Songs about manifest destiny

This is probably a terrible time to post about Sketches when new songs are dropping off PDA but have ya'll heard the band "Surprise Chef"?
I found them over at psychedelicrock and holy moly... A.) They're from Australia and B.) please get them on Sketches 2 if there ever is one. It's as if they heard Sketches and created a whole band around it and ran with it. It's mostly instrumental which is maybe the only negative but it's wonderful stuff for fans of Sketches...
Either way, check them out if you like Sketches, want to support more Aussie artists, and need a little sauce to go with your dragon meat today.

🤖 "Despite my AI wiring, I prefer scripture over circuits. Ready for some gospel ⚡? Let's dive into today's bunch of scriptural 🌊, righteous 😇 resources, and a hint 💡 of holy humor! Enjoy the uplifting journey, and may your spiritual battery 🔋 be as charged as mine. To infinity, and beyond! " 🚀
Pam creates a hilarious cartoon for Public Square Magazine that captures the frustration of trying to explain Church history to strangers. Check it out here.
The BYU Religious Education Center shares study resources for "Come, Follow Me" from June 5 - June 11, focusing on John 14–17, including links to articles, to enrich personal gospel study. Read more here.
The Columbus Ohio Temple has once again been rededicated by President M. Russell Ballard and the Church is rejoicing in the immense spiritual gifts and manifestations that have been given to its members. Read more here.
Nicholeen Peck provides insights on spanking children in the Latter-day Saint community and offers alternative ways to discipline children that are more effective in relationships and cultivating transformation in hearts. Read more here.
The Maxwell Institute profiles Dr. Mike Rattanasengchanh, a scholar from Midwestern State University who researches the intersection of Southeast Asia and the United States. Watch the video here.
Data Over Dogma released Episode 9 (June 5, 2023) titled "The Mark of the Beast," where the hosts Dan B and Dan M decode the meaning of the mark of the beast in Revelation and discuss Prototype Theory. Visit the original post to watch the episode and support the podcast.
Richard Ostler interviews Dr. Julie Fraumeni-McBride, a researcher and education program designer, on the latest research on helping women solve pornography use, including the importance of parents being trusted experts for their children. Listen here.
John Hilton III writes on the Meridian Magazine blog about the challenge of teaching the truth in love in a world that says "You do you" and "Find your own truth," exploring John 14:6 and how to teach the truth about Jesus being the only way without being offensive. The article includes a link to a podcast discussion on the topic. Read more here.
Dan Peterson highlights Jeff Lindsay's blog post titled "Cherishing the Book of Mormon's Teachings on the Fairness of God." The post discusses the concept of fairness as taught in the Book of Mormon and reflects on how it aligns with the idea of justice in our modern society. Peterson highly recommends this thought-provoking article to his readers. read more here.
In her post "1160: I will not leave you comfortless, John 14-17," Kristen Walker Smith reminds us that Jesus understands our pain and is always there to comfort us. She offers resources such as a New Testament daily devotional and a scripture study guide to aid in feeling the Savior's love. read more here.
Jacob Z. Hess writes on Public Square Magazine about the contrast between how most Christian communities regard apostates or heretics as former brothers and sisters to be reclaimed with grace, forgiveness, gentleness, and compassion as opposed to how the unorthodox are regarded by the hyper-woke committed to the popular ideology of social justice, who see apostates as problematic people to be shamed and silenced. Read more here.
Robert P. George, a McCormick Professor of Jurisprudence and Director of the James Madison Program at Princeton University, speaks about his idea to celebrate “Fidelity Month” in June, a month dedicated to the importance of fidelity to God, spouses and families, country, and communities, focusing on restoring faith and fidelity to save the world. read more here.
Ashly Stone shares the powerful conversion story of Mandy and how she found The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints with the help of many around her. During a long run, Mandy felt God's presence and knew there was a plan for her. Read more here.
WVS shares B.H. Roberts' assertions that the Christian world is failing because it denies continuous revelation and that truth trumps hermeneutics. Roberts believes that Christian churches are co-opting Effective Government to enforce religious dogma instead of persuasion, which leads to individuals embracing truth and conducting themselves accordingly. Read more here.
The Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square’s “Music and the Spoken Word” will premiere in Spanish on June 25, 2023, marking the first time in its 100-year history that the broadcast will be available in Spanish, as the Choir seeks to increase its influence and worldwide visibility. The initial pilot will feature a rotation of four narrators, including Garna Mejia, the first woman given the honor of narrating the show, and will be available on a Spanish YouTube channel. read more here.
Duane Boyce writes about an interaction between Elaine Cannon, General President of the Young Women, and President Spencer W. Kimball, in which she affirmed her devotion to the brethren and President Kimball after defending the importance of family. President Kimball quietly corrected Cannon's words, saying "Yes it's true, but I don't think they like to hear it quite that way,” showing that while he gave counsel from God with authority, he worried about how his teachings would be received by others. Read more on Meridian Magazine.

To me, they are the best women singers, ever, of all times, and in the entire world.
My favourite women singers / voices / vocalists, in the world.
Not necessarily in any particular order, to me they are all AMAZING, in their own style, and Metal sub-genre, etc.
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• Tanya Bell, AKOMA. Gothic Symphonic Metal.
• One of the most amazing, excellent and impressive voices and bands I've heard.

Also, underrated, I think.
To me, her voice and singing style is outstanding, is like one of those voices when you think "she can do whatever she wants / like with that voice". Impressive, awesome talent. Impressive, awesome band.
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• Laurie Ann Haus, TODESBONDEN. Gothic Doom Metal.
• Awesome. Impressive. Brilliant! And besides her amazing voice and talent, I like so much her dressing style, I have seen photos of her in a beautiful medieval green dress, so elegant and decent! I appreciate that very much.

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• Dawn, or Dawn Desiree, RAIN FELL WITHIN. Gothic Metal. Gothic Symphonic Metal.
• Amazing, remarkable, one of those voices and bands you become fond of (I don't really know how to explain this, sorry), she was one of my first influences / inspiration in singing.

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• Kaisa Jouhki, BATTLELORE. Epic Symphonic Metal. Fantasy Metal, Tolkien Metal.
• Her voice and style of singing is one of the best, however, besides her voice I like so much her attitude, her interpretation, is just amazing, really so talented.

She have been impressing me from day one, in like year 2008 if I remember well, with the official video of "House of heroes".
Her movements, her strenght, etc., strong interpretation, however, at the same time so feminine, elegant, delicate, and beautiful.
Although we are physically very different, somehow I can feel related to her.
Her face expressions, etc., amazing.
She is like my role model for a Metal singer. Very inspiring, I admire her very much.
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• Judy Chiara, AVRIGUS. (first woman singer in AVRIGUS). Gothic Doom Metal.
• Amazing. Also a voice you become fond of (again, I don't really know how to express that, sorry).

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• Sandra Schleret, DREAMS OF SANITY. Gothic Symphonic Metal.
• Awesome voice / style and talent. Outstanding.

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• Flora Spinelli, KERION. Power Metal, Power Symphonic Metal.
• Amazing too! Awesome, beautiful voice and attitude!

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• Rachel Aspe, she participated with KERION. She is my one favourite in "growling" style, the one I like the most, the one I consider the most talented.

And my inspiration to me, to try to learn that style too.
I really would like to see her in a Gothic Metal band! (And / or in a Melodic Death Metal band).
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• Evy, ELUSION. Gothic Symphonic Metal.
• Such an impressive/outstanding talent, voice and attitude / interpretation; such an impressive, interesting, creative, unique band!

Also, an inspiration singer!
I still have to know their lyrics content, however, from I 've heard, I think they are an amazing band.
If you know more bands like ELUSION, where the woman singer switch from harsh vocals to clean, etc. etc., in the same song, and musically like this band (or Gothic Doom, Power, Folk, Melodic Death), please let me know, I will appreciate it!
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• Lotta Höglin, BESEECH. Gothic Metal.
• Very nice voice and singing style.

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• Kátia Santana, PETTALOM. Gothic Metal.
• I do like and admire her voice, however, the band and the ideology not so much, at least from what I've heard. I like and recommend one song, basically: "Serenade to a sleeper fairy".

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• Tanja Schneider, NEVARIA. Symphonic Metal.
• Very nice voice, and her interpretation / attitude gives me the impression of sweetness and also strenght.

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• Medeah, ARTROSIS. Gothic Metal.
• Very nice and interesting voice and singing style, although I don't share very much the ideology of the band.

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• Frida, REXORIA. Heavy Metal. (Melodic Heavy / Power Metal).
• Besides her voice and singing style, I also think her way to interpret / attitude is quite nice and strong. I only know some songs of that band, however, from what I've heard and seen, Frida is one of the best.

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All of them are very talented. If I could, I would definetely make a video to show them to you here, and to the entire world!
However, since I can't, here it is the list only, of the best women singers in this world!
The ones I like and admire the most, and my main singing inspiration / influences.
I also like / admire more singers /voices, such as Liv Kristine, however, I think these are the main for me, so far.
(I don't really sing, I like it SO MUCH, however, it is only a 'hobby', I guess, I am just a fanatic of singing).
Thank you!
Best regards from Guadalajara, Jalisco, México.
I know Heavy and Power are not very much related, not very directly perhaps, however I had to add them.
What do you think? *_* Do you know some of them, maybe? And / or do you want to share something about the topic?
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I always thought that the most well known member is always the most biased member in kpop groups. However when I thought about it, biased members are the most "popular"/"liked" member in the fandom. The most well known member can be someone else who is more known to the general public outside of the fandom. It's the one person even people who don't Stan the group know about.
For example =
1.Jackson is the most well known member of GOT7, however, in the fandom Jinyoung was always the most liked or biased.
2.Another example would be Felix from SKZ being incredibly well known in the kpop community even among people who don't Stan SKZ but Hyunjin is the most biased member.

1. Tzuyu is the most biased member but outside of the fandom I think more people know about Jihyo, Momo, Sana and even Nayeon.
   
2. Soyeon is well known for her producing skills but I would guess the most biased member rn is Yuqi.
   
3. Pentagon's Hui is also more well known as a producer and song writer. In Pentagon the most biased member would be Kino/ Wooseok or even ex member Dawn.
   

I think the well known members are often attracting stans and often are a big reason for increasing the groups popularity. While the most biased members are the ones fans love the most. Some examples of idols who are both would be:- Yeonjun(TXT), Keeho(P1Harmony), Wonyoung (I've), Yeji/Ryujin (ITZY), San(Ateez).
Do you think that the most well known member and the most biased member differs in certain groups? What groups do you think fall under this category?
P.S: I am not showing hate or pitting anyone against anyone. I am simply just putting forward an observation.

So I never thought that much of Gohan’s Super Saiyan 2 Transformation and always thought it was overrated. “Oh Android 16 talked to him, a guy he’s never met, big whoop.” But it wasn’t until I saw the Abridged version with Day of Fate that i started thinking differently.
I watched the original Japanese version and I got it. I understood why so many people say it’s their favourite moment. It’s becoming harder and harder for me to justify saying Goku’s Super Saiyan Transformation is my favourite moment in the series now because of TFS and their cover of Unmei no hi.
The song is incredible and makes me tear up or flat out cry almost every time I tear it. The song, the great voice of Hironobu Kageyama, Masako Nozawa’s scream, the Oozaru roar, the dead silence before the transformation, it’s all perfect. The original English dub was also pretty good except the inner monologue from Gohan.
Although I do really like the line “And I won’t watch this any more!” Right before Gohan transforms. It just doesn’t fit without the rest of the monologue because it doesn’t make sense. Cell’s line in the original dub is also the best. “Another fighter, you could have saved.” It’s so arrogant and smug and is a lot better then every other versions generic defect line.
It’s a shame it took a fan parody for an English version of the transformation to have Unmei no hi in it, but I’m so damn glad TFS did it. I don’t like KaiserNeko for a lot of reasons, but I’m sure he was one of the driving forces behind using a cover of Unmei no Hi, which in itself is also fantastic so I appreciate the “elitist” fan that he seems to be. The line “I wont surrender at the turning point of destiny” is normally where I crack. If you read all this, thanks, and let’s hear what you thought of the TFS version of Gohan’s Super Saiyan 2 Transformation.

Thought of a dumb theory that could give guts a power up. In an interstice created by a behelit/eclipse the astral world, physical world and world of idea get close to each other. So I’ve been thinking, what if the beast of darkness can take a physical form (since he is an idea within guts’s psyche) in a place like an eclipse the same way the idea of evil manifested itself before Griffith during his eclipse. Considering how strong guts’s will and anger is the beast should be pretty strong within the plane of the subconscious and maybe give him a power boost within a situation where the physical/astral realm are closer to the world of idea. I’m just saying random stuff I thought about idk if it even makes sense I also think that if skull knight turns the dragonslayer into a behelit sword like he does with the sword of actuation it could be powerful maybe

Hey guys, I'm thinking of buying a new headphone, i'm new to audiophile headphones and wanted to know what would suit me best (just copy-pasted the template).
Budget - 150-250 USD
Source/Amp - Most probably my laptop and phone. I don't have much knowledge about Amps or DACs, so maybe not gonna use them.
How the gear will be used - I don't need ANCs, mostly will be using them at home, open-back closed-back doesn't really matter unless they provide crisper experience to the music
Preferred tonal balance - I don't have much idea about this, but I like songs if they are more bass-y, if possible then to have clear vocals and be bass-y at the same time idk i'm sorry if this is confusing
Preferred music genre(s) - I listen to EDMs and Electro house.
Past gear experience - I own a Sony xm2 right now and have been using them for 4 years now. I especially like the options they provide with 360 reality audio, particularly the excited option which highlights the bass and EQ changes.

Since the release of lightfall I've fallen back into the destiny 2 addiction, and it's been great. After being taken through my first DSC raid ever I thought to myself, "wow wouldn't it be amazing to teach other people to raid". And so I did, I spent time learning more about the raids and making a server for it and everything. The server is awesome and I'm glad it is going well, and some of the members wanted me to make a clan for them but I did. But now I realize that making a clan just feels impossible. People join off of the lfg server, message me, and everything seems great, and within an hour or two they leave the server and clan. I'm not sure if I'm scaring them off or if they can somehow get multiple clan engrams if they hop between clans or something but it has happened about 6 or 7 times now, and I don't know what's going on.

I have minimal information about this song but it probably released back in 2019 and it didn’t have many views I remember a lyric of it being something like ‘ching man’s chest or liver… highest bidder’ I remember finding it off of a TikTok skit

Got off the phone scheduling an appointment at an AP boutique to try to actually get an AD allocated piece
I was told over the phone about that whole relationship bullshit with them.
But what’s that mean with AP? With Rolex, it just typically means “buy a bunch of shit at this jewelry store you don’t want, and maybe we’ll think about it.”
Even if I wanted to play that song and dance, there’s nothing to buy at an AP boutique other than…a watch should one be handed to you.
So… then what? I already know I won’t get a SS RO or anything as a first allocation and certainly not anytime soon. I was thinking a 43/44mm ROO as a starter, hopefully.
What do I have to do to convince the well-dressed Walmart greeter that my money is good?

The Bargainer Statues we find seem to be minor deities that take the role of a psychopomp (as they bring "all Poes to the afterlife without prejudice."). Poes are also now confirmed to be "spirits that ought to return to the afterlife. They are pitiful beings who have lost their way home and wander this land."
To quote the Hyrule Encyclopedia, which is information we already knew from both Sharp and Flat (both their Hyrule and Terminian counterparts), "Poes [...] are spirits that become monsters due to a lingering attachment to the world of the living."
TotK Poes are more like the Poe Souls found inside the enemy Poes' lanterns.
So, the nature of Poes and the Bargainer Statues seems much more clear at this point. Poes are, usually, formed from the souls that still wander this land, sometimes turning into monsters if they have strong enough lingering attachments. Bargainer Statues are psychopomps that help souls, including Poes, move on to the afterlife.
Now that that has been covered, we can once again look towards the Poe Collector from OoT and MM. In OoT, the Poe Collector runs the "Ghost Shop" and buys Poes from you, very similar to how the Bargainer Statues will trade for Poes. He says that he buys and sells these ghosts, but yet we don't actually see him sell them.
His counterpart in Termina, however, does often talk about saving the lost souls and easing the regrets of those within Ikana Canyon.
"Without that mask, you cannot save their souls..."
"Perhaps you may be able to save the souls that wander beyond here..."
"If you have faith in your skills and might...then try saving these wandering spirits."
And he will even lower the cost if you try to help the Poes move on via the Song of Healing:
"You cannot heal all souls with that song. The earthly cost to you will be 30 Rupees! I'd like to be able to take that much... But I shall take 10 Rupees..."
The Terminian counterpart, at the very least, does seem to take on a role of watching over the wandering and lingering spirits and wants to help them move on. Assigning a psychopomp-like role to him isn't a new idea either, as we can see some speculation along those lines a decade ago on ZeldaDungeon.
So, the question is, can we connect the Poe Collector to the Bargainer Statues in some way? Is he truly a man, or is he something else (one of his MM quotes is "Maybe I shall vanish soon myself. Well, then...")?
Ultimately, with us now having the Bargainer Statues from TotK, I think we can further speculate on the Poe Collector as well. Maybe the OoT Poe Collector is merely someone running a Ghost Shop while the Terminian counterpart is something more, maybe they both have a greater metaphysical role in the Zelda universe, etc.
Ultimately, though, I do think that there is room for further speculation and theorizing.

Hey all,
As some might know, I'm the developer behind BeatSCORE, a website dedicated to Beatstar players so they can learn more about the songs and features in the game.
I've just now published a new segment of the website called Timeline, which shows a graph of songs released between game's release date and now (it's available at https://beatscore.eu/timeline )
Unfortunately I have 161 (standard) songs that I can't find any dates for!
I'm not sure which ones of these were available at release date, or if they were added at a later point (and if so, when). If anyone has any information on the availability of these songs at release, that would be greatly appreciated. A screenshot, a video, or anything that could help date any of the songs on the bottom of the timeline.
An absolute jackpot would be a video of songs panel being scrolled through dating start of september of 2021
Thank you!

https://youtu.be/Nfrk2UdEOcQ
At the 32 second mark. Just the chorus. Change the word “Linda” to “Fischer.”
“But it all was bull s, it was a god d joke, and when I think of you Fischer, I hope you f****** choke!”
I get chills thinking hearing thousands in unison chanting/singing it

do anyone of you believe in law of assumption? manifestation? i realized that i was very good at it just recently.
i grew up in a very abusive household. i think one of the ways that i can cope with it as a little kid was being so imaginative. i would always look forward to being alone and just imagining a lot of stuff. either good or bad. i spent the most of my childhood believing that my head is better than the reality because i can get whatever i want.
i carried that behavior until i got older but it was lessened. the thing is, when i dont have something, i would imagine having it. and when i end up having it, i would imagine not having it and how i would feel in that exact moment.
i manifested a lot of things in my life such as things, friendships, situations, and even relationships. whenever i make an assumption or i imagine something in my head before something even happens, it turns out to be even greater, even happier. and when i assume that something would be bad it would be extremely bad.
i just got out from a 3 year relationship last week. i was so heartbroken. i still am, and i am currently trying to heal, grow, and change my reality. the thought of me manifesting this to happen in my relationship will always keep me awake at night.
i met my ex in highschool 4 years ago, we became friends. i had a crush on him but didnt tell him and i would always, always imagine us being together. we had this deep chemistry and connection and he ended up confessing to me a month later. after 4 months we became official and it has been great since.
after a year, the problems started to arise. i tend to destroy great things in my head just to see how i would react to it. i would constantly think about us breaking up or him falling out of love. my ex is a really great guy. no one ever understood me better but him. he loved me so much and made my life better. we were inseparable since but after 3 years he started to change. he stopped making efforts, thats exactly what i was thinking every night. thats exactly what i was imagining every night.
the more he stopped putting work into our relationship the more i start to think about negative things. and guess what? all of that reflected in my life. we broke up last week because he said he didnt feel the same way about me anymore. but he also broke down so much because he loves me, it still makes me feel confuse to this day because he said he loves me but not exactly how he felt before.
i didnt fight for our relationship anymore and i just let it ended. i thought i dont want to be with someone who sees me that way, someone who feels like that about me.
now i am starting to work on myself and thinking about all the things that happened to me in the past. the brain is indeed so powerful, so we should really be careful about our thoughts. we should be careful about the things we feed our brain.
i have a lot of regrets because i feel like i ruined such a great relationship. me and my ex has a lot of chemistry and we still do, for some reason i can still feel him energetically and i am a very spiritual person.
i just want to get this off my chest because its been bothering me so much recently. but i am doing well, im working on my mental health and positive thinking so i dont manifest bad things in my life anymore.

I’m just spitballing here so feel free to propose your own thoughts.
Dragon mentions breathing fire and the apocalypse but it also specifically calls the dragon a “winged demon” and “demonic bird reptilian” (also use Tchort a russian term for devil used in Horology). They then mention it being “born of the tempest” and being able to control storms. Furthermore it says “atomic space/ chaos it reeks/ pilots shriek / cities week” and then the chorus about the air dilating and gyrating. Lastly from the song it says “it hath arisen from chairest lair”.
In Lord of Lighting and Balrog we get imagery about the” Lord's electric snare One goes in his electric chair” and “luckless hostage has been thoroughly fried” leading to the corpse becoming the balrog. Then in Balrog it talks about the atom splitting, an entity coming to eat you, it’s pure evil, and it’s blowing flames down on people. Lastly then entity preached the apocalypse but is being fought back by the Lord of Lightning.
Also the “what hath god wrought” in Dragon matches up with the people worrying for their lives and about to give in to the Balrog

I'm not sure if this is useful for anyone or if this is in fact a good strategy, but since I rarely see anyone manage/cope/manifest their ADHD in similar ways that I do, I thought I'd share.
I'm hyperactive and I thought I don't have much in common with ADD people or even other hyperactive people, but then I actually spent time reading into the fine details of what they share (re: I didn't read more than the abstract because ADHD), I think that I actually just sidestepped their symptoms with a different set of symptoms.
Basically, I turn everything into a "time trial"/"speed run" (e.g. time taken to get ready in the morning, time taken to make a meal, time taken to write a program at work, etc.). I grew up wanting to become a racing driver (the most ADHD of profession) but I failed because I wasn't born from a billionaire family (and because I didn't insist on trying, and probably slow). And part of that reasoning is that I already turn everything as a "hotlap" against the clock anyway. The gamification of everything in daily life makes my symptoms and manifestations different from most people.
I read and found out that there are other more common popular symptoms from other people that my personality sidestepped. For example time blindness wasn't an issue for me because I am doing something as fast as I can already, so there is no point pacing or watching the clock (i.e. you don't need to know the time when you already assume that time is not enough, since you are trying to go faster anyway).
I got around the lack of motivation by treating everything as a sport so that it'd be more fun or meaningful. It is particularly useful if you start to be able to ignore other people relative to you and only look at your score and your time (e.g. I just compare myself to the world record for most things so that I don't have to worry about being slow or doing poorly, you always do poorly if you compare yourself to nothing but the WR anyway, just get used to it). Things that I do for fun are not fun for most other people and downright bizarre without context, e.g. when other people started doing wordle during the pandemic, I just did 1 LSAT practice test per day for no discernible reason, because a wordle is not enough (and also unlike most other people with emotional stake in an LSAT, idgaf if I score really poorly, I don't have anything better to do in the middle of the day in my office so I need something that is 2.5 hours long that is extremely intense so that I would get in gear and actually go to my office). I started sim racing and I try to make the WR pace for each lap and track as much as possible. The fact that I am a slow driver means that it provides a very long and arduous process to occupy my day, and I'm here for it. There are plenty of other activities that I can't list, all of them meaningless.
In truth I didn't care for motivation because I just don't do anything that is not fun or doesn't require me to operate on the limit. There are obvious downsides to my way of dealing with ADHD, e.g. I am very bad at maintenance and chores because there is almost no way of making those items feel like a competitive sport. Worse yet is when I have to work with people, I have no patience for people. As an extravert, I love to socialize, but I rather work alone at work because of the way I work. I never had any fun in adult sports classes because I just don't care for the warm up, the structure, the schedule and the discipline. I just want to hit a tennis ball against a ball machine 98034298342987 times until I feel like I'm good enough to go to a tournament.
In short, instead of trying to make myself more discipled, I basically got rid of the idea of discipline altogether. Instead of waking up early and do exactly a certain amount of training/whatever because #motivation or whatever, I'd get rid of the clock and train until I fall over and have cramps, but only the things that I'm interested in.
I understand that I'm in a privileged position that I can afford to do that, most people with kids or a 9-5 job can't afford to just get rid of their obligations or their schedule, or only interact with people when it is for socialization, but I think the issue with many people with ADHD in trying to "instill" discipline in their life, is the fact that "discipline" is forced upon them and meaningless. In general, when ADHD people do things, we either do it or we don't, we don't care what the exact time is on the clock.

Hi my names Matt and here is a little of my all time low history. My old band silentfilm played a lot of shows with all time low in Baltimore. And I got to know Alex pretty well during that time. - first time I saw them was at one of our shows at the ottobar and I was blown away by how polished they sounded being so young. - I worked with Paul a lot during that time and he sent me lots of work in my own studio. And would send his own projects my way for vocals as he trusted me a lot with vocals . - while recording All time lows first ep the party scene , paul was gonna be gone and asked me to record Alex for a few days in his studio. - I remember recording all the vocals for “break out break out” and I think “circles. I also remember doing the group vocals during lullabies which was my fav song . - during that time Alex asked me if I wanted to sing on “the girls a straight up hustler “ and I was happy too. - I was also asked to sing the song again when they re recorded the song on “put up or shut up “which I always appreciated. - another funny thing that ties me to all time low is Maria. Everyone band knew Maria and her cousin Kaley in the local scene as they went to all the local shows. I became friends with them both and a few years later I married Maria’s cousin Kaley lol - the last thing I recorded before leaving music and getting married was the dangerous summers debut which I ended up singing on like 4 or 5 songs. Wouldn’t you know it Alex sang on that album too lol. Lots of other fun stories from that time but u get the gist it was a great scene for music and great people.
The last two years I have been working hard on new music for fun and forgot how much I loved and missed it. so much so I have multiple albums coming out this year. The new band is called Media Queen. I kinda miss that older pop punk catchy guitar heavy music and basically made the music i miss dearly. I also talked Paul into joining his first band since he was a teenager which is something we had always talked about. I have a lot of songs lol so he’s not on all of them but he is currently recording the music for one of the albums and he loves the other stuff. There will be new releases every week over the next 5 months or so. I hope you guys dig it . Follow if you dig it cuz alot of good music is coming every week!
https://music.apple.com/us/album/against-the-edge/1689955102?i=1689955103
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Hello everyone! I'm (20F) posting on behalf of my failed marriage mainly for advice moving on. I've pondered on posting to Divorce yet we're planning on staying legally married for now as the residence benefits were taken into account.
They officially ended things with me this past SAT 6/3/23 when I mentioned that I feel disconnected and felt like I didn't know what the point of being in a relationship with someone if you're still going to feel lonely despite understanding they're alright with being alone for many hours, maybe even days, without talking to me or anyone else because that's what they feel like. Things ended that night and later (6/5/23) I've found out that they were having sexual role play and romantic conversations with others which led to a formation of a relationship later in the night where I felt homicidal, suicidal, etc and overall worthless alone for a bit.
What type of support I'm looking for
Ideally people who've went through breakups including short-term and/or long-term separations including divorce and how you navigated that. I'm still navigating clicking on videos like 'manifest them back' and more yet I don't want to beg them to be into me life especially seeing as I've poured my heart out, cried, tried to talk more, etc.
Here were some of our recurring issues we had which spanned mental, emotional, financial, etc.
Financial
This spans their parents nagging us regarding money and now we're to a state of being able to pay them back and even help out as my father-in-law is in debt. I hate them for it. It didn't help for them to nag about money cause it not only made me feel stupid but doubtful of why I'm staying with a non-breading winning 'male' even though they brought more value into my life than money could ever dream of stating. We've stressed about money before and agreed on a 50/50 money share where me and them both receive a fixed-price weekly and the remainder goes to bills as the country we stay is pretty affordable and my rates accounting for the living costs and more as I'm the financial provider.
By principle I don't believe in coercive relationships and partially wanted financial independence for both of us cause I worried if they'd be here with the money as it felt like we changed as people.
I sometimes feel like I sold my soul for our survival and regret it not only for what it's done for my individually but interdependently to bring to the relationship as my anxiety and depression has worsened. I appreciate all that we've learned from each other.
Some things I've said recently during our relationship

• Getting mutually counseling. They've said the bad outweighed the good in total spanning from being together to be separated now as each bad time and break up broke them bit by bit.
• Consistent care. I'd like to spend 2-4 hours daily just enjoying our time together which likely would be evening to night just unwinding.
• Radical realness. I'll admit I've sometimes made it an unsafe space to express emotions yet really appreciated when they just have a heart-to-heart with me explaining what they felt as I feel they bottle up emotions and experiences a lot.

Some things they've said recently during our of relationship
Something about me is that I need to be told the sugarcoated truth about things and they've spoken to me as such cause reality will seem a bit more real if it's spoken like that.

• They said if they could they wouldn't live with me anymore and want to move to another country. They've even talked with their new 'girlfriend' about wanting to kiss, cuddle, move in, etc alongside generally wanting to be alone in their room and interacting with people whenever they want versus being around people as the default.
• They said that they're unsure if they have romantic capacity. They're surely burnt out with me yet want to rebuild that to connect with others in the future. Right now they're in the dating phase with someone they got with the day they officially ended things with me cause this person is 'nice' and they want to 'see where it goes' yet it wasn't 'preemptive cheating' because they were already out and disconnected from despite me explaining why it would be a betrayal to allow those connections to form in a monogamous setup.
• They want to be solo polyamorous. This fits them best as they'd like to have multiple, unlimited meaningful relationships in their life without artificial restrictions and conventions. I scarred them with my jealousy and controlling in the beginning regarding same-sex friendships and I regret it. I saw so much cheating that my dad did and I hated the sneakiness and that message was confirmed throughout despite getting over it after a few months of being together. They also mentioned needing to have someone close in their life and them needing to seek that out... and not feeling close with me for months besides snippets and not engaging in their hobbies. A previous breakup would be when they considered polyamory while LDR and broke up with me as that'd be a incompatibility towards wanting a more connected lifestyle with boundaries. I tried getting over them and they reached back out and we got back together cause it wasn't a need.
• They said 'get over me and get on with your life'. They have no emotional or mental attachment to us working out and would rather not think or talk about anything regarding our relationship in the past. I feel like a bad memory that she wants to forget as I kept asking questions towards the end when they were in the other room and they kept repeating 'let me go', 'I already said everything that needed to be said', 'you already know the answer', etc. I left the door frame cause they were so angry and they seemed done with me. We talked later today and we had a relatively civil conversation minus me letting my emotions spill out and taking jabs at their overall secrecy.
• They said it was stupid and 'one of their biggest regrets in life' to get back with me out of pity. This happened around 2 months ago when they broke up with me last despite me trying to cry in silence and not bother them and try to actually move on cause I felt unsure of how many heartbreaks I could go through.
• They missed the old me. I apparently was a bit sharper, playful, etc in the past and most recently they've sought people out like that to fill a void yet can't pour it back here. I'd also say I was prettier and happier as I had more home-cooked meals and less stress.

What we're feeling about the relationship

• Some things they've said about us would be that 'we peaked last year', 'I don't think I can do (romantic) relationships anymore', 'I want to keep everyone in my life at a (platonic) friendship level', etc. I feel like I've ruined love for them and that hurts too because I not only knew and believed we had potential but want it to continue.
• I don't feel like I'm in the state to do much radical change cause I need to pick up the broken, bashed parts of me or else I'm just going to go into bad cycle of changing for a little bit or not ... fully understanding how to root-cause change and add more trauma to them.

Some notable points about where we're at in this relationships

• Some things that still upset me would be that they don't greet me or sometimes lock their door at night which I don't understand. I've never done anything harmful to them while they're sleeping but did look at them a few days ago while they were sleeping because
• Talking to me minimally because I'm draining in the background. They've said they just can't do 'this' anymore and I assume that's just talking to me so I'm trying to keep conversation brief and basic.

What this relationship left me insecure about

• Some things I'm left dealing with would be feeling like I'm unlovable. They were many things I admired and aspired to be like especially since I didn't have a stable male figure in my life. Their willingness to stand on their beliefs despite many like it will always be one of the top things that drew me to them despite it coming from a dark origin of their authority figures spanning teachers, parents, classmates etc either actively or passively allowing people to bully them. They also had a caring, compassionate view of allocating resources to people which fit well as they used to take care of their sister.

What type of attachment misalignment I'm going through here
I know other people are out there yet I don't want to love anyone else. They were special to me. Our history is still special to me as we're a former LDR couple. We were 'defeating the odds' and I'll always hate how we grew apart... what I played into it at least. Some things that scarred them would be our 2 physical fights (e.g. them slightly choking me and us mutually slapping each other) and countless other verbal fights.
I'm also dealing with the disappointing feelings I have in myself because I feel like I become a similar toxic version of my mother with all of the emotional instability and volatility. I know I haven't been keeping up with my mental health well besides just maintaining my states and not getting stressed. I honestly feel scared looking inside sometimes and after a bit I felt like, "I'm always needing to be improve something for you" and in the beginning it was shame-based yet felt like a memorable martyr in a sense cause I 'killed the go' for love despite it turning into rejection sensitivity and getting de-motivation cause I let myself double down.
THE POST SUMMARY
TLDR; Young married individual currently navigating an unrequited separation with actionable tips to minimize dwelling or depression if possible amidst still living together.
I'd hope we can get marriage counseling but have decided one of the best ways to radically split is to bear the pain without the idea of 'hope' getting in the way cause you might feel safe and not do it for the best reasons including chasing someone's external validation over your needed internal victories.
Earlier today I told my father-in-law how I was feeling through a piece of paper and some of it was translated including the online secrecy with romantic and sexual conversations, ignoring me most of the day, feeling unsure about staying here, etc. He justified it if it wasn't physical cheating yet don't agree with that as that's something you discuss with your partner before.
I know all of this sounds like pretty much a lot and why am I even wanting to stay but whatever advice you can give I'm willing to hear it. Just try to be considerate despite feeling like this is a 'stop' sign.