5’1 HW 198 SW 192.5 CW 175.4
Started week 8 on Thursday at 176.8, but I’m a couple days late. Still feeling like a godsend. 9 lbs in the last 4 weeks. Symptoms - no nausea since that 2nd week, but I do have a bit of acid reflux randomly. Still worth it! I am so excited for the future and where things might land. I don’t really have a goal in mind because it all feels so unreal tbh. I haven’t been in the 170s in roughly 10 years. Starting to get worried about saggy/excess skin, but maybe I’m young enough that things will just tighten up with the slow weight loss.
The sad part is that I’m still wearing all my same clothes and they’re only slightly too big - so that’s a downer lol. Biggest win - wearing a 36 bra the other day!

heyy kinda bored tonight so send me anything and ill rate it haha. open to rate literally anything both sfw or nsfw. tried it for the first time kanina and fun naman siya for killing time.
about me:
About me: • 22 years old • College student • 5'9 About you: • 21+ years old
hmu!

I met this girl, H, on a video game about 8 years ago. We became best friends pretty quickly. She was misdiagnosed for most of her life, she was diagnosed as bipolar but 2 years ago the diagnosis was switched to borderline personality disorder. She often cuts herself. It was a lot worse when we were teenagers, but she continues to harm herself. She has been to multiple institutions, some voluntarily, and most were around 6 months. We both live on the east coast but a few states away. We had plans to meet for the first time next month, but I cancelled because I cant take the time out of work and I honestly didnt think I could handle being around her constantly for a week straight.
She has had very bad experiences with men. When she was 19 she was in an abusive relationship and almost got married to the guy, I believe he was 25. Currently she is dating her sugar daddy, a 52 year old. This never sat right with me, and I have posted about their relationship before but I was told I'm a jealous cunt because that man probably makes her orgasm a lot more than someone her age could. I am pretty damn certain that man is living a double life and has a wife somewhere, but I wont get into it. Her family is pretty messed up, her mom told her to kill herself many times. The only stability she has in her life is with her twin sister. They are very close, and I am happy she has such a great relationship with her sister.
Our friendship has been on and off, we would play and speak constantly for two years and then something would happen and she would not talk to me for a year. We rekindled in September of last year and have talked often since then. In the time that I wasn't speaking with her, she was with the abusive ex and something changed in her mind. She wasnt the same person I used to play with. Maybe its just her maturing.
The last few months I have been talking to her have been unbearable. She often times corrects me if I mispronounce something, click the wrong card in the game, or say something she doesnt like. If my POV isnt the same as hers then its wrong. If we disagree with something, her opinion is always the better one. The foods I like are "disgusting and repulsive" to her, and she doesnt understand how I can eat them. I am jewish and she often times makes fun of my religion, and likes to point out the extremes in my religion. For example, she sent me an article about a pedophilic rabbi. Literally every religion has their cults and crazies. I dont know if this is her illness coming out or if this is just how she is now. She always thinks she is superior, including the one year age gap we have. She got pretty shitty with me the other day because I told her we could use a portal to get somewhere in the game faster, and she goes "I KNOW" in a rude and condescending voice. I never treat her like that and I always put her on a pedestal because of her mental illness so it was just a shock. Her rudeness and snarky comments lately have been enough for me to call the friendship quits. She was extremely poor growing up until about a year ago when she got a job and then got her millionaire sugar daddy, she lost all her humbleness.
My question is, how do I stop being friends with someone so suicidal and so mentally unstable? If I were to type something out explaining why I was ending the friendship, she would either beg me to stay or cuss me out. If I were to block her on everything she would probably make her sister come after me. I love her so much it really sucks that she has changed so drastically, but I really think I have to end it for my own mental health.

I am investigating if the following is possible (and if so: how):
I want to create an application where you can enter C# code, for a exame-like-thing for example. Then I want to check if that code is correct by executing a unit test, made in C#.
There are several steps I need to take, but I am really curious if it's even possible to run unit tests without using the VS Test Explorer or any other console command.
With some use of Google I found this: https://stackoverflow.com/questions/29246860/how-to-execute-xunit-tests-via-code
But it's 8 years old and the most upvoted answer, 2 years old, itsn't working. I can't get the AssemblyRunner to work.
Can anyone help me out? Maybe push me in the right direction?
Thanks!

My mom has been a heroin addict since I (28) was about 3 years old. The only times she’s been clean is through the pregnancies of my 3 younger brothers. I was raised by my grandparents with one brother, and my mom would leave us for years at a time with no contact. I still loved her and wanted a relationship with her. I always thought she just needed help. When I turned 17, she had 6 months clean and had a baby and another one a year and half later. Shortly after that she relapsed, and overdosed. I had just turned 20 and had my back an place so after she came home from the hospital, I asked for her and the kids to come stay with me. I thought if I could take care of all the things stressing her, she would take care of herself.
Long story short, we’ve been through 8 years of narcissism and manipulation. I’ve tried to get custody of the kids to kick her out but because they already live with me, they aren’t in danger and the state prefers to keep kids with their parents. I’ve even tried reporting her for welfare fraud with no luck. It has truly been an uphill battle.
My brothers see me as their parent, and even though my mom lives in the same house, she has never been their care taker. They have told me they wish she would leave and tell their friends that I am their mom. This past Mother’s Day, my mom was hurt that they got made me Mother’s Day cards instead of her. She threw a temper tantrum and we got into an argument. My brothers + I have been going to therapy for a few years and they have been diagnosed with anxiety, and ADHD and I have been diagnosed with C-PTSD. I tried to have an honest conversation with my mom about this and she decided she’s going to go to rehab. She found a 90 day program that will accept her and she’s leaving on Tuesday. It’s cleared with her insurance.
A few years ago I would have felt so relieved and happy. I was still hopeful. But the truth is I’ve seen my mom go to so many rehabs, clinics, detoxes and meetings. I no longer have hope. I’m excited to have the summer without her. But I don’t want her to come back. For so many years I thought drugs were the problem but now I’m not sure I even like her without them. At the same time, it feels wrong to send her away with hope of reconciliation.

Soo… this is my first post on Reddit and decided to give it a shot for some rando outside Reddit opinions lol.
My parents and I have always been super close. They supported me while I was in college for 10 years and lived with them until 27! I am 32 now but we have always loved super close to one another. Now, my mom is in the beginning stages of dementia and my dad is having such a hard time caring for her. He needs breaks so he will bring my mom over to my house for sometimes 3-4 days and nights at a time while I am a single mother to a 10 year old as well as a (at home telehealth therapist) being a therapist and a single mother I already feel as though my head is going to explode and if I say Anything to my dad at all he makes me feel so bad but says okay eventually and won’t bring my mom over but I have a ton of guilt because he does need a break! My dad is EXHAUSTED and it’s as though we are grieving my mom the worse the dementia gets. In this situation with my dad and I being the pillars of the family right now and I don’t want to let him down! Side note: we just uprooted our lives and moved to be closer to my grandpa (in buttfuck Egypt) and gave up our beautiful lives in California, we can’t move because my grandpa is worth a lot of money and my dad is also caring for his dad who we are waiting on to die. I don’t know how or what boundaries to set in this horrible situation! My daughter will say this is our home mama. I want her to be more understanding to “grandma is sick” she needs us and grandpa needs us. I don’t know if I say anything or keep trucking and mentally fake it til I make it :/

Hi everyone!
I'm about the buy the components for a homelab/home server build.
The main objectives are to build a server that will last many years and will run a couple of VMs, overseePlex/torrent machine, backup/NAS, and that will host nextcloud and my personal website.
The build I've chosen is as follows:
PCPartPicker Part List

Type	Item	Price
CPU	Intel Core i5-13500 2.5 GHz 14-Core Processor	€264.80 @ Neobyte
Motherboard	ASRock B660M Steel Legend Micro ATX LGA1700 Motherboard	€182.80 @ Alternate
Memory	Corsair Vengeance LPX 16 GB (1 x 16 GB) DDR4-3000 CL16 Memory	€38.99 @ Amazon Espana
Case	Fractal Design Node 804 MicroATX Mid Tower Case	€141.93 @ Amazon Espana
Power Supply	EVGA 500 BR 500 W 80+ Bronze Certified ATX Power Supply	€47.00 @ Amazon Espana
	Prices include shipping, taxes, rebates, and discounts
	Total	€675.52
	Generated by PCPartPicker 2023-05-28 15:51 CEST+0200

I did however see a Asus ROG Strix B760-A Gaming WIFI D4 Socket 1700 for the same price as the ASRock I've picked above.
Should I switch one for the other? The ASRock has more sata connectors which might be useful...
What do you think?

I took 10 days off of work to quit. The plan was to just ride it out and be definitely feeling good enough to work by the end of it. That being said, the best laid plans of mice and men and all that. I was using extracts and plain leaf, never at the same time though. Typically if it was an extract day, it was all day and I overdid it a bit. Plain leaf days were just enough to stay out of withdrawal though. I was probably taking 20ish grams of plain leaf, or 3-5 extract shots a day on alternating days. Considering the relatively small amount compared to my previous successful withdrawal (100gpd plain leaf) I figured I could handle it. Quickly found that while I could handle it, the part I couldn't handle was the no sleep. It'd get towards night and I'd start having panic attacks. So I did the absolute dumbest shit, and decided to dose 1 to 2 times in the hours leading up to bed with plain leaf each day, for the past like, 6 or 7 days. I go back to work in a few days now and I honestly don't think I'll be feeling better by then because of what I've done. I really don't want to have to tell my fiancée I fucked it all up, for like the 5th time in a year. But I also can't lose my job. The only thing that might work is that I work from home, and my stats at work are good enough that I could probably do nothing for a week despite clocking in each day and nobody would say anything to me about it. But I've tried this before, and failed the exact moment a higher up reached out to talk to me via slack. I just immediately was like "I can't deal with this, i'll try to taper" (tapers do not work for me).
Anyway, do you guys think I should just keep trying to ride this out? And here's the usual completely unanswerable question: do you think there's a chance I'm almost done? I basically did a very extreme taper by accident but I think I probably have at least a week of a (hopefully milder) withdrawal left. As things stand, I'm sick (but bearably sick) all day, but the 2-3 grams I'm taking before bed allow me to sleep. I tried not taking it last night and got maybe 2 hours of sleep with the rest of the time spent tossing and turning but I wouldn't call the symptoms bad. Just uncomfortable. My last successful quit had that "unbearably bad" feeling throughout and this doesn't, I'm just a pussy who can't face it down whether it's bad or not. Last time I got through it because I was broke, but I'm actually doing well financially right now and am trying to quit for my health instead, I get some gnarly side effects now even on low doses. But it's so easy to go get more when I know I can afford to end the pain at any time.
Making matters worse, I've also been lying to my fiancée about all of this. She thinks I've taken nothing for the past 5 days or so. I feel horrible about it. I think I have some sort of withdrawal related PTSD if that's possible. I was addicted to hard opioids in the past for a few years and absolutely could not quit. Finally did by basically isolating myself so far away from society (rented a shack in northern montana in the middle of nowhere for 2 months, where I knew I couldn't get anything) and just rode it out cold turkey with no helper meds. The experience was so traumatic I had nightmares about being in withdrawal for about 5 years afterwards, and still sometimes do while quitting kratom. I honestly think that experience is why I have such a hard time even with comparably mild withdrawals. I always feel like it's going to be that bad again.
Anyway, I'm sort of off topic now. Anyone accidentally or intentionally do a similarly fucked up taper? Should I continue trying to ride it out? I go back to work the day after tomorrow but I also work from home. Still though, it's a social job where I have to talk to people all day even if I don't necessarily have to have work to show for it. My brain is telling me "tell your fiancée that you didn't give yourself long enough and try a taper, try again in a few months" but from experience that has always resulted in me upping my dose.

Apologies for the frequency at which this post is appearing, as I have yet to find what I am searching for. I don't believe my standards are excessively high, but perhaps I simply don't have enough time to communicate and would rather arrange a meeting if we seem to be a good match. In any case, let me share my story.
Once upon a time, there was a tall, nerd, and not-much attractive guy pero pwede na who woke up one morning, looked at the sky, and thought, "Well, this sucks." He knew there was only one solution - to turn to the all-knowing oracle of modern dating: T̶i̶n̶d̶e̶r̶ Reddit lol.
With his trusty cup of coffee in hand, he set out to find someone who shared his thirst for knowledge, someone who could keep up with his nerdy quirks, and someone who he could eventually take on 'friendly' dates (whatever that means). He wasn't in a rush to jump into anything too serious too soon, but he knew that someday, he wanted to find someone he could build a meaningful and caring relationship with.
So if you're a fellow lover of coffee, learning, and all things nerdy, this tall drink of water might just be the partner in crime you've been looking for. Dating at times feel like a job hunt doesn't it? So I thought it’d be fun to write it in a mock format just like a resume! LOL

About me

An old soul as older people I spoke with would say, into business and investments, frustrated law student, can drive a fucking 10 wheeler truck (sarcasm towards people looking for someone with wheels), no ex issues or sabit, can provide a certificate of no relationship (kahit wala naman talagang ganon haha).

• I'm 5'10", medium built if that matters, resides in quezon city. I would say that I'm not that much attractive but would consider myself very hygienic.
  
• I'm an INTJ, Aries, if you’re into MBTI and believes in horoscope.
  
• Loves to read self-help books as I love to learn and motivate myself along the way.
  
• I'm the kind of person who doesn't follow the herd blindly, even if it means standing alone in a field of conformity. My principles are like a compass, always pointing me in the right direction, even if it's not the most popular route. In short, I'm not afraid to swim against the current, as long as it's in line with my beliefs.
  
• You could say that my communication style is like a triple-layered cake: serious, meaningful, and sprinkled with a healthy dose of humor. Sure, I may come off as awkward at times, but that's just my way of keeping things interesting. After all, who wants a bland and flavorless conversation when you can have a deliciously complex one? So, if you're looking for someone who can engage in a thoughtful discussion, crack a few jokes, and still leave you with something to ponder, then look no further.
  
• I'm what you might call a clean freak with a creative streak. As someone who's a bit OC (okay, maybe more than a bit), I can't stand to see a messy or cluttered home. But don't worry, I'm not the type to wait around for someone else to do the dirty work. I take pride in noticing when something needs to be done and taking care of it without being asked - it's like a satisfying little victory every time. And when it comes to interior design and home decor, I'm practically a pro. I'm always on the hunt for the latest and greatest tools and gadgets to keep things looking fresh and stylish. So if you're looking for someone to spruce up your space and keep things sparkling clean, I'm your go-to guy.
  
• I'm not in the business of putting people down - unless we're talking about the volume on the stereo (badum-tss!). But seriously, I believe in treating others with kindness and respect, even when it's not the easiest thing to do. After all, life is hard enough without having to deal with someone else's negativity. So let's lift each other up instead of tearing each other down, shall we?
  
• I set feasible goals and actively pursue them.
  

Here's a list of my favorites:

Movies/Series	Music	Places	Activities	Books
Godfather	Radiohead	Paris (not yet)	Cycling	The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday
Sherlock	Eraserheads	Coffee Shops	Painting	How to Win Friends & Influence People
Castaway	Chicago	Cebu	Roadtrips	Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
Forrest Gump	Ebe Dancel	Japan	Diving	Start with Why by Simon Sinek
Homeland	Urbandub	Rome (not yet)	Piano	Atomic Habits by James Clear
Before Sunset	Frederic Chopin	Canada	Travelling	How to think like a Roman Emperor
The Office	Eminem	New York (not yet)	Cooking	Letters from Stoic
Big Bang Theory	Dr. Dre	Maldives (not yet)	Film & Photography	48 Laws of Power
Breaking Bad	Elton John	Marrakesh (not yet)	Badminton	The Intelligent Investor

Pros:

• Responsible (Good credit score, no debts, no criminal records, and self-reliant)
  
• Curious type of person, who's ready to listen and craves to learn a lot of things
  
• Doesn't do drugs and is not a heavy drinkealcoholic.
  
• Respects your views and accept healthy criticism.
  
• Actually appreciating the things you'll do for me, and showing it. If you cooked a big dinner, saying thank you is nice. Doing the dishes and cleaning the kitchen is even nicer, and in my opinion, should be the norm. The cook doesn't clean. If someone does something for me, I'll show them that their effort was appreciated instead of just accepting their generosity and then running off back to whatever I'm doing.
  
• Accepts responsibility for one's own actions and does not try to blame everything or everyone else.
  
• Doesn’t play online and computer games
  

My preference:

• Someone who has a strong passion for accurate and comprehensive learning, maintains a normal BMI, and is beautiful and easy on the eyes - I believe that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes (no offense intended towards plus-size women!).
  
• High standards for what she wants and is not afraid to communicate it.
  
• Craves knowledge too. Love and isn't afraid to try new things
  
• Passionate and proud about something they've been working on/have done/are planning to do
  
• Confident about what they want but isn't in-your-face about it.
  

Let's take a break from stressing over the mundane and focus on the important stuff - like what will make us happy for the rest of our lives! Share your thoughts on how we can achieve that and let's get this happiness train moving! Oh, and if you're curious let’s exchange photos first!

I'm not asking for a diagnosis or anything like that. I'm asking in order to learn and to be a better advocator for my cats. I don't want them to experience potentially preventable discomfort.
Both my cats' third eyelids are showing. My oldest (6 years old) has been this way for at least a couple of years, probably more, and I bring it up every vet visit, but my vet says it's normal. I don't think it looks normal.
My youngest (2-3 years old) lived as a feral until a year ago. The first few months after moving in, her eyes were fine, but her third eyelids have been showing since at least December.
In my country we have four types of worms that infect cats: tapeworm, lungworm, roundworm and hookworms (though this one is very rare). I deworm both my cats when necessary, but it's never had any effect on the visibility of their third eyelids.
Male house cat
6 years old
4.6 kg / 10.1 lbs
Neutered
Vaccinated yearly
Female house cat
2-3 years old
4.2 kg / 9.3 lbs
Neutered
Vaccinated yearly
Both eat Hills Urinary Care C/D. The male used to eat Royal Canin Sterilised, but I switched about a year ago. They're treated with Bravecto once or twice a year, during tick season.
Thanks!

Starting brand new, 2week old Bedrock SMP! Recruiting players of all shapes and sizes! If we get enough people have long terms goals for all of us!!
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Bedrock Hosted, Will be on a Realm. Please have a discord so you can join the group and get all information from within. 🏁🏁
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The Leader @BDGxKingT4E Looking to have a smp that will be ongoing! For years and will also do YouTube videos off the channel. 🏰🏰 comment below for discord link

Timestamp: https://imgur.com/a/SKdL2Tw
Well, sometimes life doesn't go how you expect, so today I'm selling an engagement band and wedding ring on behalf of a friend, as well as some parts from my old motorcycle. The rings are brand new, never been worn. The motorcycle parts are spares that I purchased years ago and found while cleaning out the garage. They were purchased at the time for my 2000 Suzuki SV650, and although I bought them used, I never ended up using them on my bike.

The rings: full gallery and gemstone documentation

These are a custom platinum Celtic love knot engagement band and wedding ring with fine 1.11 carat diamond. They are gorgeous, the diamond is stunning, and I would strongly prefer to sell them as a set. Full documentation is shown in the gallery, and I can answer more questions, send additional pictures, or provide a PDF of the documentation for anyone serious. As a set, TV/SV of $2200 shipped OBO.

The motorcycle parts: full gallery

Again, these were all purchased for a 2000 Suzuki SV650, but should work with any of the SV650 first gens. I'm setting the TV/SV as follows, all OBO: Front seat: $25 plus shipping Airbox: $15 plus shipping Rear swingarm tools: $25 shipped, or $15 if paired with something else Carburators: $150 shipped $180 OBO plus shipping for all the SV650 parts, or local meetup in the DFW area

Trades I'd be interested in:

For the ring, cash is king, but trades for quality lazers such as a mawl or peq will absolutely be entertained. I don't want to have to add any cash on my end, but if you need to add some on your end depending on salt, we can talk. For the motorcycle parts, I'd be interested in a cqd front sling mount, colt c marked full auto bolt carrier (I really only need the carrier, but would consider the full BCG if you really don't want to split), a good mil spec lower parts kit (preferably with a mil spec trigger guard, no trigger, A2 grip, and no buffer), or a geissele SSA-E, plus or minus cash/shipping costs as appropriate. For any cash received on my end, PPFF or Venmo are the preferred methods.

NO CHATS, COMMENT HERE FIRST, PM'S WITH NO COMMENT HERE WILL BE IGNORED

Please no chats. That means no chats, don't send me a chat. My app doesn't support chats, so it will be ignored. Send me a private message instead. I have some stuff going on today and will try to respond as fast as possible, but there may be a slight delay depending on when you message me. Thanks for reading!

Lost children tv show from 2013-2015??
Hello, when I was growing up, I remember seeing this show when I was like 4 or 5 and I have tried asking all my friends who used to watch the same tv channels as me when we were younger if they knew what I was talking about. They didn’t. I cant remember all the detail but I clearly remember one scene that always plays through my head. It goes something like this:
There are some children in this almost like ‘in the night garden’ setup but it isn’t however similar it may seem, and they have to run around trying to find these characters or something. I cant remember what, but, I swear they were the main characters. I feel like it was kind of a ‘hide and seek game kind of tv show’ but I’m really not sure. I have tried searching up all kinds of different things like; Old CBeebies show with children running around to find things Old CBeebies show with children running around to find characters Old show with children running around to find things Old show with children running around to find characters Show with children looking for things 2014
I’m honestly not sure at this point. It has been bugging me for quite some years now. Any response or clue to what this show is would be very helpful!

Just a quick question please everyone - I've upgraded my PC with new (Asus Prime - w/PCIe 5.0 M.2) Z670 mobo, (32gb) ddr5 ram and a Crucial P5 Plus (2TB, up to 6600Mb/s)
Should I transfeclean install OS to the new speedy P5 drive? Will it make a difference?
I already have my OS (Windows 10) on an old (2015) 256gb Samsung 850 Evo (2.5" sata form factor)
I know the P5 SSD is obviously crazy fast but my plan so far is to leave my OS alone on the 850 Evo and just use the P5 as a game storage drive.
[I also have 3 Seagate HDD's in there as well (2TB, 3TB and 4TB) for video capture.]
My system already boots in ~20 seconds, will it really make much of a difference? Are there benefits other than boot time that I'm not considering?

So I repotted my plants over a month ago and one of my plants died of root rot (angel wing begonia). I didn’t know why, I didn’t do anyhting I haven’t done before. I’ve had my plants for like 3 years and always learning new things so please don’t judge! Yesterday I started to wonder if soil goes bad and I guess thats the reason my plant died: I repotted all of my plants in old soil. And the soil has been outside the whole year in it’s original bag.
So now I’m wondering if I should repot my plants again? I don’t want them to die. The angel wing begonia started to wilt quickly after repotting and the others seem to be fine for now at least.
I’d be grateful if anyone helped me with this! I tried to google but didn’t get the information I needed.

Starting brand new, 2week old Bedrock SMP! Recruiting players of all shapes and sizes! If we get enough people have long terms goals for all of us!!
➖➖➖
Bedrock Hosted, Will be on a Realm. Please have a discord so you can join the group and get all information from within. 🏁🏁
➖➖➖
The Leader @BDGxKingT4E Looking to have a smp that will be ongoing! For years and will also do YouTube videos off the channel. 🏰🏰 comment below for discord link. Vehicle add on in this realm and more things to come.