I know that if they took away my phone then my panic attacks would be a lot worse because if there was an intruder then this would mean I could not call the police.
I had one of these panic attacks last night and find myself incredibly tired however I still cannot bring myself to sleep and at still shaking from the fear of an intruder. Does anyone know what this might be? Or Any methods to prevent it or help deal with it?

These no name air mattress pumps are all over Amazon, but they seem like junk. It worked great but only lasted one summer. Is it because I let it go uncharged for several months? Anyway, is this the best solution for my needs or should I step up to a tire pump?
https://www.amazon.com/FLEXTAILGEAR-Portable-Ultra-Mini-Rechargeable-Mattress/dp/B088T7WZDN/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_sspa

Posted in multiple subs for visibility. Need advice before things get worse.
I am a 22f.
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I have:
• a two person tent from Walmart (ozark)
• two quilts
• a sleeping pillow
• sleeping mat
• camp stove (no pot or propane)
•a big lab named Mike
• two days worth of dog food
• two days worth of water
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I do not have:
• human food
•toiletries
•asthma inhaler
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• Will be camping near Bozeman, MT.
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Shelter opens up next Thursday for a bed in their program that will help me land a job. I had to get away from being beat nearly every day and this was my best shot.
Sucks they don’t have beds, but I have a spot waiting on me and I just need to make it until then.
I have $12 and a friend may be sending a few extra if they get paid early. How should I best use what I have?
I was turned away from the food bank today for not being a county resident and said the church sometimes does a drive on fridays, so I’ll check again tomorrow to see if there’s any non-perishables I can grab, as well as any toiletries.
It’s about a 9 mile walk from camp to the church and store and stuff, so hopefully something works out. Getting tired, muscles hurt, getting too much sun.
Need advice on what to do if you were me until next week.
Peace and love and let’s all have an amazing weekend out there!

Im pretty fed up with men on seeking who you basically have to torture and interrogate just to get them to send a picture. I had a guy who was obviously using old/outdated pics message me, and when I asked for recent ones he came up with a whole excuse about wanting to stay discreet and that he “purposely” used low res pics. Then another guy who I had to ask to share his private pics, only to find they were body only and face cut off. What is the deal with these guys? They act like women are on the prowl to find guys, stalk them and out them to the world. And 9 times out of 10 they’re nobodies and wouldn’t get recognized from a grain of sand. I just can’t. I’m so tired of asking people to share pics.
Oh, and then there’s the “can I add you on snap” guys. GAG

Need your advice on a deal to return to an old firm.
For context I’m mid 20’s male have been in the industry since 2020 and have CFP. Started out at a solo practitioner where I was back office/ paraplanne fix it guy. Really enjoyed my time there but ultimately left to set my sights on greener pastures and work at a larger ensemble firm as I sought out an advisor track.
For the last year, I have been in an associate level role where I have much more (daily) client contact but am not in a direct advice giving role. I’ve learned a bunch about the soft side of the business. Ultimately, I enjoy the ppl I work with a lot and am well liked and considered a great talent within the firm but will not be given a junior advisor role for at least two more years.
My old solo practitioner wants me back and is willing to carve out a path for me continue to service his clients at a higher base pay than current but this is likely only 20-25 hrs/ week of work.
With the remaining time, I can use this to formulate my marketing plan and begin to build out my niche (still TBD) and COI relationships while hopefully servicing some next gen clients of the firm.
Below is the comp structure he laid out:
Base: $80K which includes 3% Firm Revenue Share (variable component of base changes with quarterly billing, so as firm assets rise, base comp rises)
Revenue Share for my clients (ME / FIRM):
AUM: $0-10M: 30% (M) / 70% (F) $10-20M: 40% / 60% $20-30M: 50% / 50% $30-40M: 60% / 40% $40-50M: 70% / 30% $50M+: 80% / 20%
Once I move up a tier, that percentage applies to my entire AUM.
The advisor at the solo practitioner and I have a very good relationship and he wants me to be his succession plan in case he gets hit by a bus, which is a whole other story.
I have no producing experience but I believe that I can stick around long enough to make something happen and am definitely a self starter. Not discounting how incredibly difficult it will all be though. No doubt that it will take much longer than I think.
However, this seems like a fair arrangement, no?

I am uncomfortable keeping it here for long so I might delete this in a few days.
My (F 29) sister (F 28) has been diagnosed with depression many years ago. For background: We are from a very conservative family and she does not want my parents to know about her depression cause apparently she hates them for reasons (emotionally neglectful when we were children cause they just working all the time) and blames them for her depression..
Long story short: I've tried my best to support her eventhough I don't live at home anymore (she does). When she complains or whines, I've tried saying things to make her feel better, she will say I don't understand her situation; if I try to offer her a solution, she will say she didn't ask for unsolicited advice; if I don't reply her, she'll say I don't care. This has been going on for years and I feel like I was stepping on eggshells everytime I talk to her because she is like a volcano that will explode at anytime for the most random things (like not supporting her when she argues about the dumbest things with my parents, like just conversation about world news, it's just not anything worth being so angry over ). Eveytime this happens, she will blocked or remove herself from a group chat, become passive aggressive towards you, shout at you and throw things or give u the silent treatment for many days. Initially I would want to make amends cause I just want to talk to her so I would apologize eventhough I don't think I've done anything wrong. But I remember the last time we've fight again, I decided I had enough and stopped apologizing. She started talking to me a few days later but never apologized for her actions.
I was really patient and telling her that she needs to get therapy. Eventually after a few years she did went but ended up not getting anything out of it because she was being defensive with the therapist.
She also always threatens me with suicide. 'i hate this world I want to kill myself'. Everytime she says that I would try to be like noo why pls get help, but it's hard to not be numb towards it as she has never taken any action. It made me feel like she was manipulating me for attention with empty threats, but deep down I still do get worried.
I've been to therapy because of her and my therapist advised me to tell her that her behaviour has affecting me to get her to take responsibility for her actions, but my sister turned around and said she doesn't understand why it should upset me...
We just had another fight after I've tried to be firm and told her she is actually the one causing the problems for herself at this point in her life (she not a child anymore and she has a full time job) and she should start taking responsibility for her behaviour that has affected the people around her. But instead, she stopped replying me and went to post on FB bout how her family doesn't support her and no one wants to help her get better, which I got very upset with because she is making up lies. 1. She never told anyone else in the family that she has depression, how are they supposed to support her? 2. So all these years my 'support' meant nothing, because I was the one that found her when she got forcefully admitted into a psych ward after I lost contact with her 3. I'm not a therapist I can't help u get better, u need professional help (literally told her this but in a nicer way)
I wish she would one day become self aware, realise she is behaving like a spoilt child at this point and be open to the help she needs. The psychologist I've spoken to says she is unlikely to change since she is an adult now and her behaviour seems to have started since she was at a young age. I'm so tired and done with this.
Also I am believing she has some form of personality disorder at this point.

Advice needed. I have always had a “work hard, play hard” personality. I have high standards and have accomplished most of my goals in life. I hit my 40s and realize that alcohol isn’t serving me. Life on difficult mode. Drinking nightly for no good reason. I don’t drink to repress or forget. I’m generally a happy and optimistic person. But after deep reflection, I realize that I’m basically a lush or hedonist. I just want life to be a party! I don’t shy from hard work, but I need a release. I need something to look forward to. Can you relate? How do you stay true to this side of yourself while also committing to a sober life? How did you transition your dopamine cravings to sober living? I exercise quite a bit already (weights and long hikes) but I feel like I will always want to ring that bell every once in a while for the rest of my life. I want it both ways. I’ve strung together months at a time but I’m currently off again and searching for the motivation to get back on the path while still honoring the deepest parts of me.

I (21F) and one of my close friends we’ll call her Cynthia (19F) we’re supposed to be going to one our favorite artists together. The concert was a few weeks ago and actually coincidentally got re scheduled. It is now coming up again though and I do no think I can go with her. The show was on a Saturday so I went up to her house on Friday night to stay over so we could leave early in the morning because the show was about two hours away. We don’t really get to see each other that often because I live pretty far away and I’m in school and have a full time job. It had been about 2 months since I had seen her. Friday night was great we had drinks and we smoked and everything we were up till about 1am, we started talking about the next morning and I told her we should get up around 11, it was a two hour drive and we had check in at the hotel and we were going to stop at the store before we went. We agreed and went to bed.
In the morning I was up around 10 and decided to get ready, I didn’t wake her up until around 10:45 because that is what time she told me the night before and I know she has trouble getting up. I woke her up and she immediately had an attitude. She went back to sleep and she didn’t get up till 11:30. It didn’t really bother me that she did that because I knew we had plenty of time. We finally got on the road around 12 and decided to stop at a rest stop for lunch. We got our food and we were sitting but she still had an attitude. I was trying to make subtle and friendly conversation every response she had was an attitude. But I just brushed it off. This continued the whole ride though, over little things ( the songs we were listening to etc.) I finally had enough, I was so upset ( I also have bipolar and when I get upset or mad it explodes almost) I was crying and telling her how she was making me feel. She didn’t listen to a single thing I said and told me I was the one snapping at her and having an attitude. I really felt like I didn’t though (besides when I reacted)but she said since Friday night I had been like that. Again I didn’t feel like I did and I actually know I hadn’t been. I apologized i don’t have much time off and had been working non-stop for the past two months and I didn’t want to go to the show fighting or fight with her all weekend. We finally recovered got to the hotel and the show was canceled but we decided to stay anyways or I would have been charged for a late cancellation fee and figure we would take advantage of a weekend away.
We got to our room changed and went down the pool when we got back up. She was going to shower I wasn’t going to because we were thinking about going back. But I changed my mind. I went in and rinsed off for about 30 minutes. I came out and asked her if she was going in she said no and sarcastically said “your quick rinse took 20 minutes” with an attitude. I started reacting again, told her that I’m not doing this all weekend and that I was gonna go to the car to take a breather. She accused me of leaving and abandoning her even though I told her I wasn’t and said we can do whatever she wants and she can come with me. She said no and I went in the bathroom and sat there for 40 minutes crying. I finally relaxed and when I came out she wanted to talk. She told me basically the same thing the first time, I just agreed so we could get over it. We got dinner, I showered and then went to bed not ignoring her but I didn’t really talk to her unless she talked to me. The next morning I got up around 9, started getting ready I change in to something casual did my hair and that was it. Cynthia didn’t get up till around 10 and she rolled out of bed literally and we went down to the hotel breakfast we came back up around 10:30 and she packed in about 5 minutes. We didn’t have to check out Till 11. She asked if I was ready to go and I suggested we chill for a few before we leave. She immediately snapped at me and said “so now you wanna get all cute and have fun” i again got upset but didn’t say anything and got in the car and started driving I was silent the whole ride home.
We were about 10 minutes from the house and she finally asked me if something was wrong. I told her I was just tired. She then said it’s almost been a year since we hung out and we just need to get back in our groove. I saw her a couple months before this though and she has never made me feel this way ever and we’ve been friends for a few years. I was so upset I cried for almost the whole day after this. She texted me a few days after this basically saying the same things and that if she needed to apologize for me to stop being mad at her then she would. ( IMPORTANT DETAIL- I paid for this weekend along with the tickets and she is supposed to be paying me back and hasn’t given me anything yet) AITAH if I uninvite her, I feel so confused over this and feel guilty if I uninvite her but I don’t think I can risk my mental health over this happening again. Also I feel guilty asking but she’s owes me about 150 for just that weekend not even the tickets but I feel guilty if I uninvite her and then also ask for the hotel money back and for the food and stuff that weekend

Big house cleaning of coffee gear from both work and home. Located in Portland, Oregon. First time selling here but active in other subreddits and my username is pretty public with my business. Paypal only for payment. Pricing is for shipping in lower-48 only. Would consider Canada with additional costs covered.
Message me here or email scott AT on3pskis DOT com.
1) Niche Zero - Black - $450 Shipped
2) DF64 w/ SSP MP - Black - $400 Shipped
Niche bought last Feb. DF64 bought last April. Between the two of them made 2 espresso per day (probably 75% on the DF64, 25% on the Niche). SSP are well seasoned. Selling as DF83 replaced both.
DF64 has the original burrs (unused) and some accessories. Angled dosing forks, along with a Camperista chute and declumper (didn't get to installing).
https://imgur.com/a/1mrR5R4
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3) Ratio Six - Black - $175 Shipped
Used a few times at work, but just overkill for our small crew.
https://imgur.com/a/bpr6LOK
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4) 9Barista - $325 Shipped
Really fun device, used a handful of times and was going to make part of a travel kit, but going to pause that idea for now.
Comes with the following: Induction Plate, Tamper, Stock Basket, IMS Precision Basket, (2) Basket Caps, Normcorm 53mm Puck, and some spare gaskets
https://imgur.com/a/yaUCGUW
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5) Flair 58 - Left - $350 Shipped
6) Flair 58 - Right - $300 Shipped
Left was located at work and saw minimal use (1-2 per week).
Right is from home - used on and off for about 3 months. The portafilter handle has some damage - I have no idea from what - but hence the discount. Otherwise totally good to go.
Both come with all the items from the original purchase I believe.
https://imgur.com/a/8qV5jQ1
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7) Fellow Clara French Press (2) - $50 Shipped Each
8) Fellow Stagg Pour-Over Dripped - $30
9) 1Zpresso J-Max - $100 Shipped
Comes with travel case and all accessories
10) Bravo Tamper - Dark Wood - $125 Shipped
Used for several months. Some scratching on the mirror finish on the bottom but purely visual.
11) ECM Dual Spouted Portafilter - $30
I am just never going to use this. Used once.
https://imgur.com/a/ng54ILU
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Message or email me with any questions. Post will be updated as items sell. Thanks for looking.

I started playing Diablo Inmortal like a month ago and i enjoyed it, but the "mobile mechanics" throw me back.
Just finished the Starter Edition and i really enjoyed it. I was looking at the price history of the game and maybe the game will be on discount at the release date of Diablo 4. Perhaps buying the game now and the DLC when its on sale is a better idea than waiting 5 days for a possible price reduction.

I burst my tire and bought a new one. Unfortunately didn’t realize my fronts were slightly different width / aspect ratio than my rears, and I got the wrong one. Was tempted to have the mechanic mount it anyway, but every answer I found said don’t do it so new tire is on the way. I just had to know though - as it’s an EV, does the e-diff work a bit differently? Would it have mattered?

Hi <3 I am tired of not having any time for me, and having to fight for affection & attention.
I took the step back up to the $200k position so that I could give us any life we dream of when I'm vested in five years. I took the opportunity to give you the ability to step back from patients to spend more time with our two young children in their most formidable years like you said you should.
I did NOT accept this position for you to go to part-time hours for two weeks, and then go back to full-time hours. I have to take care of all the house chores WHILE working F/T in this position, pick the kids up from school, fix them dinner, bathe them and put them to bed. You come home, document, set up your next day, and then I just listen while you talk about NOTHING but work and how exhausted you are. I know you're exhausted. I'm fine, thanks.
but... NO, I don't want to watch the neighbors kids or dogs every weekend. You're a saint. You really are. I will stay home to help because I don't want to put that all on you but I WANT TO DO SOMETHING FOR ME and Jiu-Jitsu for one hour, three mornings a week, is just not enough. Also, being "home" all day is not it, because I am working. I am.
I love seeing you happy. I just NEED more than 20%, right now. I love you just as much as I did the day we got married. I am SO physically attracted to you.. just as much as I ever... I just don't want to "make it quick" (sex) because you're exhausted. We are incredible when we slow it down a bit.
I just told you on the phone that I can't vent to you and that's true, but I don't have anyone else to vent to and I am in the middle of fixing our kids & dogs dinner while you are getting your hair done
...so I guess it's Reddit. Your dinner is in the fridge, and the kids are bathed and in bed. I have a meeting first thing in the AM <3
I Love you. Goodnight.

My (24M) girlfriend said I’m like a robot and I’m beginning to think she’s right. It’s been something that has come up a few times during our relationship. It started off as a funny thing, like it’s funny that I’m not like normal people. Recently it’s been less funny. I want to be more human but I don’t know how.
I have no interest in conversation, I hate small talk, and I never feel like socialising. I go to work and sit at my desk for 9 hours in an office with hundreds of other people. On most days I don’t say a single word to anyone. It’s not that I don’t want to, I just don’t see the point. I only speak if I have something to say and I struggle to make conversation. I don’t have any friends, I feel like I don’t understand the concept and I can’t stop seeing relationships as transactional, meaning I think about what I get out of a relationship in return for what I put in.
I had a friend but I realised I was putting in more effort when it came to meeting up so I stopped. We were friends for 16 years and I feel nothing. I haven’t spoken to my parents in weeks. I haven’t spoken to my sister in months. I just have no interest in her or her life and I know that’s weird but I don’t know how to change how I feel
I have no motivation to do anything other than work, eat, housework, and sleep. I don’t use social media - I just don’t understand it. I’m completely honest at all times with anyone. Nothing really bothers me, I just shrug off any difficulty and deal with it rationally and logically. I don’t really feel any emotions, I just feel numb and tired.
I’ve been like this for a long time, some of my issues were present when I was a child, other issues are new and getting worse.
I have adhd and probably autism. I’m trying to find a counsellor to speak to. I don’t know the point of this post, I just wanted to get it off my chest

First date I had with this girl was 2 weeks ago and it went really well and we really clicked. We’re meeting up again tonight, going to get some food then head to this live music bar then might hit up another place before taking a walk. I was really excited for this but last night I only got like 3 hours of sleep max and now I’m really tired. What should I do? I really, really don’t want to postpone.

I just started using the app since I like to get coffee now and then when I'm off, and since I live right by one (that I do not work at) I figured might as well go with a personal cup and the app to get the stars. I've used it with my partner number discount and scanning the app with the cup discount on the register but I still don't have the 25 stars. Are we exempt from this bonus?

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So yeah im a tiny 17 yo girl with rly fast metabolism and (obviously) very poor self control. I did not sleep at all last night, accidentally took my medicine at like 6 PM and have this huge math exam tomorrow. You probably already know where this is going. I took my regular medicine this morning at like 7 AM(150mg sertraline 70mg Elvanse) and had 8 cups of coffee so far and its 8:50 pm rn. Well yeah Ive been too tired and ig all the elvanse if out of effect I decided to snort it. lol. I mean istg most of us have tried it at some point right? Now I dont do drugs or anything dont worry this was actually my second time ever snorting anything, the first time being when I had 16mg Elvanse. Hahshhsh well yeah. So I snorted my 70mg capsule, which hurt like a bitch lemme just tell u omg, and shit just went south. Then north. then left. and yeah. but its ALL RIGHT NOW HA HA HA. omg stfu
Well its been like an hour and im kinda fine now. I did the whole line in one go which was stupid as fuck cause not soon after I started kinda hearing and feeling my heartbeat going faster and faster and my hand were kinda shaking and I somehow I got rly lightheaded and i just zooned out deeeep for a minute. Then I got so much energy and thoughts and I was walking around switching between playing drums and studying and cooking food and changing my outfit and yeah. AND OMG I HAVENT FELT LIKE THIS IN SO LONG I MISS IT SO MUCH AAAAAAAAAAH
Cause look Ive been on sertraline going up and down between 125mg-175mg(which btw if u dont know is a shit ton of antidepressants) for about two years and have been on elvanse 70mg for like 10months and omggg I dont even think Ive realised how much it just brings you down and just calms you. Like yeah Ive forgotten to take my medicine so many times but those times all I get is withdrawls and shit. But taking way more than u should wtf I felt like myself 2 years ago istg. Suddenly I started having 1000 thoughts at once and so much energy i just wanted to go for a run and I got so many ideas of things I should do and fr recorded like 3 songs. Bro ngl I've missed feeling like this. Ofc I still know why I began the meds in the beginning and I probably wouldnt go back just because all the trouble my ADHD has caused me n shit. But damn have I missed this feeling omg. Still feeling the energy and all that btw if its not noticeable enough lol my heart is fine but my hands r still a little shaky idk. Tbh this was all prob a big mixture of overtiredness, a bit to much caffeine, stress and ofc the meds cause I didnt rly get high yk.
Anyway yeah just wanted to share this experience and yeah uhm please do not try this. I made my friend look up the risks and like if I should have gone to a doctor and istg I was one symptom from calling an ambulance. I wont be doing this again and neither should you ESPECIALLY under similar circumstances. So yeah now both me and you know what it feels like and neither of us should try it again. Okay. Bye. Love u take care.

There are no warning lights on but the wheel is difficult to turn at slow speeds and feels "odd" at highway speeds. I have Michelin CrossClimate2 tires last year but I only noticed this problem recently.
Any ideas what it could be or what I could try before going to the stealership?

I'm getting the parts together for my first PC build, but the only thing I'm unsure about is the motherboard. I'm still learning the differences between motherboards, so they're kind of hard to differentiate for me. I read that the Z690 now supports 13th gen CPUs, which would be handy because it doesn't seem to be capable of BIOS flashback, but I wanted to check to make sure. Any suggestions? Or is what I have fine?
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Type	Item	Price
CPU	Intel Core i5-13600K 3.5 GHz 14-Core Processor	$309.99 @ B&H
CPU Cooler	Deepcool AK620 68.99 CFM CPU Cooler	$59.99 @ Amazon
Motherboard	*Asus PRIME Z690-P WIFI D4 ATX LGA1700 Motherboard	$149.99 @ Newegg
Memory	*Silicon Power GAMING 32 GB (2 x 16 GB) DDR4-3200 CL16 Memory	$49.97 @ Amazon
Storage	*MSI SPATIUM M371 1 TB M.2-2280 PCIe 3.0 X4 NVME Solid State Drive	$34.99 @ Newegg
Video Card	ASRock Phantom Gaming D OC Radeon RX 6800 XT 16 GB Video Card	$499.99 @ Newegg
Case	Corsair 4000D Airflow ATX Mid Tower Case	$94.99 @ B&H
Power Supply	Corsair RM750x (2021) 750 W 80+ Gold Certified Fully Modular ATX Power Supply	$114.99 @ Walmart
Operating System	Microsoft Windows 11 Home OEM - DVD 64-bit	$117.98 @ Other World Computing
Monitor	Gigabyte G27Q 27.0" 2560 x 1440 144 Hz Monitor	$270.60 @ B&H
Keyboard	Redragon K552 Wired Gaming Keyboard	$36.99 @ Amazon
	Prices include shipping, taxes, rebates, and discounts
	Total	$1740.47
	*Lowest price parts chosen from parametric criteria
	Generated by PCPartPicker 2023-06-01 18:14 EDT-0400

It’s been 10 months and still hanging on. 93% and last of C&P’s are in. Vera call in am to verify they don’t need anything else. It’s been a long run. Not sure I’ll do anything after this last one either way. Just tired