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2023.06.06 04:51 MidgeMo_o Just bought tickets to this today! It'll be my 2nd concert so far!
2023.06.06 04:50 augustoersonage Car living and privacy
I'm seeing a metric ass ton of posts about people feeling harried, hassled, hindered, ogled, viewed, judged, scorned, tsked, spied upon, looked down on, asked to move on, etc., all because they live in their car. It's all very stressful, and I get that.
I've been living in my vehicle full-time for the past 9 months, part-time before that, and I have to say this sentiment is 180 degrees counter to my experience. I've never before had the pleasure of as much privacy or anonymity, if I choose it. The US is still mostly open space; second to that, it's places for cars to park. In a parking lot full of cars, no one cares or notices me or mine.
The country is lousy with places to sleep in your vehicle. Last night I drifted off dreamfully at the back of a deserted Cracker Barrel, lulled by the din of the interstate. There was a Microtel next door whose own parking lot was my backup plan. The night before, I parked for the night in front of a stranger's house in a leafy mid century subdivision, right across the street from the gym where I showered the next morning. I've slept in neighborhoods, industrial quarters, next to parks, along the beach, cheap campgrounds, BLM land, unmarked turnouts, Walmarts, hotel lots, hospitals.
I do everything in my vehicle that I would do anywhere else. I crouch, whip out the piss jug, and have a slash. I don't even bother putting up shades. No one sees, and no one cares. I change clothes, I meditate, I read, I wank, I sleep.
I know there is wide disparity in circumstances among urban car dwellers. I am probably better off than most for living this way by choice and not necessity. I work remotely, and as an independent contractor. Still I think what I've experienced is attainable for almost anyone living like this. The number one thing that makes this possible, in my opinion and experience, is that my vehicle is a minivan and not a sedan. Even a crossover, SUV, wagon would work the same. Any vehicle you can take the back or middle seats out of or fold down to make a bed and have a place to sit. Having a place to sit and lie down unseen is the entirety of the game. Without that, you're exposed. With it, you're golden.
I fully appreciate that not everyone has access to a van or similar vehicle. I would just like to point out that you can likely get one for not much more than what a sedan costs; and the benefits of having "living space" in your "car home" are well worth an extra $1-2k. I bought mine, a 15-year-old minivan in good shape, for under $5k. I paid some out of pocket and took out a small loan with my credit union for the rest.
Shit. I'm not trying to gloat. This is just what's worked for me, and I encourage anyone else who wants to car-dwell to van-dwell.
Now I'm off to get all my spots blown up and my personal space violated, for having written this.
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2023.06.06 04:42 cconroy1 Uncertainty around a narcissistic parent.
I've (F26) never been certain of my mum's (F50ish) narcissism. She's never been an aggressive narcissist. In fact, it took going to therapy for me to even identify her as one, and even then I still feel unsure. I faced more neglect than abuse. To a degree I believe she's been aware of her habits and has been in programs like ACA, AA and NA for my entire life. In that I see proof of a want to get better. But I struggle to identify issues as they happen, struggle to bring those issues up and when I do they often go ignored or challenged. Nothing spiteful or outright threatening, but they have often been things that left me vulnerable or unsafe. For example, when my brother was old enough that we couldn't share a room, "my room" became an old carravan in the backyard. And when an extension was finally built on the rest of the house my room was never fully water sealed.
So far I've been no contact for over a year after another year of trying. But a growing sense of lonliness has made it harder to maintain. I miss my family a lot. My dad is worse than her, and my brothers and sisters still live at home. I've been out of home for nearly 10 years now but its suddenly become harder than ever before. I feel stranded without roots.
The big thing that's come about was that I recently sent her a letter where i brought up a number of issues. Her reply was very love-bomby but didn't meaningdully address anything. I want to have a better relationship but I don't see things changing. But i'm also not there to change things, y'know?
I think my big questions are: is this much doubt around it normal? Am i valid in my worries of narcissism?
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2023.06.06 04:42 Voltess_V 35 [nb4f] i wanna date a bisexual female
I wanted to date female bisexual and willing to learn from you. I want to take time to have some stories with you in chat and calls. Later on hoping your open to meet ups and spending time with me, having a blissful cup of coffee, milk tea or even a dinner, or walking somewhere to spend time together.
I am a lonely professional, so stressed from work. I am a current international student of research science. I am chinito looking nerd and loves to be with people. Questioning why people around me are turning bisexual. They thought im gay too but firmly I say im straight. My height is 5"6 and a half high, i am athletic with an skinny fit body. I am artistic and very versatile person. Funny to be with. I live at Cavite and i work in malabon, i love spending time walking and journaling within the walls of intramuros, coffee shops and staying up whole night just to walk, hoping next time im not alone anymore
Im curious about you, i accept who you are. I am willing to know you and spend my time having you if you want. I hope you dont mind it would be fast. I want to travel with you and hoping we can plan ahead where you wanna go: in the parks walking together, relaxing in the beach of batanggas, or i tour you around some good place in aguinaldos house and other museum if it is open or eat some kakanin from malabon or willing to cook for ypu if youll invite me from your home. I want to have friendship with you and grow into romantic stage and experience a bisexual girl loving a straight guy.
I will not judge you but i wanna learn and be intimate.
If your interested, dm me and i will respond quickly.
Gbu.
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2023.06.06 04:35 Dismal-Jellyfish CFTC Alert! CFTC approves Cboe Clear Digital, LLC to Clear Margined Digital Asset Futures. Order permits Cboe to provide clearing services for digital asset futures on a margined basis for futures commission merchants, in addition to the fully collateralized swaps previously authorized.
| Source: https://www.cftc.gov/media/8686/Cboe%20Clear%20Digital%20LLC-Amended%20Order%20of%20DCO%20Registration%206-5-2023/download https://preview.redd.it/pgkcjzep5b4b1.png?width=830&format=png&auto=webp&s=c8c242d9c79ad7609ecd59268ecda1bcd9a77577 https://preview.redd.it/ro39i6up5b4b1.png?width=825&format=png&auto=webp&s=ed0e9dd5811300443b681e9ac8219303797accb9 https://preview.redd.it/09n2r88q5b4b1.png?width=793&format=png&auto=webp&s=dd27f641bb63d3dfe683c9ef723b26ac5b4e8815 https://preview.redd.it/v33prazo7b4b1.png?width=882&format=png&auto=webp&s=5a60d8a89bc9b3fde3e78d263773e5801b293aff Statement of CFTC Commissioner Christy Goldsmith Romero Regarding Cboe Clear Digital, LLC’s Expanded Clearing of Digital Asset Futures: I support Cboe Clear Digital, LLC’s (“Cboe”) amended order of registration (“Order”), which authorizes Cboe to expand its clearing of futures contracts on crypto assets, while staying within the traditional U.S. futures intermediated market structure. The Order is accompanied by prudent risk-mitigation measures implemented by Cboe to complement policies and practices meeting DCO regulatory requirements. As the regulated digital asset derivatives market evolves, the Commission has a critical role to play in ensuring that any risks associated with that evolution are appropriately addressed by customer protections, guardrails and safeguards. The Commission should assess the risk that flows from any application, determine if that risk can be adequately mitigated, and require risk-mitigation measures. In my review of the Cboe application, I requested additional measures for critical risk-mitigation, and only with those measures am I able to support the application. I appreciate the staff and Cboe constructively engaging with my office to accommodate my changes to the Order and Cboe’s rulebook, policies, and practices to strengthen cybersecurity and promote market integrity. I also appreciate the staff working with me to create the newly released Division of Clearing and Risk (“DCR”) Advisory on “Review of Risks Associated with Expansion of DCO Clearing of Digital Assets.”[1] This advisory sets forth an approach to our supervision of a number of heightened risks related to the expansion of the regulated digital assets market—which I have called for multiple times this past year.[2] The staff will be able to monitor, supervise, and step in should the risks associated with Cboe’s expanded registration Order cause concern of potential harm to customers and/or markets. I. Cboe’s futures contracts will continue to be listed, traded, and cleared within the traditional derivatives markets structure and CFTC regulatory framework, limiting certain risks. Under Cboe’s application, Cboe will operate squarely within the parameters of the traditional broker-intermediated market structure and regulatory framework that has proven effective for decades in protecting customers, clearinghouses, and markets from risks.[3] Under this market structure, regulated brokers who are clearing members will manage and bear risks related to the clearing houses, and interact with customers, providing critical customer protections (including customer bankruptcy priority) and promoting financial stability. This market structure performed well through multiple stress events, including Russia’s war against Ukraine, the pandemic, and the 2008 financial crisis. Cboe’s application stands in stark contrast to FTX’s application for a bespoke disintermediated direct-to customer market structure. The proposed FTX model was never adopted by the Commission, but it put at risk customers’ bankruptcy priority, other customer protections, and financial stability. In October, while FTX’s application was pending, I gave a speech saying: The CFTC should continue to use its existing authority, following a “same risk, same regulatory outcome” approach. This starts with establishing the basic foundation of customer protections and guardrails that investors and customers are familiar with, and expect from other regulated financial products and markets. Crypto companies seeking to come within the CFTC-regulated derivatives markets should expect the application of our existing regulatory framework because it has a proven record of reducing financial stability risk. As companies seek bespoke treatment, I will be guided in my decisions by the twin pillars of financial stability and customer protection, in particular for retail investors. Crypto companies set up for an unregulated environment will need to change to look more like a regulated entity. On balance, regulators must be careful in allowing bespoke treatment that could increase financial stability risks—risks that are well in check with our existing framework.[4] Cboe’s application also differs from other registrants and applicants that have proposed bespoke market structures that could introduce financial stability risk and other risks. Cboe does not seek bespoke regulation that differs from the time and stress-tested traditional market structure. CBOE’s amended Order provides fair competition, without opening the door to novel and complex risks that could flow from an untested market structure.[5] Additionally, Cboe’s clearinghouse itself has been registered with the Commission since 2019, and its parent company Cboe has more than fifty years of experience operating exchanges across regulated futures, options, foreign exchange, and equities exchanges.[6] This experience can further serve to limit risk with the financial and human capital, as well as risk management expertise, that Cboe has in executing the responsibilities associated with regulated trading and clearing in other asset classes. Finally, in connection with seeking the expanded authority under the Order, Cboe has agreed to hold itself to a higher financial-resources standard than the law requires.[7] This recognizes the heightened risks associated with clearing in a nascent marketplace, like crypto, and acts to limit risk. II. Strengthened customer protections, cybersecurity and clearing-system safeguards and guardrails. The customer protections, cybersecurity, and clearing-system safeguards and guardrails of the futures markets will be strengthened by four significant measures that my office advanced. Staff Advisory on Supervision of Heightened Risk First, last week, the staff issued an advisory warning of certain heightened risks associated with the expansion of clearing into the digital-asset space—a supervisory action that I have advocated for this past year, and worked closely with the staff to release.[8] That advisory is a critical step in implementing heightened supervision of crypto exchanges and clearinghouses where there is heightened risk. The advisory makes clear that the Commission has existing authorities it can use to supervise areas of heightened risk. It identifies cyber resilience and systems safeguards, conflicts of interest, and physical settlement risks as key areas in which the staff intends to emphasize its general supervisory authority, application review authority, and examination authority.[9] The comprehensive oversight approach reflected in the advisory will continue to be critical in monitoring markets and supervising risks for those regulated entities where we have approved applications, such as CBOE. It will also be critical as the Commission considers other applications to expand clearing into digital assets or for new registered entities. Strengthened Cybersecurity Related to Cboe Second, because Cboe wished to expand to physically delivered crypto using an unaffiliated, experienced third-party custody provider, and out of my concern for the high rate of cyber hacks in crypto, Cboe worked with my office to strengthen a key cybersecurity and operational risk protection both for itself and third parties. In February, soon after the cyber attack on ION Markets, I gave a speech on strengthening cyber resilience, saying, “One of the lessons learned from last week is that a firm’s cybersecurity is only as strong as its most vulnerable third-party service provider . . . . Firms owe it to their clients—and I would say the markets—to have ongoing communications and other due diligence with third-party service providers to understand their cybersecurity controls and any weaknesses that could put the firm at risk. One path firms can consider is to request regular updated Systems and Operational Controls 2 (“SOC 2”) audits and opinions that the third party service provider has met, and better yet, exceeded, standards.”[10] CBOE has agreed to annual SOC 2 audits, giving it regular reports and findings with respect to the design and effectiveness of Cboe’s own financial and operational controls. These audits will serve as a useful oversight tool both for Cboe and the Commission and are a best practice to reduce cyber and operational risk. Commission staff will receive the reports and benefit from information and findings therein due to conditions that have been memorialized in the Order at my request. Cboe has submitted a representation letter to the Commission at my request that it will continue to engage these audits on an annual basis. In the letter, Cboe stated its belief that annual SOC 1 and SOC 2 reports constitute best practices. Strengthened Cybersecurity Related to Third Parties Cboe also worked with my office to strengthen cybersecurity by amending its vendor management framework to improve third-party risk management of custodians and wallet providers. Under the revised framework, Cboe will require all “high risk” third-party services involved in custodial or wallet services to provide their own SOC 2 Type II reports to the clearinghouse on a regular schedule. This third-party cyber risk control will provide Cboe with an independent view of the controls environment at key custodians and wallet third-party providers involved in its digital assets businesses. Key to this important due diligence requirement, of course, is the definition of “high risk,” which Cboe defines to include a broad array of disruptions to Cboe’s ability to deliver services or satisfy compliance or regulatory obligations. It also includes all services with unsupervised access to, or hosting, highly confidential information. This control comes as a lesson learned from the ION Markets attack. In a discussion of the lessons learned from the ION Markets attack in the Technology Advisory Committee (“TAC”) that I sponsor, TAC member and Deputy Assistant Secretary of the Treasury, Todd Conklin, who leads Treasury’s cyber portfolio and worked on the ION Markets attack, presented the lessons learned from the attack.[11] DAS Conklin said, “You have this potential sprawling impact zone for a firm that, we found later, many institutions didn’t even classify necessarily as a ‘critical’ third-party vendor. Right? So many firms who onboarded ION didn’t use the highest-level scrutiny that they use for their most critical third-party vendors.” The Commission should pay close attention to these definitional issues across all registrants. Market Integrity Safeguards Finally, Cboe worked with my office to change its rulebook to protect the integrity of derivatives markets. Cboe agreed, in particular, to amend Rule 301(f) of its rulebook relating to General Eligibility Requirements of Clearing Members to disqualify any applicant for clearing membership if it, any affiliate, or any associated principal is subject to statutory disqualification(s) under section 8a(2) of the Commodity Exchange Act.[12] In other words, Cboe will not admit any clearing firm that has been found to have violated a provision of law identified by Congress as significant enough to prohibit a firm—without a hearing—from engaging in a CFTC-regulated business. These four measures collectively protect customers, the clearing system, and markets. III. Conclusion I have been vocal about the benefits of bringing appropriate crypto activities into the regulated space in order to protect customers, but in a way that supports oversight, accountability, transparency, and risk management (among many other public interests). I also have been vocal about my concerns with respect to firms seeking bespoke regulation that has not been tested for risks. Too often in recent years, crypto firms have sought to take a business model or market structure that exists in an unregulated environment and port it over to the regulated environment. The CFTC does not have a window into the risks associated with models or structures in an unregulated environment. Cboe has not done that, instead operating within the parameters of the traditional futures market structure and regulatory framework. It has constructively engaged with the staff and my office to address concerns related to risk, and implement risk-mitigating measures. For these reasons, along with the staff advisory that recognizes our existing authorities in a supervisory framework for continued monitoring and supervision of heightened risk that could harm customers and markets, I approve. TLDRS: - CFTC approves Cboe Clear Digital, LLC to Clear Margined Digital Asset Futures. Order permits Cboe to provide clearing services for digital asset futures on a margined basis for futures commission merchants, in addition to the fully collateralized swaps previously authorized.
- Under this market structure, regulated brokers who are clearing members will manage and bear risks related to the clearing houses, and interact with customers, providing critical customer protections (including customer bankruptcy priority) and promoting financial stability.
- "Cboe’s application stands in stark contrast to FTX’s application for a bespoke disintermediated direct-to customer market structure. The proposed FTX model was never adopted by the Commission, but it put at risk customers’ bankruptcy priority, other customer protections, and financial stability. "
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2023.06.06 04:32 friedtwlnkie My best bubba Axel
| (Kind of a long post but I figure Reddit is the best place to openly talk about life issues and not be judged by those that know me when I try and talk to them about things. TLDR at end. Without getting into to much detail as this post is about Axel, and not my mental health so much but, this big guy is the reason I’m alive today. I moved across the country from Virginia Beach back home to Washington state in the hopes of finding peace and closure and then go on an adventure that I wasn’t coming back from. I connected with an old friend and her son causing this guy to adopt me. When we first met, I walked into the house and immediately sat down so I could be at his level. After a few puppy kisses and butt scratches he sat in my lap needing more butt scratches. After my friend and I realized that we wanted more than a friendship I was around Axel a lot more, to the point that he got separation anxiety when I went back home. We discussed a few things and had boundaries set and I eventually moved in and this bubba couldn’t have been more excited. We take naps, play ball, go on walks, helps me coach lacrosse, let’s me know when it’s time to leave a situation or that I need to take my meds. TLDR He is 50/50 english bulldog/Italian mastiff as well. Most importantly this big oooof of a dog makes sure I’m ok when ever we are together and if I’m not he stays with me until I am. submitted by friedtwlnkie to englishbulldog [link] [comments] |
2023.06.06 04:26 Moonymoonymoo I’m planning to attend college out of state and my dad wants to follow me.
I (19F) graduated from high school a week ago, and for as long as I could remember I’ve wanted to leave. I’ve applied to and accepted into a university in a different state with their presidential merit scholarship so finances aren’t the main immediate concern.
However, I grew up in a very traditional, conservative, asian family so this is way out of the norm. Especially in my family. Growing up, my parents have always been very very controlling and outright abusive. Emotionally, mentally, physically, and sexually to not just me, but my younger brother. Off the top of my head, I remember my father telling me to end my life because it would be less of a financial burden for him after someone from church told them I tried to take my life. And most recently, when my mom suspected I had a boyfriend, her first reaction was to say “o that’s impossible because you’re short and ugly and have a bad temper. Who would ever want you”.
I am so so so desperate to leave and I can’t fathom why I can’t have a normal family.
I told my parents that I planned to go out of state after pondering for a long time. I didn’t know how they’d react and I was so sure theyd try to hurt me in whatever way they could. My bank account was created when I was 17, so my father co-signed and my parents have access to all my money. They can see every transaction, every deposit, and can even take out money as they pleased. I worked for a year to save up all I could, and the fact that they would take my money.
It was radio silence for a while and they acted like I never said anything. But lately my mom has been amping up the emotional manipulation x10. Saying things like she didn’t have a daughter and that I was “broken” and needed fixing for wanting to leave my parents. I ignore it as I always do, but then last night she dropped the bomb that my dad was planning to follow me to Florida and live there until I graduate.
I am freaking out. It makes me hyperventilate at the thought of being a goddamn servant for him, being in a house, much less a room with him after everything he did to me as a kid. I planned on moving in with my boyfriend (that they don’t know of because they’re major racists) and I didn’t plan on telling them until after we got engaged. But sweet lord I am absolutely terrified. Even if he didn’t move with me, he has family there and they expect me to live with them.
I’ve lost sleep over this and I can’t even breath most times I think about it. My flight has been booked and I was planning on telling them that the school sent me the ticket. I can’t pen a new bank account until I have an address for the new place. But they have access to my money, my location, and pay my phone bill. I don’t think anything will deter them and I just want to avoid the fight. I’m so tired of yelling and the fighting, the guilt tripping. Being in this house is so suffocating and I want to leave so bad.
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2023.06.06 04:23 btheisey Fishing tips for Lewes Delaware
I am going on a family vacation to Lewes in two weeks. Last time I was in Lewes was 20 years ago. We are staying in a house at the north end of Lewes. Can you fish from the beach there? Any tips on other spots to try? We would also like to try crabbing and clamming. Any advice would be helpful.
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2023.06.06 04:22 btheisey Fishing tips for Lewes Delaware
I am going on a family vacation to Lewes in two weeks. Last time I was in Lewes was 20 years ago. We are staying in a house at the north end of Lewes. Can you fish from the beach there? Any tips on other spots to try? We would also like to try crabbing and clamming. Any advice would be helpful.
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2023.06.06 04:21 Moonymoonymoo I’m planning to attend a college out of state and my dad wants to follow me. How do I leave?
I (19F) graduated from high school a week ago, and for as long as I could remember I’ve wanted to leave. I’ve applied to and accepted into a university in a different state with their presidential merit scholarship so finances aren’t the main immediate concern.
However, I grew up in a very traditional, conservative, asian family so this is way out of the norm. Especially in my family. Growing up, my parents have always been very very controlling and outright abusive. Emotionally, mentally, physically, and sexually to not just me, but my younger brother. Off the top of my head, I remember my father telling me to end my life because it would be less of a financial burden for him after someone from church told them I tried to take my life. And most recently, when my mom suspected I had a boyfriend, her first reaction was to say “o that’s impossible because you’re short and ugly and have a bad temper. Who would ever want you”.
I am so so so desperate to leave and I can’t fathom why I can’t have a normal family.
I told my parents that I planned to go out of state after pondering for a long time. I didn’t know how they’d react and I was so sure theyd try to hurt me in whatever way they could. My bank account was created when I was 17, so my father co-signed and my parents have access to all my money. They can see every transaction, every deposit, and can even take out money as they pleased. I worked for a year to save up all I could, and the fact that they would take my money.
It was radio silence for a while and they acted like I never said anything. But lately my mom has been amping up the emotional manipulation x10. Saying things like she didn’t have a daughter and that I was “broken” and needed fixing for wanting to leave my parents. I ignore it as I always do, but then last night she dropped the bomb that my dad was planning to follow me to Florida and live there until I graduate.
I am freaking out. It makes me hyperventilate at the thought of being a goddamn servant for him, being in a house, much less a room with him after everything he did to me as a kid. I planned on moving in with my boyfriend (that they don’t know of because they’re major racists) and I didn’t plan on telling them until after we got engaged. But sweet lord I am absolutely terrified. Even if he didn’t move with me, he has family there and they expect me to live with them.
I’ve lost sleep over this and I can’t even breath most times I think about it. My flight has been booked and I was planning on telling them that the school sent me the ticket. I can’t pen a new bank account until I have an address for the new place. But they have access to my money, my location, and pay my phone bill. I don’t think anything will deter them and I just want to avoid the fight. I’m so tired of yelling and the fighting, the guilt tripping. Being in this house is so suffocating and I want to leave so bad.
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2023.06.06 04:15 FieryatHeart Hello, I'm glad I found this group
Hi guys I'm 22 and I'm currently going to therapy after experiencing neglect and psychological abuse from my stepdad and stepdad's daughter. My parents separated at an early age and I never knew my biological dad. I went back and forth between my stepdad and Mom until I had to live with my stepdad and his stepdaughter from age 11 on due to my mom being neglectful and inable to care for me and my two younger siblings. From the time we moved from Idaho to Washington when I was 15 I had to to go to school, come home and clean the house and look after my stepdad bc he refused to clean up after himself then after all that I could do my homework. Every morning when I woke up I was yelled at "for doing something wrong" bc I was the scapegoat for my stepdad and older ( by 20 yrs) stepsister. Ontop of that my stepsister was a pedophile who forced me and my younger sister into doing stuff with her boyfriend who was also a pedophile. I was 16 and my little sister was 12, I still feel awful for not doing more to protect her. Our stepsister bribed us to do all of this with weed. My little brother who was 14 at the time didn't get molested bc both my stepsister and her boyfriend didn't like boys in a weird, creepy sexual fetishist type of way. My stepdad chose to pretend it wasn't happening. If I didn't follow through with what was asked of me ( chores, taking care of stepdad/kids, the sexual exploitation(16-17), or I dared try to socialize and they didn't like something I did or said with whoever I had over) I would be punished. This would usually entail me being forced to be in my room for days on end and not being able to leave except for food or going to the bathroom, I wasn't allowed to keep water with me or any snacks. I once had my room ransacked by my stepsister and little sister( who would gang up with my stepsister when she started arguments/fights with me from the time we moved) when I was 16 bc My stepsister thought I had "lost my virginity" when I was hanging out with my boyfriend mock wrestling bc he was playing keepaway with my stuffies. I had to cope with no light, no door and a bare room for weeks. My stepsister and little sister ransacked and took everything out of my room at least 3 times and other times I would have to be in my room with "the usual" punishment of not being able to leave except for food or to use the bathroom. After I was able to start working at 19 bc my stepdad refused to get me an I.D until I was well over 18 bc it's easier to force me to take care of the house and take care of him, my stepsister who never had a job the entire time and the kids ( my younger siblings) if I couldn't get a job. Finally when I did get a job all of my money was taken to take care of the bills and kids and if I didn't follow through it would be made clear my siblings would suffer for it so I played it safe until I was around 21 and my younger sister who was the youngest out of all of us was 17 and graduated highschool. I left for around 3 months but life happens and I wasn't hanging out with the most responsible people so I ended up coming back home. It got worse I was made to pay an extraneous amount of "rent" at 650 a month and when I went to hangout with my friends or a lover I had I would be told I was irresponsible and a terrible influence and the usual verbal abuse I'd grown used to. My stepsister also got into physical fights with one of which she did when I came home drunk and just wanted to chill out in my room... Finally I had enough after I had done enough work on myself to realize that while I was anxious I was a capable, brilliant young woman who didn't deserve to keep being treated like whitetrash cindarella. It all came to a point when my stepdad told me he was raising my rent to 750 $ after I watch my stepsister's boyfriend who barely got a job after I did barely pay 500 $ a month and a third of that went towards his t.v and internet bill. Suffice to say I wasn't on board and told him as much, to which he told me " WELL PRIIINCCESS If you don't want to pay that much then go live with someone else". It was like the universe was lining up the perfect escape route as I looked at him and said the equivalent of "Alright. BET." During the last few months of me staying with my abusers (stepdad, stepsister and her boyfriend) I had began talking to a good friend of mine who I had known throughout highschool and was crushing on. When we made it official I took him to meet my stepdad and he saw firsthand how I lived...in a basement behind old books and worn matresses was my room, which I decorated and made my own eventhough it was originally a cold, wall to wall to floor white hellhole I had made it cozy. I left him to talk to my stepdad as I grabbed stuff I needed to stay the night with him... Finally, after grabbing my stuff and leaving with him... he broke down and told me he had an awful feeling about how I was being treated. The next day I went back but wasn't able to.come into the house, I came with my boyfriend so I could introduce him to everyone but I was locked out of the house. He looked at me and told me I could leave with him if I wanted to...so I did. He then talked to his dad about letting me live with them until I got onto my feet and next thing I knew I started living with him. However I had to have a police duo escort me into what was once my broken home so I could grab the last of my things and my final check from work that was mailed to that address. I have lived with my boyfriend, his dad and little sister for about a year now and It's a safe, secure, lovely home. I have a puppy named poto who is my boyfriend's shadow and I have started regular therapy sessions to work through my P.T.S.D and anxiety along with seeing stuff that isn't there and hearing noises or voices hear and there, nothing violent just out of place and sometimes even encouraging. I'm currently seeking diagnosis for schizophrenia bc I'm sure I have it after talking to my bio mom who has had it for years and my hunch was proven correct when I started talking to my therapist about it and she stated I may in fact have it bc my visions have been with me since I was little but they have gotten more frequent as I started to work through my trauma and heal. I have N.C currently with my stepdad, stepsister, her boyfriend and both of my younger biological siblings. I talk to my mom sometimes bc she has gotten help for her alcoholism, drug abuse, and depression, schizophrenia as well as anxiety and has made a significant effort to be a part of my life even if that just means talking to her now and again about what's happening in my life... I'm starting to feel whole again and capable of changing my life around and healing from all of the trauma I endured, I'm thankful for the people that made this transition possible and am thankful I got out of that abusive situation intact and healthy albeit an anxious, P.T.S.D ridden mess most days, I still wouldn't have it any other way bc I am a stronger person for facing all of that, despite now having to work through fixing a low self esteem and anxious mind. I'm still here to tell my.story and fight on every day, a reminder and hopefully an aid to reassure those who may be facing similar troubles and aren't sure if there is a way out. Because there is, even if it's tumultuous and rocky, you can, and will, succeed ...who ever is reading this and made it this far, thankyou so so so much bc it means the world to me to get my story out there. Thankyou 💕
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2023.06.06 04:15 ihateAPs This is an open ending story and pls feel welcome to conclude the story with your imagination by commenting!! :)
It was always foggy and cold in a very small town in the mountains. People gave up walking up to the hills as the coldness made one’s bones shiver and the fog covered one’s eye sights. Even though no one ever went to the top of the mountains, there was a red-roofed house in a gloomy town there. On the way to the red-roofed house, there were tall wrinkly trees, houses that seemed abandoned, and old lanterns. During the nights, the tree branches swung as the cold night breeze blew. The shadows of the moving branches looked like a skinny ballet dancer tip-toeing. It was no wonder why villagers who dwelled under the mountain feared the mountain. During midnights, these eerie shadows danced ominously in the fading light as if it was trying to scare off people. It was here, in this haunting setting, that our story unfolds.
A young girl named Lily lived in the red-roofed house. Hiding from all people, she dwelled in the mountains with an air of anxiety clinging to her every step. Her daily life was monotonic as she lived by herself, waiting for the sun to set. She found comfort living alone, and she did not want to interact with anyone. So, she was very careful with locking the doors and was cautious if there was anyone approaching her. Only her trustful dog Cookie was a soul she relied on. She wandered through the desolate streets with him. Like usual, she went out to walk her dog to kill time. Her heart pounded with a mix of anticipation and dread as her mind clouded with disturbing thoughts. As if Cookie knew how she was stressed with the thoughts in her mind, he got closer to her. As soon as they passed an abandoned playground, memories from her past flooded her thoughts and transported her back to a time filled with joy and laughter. In that memory, there was her mom and her grandma; now, she has no one except herself and Cookie. She barely remembered what her mom looked like. Her squealing voice and her tall figure suddenly came across her mind. She screamed and broke down on the floor. “Breathe, Breathe. It’s okay she’s not here. I am alone. I am okay.” She panted as she placed her arms crossed, holding her shoulders.
As she sat down on a swing and looked down the mountains, trying to relax, she smelled the delicious scent of broccoli soup. It reminded her of the good days when she lived with her grandmother, who was the only person Lily trusted. During the weekends, they would go out to a nearby beach and listen to the melodic sounds of the splashing tides and the birds chirping in peace. The beach was her dearest place to spend time. Every single time, the tides had different color shades to her eyes. She never thought that the beach was blue. She saw different colors like silver, gold, and red. She was pleased by the beach because no matter how it changed colors all the time, people would always visit there and admire it. She thought that if she spent the majority of her time on the beach side, she would eventually be someone like the beach. She realized how she was being loved when she spent time on the beach with her. Lily's laughter echoed through the air as she swung higher and higher on the creaking swings.
The scrawny trees reminded her of the reality, and everything looked so dull now. Brushing off the sand, she got back on her feet. Lily's steps grew hesitant as her imagination conjured up dark figures lurking in the shadows. As the evening sun dipped below the horizon, painting the sky with hues of crimson and violet, Lily quickened her pace. She felt like the sun was her only friend that accompanied her day no matter what. The sun was always shining on her as if it was reassuring her. When the sun went down, she felt abandoned. She felt attacked as if her friend was taken away from her. She took bigger gaps in the walk. She had to go home before it was dark. Clenching her fists, she felt it sweaty, but she also felt heat coming out from the top of her head. Every creak of a rusted gate or rustle of leaves sent shivers down her spine as if an unseen presence watched her every move. Glancing down to the villages again, she felt a quick shiver. The once familiar streets now felt like a labyrinth of uncertainty, each corner holding the possibility of something sinister. The darkness reminded her of her mom. Anxiety gnawed at her, fueling her desire to escape the encroaching darkness. The rhythmic tap of her shoes on the cobblestone seemed to echo with a sense of urgency as if the town itself whispered warnings of impending doom. Within each second, Lily's morbid curiosity intertwined with her growing fear. Her imagination conjured up scenarios of what horrors might await her around the next corner. The tension grew palpable, as if the very air held its breath, awaiting a dreadful revelation.
But just as the night threatened to consume her, a glimmer of hope appeared. A warm light spilled from a cracked window, casting a faint glow onto the street. Lily's heart skipped a beat as she recognized the silhouette of her home, a sanctuary amidst the encroaching darkness. Relief washed over her, momentarily easing the anxious grip that had held her captive. She heard a sound in her ears — it seemed like a white noise. On the top of the mountains, the air pressure is low. Was that the reason why she couldn’t breathe well? Was that the reason why she felt dizzy? As a dark shadow approached her from inside, her eyes unconsciously rolled and she felt the hard pebbles all over her body. Her eyes started to close on their own and she slowly was losing control of her own senses, and at that movement she realized she was about to collapse.
When she opened her eyes, the ceiling was the first thing she saw. As she turned her head to the side, she heard her bones crack. The humming sound was all she heard and the tik-tok of the brown clock.
“Lily, Lily, Lily”
She heard a voice calling out her name. She looked around and tucked in the blanket. She knew it. It was her mom. Just by recognizing her voice felt like the old bruises and scars were dimming on her body. The voice kept getting louder and squeakier.
“I should protect myself. I don’t want her to destroy my place here.” Lily cautiously crawled out of bed, being afraid that the figure would get any closer. She saw a bat under her desk and grasped it without hesitation.
“Let’s go down to check if she is there in the living room.” She stepped down the stairs very carefully. As she came downstairs, an old radio was on. The connection was weak, and it made unidentifiable screechy technological sounds. She tried to adjust the volume and the antenna, trying to figure out what it was saying. A man’s voice dimmed: “Ripley syndrome is the term for antisocial personality disorder that denies one's reality and believes that the fictional world they imagine is real. Many teenagers into adulthood can get this mental state and it often develops if one doesn't receive love…” She was baffled as it was unexpected. She grabbed the bat and laid it on her elbow again, sliding her pupils left and right. “I am so scared that she will hurt me again. I have to protect myself now.” She could taste a bit of metal and blood on her tongue. Perhaps she was panicking. It has to be her mom. Thinking of her mom made her heart beat very rapidly. Her right eye twitched, and she could not stop picking her nails. As she had a traumatic relationship, her presence did not comfort her at all. She reminded her of the days when her mom would be mad at Lily. “Mom, I won’t forgive you for what you did. When will you stop hurting me as a way to heal yourself? I never got to be simply a child. I always had to be something more, and I will never have the chance to be a child again. You told me that I was your everything. But Mom, why was I never enough for you? You have hurt me so much that I have to heal to live,” she imagined telling her mom the words that never came out of her mouth in front of her. Her presence made Lily’s presence so small and invisible, and Lily did not want to live with her ever again.
Having searched every room of the house, Lily realized that she was in front of the last chamber of her house. “She must be here. I looked everywhere,” she whispered. She clenched her fists, and she kicked the door as forcefully as she could. Before she could proceed with her thoughts, she dropped her bat. Her red-roofed house in the mountains remained quiet. There was no sound but only an echo of the metal bat dropping to the floor.
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2023.06.06 04:11 SoraDonaldGoofy99 Challenge Dex 60: Jynx
Still, speaking of Jynx, her run is complete. I named her Snooki.
Up to Brock: Moveset: Pound, Lovely Kiss, Lick UGHA... Jynx just FEELS like a hoe. I'm sorry. I know there are people who actually like her, but this thing, to me, sucks. In terms of appearance. Jynx's starting moves don't use her Special at all, just her less than average Attack. Lovely Kiss is quite the amazing move. Pound, UGH. Not good for Jynx. I think Jigglypuff got more use out of it to be honest. None of the Bug Catchers were a problem. I gave Gary Charmander for this run because Charizard has Fire moves, but that may not have been the best idea for later on. Brock, though... that was terrible. I even went back to Gary 1A for EXP, and Buzz wasn't that bad with Lovely Kiss. Brock, I knew Geodude was just going to Full Heal no matter what I did, so I decided to just try Pound. No. I had to grind until Level 18 to learn Lick... GAAAHAHHHH... I felt bad this time. I couldn't not imagine Jynx looking so odd fighting this Geodude and Onix by Licking them and that doing more than Pound. Oh well. Just happy these moves were good for now. I kept Onix asleep for a long enough time with Lovely Kiss so that Pound would kill it by the end, too.
Up to Misty: Moveset: Mega Punch, Lovely Kiss, Lick, Water Gun Got Water Gun for Mt. Moon as well. I nicked a Spearow on the way, and even found a Paras while wandering around. Lick helped me catch the Paras. It was weird enough when Gastly had to Lick stuff, but Jynx felt downright disgusting... GAHAHAAH... I kept Lick only because I thought it would be more useful than Pound overall. And it would be. Nothing was hard leading up to this part of course, Water Gun on my better Special did help in a few of the fights. Once I got to Misty (I was gutsy enough to go at her immediately, yes...) I won pretty handily. Putting her Pokemon to sleep helped so much. I Mega Punched her Starmie down.
Up to Surge: Moveset: Body Slam, Lovely Kiss, Bubblebeam, Water Gun Bubblebeam over Lick, PLEASE!! Gary 2 wasn't even a problem. Bubblebeam was good enough to carry me through Pidgeotto and Rattata. Mega Punch stopped Abra, DUH, and Charmander of course dropped to Bubblebeam. It was now that I was like... Uh... maybe Charmander wasn't the best? Oh well. I already started. I guess if I ever redo these, I'll make Jynx fight Squirtle next time. Anyway, Nothing before Bill's House was bad, but I nearly ran out of Bubblebeams getting there. Once I got the Ticket, I went straight to the S.S. Anne, didn't bother grinding and walked straight to Gary 3. Still was as easy as it was before. Body Slam still took down Kadabra, too. Bubblebeam even wiped Charmeleon. Surge was also trivial. Bubblebeam and Body Slam annihilated Voltorb and Pikachu, and then Raichu, took Bubblebeams. I absorbed a Thundershock and Thunderbolt, but I shrugged them off like nothing. Raichu fell like everything else.
Up to Erika: Moveset: Body Slam, Lovely Kiss, Psychic, Ice Beam I did pick up Ice Punch during Rock Tunnel and spammed that through several battles at that point, but then I took down Gary 4 after I left Rock Tunnel. Pidgeotto, Exeggcute, and Gyarados all fell to the icy fists of fury. Kadabra again took the full brunt of a Body Slam, and since I still had Bubblebeam then, Charmeleon fell like a rock. Took down the Gambler on the way to Celadon, and then went straight to the Rocket Hideout for the money, then took out Giovanni 1, and got Ice Beam, and used the path to Saffron to immediately get Psychic. Psychic was used through my first fights in Erika's gym, and Ice Beam went BRRRR through her team.
Up to Koga: Moveset: Same Um... Yeah, Pokemon Tower was swept, as a Psychic type would do... and Ghost Marowak and Snorlax went bye bye. Ice Beam and Psychic together is too good to not use. I was beginning to get over my disgustedness by now, too, with a far more convential moveset. Koga himself just died to Psychic. Not much more to say besides that. Weezing was the only one who needed two hits, and even then, he only used Smog on me. Poor bastard.
Up to Sabrina: Moveset: Come over here, big boy... Don't know a Snooki reference. Probably for the best. Rival Fival ACTUALLY gave me a reset. Due to a RANGE. A RANGE!!! GAH! Pidgeot fell to Ice Beam like it should, as did Exeggcute, and I kissed Gyarados good night, allowing Psychic and Ice Beam to take care of it. I then did the same to Alakazam and slammed it out. Charizard didn't die to Ice Beam, and then due to Gyarados hitting me before, it killed me with Ember. I came right back, adjusted my moves, and won. Giovanni 2 was just as easy as last time, but other than losing my 4x damage with Bubblebeam, who cares? Sabrina died fast, too! Kadabra fell to a Body Slam, Mr. Mime was frozen by Ice Beam, Venomoth still fell to Psychic, and after a Lovely Kiss, Alakazam died to a few Body Slams.
Up to Blaine: Moveset: Body Slam, Lovely Kiss, Psychic, Blizzard Again, an upgrade from Ice Beam because hell yeah. I then walked into Blaine's gym, thinking I'd take one reset if any. I didn't. I took Growlithe and Ponyta out with Psychics, then Rapidash with Blizzard. When Arcanine came out, I put it to sleep by kissing it really hard, I think... and then threw a Blizzard and a Psychic at it. It died.
Up to Giovanni 3: Moveset: Is it cold in here or is it just Snooki? It was by now I was finally okay with using this thing. Or maybe by Sabrina. I really don't like this Pokemon. In short, Blizzard on non-Nidos, Psychic on the Nidos.
Gary 6: Moveset: Snooki... got... butt? I forget. Didn't need no Canides. I used Blizzard three straight times in a row. Pidgeot, boom. Rhyhorn, boom. Exeggcute, boom. Gyarados needed one, and then a Psychic. I put Alakazam back to sleep and slammed it repeatedly. Charizard just died to Blizzard.
Elite Four: Moveset: Our final stage... is here! Go out with the lights on you as you SAS-HAY through these fools! Or something... I dunno. Came to my mind as I typed this. Jynx won on the first attempt. Blame Lovely Kiss.
Lorelei: Could have maybe been trouble, but Lovely Kiss and Psychic killed Dewgong. Cloyster hit me with Supersonic as Lovely Kiss missed me. I killed it with Psychic as I was smacked by Spike Cannon. I put Slowbro to sleep and saw Blizzard did more damage than Body Slam. I outdamaged her Jynx with Body Slam, too, and then beat Lapras with Psychic.
Bruno: Blizzard Onix, hit Psychic on the Fighting types.
Agatha: PSYCHIC SPAM
Lance: Blizzard beat her Gyarados, two Dragonairs, and Aerodactyl, but I ran out by Dragonite and used Lovely Kiss and Psychic to kill Dragonite.
Champion Gary: Pidgeot cannot help but buried under ice. I put Alakazam to sleep yet again and slammed it. Maybe Snooki and Alakazam was gettin' it on... GAHA!! God... Shut up other side! Rhydon fell to Blizzard, Exeggutor got thawed after Blizzard by Full Restore, and I used Blizzard, then Body Slam to fell the great palm tree of death after a Lovely Kiss. Gyarados fell to Blizzard and Psychic, then Charizard was vanquished by one stray Blizzard.
I won at Level 61 and at 4:57.
Rankings: 1. Gengar: 62, 3:21, 4 resets. (Thunderbolt, Mega Drain, Psychic, Body Slam) 2. Kangaskhan: 62, 3:24, 1 reset. (Body Slam, Blizzard, Earthquake, Rock Slide 3. Victreebel: 62, 3:30, 2 resets. (Razor Leaf, Swords Dance, Body Slam, Sleep Powder) 4. Blastoise: 63, 3:32, 8 resets. (Blizzard, Withdraw, Surf, Earthquake) 5. Nidoking: 67, 3:43, 8 resets. (Body Slam, Blizzard, Earthquake, Thunderbolt) 6. Venusaur: 62, 3:47, 7 resets. (Body Slam, Swords Dance, Sleep Powder, Razor Leaf) 7. Mr. Mime: 70, 3:47, 7 resets. (Psychic, Meditate/Reflect, Body Slam, Thunderbolt) 8. Primeape: 63, 3:52, 5 resets. (Dig, Thunderbolt, Karate Chop, Rock Slide) 9. Poliwrath: 63, 3:56, 12 resets. (Blizzard, Earthquake, Amnesia, Surf) 10. Lickitung: 63, 3:57, 3 resets. (Swords Dance, Body Slam, Earthquake, Blizzard) 11. Charizard: 66, 3:59, 10 resets. (Earthquake, Body Slam, Flamethrower, Swords Dance) 12. Hitmonlee: 69, 3:59, 13 resets. (Hi Jump Kick, Meditate, Seismic Toss, Body Slam/Mimic/Mega Kick) 13. Slowbro: 64, 4:00, 12 resets. (Psychic, Blizzard, Surf, Amnesia) 14. Machamp: 67, 4:05, 8 resets. (Rock Slide, Body Slam, Submission, Earthquake) 15. Kingler: 64, 4:14, 13 resets. (Surf, Blizzard, Swords Dance, Body Slam) 16. Raticate: 68, 4:17, 13 resets (Blizzard, Dig, Body Slam, Thunderbolt) 17. Seadra: 67, 4:26. 16 resets. (Surf, Blizzard, Double-Edge, Agility) 18. Tentacruel: 60, 4:28, 10 resets (Blizzard, Barrier, Mega Drain, Surf) 19. Ninetales: 67, 4:28, 11 resets (Flamethrower, Body Slam, Mimic, Dig) 20. Nidoqueen: 67, 4:29, 11 resets. (Earthquake, Blizzard, Body Slam, Thunderbolt) 21. Farfetch'd: 70, 4:33, 10 resets. (Fly, Slash, Swords Dance, Body Slam) 22. Hypno: 62, 4:38, 8 resets. (Meditate, Hypnosis, Body Slam, Psychic) 23. Clefable, 67, 4:39, 4 resets. (Body Slam, Psychic/Blizzard, Minimize, Thunderbolt) 24. Wigglytuff, 66, 4:41, 6 resets. (Thunderbolt, Body Slam, Psychic/Blizzard, Defense Curl) 25. Dewgong: 64, 4:44, 5 resets. (Blizzard, Mimic, Surf, Body Slam) 26. Scyther: 63, 4:46, 18 resets. (Swords Dance, Swift/Mimic, Slash, Double Team) 27. Golem: 68: 4:49, 8 resets. (Earthquake, Defense Curl, Rock Slide, Body Slam) 28. Chansey: 68, 4:51, 2 resets. (Minimize, Psychic/Softboiled, Thunderbolt, Blizzard) 29. Butterfree: 66, 4:53, 28 resets. (Mimic, Sleep Powder, Psychic, Mega Drain) 30. Jynx: 61, 4:57, 4 resets. (Body Slam, Lovely Kiss, Psychic, Blizzard) 31. Persian: 70, 4:58, 13 resets. (Mimic, Bubblebeam, Thunderbolt, Body Slam) 32. Sandslash: 67, 5:00, 11 resets. (Body Slam, Rock Slide, Swords Dance, Earthquake) 33. Vileplume: 67, 5:04, 15 resets. (Mega Drain, Body Slam/Mimic, Swords Dance, Sleep Powder) 34. Marowak: 73, 5:10, 9 resets. (Blizzard, Earthquake, Mimic, Body Slam) 35. Alakazam: 63, 5:18, 4 resets. (Toxic, Psychic, Recover, Seismic Toss) 36. Seaking: 64, 5:20, 8 resets. (Agility, Double-Edge, Blizzard, Surf) 37. Tangela: 66, 5:24, 16 resets. (Sleep Powder, Growth, Body Slam/Mimic, Mega Drain) 38. Rapidash: 72. 5:24, 10 resets. (Fire Blast, Body Slam, Mimic, Agility) 39. Arbok: 71, 5:28, 27 resets. (Mimic, Earthquake, Body Slam, Rock Slide) 40. Raichu: 63, 5:29, 5 resets. (Thunderbolt, Mimic, Agility, Seismic Toss) 41. Golduck: 64, 5:34, 6 resets. (Dig, Blizzard, Mimic, Surf) 42. Starmie: 61, 5:42, 16 resets. (Thunderbolt, Blizzard, Surf, Psychic) 43. Muk: 66, 5:42, 11 resets. (Mega Drain/Fire Blast, Thunderbolt, Minimize, Sludge) 44. Hitmonchan: 73. 5:44, 12 resets. (Submission/Mimic/Submission, Agility, Ice Punch/Seismic Toss, Body Slam) 45. Dodrio: 72, 5:49, 17 resets. (Drill Peck, Mimic, Agility, Body Slam) 46. Fearow: 73, 6:00, 30 resets. (Drill Peck, Mimic, Agility, Swift) 47. Venomoth: 65, 6:24, 15 resets. (Mimic, Psychic, Sleep Powder, Mega Drain) 48. Golbat: 74, 6:26, 12 resets. (Double-Edge, Wing Attack, Mega Drain, Mimic) 49. Electrode: 70, 6:29, 25 resets. (Thunderbolt, Mimic, Swift, Toxic/Reflect) 50. Parasect, 71, 6:32, 18 resets. (Body Slam, Spore, Swords Dance, Dig) 51. Cloyster, 62, 6:55, 17 resets. (Blizzard, Withdraw, Surf, Tri Attack) 52. Beedrill: 65, 6:55, 23 resets. (Swords Dance, Mega Drain, Double-Edge, Twineedle) 53. Magneton: 64. 6:58, 10 resets. (Rest, Double-Edge, Thunderbolt, Mimic) 54. Onix: 80, 7:11, 25 resets. (Earthquake, Harden, Body Slam, Rock Slide) 55. Pidgeot: 76, 7:16, 13 resets. (Mimic, Agility, Double-Edge, Fly) 56. Arcanine: 72, 7:17. 14 resets. (Body Slam, Dig, Fire Blast, Agility) 57. Weezing: 72, 7:31, 12 resets. (Mimic, Sludge, Thunderbolt, Fire Blast) 58. Rhydon: 73, 7:33, 16 resets. (Thunderbolt, Earthquake, Mimic, Rock Slide) 59. Dugtrio: 78, 7:47, 33 resets. (Slash, Mimic, Earthquake, Rock Slide) 60. Exeggutor: 71, 9:16, 25 resets. (Mimic, Psychic, Mega Drain, Sleep Powder)
And Jynx makes her place in the list... being good despite how I just hate it's looks: S: Gengar,Kangaskhan, Victreebel, Blastoise, Nidoking, Venusaur, Mr. Mime, Primeape, Poliwrath, Lickitung, Charizard, Hitmonlee A: Slowbro, Machamp, Kingler, Raticate, Seadra, Tentacruel, Ninetales, Nidoqueen, Farfetch'd, Hypno, Clefable, Wigglytuff, Dewgong, Scyther, Golem, Chansey, Butterfree, Jynx, Persian B: Sandslash, Vileplume, Marowak, Alakazam, Seaking, Tangela, Rapidash, Arbok, Raichu, Golduck, Starmie, Muk, Hitmonchan, Dodrio C: Fearow, Venomoth, Golbat, Electrode, Parasect, Cloyster, Beedrill, Magneton D: Onix, Pidgeot, Arcanine, Weezing, Rhydon, Dugtrio E: N/A F: Exeggutor
Next is Electabuzz. Now that thing is something I've come to love as I played Pokemon.
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2023.06.06 04:06 Kassperis Help for my sister maybe?
Okay so maybe this isn’t the best place to ask for help but I know absolutely nothing about how to resolve this situation at this point and my little sister is suffering as well as my nieces so it’s worth a shot.
So 9 months ago (September 2022) my sister (22F) and her then boyfriend (22M) signed on a car together, like a loan not a lease. Anyways, they’d been together for roughly a year at that point, were living together, shared a phone plan, etc. I mean this guy went to every family event and then some, hung out with our cousins with or without my sister, he was a legitimate part of the family.
Fast forward to February of this year and he just packed up and left. Hey, you do you in my opinion, not my relationship so not really my problem aside from consoling my sister. However, he came back to the house and took this car. My sister said she didn’t care, that he could have the car if he wanted it, as long as he refinanced it to remove her from the car loan and registration. He drove almost across the country to have the car with him at work, and then went full no contact.
No contact with any of us, whether we were talking regularly or not.
He reappeared recently. My sister asked about the car being refinanced as it’s been four months since he left and she was still receiving bills for the car. He responded with him being busy at work, which as someone who works 50+ hours a week I completely get. She asked a bunch of questions following that, “Why haven’t you tried to start the process on one of your off days?” “Why haven’t you changed your address from my place?” “What do you need from me to make the refinancing happen?”. He just continues to reply with “working too much”.
This past Friday she asked one last time, what the situation with the car was. He told her he went to the bank and had the process started, and that he was able to finance the car. Well now it’s the end of Monday, and she called the bank. He never did that and the car and loan are still in her name.
She wants to pursue some sort of legal action since he refuses to do anything. I guess the question is whether or not that a possibility? She has multiple written papers and texts from him where he states he is going to within x time frame and never does. Would there even be a way for her to get him to finally go do that? Is there anything she even can do? What should she do?
P.S. she knows I made this post
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2023.06.06 04:00 fuckmigraines Talk shop about this week's biggest headlines! Dec. 23, 2022 - JAn. 23, 2022
As always, feel free to discuss any headlines that went down in kpop this week — including, but not limited to: comeback announcements, touring news, controversies, achievements, business moves, the latest social media outrage, you name it.
COMEBACK NEWS & RUMORS
AWARD SEASON 2023
CONCERTS & TOURING
CHARTING, SALES & STREAMING
HEALTH
GENERAL NEWS
UPCOMING RELEASES
ARTIST | TITLE | RELEASE DATE | RELEASE TIME (KST) |
BSS (BooSeokSoon) | Second Wind | February 6 | 6 p.m |
NCT DREAM | Best Friend Ever (JP) | February 8 | TBD |
tripleS | ASSEMBLE | February 13 | TBD |
Key | Killer | February 13 | 6 p.m |
STAYC | Teddy Bear | February 14 | 6 p.m |
TRI.BE | W.A.Y | February 14 | 6 p.m |
LIMELIGHT | Honestly | February 14 | TBD |
Hyojin (ONF) | Love Things | February 14 | 6 p.m |
PURPLE KISS | Sweet Juice | February 15 | 6 p.m |
JAY B (GOT7) | Seasonal Hiatus | February 15 | TBD |
TNX | I Need U | February 15 | 6 p.m |
OnlyOneOf | chrOme arts (Jp) | February 15 | TBD |
THE BOYZ | BE AWAKE | February 20 | 12 p.m |
Stray Kids | THE SOUND (Jp) | February 22 | TBD |
CLASS:y | TARGET (Jp) | February 22 | TBD |
Hwang Minhyun | Truth Or Lie | February 27 | 6 p.m |
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2023.06.06 03:59 mercurypulse [Share] 2 bedrooms available in the beautiful Presidio
Hello! I will be moving out for professional reasons and I'm looking for someone to take over my part of the lease. We are also looking for someone to move into another bedroom available in a 4BD/2BA townhouse located in the Presidio park of San Francisco.
We have a 11'x10' bedroom that is available now for $1395 per month, and a 13'x19' Master bedroom that will be available on June 24th when I leave. Security deposits are $700 and $1000, respectively. Both rooms are upstairs, and along with a third will share a bathroom. The master bedroom will have a walk-in closet that has its own access to the bathroom and it's own private sink. Utilities will vary between $75-$200 depending on the time of year. The 4BD/2BA townhouse comes with an in-unit washedryer setup, plenty of parking spots for you and guests (seriously, there's always a spot), and is surrounded by hiking trails that lead to Baker Beach, Presidio Golf Course, Crissy Field, and the Marina.
Your housemates are a UCSF grad student who studies treatments for cancer, a music teacher that also enjoys video/photo editing and gaming, and a 3 year old sweetheart of a dog. Both housemates usually keep to themselves, but are always to catch up and do anything like movies, going out to eat, etc. The ideal housemates are young professionals who are chill and down to Earth.
I can say that the Presidio is a great place to live. It's a place that allows you to escape the hustle and bustle of the city with plenty of pretty views of the bay, the sounds of the ocean winds and chirping birds, and be surrounded by nature instead of concrete and cars while still living in San Francisco.
If this sounds interesting to you, please send me a DM with a little bit of information about your self (profession, hobbies, etc.) and I'll set up a time for you to come see the house. Photos of the rooms and house in question are found here (
https://imgur.com/a/8uvgkXQ).
Hope to hear from you :)
EDIT: One thing I forgot to mention that you should consider, the house is owned by the Presidio Trust and you will need to go through a background check before you move in.
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2023.06.06 03:53 something-wrong1234 The story that was created in r/pollgames.
You, shmungus, are eating a hamburger on a boat when suddenly, a woman walks up to you. She asks you to help find her child. You told her you would, and she led you to where she last saw her kid. It was the back of the boat. All of a sudden, she pushed you off. You looked for something to grab onto, and you found the anchor. You held on to the chain for dear life. The ship came back to land and you hopped off and swam to shore. People started looking at you strangely. A child walked up to you and asked if you were okay. Offering her hand, the child smiled. You took her hand and she was shining with happiness. Her mom came over and picked her up. The child protested and you heard her say she liked you. You smiled, and sat down on the beach.
Chapter 2: You went to the resturaunt and sat down. A waitress came to your table and you realized that she was the woman who pushed you off the boat. You saw that her name was Kimberly. You decided to order a hamburger and when you finished eating, you exited the resturaunt and called the police. When you explained the situation, they said they'd look into it. Later, you were wandering around the city when you got tired. You had a bit of money. You decide to go to a hotel and rent a room. Later that day, you find out that there is a pool. When you're going down to the pool, you see the girl from the beach and her mom. The girl notices and waves. You wave back. You both go to the pool, and while the girl plays with the other kids, you and her mom begin to talk. You explain that you were walked out on by your wife, who took your son. The woman introduced herself as Kylie, and her daughter's name was Cynthia. The two of you talked about some fun adventures, and you find out that you like her.
Chapter 3: after a few hours of talking, you asked for Kylie's number to stay in touch. To your disbelief, she said yes. You returned to your room, and went to bed. When you woke up, you saw a text message from your son. It says "hey pops. I miss you and am going to a small resturaunt tomorrow. Can we meet?" You went to the resturaunt your son was going to, and you saw him.
Chapter 4: "Hey, champ. How you doing?" You asked. "Good. Finally moved out. Mom desperately wanted to keep me from seeing you but I miss you." Yout son replied "Jeremy, I missed you. Glad you reached out to me." You said. You and Jeremy caught up with eachother. He now has a loving wife who is expecting a baby in 4 months. You smile and look at how much Jeremy's grown. Suddenly, Kylie and Cynthia come in, and notice him. They wave and come to talk. Jeremy flashes you a look, and you shake your head, laughing. The two girls meet Jeremy, and then he goes home to care for his wife. You, Kylie and Cynthia finished eating and walked back to the hotel. It was time for you to be on the move again. You never really had a chance to live somewhere permanently. You accidentally blurted it out and Kylie offered for you to stay at their place. You scratch your neck and smile in embarrasment.
Chapter 5: When the two girls took you to their house, Kylie apologized for it being small. You told her not to be sorry for giving you a place to live. You smile and decide that you are cooking dinner tonight. You went out and bought some groceries, and whipped up some burgers. You, Kylie and Cynthia all dig in. They are joyous with how good it is. It soon became late, and Cynthia was told to get ready for bed. Kylie then asks what led you to wish ashore that day. You decided to tell her that you were pushed off of a boat. Kylie looked at you and you could tell in her gaze that she felt sorry. You told her that she didn't need to be sorry and you were grateful for Cynthia's kindness. You then fell asleep.
Chapter 6: You were having a dream of warmth all around you. No pollution or crime. It was the ideal life. When you woke up, you found Cynthia and Kylie sleeping right next to you. When Kylie woke up, you said good morning and she started apologizing. You said it was okay as long as she slept well. When Cynthia woke up, you decided to make breakfast. Afterwards, you look for a job, and find three to go for. Our of the three choices, you choose to go for welding. After a bit of training and research, you try and get the job, and qualify immediately! You're quite shocked. On your first day of work, you do so well, that the boss wants to promote you! HR doesn't allow it because it's your first day. A week later you get your first pay. You got a good sum of money, and are considering moving out. When you tell Kylie and Cynthia, Cynthia asks you to stay, and Kylie just says it is your choice.
Chapter 7: You decide to stay because of Cynthia asking. You keep making money to help with rent and you look for houses to buy, because the apartment the three of you are staying in is really loud. You find 5 houses. You choose one with two floors, two bedrooms, and three bathrooms. When you, Kylie and Cynthia moved in, you all stared in amazement. It looked magnificent. After exploring and playing around, night rolls around. You claim a bedroom, and Kylie takes the other one. Cynthia asks to go in with you. You tell her that she should accompany Kylie. She nodded and said goodnight, then you slept like a baby.
Chapter 8: The next morning you are working out and Kylie and Cynthia join. You let Cynthia and Kylie join you, and you teach them stuff from when you were a kid learning fighting. You taught them how to punch properly, throw good kicks, and trained their endurance. Weeks go by, and one day, after a workout session, Kylie and Cynthia walk over to you and give you a hug, thanking you for being there and helping them. You hugged them back, smiling. The three of you stood there for three minutes, and when you all let go, everybody smiled. You got a text from Jeremy, and it was a photo of him, his wife, and their first-born son. Beaming with pleasure, you congratulate him and his wife. He then asks if you want to come down.
Chapter 9: When you came to the hospital, you met Jeremy's wife, Amie. She was a sweet girl with a soothing aura. Amie held the baby and you took a look at it. "It's a boy. We named him Drake." Amie said. You picked up the baby gently, and held it in the air. "This baby will be spoiled rotten." You said enthusiastically. Everyone shared a quick laugh. "Mom was here earlier. She never seems to want to meet you." Jeremy said solemnly. "Never mind that Jeremy. You've got your kid and wife to take care of now." You said, hand on Jeremy's back. When you get back home you get a text from a number. It said "hey. If you're alive, head to the alley between the mall and the office building. I know this is the right number, because Jeremy had it on his phone."
Chapter 10 (finale): You go to the alley with a metal pipe and a kitchen knife. A figure in a hood stands at the other end. The figure whipped out a knife of her own and lunged at you. You blocked with the pipe and jabbed the knife out, catching the mask that the silhouette was wearing. The person jumped back, but you went forward again, underhand slashing at the mask. The mask falls and behind it lies your ex-wife's face. She charges at you, screaming. "I should've made sure you were dead when you were on the boat!" She shouted at you. You kicked the knife out of her hands and tried to go for her again, but she pulled out another knife and stabbed you in the shoulder. You wonder if you should pull the knife out and use it. You decide not to pull out the knife. You take your pipe and lunge, but soon you realize that was a mistake. Kimberly (your ex) slashed your left eye and stabbed you with another knife she had hidden. You wobbled forward and she kicked you into the ground. You lay on the ground, staring at Kimberly. She walks toward you, twirling a butterfly knife she lunges, and then something drives into her. Jeremy stands in front of your Kimberly and Kylie and Cynthia drag you back. "Mother or not, I'll hurt you if you hurt someone I love." Jeremy said, glaring. He leapt forward and kicked Kimberly. She dropped the knife and Jeremy picked it up, slashing her tendons so she can't move. "We saw the text." Kylie said. Jeremy knocked Kimberly to the ground and tied her up with a rope and called the police. They came and arrested Kimberly, and you blacked out. (Two years later...) "Honey get up." Kylie said. In the two years after the incident, you and Kylie got married, and were raising Cynthia together. You, Kylie and Cynthia were going to a meeting with Jeremy, Amie and Drake. The six of you asked someone to take a picture, and you put your arm around Kylie and Cynthia, smiling when the camera took the picture. The end.
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2023.06.06 03:47 ShazRockwell Possible bone?
| I found this while snorkeling in about 3 feet of water on the intercoastal in West Palm Beach, Florida. It sure looks like a bone, with the marrow in the center but it’s very hard, maybe fossilized? Any ideas are welcome! submitted by ShazRockwell to BoneID [link] [comments] |
2023.06.06 03:46 TA-111111111 Is this "Economic Relief" check legit?
| I'm only sharing I am based in California, USA. I am a co-homeowner and a lot of our mortgage/housing related documents are addressed to my co-owner of the same home even though we are both on the title. We are not married. We bought together as a way to get ahead on the real estate market. I couldn't help but notice this check in the mail like that. I'm curious why it would be that amount and worried that this check might be meant for both of us due to our homeownership status and if so, why only the one name? The only thing worse than only one homeowner getting homeowner relief is that the co-owner somehow gets scammed this amount of money as we would both be screwed (due to sharing finances). I am asking the internet before my co-owner because he's been kind of shady with our shared expenses/loans/etc as of late. One of the things I'm tired of is that he wants to write off mortgage tax expenses on his tax bill and apparently only one homeowner can do that (according to our tax preparer) and other random things like stopped paying water or electricity because I am home more so he just knocks on expenses to me now that he is retired. It's one of the reasons I'm agreeing to sell and split profit with him ASAP so we can move on. If y'all happen to be able to point me towards what this could be, that would be amazing and appreciated! submitted by TA-111111111 to Scams [link] [comments] |
2023.06.06 03:46 amoeba953 Rating cities in my general region
New Orleans, LA: 6/10
My birthplace. The city is teeming with culture and history that spans over 300 years. Most of the touristy parts of the city are pretty walkable, with added street cars. The French Quarter is full of tourists, but fun, and Uptown, and the Marigny is more laid back, truly something for everyone. The food is amazing and having Mardi Gras off is always a bonus. On the flip side, the crime. It’s never been good but since 2020 it’s been really fucking bad. Carjackings and homicide make the nightly news every day. The streets are also always buckled or full of potholes on account of the city being below sea level. Also the city sits in one of the most hurricane vulnerable areas in existence. Katrina displaced us for a year, and every time we’re in the cone for a storm, everyone that remembers Katrina has PTSD flashbacks.
Gulfport/Biloxi, MS: 7.5/10
This is the closest metro area to New Orleans on the gulf. A lot of people from NOLA have beach houses here, especially in Bay St. Louis and Pass Christian. It’s much more laid back than NOLA and everything here revolves around the water: Fishing, boating, sailing, seafood, etc. Biloxi also has the most casinos between Vegas and Atlantic City. Mardi Gras is a thing here too. The beaches on the mainland are alright, (free, parking everywhere). The water is kinda murky, but there are undeveloped barrier islands 10-ish miles offshore that you can get to by ferry or private boat (which most people here have) and the water there rivals Florida’s. Hurricanes are a problem here too. Katrina absolutely fucked this area up, like worse than New Orleans.
Mobile, AL: 4.5/10
Where I go to college. The city is a big port destination. The downtown area is reminiscent of New Orleans but not nearly as cool. They claim to be home to the oldest Mardi Gras Parade, but it’s much more low budget and less fun than NOLA’s. Local cuisine is good. Crime is pretty bad but could be worse. Outside of the downtown core is basic American suburban hell. Terrible traffic, 6 lane roads lined with strip malls, fast food, and storage facilities. The city is not walkable whatsoever. I got hit on my bike here. Pretty good beaches are an hour away in Gulf Shores with a shit ton of touristy things to do.
Jackson, MS 2/10
This city is basically the Detroit of the South. It’s basically New Orleans if you took everything away except crime and rap music. There’s nothing to do here. The city is economically crippled bc all the white flight gravitated investment to the suburbs, which are a world difference from the city itself. You always play Russian roulette when showering, washing dishes, or drinking tap water bc you never know if it’s contaminated. From 2010 to 2020 the city shrunk more than anywhere else in America with a population over 100k. Nothing redeemable about Jackson.
Atlanta, GA: 5/10
I don’t personally like Atlanta as a sports city that much being a Saints fan an everything, but there’s a shit ton of things to do here. Six flags, aquarium, coke world, Stone Mountain, sports games, you name it. The city does not deserve to be called southern though. Nothing about this city is southern. It’s full of northern liberals that know nothing about Georgia outside of their little bubble. There’s also some pretty rough ghettos on the south side of town too. Traffic is abysmal at best, and stuck for days in the snow on the interstate at the worst. It takes 2 hours to cross the city. Atlanta is close to the mountains though, which is pretty nice.
Nashville, TN: 7/10
I haven’t been to Nashville in a while but I can’t remember a bad trip any time I’ve visited. The downtown is pretty hip. If you like country music, this is Mecca for you. The Cumberland River runs right through the heart of the city, which I’ve rowed with my crew team. Nissan Stadium, where the Titans play, is right across the river from Broadway and is connected by a pedestrian bridge. Outside of the city there’s a lot of lakes and low mountains to explore, but it’s being ever encroached by suburban sprawl.
Baton Rouge, LA: 4/10
I lived in BTR for a year after Katrina. The only things to do here revolve around LSU. No disrespect to LSU tho, games in Tiger Stadium are electric. Joe Burrow is basically Jesus here. There’s a crime problem here but not the same level as NOLA. There’s also a lot of chemical plants around, being on the Mississippi River and all. Traffic is really fucking bad since there’s only one bridge crossing the river so it all gets bottlenecked at rush hour. The city is 90 minutes from NOLA if you get too bored, which you will eventually.
I might do more cities outside of the south, idk yet.
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2023.06.06 03:41 Imaginary_Career_174 Seasonal, teenage lifeguard being prevented from working
My son is 16 years old and became a lifeguard last summer. He had a great season and did very well. He enjoyed his job very much. He had his rehire interview in March with the same company. At the end of the interview they asked him which pool location he wanted to work at, and he said the same pool he was at last year. The reason for this is so he can walk to work because he is saving his money for a car. He applied early so that he could have first dibs on this pool since it’s in walking distance. The pool company told him they wouldn’t be at the pool this year, so my son told him he would not be able to work for them since they wouldn’t be there. He finished the interview and immediately started searching who would be the new pool management company. He interviewed with them, and they gave him a job right away. He’s making more money than he made last year and he’s even manager on duty this year. All good things. So two weeks into this swim season, all of the sudden over the weekend he found out that the pool company he worked for last year said he won’t be able to work at the new company because of a 12 month noncompete clause that nobody told him about that the other company wrote into their contract. From what I understand this is rarely, if ever, enforced.
He interviewed with the company that was used last year and they never told him about this being an issue!
Now he’s lost his shifts because the new company doesn’t want to deal with this threat.
Here is the letter I wrote to the man with the previous pool company I spoke with about it. I’m removing names and locations for now:
Hello _____,
I wanted to check with you before we take any further steps on behalf of our son _, to see if you have had a change of heart. I spoke with _ at ____ Club today as well as [New management company]. What I found is that your stance on this matter is strictly isolated to you. Everyone else is on our son's and the other 7 lifeguards' side. [Club Manager] mentioned that you are fully staffed and [Club] was fully staffed, so there is no good reason for you to push this issue. Everyone is surprised at the lengths you've gone to, to interrupt these teenage lifeguards' plans for SEASONAL work. Some are more affected than others, and our son is being greatly, negatively affected. The ____ Club and [New pool management Company] also find your position to be totally unreasonable, that such clauses are rarely, if ever, enforced.
As I shared with you yesterday, our son reapplied to [previous company] in March. His interview was on March 12. He wanted to be early so he could be sure to work at ____ Club, so that he could: - walk to work - earn money for a car - work hard as a lifeguard and grow his experience - add another year of lifeguarding to his resume
When [our son] named _____ Club as his location, [previous company] said that they weren't going to be there this summer. [Previous company] did not tell him he wouldn't be allowed to work there!
You said on the phone that you didn't want other companies poaching your employees. First of all, these lifeguards are minors. Second, they're working seasonal jobs. Third, you require them to go through re-hire interviews. [Our son] chose where to work this summer based on the location of the pool. No one poached him. He made the choice based on our circumstances. Your offer to find him some hours at your pools in Raleigh won't work. This morning I mapped our home address to [Another Club] as well as [Country Club], and found them to be 35 and 40 minutes away from our home depending on the route, NOT 10-15 min as you stated yesterday. You literally laughed at us on the phone, as if you know better. As I type this email at 5:00pm, the distance to [Another Club] is 38-40 minutes, and to __ Country Club is 37-44 minutes from our house. So, as we previously stated, your offer to rehire [our son] and send him there just won't work. If a lifeguard can't get to your locations, they should be free to work where they can.
He reapplied early. He did all the right things. He made his plans and set goals, and here you are getting in the way of a hard working teenager being able to work his job. Since this all happened at the last minute, [our son] has lost all his shifts because of distance. Even though he made his plans early and took action toward his goals.
Though I shouldn't have to, I'm even willing to reimburse you for a portion of his training fee he paid last summer. I believe he got a $100 discount on the training. You and I both know that being a lifeguard is not a proprietary job. There are no patented secrets you taught him, and neither my son nor the handful of other lifeguards should be held in limbo because of money and greed. My husband and I will send you money to offset the cost of his lifeguard training and you can be free of this. If I were in your shoes, I'd want to be free of the guilt of hurting someone else and preventing them from working.
I hope you've thought about your impact on others and changed your mind. You're being punitive and vindictive, and my son is an innocent bystander. Looking forward to hearing back. —————
What can we do in this situation?
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