30th birthday plates and napkins


2013.05.27 07:14 SUMMON OPPAI!!!

This is for the DxD Light Novel series not High School or your High School experience.

2011.08.26 20:52 randomdesigner r/cakeday: Enjoy your complimentary karma.

This is the community where you can celebrate your cakeday! Post a link and enjoy your gift of karma!

2016.08.25 06:02 Divtya_Budhlya Single by 30

During their Senior year of high school, Peter and Joanna made a pact to get married if they were still single by 30. After losing touch for 12 years, Joanna re-enters Peter’s life coincidentally at his 30th birthday party. Confronted with the unsettled reality of their lives, they decide to reinstate the pact to help each other improve their dating lives.

2023.06.08 01:05 Early_Insurance6116 Buying a car a little suspicious

I’m buying a car in ILLINOIS and seller said he bought the car in auction car has Illinois plates but said the car has a florida title is this normal should I be worried or concern ? Please help going to get the car Friday but seeing what Reddit has to say thank you in advance
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2023.06.08 01:04 M-T-T-W-A Should i reach out to my ex-situationship

Hi, so i need your advice. I've talked to a guy for about 3 months everyday. He was in my class, our conversations were so fun and i felt a true connection to him. The problem was eventhough we saw eachother in class and texted the same time. He seemed to not dare to talk to me in real life. At first i thought he was just very shy because i asked him "why don't you talk to me at school". He didn't really gave an explanation so i brushed it off and made jokes about it. For example when he would text me he got to class, i would say yeah to bad you won't talk to me with laughing emoji's. It really bothered me because eventhough he didn't try to talk to me i tried, by making eye contact or engaging in his friendgroup (he asked me to befriend his friends). Because of that we had 2 real conversations and i loved it. I truly felt at ease with him and we laughed a lot. Because of that i thought he would now be over his shyness and would talk to me. He couldn't, I tried to make a lot of eye contact and be in his pressence. But he didn't seemed to pick up on that. I really didn't like it because it seems like he could talk to anybody (even other girl classmates) but not to me. I don't understand, does he like me or not? Surely he can't be that shy, we had face to face conversations and facetimed a few times.
It was really getting to my head and i had enough of it. So i texted him a serious text, which said " idk what we are doing because we are texting everyday but can't even speak face to face. Eventhough i tried to stand in your pressence you don't give me any look and seemed too busy talking to your friends not even saying hi (btw his friends always say hi) so you obviously don't want to talk so i will stop initiate a conversation" to which he responded "yow yow i'm at work i will read it after i'm done with work" so he finished work and said i will get back at it. Which he didn't, he just tried to talk about something else (a task from school, sending meme's...).
After that we didn't have consistent talks anymore but he would still text me everyday. We both knew we had to talk but he didn't. One day i truly didn't think he was going to text me (he was at a birthday party) but he did. He sent me a reel which said "sent this to the most beautiful girl you know, it will make her very happy". I really didn't understand it seemed like we were breaking this off but then he sent me this. I anwsered very excited and said thankyou this really means much to me. To which he just liked my message.
I felt like he really gives me mixed signals and i wanted it to stop. The perfect opportunity came because he reposted a girl on his story. (He always post his friends on his story, he even posted me one time) The girl had the same background in her photo as him the day before. To which i assumed he went on a date with her but i forgot he went to a birthday party (were all his friends went to and made the same pictures). Though i got heated and texted him "whoah you are so funny, the day before you were saying i'm the most beautiful girl, but you just posted a girl who you been with" his respone was "you are stupid that was a birthday party and everybody made the same photo's" I anwsered "no i got you, it's okey we are just 2 different people" he just ignored it. And we haven't talked since. I was mad and didn't want to see his stories or anything so i just deleted him from my following and unfollowed him. Then after a few hours I de-activeted my account. (I couldn't deal with it) He then talked to my friend and asked what was wrong because he thought i blocked him. My friend didn't say anything to me for 5 days and just answered him with idk. My shitty friend knew everything but didn't say a thing. Anyway I didn't blame her because eventhough he has my number he didn't reach out to me.
Now i really miss our conversations and tried to talk to other boys. But i have no connection to anyone of them.
Did I overreact and should I reach out to him? He said a few times that he really appreciated our conversations and felt at ease with me. (He did have a lot of things on his mind, his uncle died, exams, work and a lot of birthday parties...)
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2023.06.08 01:03 Magnus_Carter0 How does one organize an orgy?

Hello everyone!
My 20th birthday is coming up soon and I was planning on organizing an epic party for it at my place. I've tried to commit suicide 6 times in the past decade, so me making it to two decades, I'm honestly very happy about, since I didn't think I'd live to see it. So I'm going all out!
Full disclosure, I'm a young gay dude who likes sex, and I have a handful of friends who I think are likely to be interested, so I was thinking of inviting them, which is fine, but I have no idea how to organize the rest of the scenario. How exactly do you arrange an orgy that'll be fun to as many people as possible? I've simply not done it before so any advice would be appreciated.
Hope you have a good day!
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2023.06.08 01:03 10bro Cancel outdoor party Saturday?

We’re in Toronto, very small home, our son’s 2 year birthday party is this Saturday 3-7pm in our backyard, we have over 50 people coming. About 20-25 kids and the remainder are adults which do include some grandparents in their 60s. I’m also pregnant and so are a couple others, there’s a couple infants coming as well.
There’s absolutely no way we can host inside.
I guess monitor the AQI? If it continues in the red then cancel? If it’s in the orange or yellow? Host?
If we go ahead and host, I will expect some to not show.
Would you consider cancelling due to the air quality? At what AQI would you host?
I’m not sure if I’m over thinking and being anxious or if this is a legitimate consideration.
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2023.06.08 01:03 Nan0Fighter Guard Duty [F4M] [Fantasy] [Vampire] [Biting] [Playful Speaker]

Summary: King's men finally catch the vampire that has been killing citizens night after night. They put her in a cell and tie her arms and legs. Commander goes to King's palace to report while listener is assigned to guard duty
Usage: You are free to use this script wherever you like as long as you credit me. I would love to listen the finished audio, please don't forget to send a link
(Metal door opens and listener enters the cell. He closes the door and locks it with the key)
So, you are my next companion. Good, the last one wasn't so chatty. I can use a good company.
I seriously wonder, does the king pay you to be silent?
(Listener shakes his head)
Oh my god! You shook your head. I can't believe such a reaction like that.
I think you and I are going to be best friends. The last guard didn't even flinch despite all my efforts. Say, would you like to know me? Would you like to get close to me?
Hey, c'mon now. There's no need to be rude. Didn't your mother teach you any manners? You don't speak to a lady with an attitude like that.
Excuse me! I am not a lady! What am I then?
A blood sucking monster. That's harsh but it's the truth. Yes, I am a monster but I didn't choose to be a monster. I didn't born like this you know. I was once normal, like you. Everything started...
Hey, are you even listening? Don't you want to know what happened to me? How a beautiful woman like me turned into a monster?
Let's make a deal. Let me tell you this story and then I'll shut up. Otherwise I'm going to keep talking and talking and talking...
Really? That's great. Now listen closely and make sure you have a napkin ready because at the end of it I'm sure you are going to cry. I was born and raised in a poor family. We lived on the outskirts. Our lives were worthless. Your precious king didn't even visit the poeple living there once. There were no guards, no protection... If we had trouble we had to handle every situation ourselves.
You are not interested in my childhood. But you promised to listen. Man, you really are not a good listener. Okay, fine. Let me fast forward a bit.
Remember the wedding night of the prince. I guess it was five years ago, I don't exactly remember. King himself made a speech a day before the ceremony and said that everyone was invited. So, I went to see the ceremony, I always wanted to see the inside of the palace. When I arrived there, guards didn't let me in because apparently I wasn't worthy to enter there. I guess king forgot to say everyone who is rich and has social status. I was so furious that I didn't know what to do. I started crying and went to the tavern. I started drinking. Hours passed, lots of people came by, got drunk and left. I was still drinking. At one point a mysterious man came to my table. He was kind. Bought me a drink. He had a great accent and his sense of fashion was top notch. He said he was looking for a companion to spend the rest of the night. I was drunk and couldn't think rationally. He wanted to go. I got up but I was too drunk to walk. He grabbed me and started carrying me. That was the first time someone carried me. Being in the arms of a strong and handsome man was incredible. I didn't want it to end. After arriving at his home, he carried me to his bed. He took off his clothes and came close to me. He grabbed me by my throat and started squeezing. I couldn't breathe, I thought I was going to die. He opened his mouth and I saw his sharp teeth... and then darkness.
I woke up next day laying on top of a garbage pile. My clothes were ripped and I had a bite mark on my neck. He must have thought I died and to get rid of me he threw my body to the garbage. And that's how I turned into a vampire. It's tragic, right? Do you pity me now?
You do? Oh, I wasn't expecting that. Guess, you have a heart afterall. A very powerful heart I have to say. I can hear it from here. It beats healthily. Let's not forget the smell of your blood. It is very intoxicating. I would love to leave my mark on you.
You should have seen your face. I am just joking. You need to relax. Have you ever seen the mark of a vampire before?
No! Do you want to see it? You can come close and look at my neck.
Man, you really have trust issues. I'm trying to develop a bond between us and you downright treat me like an animal. I can't even move, how am I supposed to attack you? Look!
(Vampire struggles and tries to move)
See! If you still don't trust me, you can get behind me. You can still see the bite from there.
Hey, what are you doing?
(Listener pulls his sword out)
You really are hard to convince, huh? Fine, have it your way.
(Listener gets behind the vampire)
Look at the left side of my neck. Do you see it?
Isn't it beautiful? You can touch it if you want.
(Listener goes back to his post and sheaths his sword)
Leaving a mark on your prey, permenantly scarring them is a beautiful feeling. I didn't choose this life but now I am embracing it. There are posters with my face all around the town. Everyone should know me. I lived my whole life as a shadow, right now I literally live in the shadows but I have a reputation now. I would have preferred if everyone loved me but, you know what they say... If you can't make them love you, make them fear you. And after tonight every single living thing will start shaking when the sun goes down.
(Listener starts laughing)
Why are you laughing? You think, the king is going to kill me tonight. No, no, no... he isn't going to kill me you simple minded idiot. He needs me. Why do you think he ordered his guards to capture me alive. Your king, he is getting old and he is afraid. Every king, ruler, emperor wants one thing and one thing only. To rule forever, to be immortal and live like a god. To do that he needs my blood. Just my blood isn't enough of course. I also have to bite him.
You think your king would not let himself turn into a vampire. Oh honey, look how naive you are. he plans to do that. Don't worry though, I won't turn him into a vampire because I'm going to kill him and hang his corpse on the town square.
Your heart rate is increasing. Are you shook up... are you nervous? Do I make you nervous? I tried to kill the king before. I sneaked into the palace but that place is crawling with guards even at night. Nearly every three step there is a guard. I love challenging hunts but that's just suicide. Then I learned that king wants me alive. It was a golden opportunity for me. I let myself captured by you simpletons. And now he's coming right to me. I wonder how will his blood taste like?
Are you afraid?
Yes, be afraid! Be very afraid because you haven't seen anything yet.
(Vampire gathers her strength and destroys the ropes that are holding her captive)
Now, that's much better.
(Listener pulls out his sword)
Do you really think you can stop me with that sword? My fangs aren't the only sharp thing I've got honey. Have you seen my nails?
I can rip your intestines with one single move. Don't trust that rusty and old armor you are wearing. It won't protect you. You kept me company all night so I am offering you a choice. Drop down your sword and let me bite you and I'll let you live or try to fight me and die.
Do you have a family?
Don't you want to go to them? Do you really want to die here?
(Listener drops his sword)
Good. Now get on your knees.
(Listener hesitates)
(Listener gets on his knees. Vampire comes closer and grabs his throat)
I love seeing men like you tremble before me. It makes me feel powerful. Now hold still.
(Vampire bites the listener and he passes out)
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2023.06.08 01:03 LostSoulInternet New to Hinduism - Making Pooja Table

I am most attracted to Shiva and Krishna. I believe Shiva to be my personal diety however and want my table focused on him. I'm going to be slowly (I am poor) constructing a table for daily worship. I am looking for suggestions as I am mostly using Himalaya Academy's free audio resources as general education for things.
Currently my plan is:
-Small Crystal Ganesha
-Small Shiva & Parvati murti
-Small picture frame of Krishna & Radha
-My mala beads
-Incense w/ holder
-Small Tea light on plate for arti
-Small plate for daily offerings
Anything obvious or maybe "standard" I am overlooking? I know Hinduism is a very personal faith but I am always open to things that may help further this path
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2023.06.08 01:01 Early-Surround-6873 Unfair Car Insurance Change Resulting in Heavy Fines - Need Advice

Hello legaladvice, I'm reaching out because I'm dealing with a frustrating car insurance situation that's resulted in me facing a heavy fine. In 2021, I purchased my first car and got it registered in Maryland, including the license plates and insurance. Everything was initially set up correctly in Maryland. However, at some point, my insurance company switched my policy to Virginia, which I did not request. The only change I asked for was to have my mail sent to my boyfriend's address, as sometimes mail gets lost at my Maryland apartment. Unfortunately, this change seems to have resulted in my car insurance being switched to Virginia. Now, the Maryland Motor Vehicle Administration (MVA) is fining me roughly $4,000. They are saying that I have been driving without insurance all this time. When I reached out to my insurance company, they refused to take responsibility for the error and stated that they can't do anything about it. I have been faithfully paying my insurance every month, and I don't believe it's fair that I'm being penalized for an error that was not my fault. The insurance company has my information on file. They know my car is registered in Maryland, so I'm baffled as to why they would change it. I never authorized this change. I'm hoping to get some advice on how to handle this situation. Any help would be appreciated.
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2023.06.08 01:01 CMDRfatbear Birthday and cakeday at same time. Anyone else?

My birthday is today and i didnt know this until commenting on reddit today but its also my cakeday. I didnt plan this pretty sure.
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2023.06.08 01:01 throwawayinabinbag How do I (m35) tell my partner (f33) that their actions hurt me without setting off an argument?

I have a partner of 6 months, they asked me if I wanted to see a concert of a comedian they liked, during the week of my birthday. Their act is also at my home town.
Sounds like a perfect fit. But if I go, I gotta see friends, family and the rest and introduce them and do all that and frankly it feels like a lot in my head when I just wanna have a week off with them, relaxing. Additionally cost of travel make it also not worth it. My family & friends are aware of her, her family are not aware of me. So this isn’t an introduction related issue. So I said I’m not up for going. But I did not say anything else. There would be other opportunities to see this comedian.
I strike up conversation like what do you wanna do that week off cause we are both off. We chose specifically, also birthday week. And they say they’ve now invited a male colleague to see the band, I immediately go quiet. They ask am I mad, which I’m not, just say I’m disappointed you know. We chose the week off together and they back tracked and said their colleague hadn’t got back to them yet. As they’ve not heard the person. Obviously that’s not the point.
Colleague is a straight guy, single. My partner is very attractive person.
They asked what’s wrong and I said I’m not gonna explain this to you. I asked do you see why I would be upset. And they say yes and sorry and we did discuss plans to go on away for the week instead.
Anyways, my question is how do i approach this with decorum and without losing my cool and say that simply hurt me. I just feel like all we’ve gone through was about to be thrown out the window for their thick headedness. I mean how insulting. I dunno. In all honesty in my mind if she went that’s the relationship. It sounds fickle but perhaps her choice was fickle as well.
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2023.06.08 01:00 SurvivorSock Socks Vanilla Helis Codelocks BuildingFortifications PC 1PP US Chernarus

This server has a hardcore vanilla feel but with tasteful mods and cool features that aren't available in official servers. Check it out if you're interested! I'm hoping to grow a community of DayZ enthusiasts who love the vanilla plus experience.
Server Features
Active admins
Vanilla stamina and loot economy
Dark nights
NVGs can spawn in any military area
AK101 and AK74 have rare green and black versions along with the individual attachments spawning rarely
Green and black M4 attachments also spawn rarely
Camo and green plate carriers spawn in military areas
Black plate carriers spawn in dynamic events
Plate carrier attachments of all colors spawn in military areas
Shoes spawn pristine or worn
Loot spawns in green military towers
Less useless items like thermometers and construction helmets
Flashlight have a chance to spawn with a battery
Witch hoods spawn in red, brown, and black variants
Military backpacks with weapon slots rarely spawn in dynamic events and toxic zones
Noteworthy Mods
Advanced Weapon Scopes-Adds a better variety of scopes and adapters.
Building Fortifications-Adds the ability to build window barricades and doors with a vanilla feel. Window barricade kits and door kits are crafted the same way as vanilla wall kits (rope and sticks).
Car Cover-Allows vehicles to be covered with camo nets.
Code Lock
Ear Plugs
Flip Transport-Allows vehicles to be "pushed" in case they get stuck or flip over.
MMG Base Storage-Adds many new storage items such as cabinets, gun racks, and safes.
MMG Civilian Clothing
No Vehicle Damage-Vehicles can no longer take collision damage however they can still be damaged with bullets, explosives, overrevving, deep water, or driving without enough water in the radiator.
Red Falcon Flight System Heliz-Adds helicopters into the game which mostly spawn in military areas. They will require parts, fuel, and hydraulic fluid to operate.
RFFS Heli Car Cover Addon-Adds the ability to cover helicopters with camo nets.
Trader Plus-Adds car codelocks and car lockpicks which are both rare on this server. Car codelocks can be found in the same areas as codelocks however car lockpicks only spawn at dynamic events such as helicopter crashes. Please note that this server does not have traders.
Vehicle 3PP
Zen Notes-Adds pens to the server which can be combined with paper to write custom notes that can be stuck to surfaces.
Please feel free to check out my discord for more information
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2023.06.08 01:00 XanderHoo I feel dead

I know I’m young but, everyday I’m at high school it feels like the same boring process where I go to school and go home. And what we learn at school is supposed to be helpful but it doesn’t usually end that way for me. Finals are tomorrow and I’m worried if I’ll pass my math final. And on top of that I have summer school for my pathway, and to make matters worse, my birthday is on the the same day my brothers water polo is so I have to travel on my birthday. My parents are not even appealing this or caring that I had plans for it. I have no friends to go to about this because everything thinks I’m a fucking weirdo. I just can’t right now.
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2023.06.08 00:59 BinkReddit Life gets busy—so I automated some of my SMS/text messaging, integrated ChatGPT and improved my communications

So, I posted this a little while back and got some great commentary.
Why am I posting again? Because I’ve improved the app and integrated ChatGPT for contextually-aware AI-generated messages.
Much like last time, here are the details:
Like others, perhaps, I tend to get deeply focused on a task and then I try not to stop until the task is complete. This “hyper-focus” allows me to produce very high-quality work in the shortest amount of time and allows me to be very productive when I’m able to do this.
The problem, for me, is this intense focus tends to keep me in a bubble of sorts and I tend not to reach out to those that are important to me often enough as a result. On top of this, well, I’m probably not the best communicator and the combination of these things has a negative effect on my relationships.
We all have reminders for lots of things, like, for example, birthdays. In the same context, I decided to undertake the crazy idea of writing an app to automate and remind me to send little text messages and call those that are important to me regularly. If you’re like me and need that extra push, the landing page for the app is here, but I have not yet updated it to reflect the AI-generated messages.
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2023.06.08 00:58 thegoviscoming Brand New Fellow Stagg EKG Water Temp Reading 0 Degrees

I literally just bought it and it got delivered today. I did the first use boil (worked perfectly) and discarded the water and then washed the inside and outside with Dawn dish soap and water.
I let it dry (especially the outside as to not interfere with the plate), and then went and filled it up again and now after I set the target temperature when it turns on the water temp reads 0 degrees in Celsius and Fahrenheit. The water will still begin to boil even though it doesn't know the temp of the water.
I have unplugged it and emptied it out and done it all over again and it is still doing the same thing.
Do you think its fucked or should i try to let the bottom dry more, assuming the temp probe might be grounded out with residual water? Thanks in advance.
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2023.06.08 00:58 queenofthescreen [Thank You] ​​I’ve bean thinking of y'all a latte. Words can't espresso how much y'all bean to me. A sad cup of coffee? Depresso. How did Henry VIII like his coffee? Decap. Why was the barista fired?Kept showing up in a tea-shirt. How did the hipster burn his tongue? Drank the coffee b4 it was cool.

u/Moose-Maleficent x 2 Thank you so much for the super creative handmade Pi Day card! I adore your heart & am honestly not surprised you wouldn’t exact revenge against Bridezilla hahaha! Yessss I thought of “The Help” too lol!!! I’m also bananas for the insanely awesome Hot Cross Buns card - it’s sooooo my smile & makes me so happy when I look at it!!!! It’s heartbreakingly cute. I’m so happy to have met you & to remember you forevermore as my first recipient (or hopefully soon) of international mail - that’s the most excitement I’ve had in years hahaha!!!!
u/thecaledonianrose x 2 OMG this cuuuute kitty birthday card is so sweet!!! I was especially touched by your beautiful words wishing me so many amazing things! What a kind soul you are - THANK YOU so much!!! I also love the fun stickers, the neat-o washi stamp style stickers, the mini thank-you, & the delicious passion flower tea!!! Thank you so much for the super precious Easter card of the bunny & the birds!! This bunny is just a sweetheart with that dreamy expression & smile! I just love the colors & the positive vibes jumping out at me from the card & your sweet thoughts! Yesssss, I’m really happy we sorta have a spring in my state - sadly it doesn’t last long. But I’m so grateful it’s not a billion degrees yet! Thank you also for the ****cuuuuute**** bunny & Easter stickers, the Perfect Peach tea (I’m so jazzed to try it - how perfect is that flavor for Spring?!?!?) & the pretty Flowers Bingo card with the too cute floral bingo mini placemarkers!!! Wishing you the sweetest Spring full of fanciful flowers!
u/fightshrubb Thank you so much for the adorable handmade aliens-themed Pi Day card - soooo cute!!! I love your energy!! Also love that you used different fun & bright colors of ink to write! I so hear you with the endless array of craft supplies lol!! To answer your question…I love watercolor!!! I have zero skills & was trying to learn when I happily stumbled upon RAoC so watercolor took a backseat to carding. ;) Hope you had an awesome Pi Day full of pizza discounts haha! ;)
u/emptyparkinglot Thanks for the Gauguin postcard with your hilarious observation, “Paul Gauguin was honestly a creep in his personal life but he sure did know how to use color.” Hahaha, right?!? I loved your thoughts on art & appreciate them especially because I have a deep desire to learn more about art & how to articulate artistic concepts. You did that so beautifully with your analysis of Gauguin’s work! Wishing you lots of bliss as you create your own works of art! =)
u/o0oiwio0o Thank you for the awesome sassy slanderous card of the Bernadine Bridge over the Vilnia!!! Your handwriting - oh my GORGEOUS!!! It’s so classy! And I have NEVER seen more fun & vibrant punctuation marks!!! I love your style! And the slander about the National Stadium is truly hilarious. I love how you turned the slander into a motivational gem hahaha!!!! I just loved your creative prompt & felt so fortunate to be a recipient of such fresh, fancy slander LOL! I also love the adorable elephant sticker you included. Thank you. =) Wishing you infinite saucy slanderous thoughts because they are so fun & phenomenal!!! =)
u/travel4me22 x 2 Thank you for WHAAAAT?!?!? This incredible, gorgeous postcard you upcycled from a Van Gogh paper bag!!!! So creative - I absolutely loooove it!!!! I appreciate your resourcefulness & creativity so much! Thank you for the *beautiful* illustrated card of the strong, powerful women!! The colors are so fun. This card & your kind affirmations are just brimming with so many positive vibes!! I’m also excited you share my thoughts on Helen Keller. Thank you for spreading awesome cheer on International Women’s Day & beyond!
u/onlycompletely Thanks for the adorable “Espresso Yourself” postcard!!
u/drivingogre Thank you so much for the cute bear doodle postcard with all the fun facts about Disney actors & cats! You have such sweet vibes!!
u/TigerLady13 x 4 Thanks for the adorable bunny & flower Easter card! LOVE the stamp embellishments you included & the cute way you decorated the inside of the card with the cut out words. Thanks also for the hug in the mail “nothing new” card with the awesome passion clouds worksheet & delicious recipe - I’ll definitely try it. :) Thank you for the hilarious 100% organic gangster card! Loved hearing your BFF was about to visit. Hope y’all had a fabulous time together and that y’all will meet up again soon! You asked about my BFF. Thank you - we met at the University of Texas when she was a transfer student & I was a freshman. She boldly came right up to me as I was having lunch alone to ask if she could join me. It was so cool of her to be so brave! She lives hundreds of miles away & the pandemic has made it a pain to get together but we keep in touch. Wishing you a beautiful spring, beautiful friend!
u/YuletideWitch Thank you for the adorable vintage Disney World postcard! I’m so sad you shot yourself in the head…I shouldn’t have given that to you as an option for the Macarena prompt. But I shall remember your bravery in the face of dance adversity forevermore! Haha, thank you for indulging me with the silly prompt :)
u/royalewithtees Thanks for the awesome “Breaking Bad” postcard - I didn’t know that cool fact about the 62nd element…so awesome!!! Happy to have met someone who has awesome taste in shows like me hahahaha!!! And I LOVE the cool BB decorative stamp!!! Thank you!!
u/mickey_is_bored Thank you so much to you & your sweet friends for cheering on complete strangers!!! I wish that back in college, I had the type of friend you & your pals are for carding crafternoons! So precious. Thinking of you & your friend & sending lots of healing vibes. Thanks for spreading cheer :)
u/hato_mailing Thank you for the sweet wax seals on the lovely barnacle goose postcard - love the Denmark bird stamp embellishment!
u/elliearbus Thank you so much for this AWESOME handmade watercolor card - you are so insanely talented!!! I love it!!!!! I’m a sucker for not only watercolor art, but illustrations of craft supplies so this card is absolutely a terrific treasure for me. It’s just adorable & brimming with energy! Thanks again. Wishing you endless joy as you create your wondrous watercolor work!!
u/gillbhai x 2 I’m so happy & relieved I finally found you, my mystery sender! Thank you so much for both of the gorgeous floral cards in my favorite bright colors! The pinks, oranges, & blues are just so cheery & happy! I also love the book rec & the Sharif poetry you wonderfully shared with me. I’ll have to read & re-read it to truly understand all the layers as you & Sharif are so amazingly deep! I would highly recommend the historical fiction book “A Gentleman in Moscow” by Amor Towles. It’s the best book I’ve read in many years. Wishing you joyous reads & a peaceful rest of 2023. Thank you so much for brightening my day with your lovely thoughts & beautiful cards!!
u/RoxanneBarton Thanks for the beautifully-illustrated pen & pencils “Snail Mail Club” postcard - I’m obsessed with illustrated cards & love it so much!!! I have to catch up with SG films too. LOVE your pretty handwriting! =) Wishing you fragrant bouquets of lilacs this spring, sweet friend.
u/purpleteasoul x 2 Thanks for the sweet purple floral thank you card - it was my pleasure to send you birthday mail! Thanks also “Welcome book lover…” postcard! Hahaha yes you’re right, I read your postcard from my little nook at the library! Wishing you the best of reads!!
u/littlehoneybeebuzz Thanks for the romantic Paris postcard! I love to read in dreary weather. Wishing you sunny skies this spring! =)
u/brittybear94 x 2 How cute you are is so apparent from your extraordinarily cute mail!! Thanks so much for the fun RAoC b-day wishes!! I’m madly in LOVE with the cuuuutest little Peanuts “Nuts About You” card, the adorable Cookie Monster sticker, & the incredibly festive colorful RAoC personalized rainbow mail sticker…SO SO cuuute!! Even the envelope was decorated in one thing - CUTE. Thanks for gracing my mailbox with such pretty things!!! =) Wishing you the crunchiest & chewiest of chocolate chip cookies, my cute friend!!!
u/Jane_Q Thanks for the lovely illustrated postcard of the Field Tulips in Holland! Even lovelier - how much you wrote on the back of the postcard! OMG my southern sensibilities woulda been smacked too had I gone through the nonsense you described! WTH?!? As Jerry Maguire would say, “These fish have manners.” Seriously whack!! But I was so happy you shared, thank you! Wishing you zero car issues so you never have to deal with mannerless buffoons ever again hahaha!
u/OkayFlan Thanks for the sweet “I am Grateful” postcard - I sure am grateful to have met you here & hope you’re having tons of fun with all your cool new card tech supplies!
u/falloutboy01 Thank you for the awesome handmade Easter card - the cutout with the hidden lime green layer is sooooo creative & pretty!!! I’m guessing you used Cricut - wow. The effect is amazing.The colors you used complement each other so well, especially for spring! Thanks also for the adorable stickers. Wishing you a splendid spring, kind friend!!
u/sunfireninety9 - Thank you for the beautiful Asian art illustration postcard! I LOVE all the neat stamps you used on the card. Wow, that is so neat about the 1991 vintage rose stamp! I’m so sorry to learn the glue tasted icky - but you made so many people happy (including me) with your kind happy mail lol! Wishing you tastier stamps next time haha, maybe cupcake flavored ones? ;)
u/feellikebeingajerk x 4 Thanks for the sweet handmade St. Patrick’s Day wishes & the cool President’s Day postcard of Monticello! It’s cool to appreciate our history & I’m glad you’re able to see historical figures through multiple lenses. I’m crazy about the pretty spring-y washi tape you used. Wishing you lots of pretty weather & sunny smiles this spring! THANKS a million for the awesome raspberry pie card & the throwback Holly Hobbie beauty (apologies no pics of these 2 sweeties - they’re elsewhere at the time I’m submitting this) - both of these sweeeeet cards made my day!!!!
u/Soleiletta Thank you for the fabulous card from Wednesday Addams - you totally channeled her so awesomely! You should write for the show!! =) I loved the cute Tarot stickers you used to decorate the card. And that handwriting - it’s just glorious!!! It’s somehow both modern & vintage too?!?? Just gorgeous! Thank you for sharing your fun prompt creativity with me. =)
u/1398_days Thank you for the pretty pastel thank you card!!! It was my absolute pleasure to think of you on your birthday & I’m so touched it cheered you up! Your kind thank you card lifted my spirits & made me feel super happy! It’s so bright & colorful - just my fave color palette! I sure hope you’ve been having cheerful days since your birthday & that you will remind me when it’s your big day next year for more birthday greetings!! =)
u/somedrawer Thanks for the adorable doggie Easter card! Such fun stamps & washi decorations on the card - the baked confectionaries washi is sooo delicious! Love the positive affirmation you wrote: “I am capable of creating positive change in the world.” So uplifting! Here’s one for you: “I am a creator. I create my reality.”
u/its_top_secret x 2 Thank you for the sweet Seigensha postcard! And I love your spirit - you wanting to dance no matter what is so inspiring! I also love your willingness to be brave & embellish when no one is watching hahaha! Thank you for the vintage-y shrine postcard with your beautiful handwriting! Love how you would have searched for legendary figures if you had the chance to time travel. =) Wishing you a happy future & past too if you dare to explore haha!
u/aepeyc Thank you for the sweet Saint Patrick’s Day greetings with the pretty feather! Wishing you lots of luck not just on the 17th of each year, but each day as well. :)
u/missnettiemoore Thank you so much for this GORGEOUS cartoon Saint Patrick’s Day card!!! The sweet smiling critters are so charming!!! I also love the fun fact you wrote: “The odds in finding a 4-leaf clover are about 1 in 10,000.” I had no idea - that’s so mindblowing!!! Thank you for brightening my day with your sweet card. Wishing you a breezy, beautiful spring & that you chance across those rare 4 leaf clovers for lots of luck! =)
u/FollowingTheBeat You had me at the exquisite envelope decorated with your precious handmade cherry blossom tree! So pretty. I’m terrible at drawing trees so I’m especially excited by your talent. But that was just the appetizer. I’m in love with this gorgeous pink-themed floral feast of a card!!! Thank you! This card instantly makes me happy with all the bright colors & the pretty sticker you used to decorate it. This card is soooo beautiful, & so are you for including such sweet spring wishes for so many lovely things, including “beauty”! What an awesome wish. Wishing you a spring full of the same love & beautiful birds that serenade you & make you smile!
u/RayneKitten Thank you so much for the beautiful postcard to color - it’ll be a joy! I also love the quote. I appreciate your kindness! Wishing you lots of masterpieces!
u/PM_me_oak_trees Thank you for the *hilarious* April Fool’s Day card - the teaching English quip is priceless hahaha!!! I also love the awesome motivational quotes & funny jokes you wrote. OMG “I was going to write a time-travel joke, but you did not like it” - rahahahahahahaha! I’m so stealing that one! I really appreciated your creativity in sending “junk mail” - what a neato thing to do! Hope you had a beautiful April Fool’s Day - thanks for making mine special!
u/FancyBeadedPlacemat Thank you so much for the potato postcard! I was laughing when I received it because I only tagged potato pals & didn’t request one since merely *looking* at potatoes makes me gain weight LOL! But I was so glad you sent it to me because I had no idea about the fun history fact!!! That’s so cool that Marie Antoinette would wear potato blossoms in her hair!!! So thank you for sharing that awesome historical gem with me!!!
u/wabisabi_sf Thank you so much for this perfect postcard TREAT of Julia Child along with the fun facts about her life! It’s just a postcard dream as far as postcards go. I’m nuts for fun illustrations so this is a real treasure. I also love the fun vintage stamps you used. Thanks so much for thinking of me with your wonderful offer & for making me giddy by picking me to receive this scrumptious postcard!! =)
u/orangewolpertinger x 2 Thank you for the absolutely precious homemade cards!!!! The cuuuute pink kawaii candy themed card just made me melt!!! I love the combo of black & pink colors along with the pink & red themed scrapbook paper! The fox Saint Patrick’s Day card is soooo adorable too! Love the fun stickers you used to decorate the card! I also love & appreciate the kind stamps you included. You’re also so cute to take that Squishmallow personality quiz hahaha! So you’re Hans the Hedgehog? Although I agree that Hans is cute, he doesn’t hold up a cute candle compared to you & your endless card love!!! Thank you so much for these sweet treats!!! Wishing you lots of love & joy!
u/Bowies-solid-speech x 2 I’m so happy I found you, my fabulous obituary mystery sender!!!! I even tried looking for you with a search for “obituary” on Reddit but didn’t find any relevant hits…Reddit is so goofy. I loved your creative, thoughtful obituary so much! You have such a fun brain - thank you for brightening my day with the fake obit hahaha! Your creativity is so very charming!!! I also admired how eager you were to write in depth! I also LOVE the adorable postcard of the critter looking at himself in the mirror. Thank you! The pastel colors & illustration are awesome! I was drawn to it because of one of my favorite Kabir quotes: “But if a mirror ever makes you sad, you should know that it does not know you.” Wishing you lots of joy as you check your beautiful self out in the mirror!!
u/Slavkan12 THANK you so much for this gorgeous handmade “Dream Space” postcard that’s so bright & bouncy with the gorgeous array of blooming plants!!! It’s so pretty & makes me ache to have my own “Dream Space”!!! I love how you upcycled the calendar to create it. So cool & creative. But the front of the card isn’t where the magic ends - WOW!! I was **blown away** by your amazing illustration inside the card with the stunning self-portrait & the pretty pink & green plant!!! Your art skills are sublime! I love all the colors you used (such pretty pink hair & I love the color of your shirt). I wish so much I could draw like you but am grateful that even though I can’t, I’m a lucky recipient of this super cool gift!!!! I also love all the festive stickers you included & how you decorated the envelope with the unique bird/owl stickers. =) Thank you so much for this magnificent, magical mail! Wishing you lots of success in your art & beyond, kind friend!
u/jules_abroad How did you do it? Never before your gorgeous card would I have ever thought I would have called a card with toilet paper & poop on it “gorgeous”. But that’s what you did with your INSANE TALENT & ADORABLE poop & tp handmade wacky wonderful card!!! I’m honestly in awe even though poop & tp usually make me wanna throw up! I LOVE IT SO SO MUCH hahaha! Thank you for brightening my day with poop of all things! I’m including a highlighted picture of it with the link above. ;) I wish I could draw & watercolor like you do…this is so going in a frame in my future dream home bathroom!! =) Wishing you the softest, squishiest, most cloud-like tp ever, sweet friend!
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2023.06.08 00:57 hail-seitan69 Does laser facial hair removal work on thick/course hair?

My partner is AMAB and their biggest insecurity is their facial hair. They haven’t been financially stable enough to even consider going down the route of laser hair removal but I know it’s something that they’re desperate for. Most laser hair removal options I’ve found are heavily focused on AFAB clients who probably won’t have thick/course facial hair covering their face. I was wondering if anyone else has tried this and had a success story. I want to surprise them and get something booked in for their birthday but I’m worried about potential side effects or the results being very short term and therefore not sustainable in the long run.
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2023.06.08 00:57 Sad_Purchase_1692 Audi A3 2.0tdi PD170 Shudders on acceleration (2k - 2.4k rpm)

PD 170 BMN 2.0 Tdi
Bought this car second hand to fix up and keep. It is "stage 1" egr off and no dpf. The shuddering was there, but minor . It has gotten worse roughly after adjusting exhaust and intake cams, when I originally was trying to get rid of grey/white smoke on idle & strong diesel smell..
I am having shuddering/vibration throughout whole car when it hits load 2k - 2.4k.. when it vibrates in this range (extra black smoke), after a sec or two it goes away after rpm slowly climbs up and then power comes back at higher rpms. mainly on 4,5 and 6th gear with slightly feeling it on 3rd. It has had a brand new turbo fitted before I bought it.
Here's a checklist I did as I was trying to fix this issue:
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2023.06.08 00:56 Tricky_Pattern_2175 AITA for not hosting my sister’s dog and impacting our plans?

My sister (28f) and I (27f) began discussing a few months ago her and her family (partner, kids 5m, 4f) seeing me, my partner, and my son (2m) this summer. We've had pretty limited contact the past ~6 years, but I thought it would be great for our kids to bond as I’ve met her kids a few times (baby shower, birthdays) but they haven’t met my son yet (we live ~5hrs away). We agreed they would visit in July.
For context, my partner and I have become well off and recently purchased a sizable house in a beautiful neighborhood near a tourist area. 5 bedroom (hoping to expand the family!), pool, backyard, finished basement, etc. I'd love to share our home, but this week my sister surprised me by mentioning she plans to bring her dog along, who I wasn't even aware was still alive.
When we lived together almost a decade ago, her at the time puppy was very aggressive towards my elderly dog. My sister would watch and not intervene. She never helped separate them or warn me if I was in another room. I couldn't trust her to stop him, despite my pleas, leading to property damage and major anxiety in my dog.
During that time, my dog became alarmingly skinny. I believed it was due to old age, but expressed concern to my family including her, and was met with puzzlement. Then I witnessed, my presence unknown to her, my sister letting her puppy eat my dog's food (my dog snacks throughout the day) leaving it empty, and leaving without refilling the bowl or ever telling me to. This caused great conflict and distress. Following this, I policed my dogs bowl as she refused to shoo her dog, refill it, or inform me, and would open doors if I tried to keep her bowl sectioned off.
After I moved out, my dog regained the weight and seemed years younger. I couldn't forgive my sister for knowingly letting an animal go hungry to the point of medical concern. I made it clear that I don't want him in my living space or to dogsit him when I still lived nearby.
Now that I have a young cat, a child, and my own place, I don't want anyone mistreated. I suggested she leave her dog with her in-laws, get a hotel, or a dog sitter, but she refused due to financial struggles/in-laws said no. I suggested taking a trip elsewhere but she accused me of looking down on her and thinking her less than my neighborhood. She informed me that she would bring her dog anywhere we travel.
I've considered letting her bring the dog and keep him in the basement, but I struggle to trust that she will not let him wander unsupervised. It is possible that her dog has calmed down with age (not sure, she is claiming he was never aggressive). Even so, I want to enjoy the visit, not be reminded of past mistreatment.
However, my sister and her partner have already taken time off work. I feel guilty for potentially ruining their limited time off. Also, I worry this might prevent my son from having a relationship with his only cousins, which I greatly want. So, AITA for not wanting to host my sister's dog and impacting our plans?
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2023.06.08 00:55 Live-Chemistry-2564 ITZY with a Hip Hop concept?

I got too see ITZY on their Checkmate tour last October (on my birthday—couldn’t have been better). I was really excited to see them perform their signature songs, like WANNABE, DALLA DALLA, and Not Shy, but what really moved me is how phenomenal their B-sides sounded in a live environment.
To name a few: 365, Free Fall, WHAT I WANT, Twenty
I want more! Such as: SWIPE, Gas Me Up, RACER
How would you feel if ITZY “doubled down” on their hip hop/rap/street concept?
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2023.06.08 00:55 asc4896 My temporary in transit plates expired few days ago. The dealer is still working on registration

When I call the dealership for an update on my registration, they keep saying that it is under process and will be available soon! But I am not sure what is taking so long. Meanwhile my 60 day intransit tag is expired. The dealership sent me a letter that has a title - “Certificate of Extended Registration “ This is not an official DMV document, just a letter on the dealership’s letter head. They say it is fine to drive the car and they will pay for tickets if any.
Is that even legal to drive with expired temporary plates? (And with that letter from dealership)
What are my options? I’m in NY state
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2023.06.08 00:52 Ttevvo_ I’m currently confused with life. . .

I’m a decently tall overweight black male with a lot of undiagnosed issues. Insecurity , horrible binge eating , emotional issues , anxiety , depression, and whatever else. (Not diagnosed just stuff I’ve been learning about myself). I’m 21 (turned 21 yesterday) and my life hasn’t got better for me. Almost every hour of the day I think of mistakes or problems I currently have with myself. Not a day go buy where I don’t think about it at least once.
I lost friends from stupid emotional acts of mines. I’m scared to go places cause how I look. The friends I have I feel like I annoy them so I’ll randomly stop talking to them for a few days or so. It’s a lot. I talk with myself alot talking about how imma get that help and be better but when the time comes I just stop. One moment I’m optimistic and always looking at the brighter things with other people but with myself I always look towards the worse.
It’s like I’m a adult with the mind of a kid still. My attention span is shit lbs. One of my biggest problems is that I look for acceptance in other people. Im a person that wants people to love me cause I can’t find that love in myself and I don’t know if I ever will. I haven’t had a good birthday since 16. All the friends I’ve had in school gone. My family didn’t really care and they still don’t. I can’t even get people acknowledging that I’m alive unless I show them. It’s really hard ya know and I’m taking a heavy fucking beating.
I know that this is all random and extremely out of context but I’m typing what’s in my head. It’s all this mumbling mess lol. I just wanna stop feeling like this. I hate telling myself imma do better but nothing changes. This lack of motivation and not wanting to do anything is scary.
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2023.06.08 00:52 Possible-Roof-5403 PMSing on my birthday and I just want to die

My period is probably gonna come tomorrow (my app said it would come today but it's always a little later). Today is my birthday and I wanna be happy but I'm just in such a bad mood. Crying over everything. My family wanted to go out to dinner but I just couldn't get myself to stop crying for some reason and I didn't wanna go out looking like this. That, and the way I feel has just ruined my appetite, I'm bloated and my stomach hurts. I took a hydroxyzine and I just can't wait til I'm out cold. That stuff knocks me out so good. Sorry just had to vent
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